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About Jerry Jacobs Jr.

CatholicAlpha.com is about saving YOUR marriage (plain and simple!) By compelling YOU to become a Holy Lover (The husband your wife needs; The man God created you to be)

This is done through the teachings of the Catholic Church (Christ's Church). Learn what your father failed to teach YOU about (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, and Making Love Mastery!)

So, What's The State Of Your Marriage? Access the 20-Minute Marriage Makeover To Find Out: https://www.catholicalpha.com/
Hasn't YOUR Beloved waiting long enough for her HERO to return?

Jerry attends Our Lady Of The Most Holy Rosary Parish in the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. He and his virtuous wife, Mary Kathleen are facilitators of the Adult Faith Formation ministry in their parish.

The High Value Man Mindset: The Surefire Way To Be Old Lonely And Abandoned (CARP122)

June 8, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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The Surefire Way To Be Old, Lonely, And Abandoned!

In this 122nd episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: The Pitfalls of the "High Value Man" concept!

 

They try to make the High Value Man concept seem so honorable, ethical, and moral. But in reality, it’s just about focusing on self and how great self is...Which is the battle cry of Satan since the fall!

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 122nd episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • The “High Value Man” ideology and ask, “Is it right for you?”
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions

 

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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 122nd EPISODE (The High Value Man Mindset: things you should consider before adopting this concept)

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

Continually look for calls in the queue! 

[QUOTE]

“A Man Of Courage: Embraces Suffering, Serves Thy Beloved, Sacrifices Self. While Being The Rock For Masculinity, And The Full Truth Of Christianity.”[END QUOTE]

~Catholic Alpha

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

So, as promised in today’s Radical Rant...My 13 observations on the mindset of the High Value Man.

The term High Value Man is coined by now deceased Kevin Samuels

I was first introduced to him by my father. Who completely loved this guy.

I so my wife and I watched a few things by him because my pops thought he was so great.

So, we did, and to be honest I barely go through two videos of him.

The concepts were so far from what I have learned in the Church of what a real, true, and authentic man is I had to turn him off and never thought about it again until...

being a guest on the David L. Gray show

Who wanted to discuss this along with the red pill concept.

Kevin Samuels was really a business coach helping men become a commodity in the business world.

But the concept transformed over to the dating seen.

Which exploded.

Kevin Samuels 6 concepts of a High Value Man are...

A high value man makes a minimum of $10K per month.

A high value man must make this money consistently for at least 3-5 years

A high value man must be accepted by the group of other HVM

A high value man must be able to add to the group by his networking ability and contacts

A high value man’s position and income can be immediate evaluated as a mover and shaker

A high value man is useful to the group and to others

Now when I was first asked to watch this, since I have been in business for myself for decades...

I can see the value in this strategy.

But as usual, people screw things up and when it went to the dating seen, it exploded.

And so, he expanded it for the dating seen and it became this I am more worthy than you concept...

That became empty, shallow, and gave men with no true identity and self worth, and confidence in themselves to really adapt this.

You see all over the internet of the traits of a high value man...

They try to make it seem so honorable, ethical, and moral.

But is really just about focusing on self and how great self is...

Which is the battle cry of Satan since the fall!

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

And my thoughts on this and how it pertains to St. Joseph, and Our Lord and Authentic Masculinity!

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser...

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Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every...

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 !

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has she asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now...call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

As promised the high value man mindset: the sure fire way to be old, lonely, and abandoned!

My observations of the HVM mindset...

Does he even know how to fulfill the needs of a woman and keep her happy once he gets her?

Selfishness

Is he a truly authentic man which can only be defined as denying self of wants, desires, and needs over that of others.

Shallow, if it were all about money, rich people wouldn’t jump off buildings

Didn’t Kevin Samuels die of a heart attack while sleeping with a woman? He wasn’t even married what true legacy did he leave behind?

How did be a HVM work out for him?

Focuses on the short term (this world) and neglects to see the long term (heaven)

Be as Christs, willing to die for something greater than self (can never be truly fulfilled as a man)

Should we teach our sons this concept?
A legendary marriage the real legacy and definition of greatness

The true defining measures of a man...His relationship with God...the love, respect, and devotion of your Beloved wife...how his children view him.

This concept completely excludes the true mission and purpose of a man on this earth

We can’t lead our homes, marriages, and intimate relationships, like our grandfathers and their fathers did, too many outlets for women!

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Catholic Dating Tips On Sex Before Marriage: The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage – Part 2 (CARP121)

June 7, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Catholic Dating Tips On Sex Before Marriage

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Catholic Dating Tips On Sex Before Marriage

The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage - Part 2

 

In this 121st episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: Why dating is really about just having sex and how courting helps find the one you are supposed to marry.

 

 

No women gives herself to you unless she believes you will ask her to marry you in the future, unless she is disordered in some way.

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 121st episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • Why dating is really about just having sex and how courting helps find the one you are supposed to marry.
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions 

 

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now! 

 

 

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 121st EPISODE (Why Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage? Part 2)

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

Continually look for calls in the queue! 

[QUOTE]

“To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is, and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy.”[END QUOTE]

Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Book: Holy Sex - A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

So, as promised in today’s Radical Rant...we answer the question...

Why is dating for sex and courting for marriage?

How do you build a holy lover foundation before actually getting married?

You prepare for marriage before you are married

Why is dating for sex?

Why is courting for marriage?

How does sex before marriage harm the woman?

How does sex before marriage harm the man?

Why is pleasure the ultimate goal in our society?

Because we have nothing else and have eliminated God from all that vital to our growth as human persons!

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser...

Inserting the URL...CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every...

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 !

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has she asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now...call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Use the speech word counter website

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

Revealed: The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage!

Today we will cover part 2: Why courting is for marriage?

Dating is for sex – Why?

One – we are not focused on the person but what we can get out of them

Not really considered what is best for her but what you want

Selfishness.

Two – We are just trying to get in her pants.

If we were for real we’d know that this doesn’t lead anywhere but to disaster.

She will get psychological problems

She will bond to you

Why do you think women kill their babies, and flatten your tires

She may say she doesn’t want to get married but that’s a lie.

No women gives her self to you unless she believes you will ask her to marry you in the future, unless she is disordered in some way.

Three – We are just seeking to get pleasure

Sex makes us feel good but it’s only temporary and that’s what you are seeking erotic lustful, temporary pleasure that only has one means to an end – to fulfill a need that only benefits your ego.

Four – we have no real goal to get married

We may try and make her believe that but in reality we just want a temporary thing.

Marriage means I have to give up my freedom

Marriage means I have to commit to one woman, No way I can do that!

And children, responsibility Oh hell no!

Again pure selfishness!

Five – we only want to have so-called fun

But is it really fun?

What happens when she gets pregnant, and she will get pregnant you know why?

Because sex works, it’s doing what it’s supposed to do, participate in creation, which is a gift from God!

Does she know you only want to have fun?

Sure she doesn’t because no way are you going to really tell her that...

and if you did it’s only a mind game you use, so you can say in the future (when she gets pregnant) I told you I only want to have fun! Abort it!

Six – she is just a means to an end – an object, of fork, a knife, a thing to use.

When we do this we are using up her youth, her beauty, her vitality, the things that God gave her to attract her husband. Not some selfish bum!

Seven – Dating wastes her time and prevents her from finding her eternal love

Time her most important commodity

Youth, vitality, beauty

Eight – in the end dating is for wusses and is complete cowardice!

Courting is for marriage – Why?

Start part 2 - Nine - Because when we really understand how the world really works, our goal is God, marriage, children, family, duty, responsibility.

This builds something for eternity, something we can really take with us.

Ten – We are seeking something greater than ourselves.

Courting is unattached to the ego or selfishness, it is considering the bigger picture and understands time is a factor!

What is the something bigger?

Journey and eventual peace with God. For the benefit of my wife and children, and their children, and their children!

Eleven – Marriage makes real men out of us – because of the sacrifice and responsibility of giving our life away for another!

We will never be True Man until we have something we’re willing to sacrifice, die, and give our life for!

We’ll never be truly happy or at peace as men.

Remember Christ? This is exactly what He did and calls us to do as men!

Twelve – We are looking for that perfect woman (helpmate) that can and will joy in helping me get to heaven!

This is what real life is about a test of sacrificing for that true love, with both of us on the same page (a journey towards holiness)

What is love? (according to the Catholic Church) Love is an act of the will, which is what daters don’t understand. It’s all about the emotion with them, and what they can get out of it!

Thirteen – We are looking for that one woman that can help me get our children to heaven.

See helpmate. Our wife’s job is to assist and guide us.

This is what Ephesians 5 v. 21-33 speak of

Fourteen – And because of the last two – assist in helping me get to heaven as well as my children – we seek that perfect Beloved to become one flesh with!

One flesh understanding it takes three...

One flesh with my Beloved wife and both of us one flesh in God!

Fifteen – We are trying to become Holy Lovers the men God created us to be and ultimately the man our wife needs for a life long fulfilling holy marriage

The habit of praying for our wife and family
Praying for God to send the woman I am supposed to marry Trying my best to understand how to fulfil my wife completely.

To create a home environment where my wife, and children can grow psychologically, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, without hindrance!

Where I as a husband give them a foundation that leads them towards Christ

Sixteen – In the end courting is for warriors and is heroic!

It undertakes the role given to Adam by God for everyman throughout eternity – To protect, defend, and serve!

I ask you, whom do you aspire to be Wuss or Warrior!

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Filed Under: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast, courting tips, manliness, Marriage Quotes Tagged With: Catholic dating advice, Catholic dating tips on sex before marriage, Christian dating advice, dating advice, sex before marriage

Catholic Dating Tips On Sex Before Marriage: The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage – Part 1 (CARP120)

June 6, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Click The Play Button To Watch The Video Or Click The Player To Listen To The Audio Podcast...

Listen LIVE Weekdays 10am Eastern

Learn More

Listen To The First Four Shows?

Listen Here
Troubled Marriage? Start Here...

Catholic Dating Tips On Sex Before Marriage

The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage - Part 1

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Catholic Dating Tips On Sex Before Marriage

The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage - Part 1

 

In this 120th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: Why dating is really about just having sex and how courting helps find the one you are supposed to marry.

 

 

No women gives herself to you unless she believes you will ask her to marry you in the future, unless she is disordered in some way.

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 120th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • Why dating is really about just having sex and how courting helps find the one you are supposed to marry.
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions 

 

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now! 

 

 

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 120th EPISODE (Why Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage? Part 1)

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

Continually look for calls in the queue! 

[QUOTE]

“To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is, and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy.”[END QUOTE]

Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Book: Holy Sex - A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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So, as promised in today’s Radical Rant...we answer the question...

Why is dating for sex and courting for marriage?

How do you build a holy lover foundation before actually getting married?

You prepare for marriage before you are married

Why is dating for sex?

Why is courting for marriage?

How does sex before marriage harm the woman?

How does sex before marriage harm the man?

Why is pleasure the ultimate goal in our society?

Because we have nothing else and have eliminated God from all that vital to our growth as human persons!

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser...

Inserting the URL...CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every...

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 !

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has she asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now...call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Use the speech word counter website

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

Revealed: The Top 16 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage!

Today we will cover part 1: Why dating is for sex?

And on the next show we will cover part 2: Why courting is for marriage?

Dating is for sex – Why?

One – we are not focused on the person but what we can get out of them

Not really considered what is best for her but what you want

Selfishness.

Two – We are just trying to get in her pants.

If we were for real we’d know that this doesn’t lead anywhere but to disaster.

She will get psychological problems

She will bond to you

Why do you think women kill their babies, and flatten your tires

She may say she doesn’t want to get married but that’s a lie.

No women gives her self to you unless she believes you will ask her to marry you in the future, unless she is disordered in some way.

Three – We are just seeking to get pleasure

Sex makes us feel good but it’s only temporary and that’s what you are seeking erotic lustful, temporary pleasure that only has one means to an end – to fulfill a need that only benefits your ego.

Four – we have no real goal to get married

We may try and make her believe that but in reality we just want a temporary thing.

Marriage means I have to give up my freedom

Marriage means I have to commit to one woman, No way I can do that!

And children, responsibility Oh hell no!

Again pure selfishness!

Five – we only want to have so-called fun

But is it really fun?

What happens when she gets pregnant, and she will get pregnant you know why?

Because sex works, it’s doing what it’s supposed to do, participate in creation, which is a gift from God!

Does she know you only want to have fun?

Sure she doesn’t because no way are you going to really tell her that...

and if you did it’s only a mind game you use, so you can say in the future (when she gets pregnant) I told you I only want to have fun! Abort it!

Six – she is just a means to an end – an object, of fork, a knife, a thing to use.

When we do this we are using up her youth, her beauty, her vitality, the things that God gave her to attract her husband. Not some selfish bum!

Seven – Dating wastes her time and prevents her from finding her eternal love

Time her most important commodity

Youth, vitality, beauty

Eight – in the end dating is for wusses and is complete cowardice!

Courting is for marriage – Why?

Start part 2 - Nine - Because when we really understand how the world really works, our goal is God, marriage, children, family, duty, responsibility.

This builds something for eternity, something we can really take with us.

Ten – We are seeking something greater than ourselves.

Courting is unattached to the ego or selfishness, it is considering the bigger picture and understands time is a factor!

What is the something bigger?

Journey and eventual peace with God. For the benefit of my wife and children, and their children, and their children!

Eleven – Marriage makes real men out of us – because of the sacrifice and responsibility of giving our life away for another!

We will never be True Man until we have something we’re willing to sacrifice, die, and give our life for!

We’ll never be truly happy or at peace as men.

Remember Christ? This is exactly what He did and calls us to do as men!

Twelve – We are looking for that perfect woman (helpmate) that can and will joy in helping me get to heaven!

This is what real life is about a test of sacrificing for that true love, with both of us on the same page (a journey towards holiness)

What is love? (according to the Catholic Church) Love is an act of the will, which is what daters don’t understand. It’s all about the emotion with them, and what they can get out of it!

Thirteen – We are looking for that one woman that can help me get our children to heaven.

See helpmate. Our wife’s job is to assist and guide us.

This is what Ephesians 5 v. 21-33 speak of

Fourteen – And because of the last two – assist in helping me get to heaven as well as my children – we seek that perfect Beloved to become one flesh with!

One flesh understanding it takes three...

One flesh with my Beloved wife and both of us one flesh in God!

Fifteen – We are trying to become Holy Lovers the men God created us to be and ultimately the man our wife needs for a life long fulfilling holy marriage

The habit of praying for our wife and family
Praying for God to send the woman I am supposed to marry Trying my best to understand how to fulfil my wife completely.

To create a home environment where my wife, and children can grow psychologically, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, without hindrance!

Where I as a husband give them a foundation that leads them towards Christ

Sixteen – In the end courting is for warriors and is heroic!

It undertakes the role given to Adam by God for everyman throughout eternity – To protect, defend, and serve!

I ask you, whom do you aspire to be Wuss or Warrior!

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: 10 Ways To Fight Selfishness During The Marital Embrace – Part 2 (CARP119)

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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up

10 Ways To Fight Selfishness During The Marital Embrace - Part 2

In this 119th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to remove selfishness when making love!

 

Die to self means just what it says, we must die to what we want and be molded by God himself.

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 119th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • How to die to our wants during the marital embrace and focus on our wife completely! – Part 2
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 – My wife doesn’t show affection to me the way she used to.

 

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now! 

 

 

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 119th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: Continues with How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up

Today we uncover Gift #21 part 2

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

Continually look for calls in the queue! 

[QUOTE]

In sex the male adores the female. In love the man and woman together adore God.” [END QUOTE]

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~ Book: Three To Get Married

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

How to save my marriage when my wife has given up: 10 tips to remove selfishness during the marital embrace!

Today is gift 21 Part 2...

Which states: A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

Why is the marital embrace about God, about your wife, and not about you?

How do I sacrifice my wants, desires, and needs, for that of my Beloved during the marital embrace?

How do I learn to speak more comfortably about sex with my wife? In our last series we discussed clues that a wife may want a divorce.

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men...

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series...

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest...

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...

Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you...

Becoming the man God created you to be...

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?...

Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #21...

Which states...

A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

And as the man of the home the defender from evil...

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle...

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is...

Will you cooperate?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser...

Inserting the URL...CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every...

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 !

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has she asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now...call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Use the speech word counter website

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...10 Tips to become a man of sacrifice and ignite her love during the martial embrace!

Today is gift 21 Part 2...

Which states: A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

So, now we are going to go into the action steps to help you defeat selfishness and become a man of sacrifice during the marital embrace...

Which will ignite the fire, desire, devotion, and passion from your beloved wife!

We will cover the first 5 today...and the second 5 the next show!

Sacrifice One: Die To Self!

Die to self means just what it says, we must die to what we want and be molded by God Himself...

This way we become pure and holy and are then worthy of heaven. The same is true during the marital embrace.

We must die to ourselves, meaning forgetting what we want in lieu of what our Beloved wife needs!

We must change our attitude. Lose our selfishness. When you sacrifice for something greater than ourselves (our wife; our marriage; God) humility and holiness replace the old you.

Sacrifice Two: You Are The Server

You’re commanded by the Father (as a husband); to protect, to defend; to serve.

These are your duty.

And this means sacrificing yourself each day for your Beloved.

And this starts in the bedroom.

Serve her early and often.

Die to self, be a joyful giver, as no other husband can be.

Give your life away for her. What nobler cause could there be?

Sacrifice Three: Seek Only The Desires, Wants, And Needs, Of Your Beloved

I mean total reckless abandonment.

Focus all your sexual power on her; holding nothing back.

Figure out what she needs, and at all costs give it to her.

Odds are, over the years, you’ve forgotten this insight; this gift.

She chose you; you chose her.

There was a reason for your marriage.

Remember what that was. And keep this memory first in your mind, during your time with her during the Holy Caress!

Sacrifice Four: Kill Your Ego

You are a man. Of course you have pride.
But during the time with your Beloved in the bedroom...

You must remove your ego and never let it come between you and the fulfillment of your wife.

How are you going to show her that you are the man she needs if for some reason you are unable to place her first at the time when she most needs you to do so?

Or would you rather pay that divorce lawyer?

Sacrifice Five: Making Love Is An Art

The problem? No one teaches us men about true intimacy.

How to be attentive; give everything we have to our Beloved; how to sacrifice every bit of ourselves.

And many times, we just fumble through sexual intimacy.

Big mistake.

We tell ourselves; we understand, but we don’t.

We tell ourselves we are doing it right, but realize we probably aren’t. LEARN YOUR ART!

Sacrifice Six: Remember Each Time You Make Love You Are Renewing Your Wedding Vows (Begin Part 2)

Refuse to forget this fact.

As the Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen says “It takes three to make love; you, your wife, and God” (the Divine Lover).

Marriage is special; a sacrament (sacred). God chose to raise marriage to this level.

Why? Because, He wants to make sure we understand how special marriage is; the marital embrace; children.

You made a vow before Him. Again, remember this.

Your promise of marriage, is the most important signature you’ve placed on a piece of paper in your life. Rise Up!

Sacrifice Seven: Your Wife Is Giving You A Gift; The Doorway To Her Very Soul

Over the decades, men have forgotten this fact. We forget, how precious our wives are.

We forget, what’s between their legs is more than an instrument of pleasure for us.

Her decision is a gift, each time.

She’s giving her soul, her complete self; the love she offers; sacred; special. Remember?

Sacrifice Eight: Never Lose Your Cool (Ejaculate) Before You’re your Wife Has Experienced Her First Climax

Another lost art.

Today we are selfish. We know it, and our wives know it.

Sure, we pretend like we aren’t; but we are.

Many of us have no idea, how to last longer in bed.

How to reach even 20 minutes; an hour; two hours; before we experience meltdown.

Over the years, this inadequacy can get worse.

The older we get, other problems arise.

Stamina for one.

Remember what I said earlier. SEX IS IMPORTANT TO YOUR WIFE! Even more important; than to you. This leads us to my next point.

Sacrifice Nine: Begin The Practice Of The Gift Of Ten

Look these days we can’t operate like our fathers and their fathers. Our wives have too many outlets and influences at their disposal

We must learn how to be great husbands. How to lead our families towards God.

And get our wife to allow us to do these things without combating us at every turn.

And one of the best ways is to understand how to love her better and deeper reaching her soul...

So that without a shadow of a doubt she trusts our love for her and knows we will never abandon her!

This one is why the gift of 10 is huge because it demands courage from you.

What is The Gift Of Ten?
The Gift Of Ten is a philosophy I created.

The practice encourages you, to make sure your beloved is completely fulfilled for that particular sex session.

The practice is advanced, and in many cases difficult.

But only because, the technique requires the mindset of complete and total sacrifice by you.

Sacrifice Ten: Ask Your Beloved; “Am I Fulfilling You Sexually?”

A significant problem for men today?

Many of us are effeminate.

We refuse toughness in any form.

We want comfort, pleasure, forever an easy chair. Anything that makes us uncomfortable; we won’t do.

Well, you wanted the answer to the question “What can a husband do to save his marriage?”

Sorry but this question is an important place to start.

Many wives today feel, insecure, unhappy, unfulfilled, and void of exhaustive love from you.

I’m willing to declare that your words no longer work with her. She is in most cases, tired of talk.
She now wants action.
Furthermore, you must ask this question.

You may get the truth, or you may not; doesn’t matter.

You’ll be able to read her body language. Observing this, will give you all the answers you need.

However, when you get the answer, I suspect you’ll want to fix it.

BUT FIRST, YOU MUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO ASK THE QUESTION!

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

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I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: 10 Ways To Fight Selfishness During The Marital Embrace – Part 1 (CARP118)

June 2, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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10 Ways To Fight Selfishness During The Marital Embrace - Part 1

In this 118th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to remove selfishness when making love!

 

Die to self means just what it says, we must die to what we want and be molded by God himself.

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 118th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • How to die to our wants during the marital embrace and focus on our wife completely! – Part 1
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 118th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: Continues with How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up

Today we uncover Gift #21 part 1

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

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[QUOTE]

In sex the male adores the female. In love the man and woman together adore God.” [END QUOTE]

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~ Book: Three To Get Married

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

How to save my marriage when my wife has given up: 10 tips to remove selfishness during the marital embrace!

Today is gift 21 Part 1...

Which states: A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

Why is the marital embrace about God, about your wife, and not about you?

How do I sacrifice my wants, desires, and needs, for that of my Beloved during the marital embrace?

How do I learn to speak more comfortably about sex with my wife? In our last series we discussed clues that a wife may want a divorce.

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men...

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series...

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest...

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...

Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you...

Becoming the man God created you to be...

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?...

Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #21...

Which states...

A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

And as the man of the home the defender from evil...

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle...

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is...

Will you cooperate?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

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Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...10 Tips to become a man of sacrifice and ignite her love during the martial embrace!

Today is gift 21 Part 1...

Which states: A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

So, now we are going to go into the action steps to help you defeat selfishness and become a man of sacrifice during the marital embrace...

Which will ignite the fire, desire, devotion, and passion from your beloved wife!

We will cover the first 5 today...and the second 5 the next show!

Sacrifice One: Die To Self!

Die to self means just what it says, we must die to what we want and be molded by God Himself...

This way we become pure and holy and are then worthy of heaven. The same is true during the marital embrace.

We must die to ourselves, meaning forgetting what we want in lieu of what our Beloved wife needs!

We must change our attitude. Lose our selfishness. When you sacrifice for something greater than ourselves (our wife; our marriage; God) humility and holiness replace the old you.

Sacrifice Two: You Are The Server

You’re commanded by the Father (as a husband); to protect, to defend; to serve.

These are your duty.

And this means sacrificing yourself each day for your Beloved.

And this starts in the bedroom.

Serve her early and often.

Die to self, be a joyful giver, as no other husband can be.

Give your life away for her. What nobler cause could there be?

Sacrifice Three: Seek Only The Desires, Wants, And Needs, Of Your Beloved

I mean total reckless abandonment.

Focus all your sexual power on her; holding nothing back.

Figure out what she needs, and at all costs give it to her.

Odds are, over the years, you’ve forgotten this insight; this gift.

She chose you; you chose her.

There was a reason for your marriage.

Remember what that was. And keep this memory first in your mind, during your time with her during the Holy Caress!

Sacrifice Four: Kill Your Ego

You are a man. Of course you have pride.
But during the time with your Beloved in the bedroom...

You must remove your ego and never let it come between you and the fulfillment of your wife.

How are you going to show her that you are the man she needs if for some reason you are unable to place her first at the time when she most needs you to do so?

Or would you rather pay that divorce lawyer?

Sacrifice Five: Making Love Is An Art

The problem? No one teaches us men about true intimacy.

How to be attentive; give everything we have to our Beloved; how to sacrifice every bit of ourselves.

And many times, we just fumble through sexual intimacy.

Big mistake.

We tell ourselves; we understand, but we don’t.

We tell ourselves we are doing it right, but realize we probably aren’t. LEARN YOUR ART!

Sacrifice Six: Remember Each Time You Make Love You Are Renewing Your Wedding Vows (Begin Part 2)

Refuse to forget this fact.

As the Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen says “It takes three to make love; you, your wife, and God” (the Divine Lover).

Marriage is special; a sacrament (sacred). God chose to raise marriage to this level.

Why? Because, He wants to make sure we understand how special marriage is; the marital embrace; children.

You made a vow before Him. Again, remember this.

Your promise of marriage, is the most important signature you’ve placed on a piece of paper in your life. Rise Up!

Sacrifice Seven: Your Wife Is Giving You A Gift; The Doorway To Her Very Soul

Over the decades, men have forgotten this fact. We forget, how precious our wives are.

We forget, what’s between their legs is more than an instrument of pleasure for us.

Her decision is a gift, each time.

She’s giving her soul, her complete self; the love she offers; sacred; special. Remember?

Sacrifice Eight: Never Lose Your Cool (Ejaculate) Before You’re your Wife Has Experienced Her First Climax

Another lost art.

Today we are selfish. We know it, and our wives know it.

Sure, we pretend like we aren’t; but we are.

Many of us have no idea, how to last longer in bed.

How to reach even 20 minutes; an hour; two hours; before we experience meltdown.

Over the years, this inadequacy can get worse.

The older we get, other problems arise.

Stamina for one.

Remember what I said earlier. SEX IS IMPORTANT TO YOUR WIFE! Even more important; than to you. This leads us to my next point.

Sacrifice Nine: Begin The Practice Of The Gift Of Ten

Look these days we can’t operate like our fathers and their fathers. Our wives have too many outlets and influences at their disposal

We must learn how to be great husbands. How to lead our families towards God.

And get our wife to allow us to do these things without combating us at every turn.

And one of the best ways is to understand how to love her better and deeper reaching her soul...

So that without a shadow of a doubt she trusts our love for her and knows we will never abandon her!

This one is why the gift of 10 is huge because it demands courage from you.

What is The Gift Of Ten?
The Gift Of Ten is a philosophy I created.

The practice encourages you, to make sure your beloved is completely fulfilled for that particular sex session.

The practice is advanced, and in many cases difficult.

But only because, the technique requires the mindset of complete and total sacrifice by you.

Sacrifice Ten: Ask Your Beloved; “Am I Fulfilling You Sexually?”

A significant problem for men today?

Many of us are effeminate.

We refuse toughness in any form.

We want comfort, pleasure, forever an easy chair. Anything that makes us uncomfortable; we won’t do.

Well, you wanted the answer to the question “What can a husband do to save his marriage?”

Sorry but this question is an important place to start.

Many wives today feel, insecure, unhappy, unfulfilled, and void of exhaustive love from you.

I’m willing to declare that your words no longer work with her. She is in most cases, tired of talk.
She now wants action.
Furthermore, you must ask this question.

You may get the truth, or you may not; doesn’t matter.

You’ll be able to read her body language. Observing this, will give you all the answers you need.

However, when you get the answer, I suspect you’ll want to fix it.

BUT FIRST, YOU MUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO ASK THE QUESTION!

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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What To Do When The Thrill Is Gone In My Marriage And The 13 Christian Ways To Fix It – Part 2 (CARP117)

June 1, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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And The 13 Christian Ways To Fix It! - Part 2

In this 117th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to build magnificent intimacy in your marriage - Part 2!

Lovemaking is an art; a gift from the Father of His Divine Love for the married couple.

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 117th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • How to build intimacy and romance in your marriage that lasts! – Part 2
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

 

 

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 117th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series Continues: With the category #3 – Making Love Mastery)

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

Continually look for calls in the queue! 

[QUOTE]

“To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is, and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy.”[END QUOTE]

Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Book: Holy Sex - A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Are you a Holy Lover?

Does your Beloved deserve any less?

Is your mission to become the man God created you to be?

Do you understand your role, your duty, as a husband in marriage?

Is your marriage thriving, prosperous, peaceful, full of the Holy Spirit?

Or is it lackluster, passionless, void of intimacy?

Are you and your Beloved, one flesh?

Do you avoid each other like the plague?

Do you go along to get along?

Do you want more, crave more, hunger for more?

But, don’t understand how to get what your marriage needs?

Does your marriage lack greatness?

Well, I can help you reach this feat.

I can help you understand your purpose.

I can help you, in your pursuit of greatness.

In fact, I experienced many of the above questions.

I didn’t understand, what I was supposed to accomplish on this earth.

I had a family; a wife. But didn’t realize my purpose, where I was supposed to go.

More important, where I was headed. Not to mention, how to lead them there.

So, I did what everyone else did.

I chased the almighty dollar.

I pursued careers.

I tried with much passion, to fill my empty gut with things, stuff, sex, and distractions.

None of it worked!

I required something more.

There had to be more. THERE-MUST-BE-SOMETHING-MORE!

Your Mission: To Become A Holy Lover

By the grace of God, more did present itself.

I stopped allowing myself to become distracted, with the lure of society.

I decided to rise, and search for the truth of my life.

Moreover, what that meant for me, and my family.

There had to be more to this life, than a mere one hundred years; then death.

This logic made no sense. And it shouldn’t make any sense to you.

My mission of this episode and beyond, is to get you to elevate yourself.

To rise from a nothingness, meaningless existence.

Furthermore, to realize every decision, every thought, every action you take, means something in the universe.

Your marriage, your Beloved, your children. They are depending on you, to lead them to greatness, to eternity.

More important, to help them reach their full potential as members of the Kingdom Of God.

Can you do this? Will you fail?

Are you the man for the mission?

You have to be, because my friend there’s no one else.

If you follow the attributes.

Then decide, you want more for your marriage.

As well as, for your children; for yourself; than just a meager, one hundred years of existence.

Then I ask you, sacrifice yourself, your wants; your every desire. In benefit of Jesus Christ and your Beloved.

Become a Man Of Courage; embrace suffering, in service of your Beloved and Christ.

In fact, give your life away for something far greater than yourself.

For Christ, for your Beloved, for your marriage.

Once again, become her hero, once again become the husband she needs, once again become the man of her dreams.

I plead with you, become the man God created you to be; in essence; become a Holy Lover!

What is a Holy Lover?

Let me be clear. Even though, I created the concept of the Holy Lover, along with the help of the Holy Spirit.

I myself, have not reached the full potential of Holy Lover status.

I must admit, becoming a Holy Lover is a journey.

It’s not something you can accomplish in a year.

Something of this magnitude, takes time, perseverance, patience, discipline, humility, and prayer.

But above all, to reach Holy Lover status requires the help of the God, and His merciful grace.

As you embark on this path towards the Father; towards greatness.

I implore you, to lean on prayer, and the Holy Spirit to help guide you.

You cannot become great; holy; a saint without Our Lord.

It’s impossible!

I’ve divided the 33 gifts of a Holy Lover into three categories (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, Making Love Mastery).

Each category is as important as the other.

Further, each category should be strived for and completed, for total success.

You cannot neglect one category, in favor of another, and expect to reach ultimate and True Man.

You must embrace each category, to become a Holy Lover.

In the next few weeks, in this series we will explore what I call the gifts of a Holy Lover.

There are 33 of them.

We will cover the category then begin exploring each gift in that category.

So, let’s get started.

A Holy Lover is A Man Of Courage; True Man.

He understands in order to serve, he must deliver the gifts of his manliness, given to him by God.

A Holy Lover understands every action, every thought, every word, is a gift given in service of Our Lord.

Your mission? To unleash as many gifts upon your Beloved, as she can stand.

The reward? A magnificent, fantastic, passionate, holy and legendary marriage!

In previous episodes we’ve covered the other two categories...

Prayer warfare and The Art Of Manliness.

So, today, we open up category three of the Holy Lover Series...

Making love Mastery.

This category involves all that is intimacy...

Inside the bedroom as well as outside the bedroom.

The mission is to give you the thirst and motivation to become a world class lover...

For that of your Beloved wife and that of God!

Why?

So that you understand what the marital embrace truly is about and it’s mysteries!

We will begin with the first 6 gifts in this category today...

And the other seven tomorrow.

But we will only cover them and their general meaning.

Because, I will have episodes dedicated solely to each gift in this category just as the other two categories.

I must ask that if you have any kids younger than 16 listening...

I caution you that you may not want them to hear.

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I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

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Category Three: Making Love Mastery

Lovemaking is an art; a gift from the Father of His Divine Love for the married couple.

For this reason, abusing it, or treating it as merely, another daily action, you do to relieve yourself of stresses...

will not work in the long run.

This gift the Father has given you, is your greatest power.

In fact, your superpower. Although, with this power, comes great responsibility.

As with Superman or Spiderman, you must understand your superpower.

So, you may use your special gift, in proper fashion. As well as, in the best interest of others.

Now, what are those interests?

First, to further the creation of man.

Next, be an example other men can follow (by building a legendary marriage).

Last, to love your Beloved so deep as to become one flesh, in service of your family!

These interests benefit something greater than yourself...

which is the mission of every husband. In essence, to give his life away a little each day.

Right now, your arrogance is itching at you. What can he tell me about sex with my wife?

This my friend is evil knocking at your door. Its mission; your failure. Why?...

Because you are learning goodness, holiness; the gift of sacrifice.

The Evil One knows marriage is the heart of the universe.

Without marriage, Gods mission of reuniting all of His children with Him in Heaven, requires much more suffering.

Again, I must get you to realize, every action, every decision you make in this life means something in time.

This includes, the Father’s plan for His Church.

Those last two statements, can be hard to accept because we are broken.

You aren’t a banker, a janitor, a business man, a doctor, an entrepreneur, a professor, a teacher, a criminal.

You are a Christian Soldier, a man of God.

YOU ARE IMPORTANT.

FURTHERMORE, YOUR ACTIONS, DECISIONS, INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.

AS WELL AS, GODS PLAN FOR THE UNIVERSE AND HIS CHURCH!

Accept it, embrace it, live up to the honor, you’ve been given.

This realization, has to muster up at least a little emotion?

You now have purpose; a mission. So, let’s get it on!

Making Love Mastery; the gifts!

Again, we’ll cover the first 6 gifts today and the other 7 gifts tomorrow in this category!

 

Gift Twenty-One

  • A Holy Lover understands, he must at all times sacrifice his wants and desires for that of his Beloved, during the Holy Caress!
  • You are the giver. She is the receiver. Givers give with joyous giving.
  • Your Beloved has a grand gift, she’s offering you. Indeed, you must realize the importance of this offering.
  • In essence, she is offering you a doorway into her soul; her union with you and the Father.
  • She’s offering you her complete and total self.
  • She is laying it all on the line for you; her Beloved husband.She is yours; you are hers; now and forever.
  • More important, each time you and your Beloved, engage in the Holy Caress. You are renewing your sacred and holy vows, as on your wedding day.
  • Try to keep this thought, in the fore front of your mind.This memory will serve you well.
  • How do you sacrifice your wants and desires in service of your Beloved?
  • First, you end your pleasure seeking attitude at once. Which means, complete focus on her at all times.
  • Number one rule; you never under any circumstances,Lose Your Cool (ejaculate) before your Beloved has climaxed at least once.
  • This standard is the minimum. Your Beloved needs many more than one. In fact, 10 or more isn’t unusual.
  • Resulting in her complete satisfaction. Which I call the Gift Of Ten.
  • And guess who’s the only one, who can show her love as I’m describing? Yep, you!

 

Gift Twenty-Two

  • A Holy Lover understands his Beloved’s monthly cycle. As well as, how her body works, and responds to the marital embrace, during different times of the month.
  • This knowledge is vital. You ought to have an accurate idea, when your wife’s menstrual cycle is approaching.
  • Why is this information important?
  • Because, your wife’s genitalia is more receptive or more tender, to the marital embrace. Depending on what stage her monthly cycle is in.
  • This may seem unnecessary. But it’s not.
  • She will approach you different.
  • She will allow different penetration depths.
  • These are few of many details, you as a Holy Lover should understand.
  • This intimate conversation is important to have.
  • The insight is powerful, and a must. Or you will blame her for things, such as rejection, or not being in the mood. And this isn’t the case.
  • Things need to proceed a little different. And if you don’t understand this, you can make a mistake.
  • Thereby, blaming her for something that’s out of her control.

 

Gift Twenty-Three

  • A Holy Lover does not whine or pout when his Beloved is unable to make love.
  • Why?Because in many cases, the problem originates from something you did or didn’t do.
  • Is she sick? Is she on her monthly cycle? Does she hurt physically? Have you been making love to her outside the bedroom? Have you been engaging in meaningful communication? Does she feel close to you?
  • During such an occasion, is prime time to realize your duty, when it comes to chastity in marriage. The solution? Change your mindset, to romance and building closeness.
  • These are grand times to do more holding, touching, kissing, and caressing. Doing more favors for each other. Engage in deeper conversation.
  • Why?
  • Because the Holy Caress doesn’t start in the bedroom. Making one flesh love, starts outside the bedroom.
  • So, when you’re unable to have sex, is an opportunity for you to focus more on serving.
  • So, when you can make love again, the anticipation is so great and passionate, you almost can’t control the thought.
  • This my brother, is love, this is sacrifice, this is friendship set on fire!

 

Gift Twenty-Four

  • A Holy Lover understands it takes three to make love. You, your Beloved, and God (The Divine Lover).
  • The principles I’ve pointed out to you in this article, can’t be done, without the grace given to you by God. These tasks are tough.
  • Completing them won’t be easy.Not to mention, being able to finish and grasp, all of them. While incorporating each, into your Holy Union.
  • See, many husbands fail here.
  • The Father gives us special graces, just for being married.
  • Understand, marriage is a sacrament. And including Him in all areas of your life (especially your marriage and sex life) is a recipe for success.
  • Remember, you can’t even breathe without the Father’s help.
  • So why not trust Him with everything?
  • I do!

 

Gift Twenty-Five

  • A Holy Lover must recognize; he is duty bound to give his Beloved the gift of at least one orgasm, during the Holy Caress.
  • Notice, I didn’t say if you want to. I said, duty bound!
  • Why?
  • Because your Beloved is a human person. She’s your helpmate, your battle partner.
  • She isn’t a robot or inanimate object. She feels pain, has emotions, and intellect. You must guard against treating her as an object, only for your pleasure.
  • Secondly, according to the Catholic Church. Saint Pope John Paul II, backs up my statement.
  • As a husband, you must make sure, your Beloved experiences at least a single climax. Nuff Said!
  • And guess who’s the only one, who can show her love as I’m describing? Yep, you!

 

Gift Twenty-Six

  • A Holy Lover understands his wife’s phases, leading up to complete sexual fulfillment.
  • I will admit, this one is complicated.
  • I would need an entire group session, to cover even half.
  • But the short version is during lovemaking, your Beloved experiences phases. Each phase builds upon itself for her total sexual fulfillment
  • As you will learn in module 16 in more depth there are six phases to your Beloved’s total and complete fulfillment, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually!
  • The six phases are...
  • Prayer, the best friend concept, making love outside the bedroom, foreplay, her initial rise, and reaching enkindled bliss!
  • You must remain in control, throughout each phase until completion. Which means, you mustn’t Lose Your Cool.
  • This gift is also complicated, in that total sexual fulfillment isn’t something you can accomplish in one session.
  • Her complete fulfillment will take at least one year; most likely two, or extreme three years...
  • Why?
  • Because of what’s called her inhibitions. Her transference from her old self to her new self. Like I said, complicated!

 

Gift Twenty-Seven

  • A Holy Lover is not a premature ejaculator.
  • What is a premature ejaculator? Let’s define this term.
  • A premature ejaculator is a husband that Loses His Cool (ejaculates) before his Beloved is in complete satisfaction.
  • Again, I didn’t say one orgasm. I said, satisfied.
  • Why?
  • Because, your wife needs many more orgasms than one for fulfillment.
  • And, if you get in the habit of denying her this gift, she will begin to suspect; you don’t care; you don’t love her; that you aren’t close.
  • Which spells trouble, for your marriage, trust, and vulnerability.
  • Now for her, this isn’t conscious. It’s unconscious.
  • Which means, she’s not aware of what’s happening. But her actions, her emotions, provide the clues.

 

Gift Twenty-Eight

  • A Holy Lover isn’t impotent.
  • Impotency (erectile dysfunction) means a husband can’t conjure up or maintain, an erection.
  • No matter what women imagine. They need their husbands.
  • Hence, sexual problems are an important indication of why.

    Without our ability to maintain an erection, the marital embrace becomes difficult.

  • This in turn means, no closeness, no one flesh.
  • Sometimes this issue is mental. But more often, the problem is physical. Which can be conquered.
  • In my course (INFLAMED! Sex Power; Food, Sex, And You!)
  • I cover the beginning steps, showing how to make sure this doesn’t happen to you. As well as, how to start ridding your bedroom of this enemy.

 

Gift Twenty-Nine

  • A Holy Lover recognizes the difference between eroticism and intimacy.
  • Quite simple, erotic is mislust.
  • Eroticism gives you all the pleasure of intimacy, but with one difference.
  • The pleasure doesn’t last! It’s like drinking a cup of coffee. Your heart rate rises for an hour or so, then the high fizzles out.
  • Same with eroticism. It has no basis in love. In fact, society pushes eroticism hard.
  • Why? Because our culture is based on selfishness. We aren’t going to take the time to build real intimacy. That’s a foreign concept.
  • Eroticism and lust, are a favorite pastime of the Evil One.
  • If he can manipulate you into engaging in contraception, sex outside of marriage, masturbation, pornography, homosexuality.

    HE HAS YOUR SOUL!

  • And guess what? It will be hard for you to get it back!
  • Eroticism isn’t real love. I refer to eroticism as pseudo love(false, fake, unreal). And if lust is your norm; your marriage will fail. More often; sooner than later.
  • In contrast, intimacy is different. It builds and builds, and lasts for as long as you cultivate it.
  • Intimacy is of absolute and total goodness. Which means, you include the Father, and let Him guide you.
  • Why? Because he created you, and only wants the best for you. He has your best interest at heart. He’s even given you a plan, to help you through the maze.
  • More often than not, we don’t listen. Well, you know, we’re broken!

     

Gift Thirty

  • A Holy Lover understands, intimacy outside the bedroom, is just as important as, intimacy inside the bedroom.
  • I mentioned this earlier. You must cultivate closeness.
  • Wives crave closeness. No closeness; no intimacy; no sex. Sorry; the way of the world.
  • You can try to dip and dodge, your way around building closeness.

    As a result, you will damage your credibility. And one flesh, will become almost, impossible.

 

Gift Thirty-One

  • A Holy Lover, never Loses His Cool, until his Beloved has experienced all the orgasms she needs for unmitigated sexual satisfaction (usually 10).
  • Notice,I didn’t say wants. I said needs.
  • Why? Because this was my big mistake in my marriage. I deemed, climaxes for my wife was something she wanted (which is sort of true).
  • In sharp contrast, I discovered orgasms aren’t necessarily what she wants. But something she needs, to sense security, happiness, and absolute love from you, her Beloved husband.

 

Gift Thirty-Two

  • A Holy Lover must become a master of lovemaking, in service of his Beloved and the Father.
  • This isn’t a game, or something I just made up. Above all, I don’t advocate this for your ego.
  • But to help you realize, you have much more power and influence, in your marriage than you think.
  • Many husbands get little feedback, concerning their lovemaking. Usually, because they’re intimidated, and don’t want to ask their Beloved’s insight.
  • Or worse yet, receive unfavorable results.
  • This is a huge mistake! And, a bit cowardice.
  • It’s so funny. We can talk to our buddies regarding sex, and all kinds of stuff.
  • But we can’t even say the word, in a serious discussion, to the person who can help us the most; Our Beloved wife. How unfortunate.

 

Gift Thirty-Three

  • A Holy Lover must understand the female orgasm, in service of his Beloved.
  • The female orgasm is somewhat complicated. Therefore, if you don’t verse yourself in the intricacies of your Beloved. You will disappoint her.
  • Not on one occasion, but her disappointment can become a regular occurrence. Trust me, you don’t want this headache.
  • Some questions you should present to yourself is as follows.
  • How long does it take her to climax the first time during lovemaking?
  • Is one enough for her needs. Or does she need 5, 10, 20, or more

    for total satisfaction?

  • What are the many ways she can reach climax?
  • How can I tell if she has climaxed?
  • How can I tell when she is close to climax?
  • Have I indeed, placed her needs first?
  • I’ve given you a few. However, many more need consideration.
  • Put your mind to work. Again, learn her mysteries.
  • We’re talking about your wife; the mother of your children. Does she deserve any less?
  • As I’ve said earlier. You must become laser focused, with reckless abandonment on your Beloved.

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Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

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You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

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Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 116th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series Continues: With the category #3 – Making Love Mastery)

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“To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is, and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy.”[END QUOTE]

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Are you a Holy Lover?

Does your Beloved deserve any less?

Is your mission to become the man God created you to be?

Do you understand your role, your duty, as a husband in marriage?

Is your marriage thriving, prosperous, peaceful, full of the Holy Spirit?

Or is it lackluster, passionless, void of intimacy?

Are you and your Beloved, one flesh?

Do you avoid each other like the plague?

Do you go along to get along?

Do you want more, crave more, hunger for more?

But, don’t understand how to get what your marriage needs?

Does your marriage lack greatness?

Well, I can help you reach this feat.

I can help you understand your purpose.

I can help you, in your pursuit of greatness.

In fact, I experienced many of the above questions.

I didn’t understand, what I was supposed to accomplish on this earth.

I had a family; a wife. But didn’t realize my purpose, where I was supposed to go.

More important, where I was headed. Not to mention, how to lead them there.

So, I did what everyone else did.

I chased the almighty dollar.

I pursued careers.

I tried with much passion, to fill my empty gut with things, stuff, sex, and distractions.

None of it worked!

I required something more.

There had to be more. THERE-MUST-BE-SOMETHING-MORE!

Your Mission: To Become A Holy Lover

By the grace of God, more did present itself.

I stopped allowing myself to become distracted, with the lure of society.

I decided to rise, and search for the truth of my life.

Moreover, what that meant for me, and my family.

There had to be more to this life, than a mere one hundred years; then death.

This logic made no sense. And it shouldn’t make any sense to you.

My mission of this episode and beyond, is to get you to elevate yourself.

To rise from a nothingness, meaningless existence.

Furthermore, to realize every decision, every thought, every action you take, means something in the universe.

Your marriage, your Beloved, your children. They are depending on you, to lead them to greatness, to eternity.

More important, to help them reach their full potential as members of the Kingdom Of God.

Can you do this? Will you fail?

Are you the man for the mission?

You have to be, because my friend there’s no one else.

If you follow the attributes.

Then decide, you want more for your marriage.

As well as, for your children; for yourself; than just a meager, one hundred years of existence.

Then I ask you, sacrifice yourself, your wants; your every desire. In benefit of Jesus Christ and your Beloved.

Become a Man Of Courage; embrace suffering, in service of your Beloved and Christ.

In fact, give your life away for something far greater than yourself.

For Christ, for your Beloved, for your marriage.

Once again, become her hero, once again become the husband she needs, once again become the man of her dreams.

I plead with you, become the man God created you to be; in essence; become a Holy Lover!

What is a Holy Lover?

Let me be clear. Even though, I created the concept of the Holy Lover, along with the help of the Holy Spirit.

I myself, have not reached the full potential of Holy Lover status.

I must admit, becoming a Holy Lover is a journey.

It’s not something you can accomplish in a year.

Something of this magnitude, takes time, perseverance, patience, discipline, humility, and prayer.

But above all, to reach Holy Lover status requires the help of the God, and His merciful grace.

As you embark on this path towards the Father; towards greatness.

I implore you, to lean on prayer, and the Holy Spirit to help guide you.

You cannot become great; holy; a saint without Our Lord.

It’s impossible!

I’ve divided the 33 gifts of a Holy Lover into three categories (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, Making Love Mastery).

Each category is as important as the other.

Further, each category should be strived for and completed, for total success.

You cannot neglect one category, in favor of another, and expect to reach ultimate and True Man.

You must embrace each category, to become a Holy Lover.

In the next few weeks, in this series we will explore what I call the gifts of a Holy Lover.

There are 33 of them.

We will cover the category then begin exploring each gift in that category.

So, let’s get started.

A Holy Lover is A Man Of Courage; True Man.

He understands in order to serve, he must deliver the gifts of his manliness, given to him by God.

A Holy Lover understands every action, every thought, every word, is a gift given in service of Our Lord.

Your mission? To unleash as many gifts upon your Beloved, as she can stand.

The reward? A magnificent, fantastic, passionate, holy and legendary marriage!

In previous episodes we’ve covered the other two categories...

Prayer warfare and The Art Of Manliness.

So, today, we open up category three of the Holy Lover Series...

Making love Mastery.

This category involves all that is intimacy...

Inside the bedroom as well as outside the bedroom.

The mission is to give you the thirst and motivation to become a world class lover...

For that of your Beloved wife and that of God!

Why?

So that you understand what the marital embrace truly is about and it’s mysteries!

We will begin with the first 6 gifts in this category today...

And the other seven tomorrow.

But we will only cover them and their general meaning.

Because, I will have episodes dedicated solely to each gift in this category just as the other two categories.

I must ask that if you have any kids younger than 16 listening...

I caution you that you may not want them to hear.

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

Category Three: Making Love Mastery

Lovemaking is an art; a gift from the Father of His Divine Love for the married couple.

For this reason, abusing it, or treating it as merely, another daily action, you do to relieve yourself of stresses...

will not work in the long run.

This gift the Father has given you, is your greatest power.

In fact, your superpower. Although, with this power, comes great responsibility.

As with Superman or Spiderman, you must understand your superpower.

So, you may use your special gift, in proper fashion. As well as, in the best interest of others.

Now, what are those interests?

First, to further the creation of man.

Next, be an example other men can follow (by building a legendary marriage).

Last, to love your Beloved so deep as to become one flesh, in service of your family!

These interests benefit something greater than yourself...

which is the mission of every husband. In essence, to give his life away a little each day.

Right now, your arrogance is itching at you. What can he tell me about sex with my wife?

This my friend is evil knocking at your door. Its mission; your failure. Why?...

Because you are learning goodness, holiness; the gift of sacrifice.

The Evil One knows marriage is the heart of the universe.

Without marriage, Gods mission of reuniting all of His children with Him in Heaven, requires much more suffering.

Again, I must get you to realize, every action, every decision you make in this life means something in time.

This includes, the Father’s plan for His Church.

Those last two statements, can be hard to accept because we are broken.

You aren’t a banker, a janitor, a business man, a doctor, an entrepreneur, a professor, a teacher, a criminal.

You are a Christian Soldier, a man of God.

YOU ARE IMPORTANT.

FURTHERMORE, YOUR ACTIONS, DECISIONS, INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.

AS WELL AS, GODS PLAN FOR THE UNIVERSE AND HIS CHURCH!

Accept it, embrace it, live up to the honor, you’ve been given.

This realization, has to muster up at least a little emotion?

You now have purpose; a mission. So, let’s get it on!

Making Love Mastery; the gifts!

Again, we’ll cover the first 6 gifts today and the other 7 gifts tomorrow in this category!

Gift Twenty-One

A Holy Lover understands, he must at all times sacrifice his wants and desires for that of his Beloved, during the Holy Caress!

You are the giver. She is the receiver. Givers give with joyous giving.

Your Beloved has a grand gift, she’s offering you. Indeed, you must realize the importance of this offering.

In essence, she is offering you a doorway into her soul; her union with you and the Father.

She’s offering you her complete and total self.

She is laying it all on the line for you; her Beloved husband. She is yours; you are hers; now and forever.

More important, each time you and your Beloved, engage in the Holy Caress. You are renewing your sacred and holy vows, as on your wedding day.

Try to keep this thought, in the forefront of your mind. This memory will serve you well.

How do you sacrifice your wants and desires in service of your Beloved?

First, you end your pleasure seeking attitude at once. Which means, complete focus on her at all times.

Number one rule; you never under any circumstances, Lose Your Cool (ejaculate) before your Beloved has climaxed at least once.

This standard is the minimum. Your Beloved needs many more than one. In fact, 10 or more isn’t unusual.

Resulting in her complete satisfaction. Which I call the Gift Of Ten.

And guess who’s the only one, who can show her love as I’m describing? Yep, you!

 

Gift Twenty-Two

A Holy Lover understands his Beloved’s monthly cycle. As well as, how her body works, and responds to the marital embrace, during different times of the month.

This knowledge is vital. You ought to have an accurate idea, when your wife’s menstrual cycle is approaching.

Why is this information important?

Because, your wife’s genitalia is more receptive or more tender, to the marital embrace. Depending on what stage her monthly cycle is in.

This may seem unnecessary. But it’s not.

She will approach you different.

She will allow different penetration depths.

These are few of many details, you as a Holy Lover should understand.

This intimate conversation is important to have.

The insight is powerful, and a must. Or you will blame her for things, such as rejection, or not being in the mood. And this isn’t the case.

Things need to proceed a little different. And if you don’t understand this, you can make a mistake.

Thereby, blaming her for something that’s out of her control.

 

Gift Twenty-Three

A Holy Lover does not whine or pout, when his Beloved is unable to make love.

Why? Because in many cases, the problem originates from something you did or didn’t do.

Is she sick? Is she on her monthly cycle? Does she hurt physically? Have you been making love to her outside the bedroom? Have you been engaging in meaningful communication? Does she feel close to you?

During such an occasion, is prime time to realize your duty, when it comes to chastity in marriage. The solution? Change your mindset, to romance and building closeness.

These are grand times to do more holding, touching, kissing, and caressing. Doing more favors for each other. Engage in deeper conversation.

Why?

Because the Holy Caress doesn’t start in the bedroom. Making one flesh love, starts outside the bedroom.

So, when you’re unable to have sex, is an opportunity for you to focus more on serving.

So, when you can make love again, the anticipation is so great and passionate, you almost can’t control the thought.

This my brother, is love, this is sacrifice, this is friendship set on fire!

 

Gift Twenty-Four

A Holy Lover understands it takes three to make love. You, your Beloved, and God (The Divine Lover).

The principles I’ve pointed out to you in this article, can’t be done, without the grace given to you by God. These tasks are tough.

Completing them won’t be easy. Not to mention, being able to finish and grasp, all of them. While incorporating each, into your Holy Union.

See, many husbands fail here.

The Father gives us special graces, just for being married.

Understand, marriage is a sacrament. And including Him in all areas of your life (especially your marriage and sex life) is a recipe for success.

Remember, you can’t even breathe without the Father’s help. So why not trust Him with everything?
I do!

 

Gift Twenty-Five

A Holy Lover must recognize; he is duty bound to give his Beloved the gift of at least one orgasm, during the Holy Caress.

Notice, I didn’t say if you want to. I said, duty bound! Why?

Because your Beloved is a human person. She’s your helpmate, your battle partner.

She isn’t a robot or inanimate object. She feels pain, has emotions, and intellect. You must guard against treating her as an object, only for your pleasure.

Secondly, according to the Catholic Church. Saint Pope John Paul II, backs up my statement.

As a husband, you must make sure, your Beloved experiences at least a single climax. Nuff Said!

And guess who’s the only one, who can show her love as I’m describing? Yep, you!

 

Gift Twenty-Six

A Holy Lover understands his wife’s phases, leading up to complete sexual fulfillment.

I will admit, this one is complicated.
I would need an entire group session, to cover even half.

But the short version is during lovemaking, your Beloved experiences phases. Each phase builds upon itself for her total sexual fulfillment

As you will learn in module 16 in more depth there are six phases to your Beloved’s total and complete fulfillment, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually!

The six phases are...

Prayer, the best friend concept, making love outside the bedroom, foreplay, her initial rise, and reaching enkindled bliss!

You must remain in control, throughout each phase until completion. Which means, you mustn’t Lose Your Cool.

This gift is also complicated, in that total sexual fulfillment isn’t something you can accomplish in one session.

Her complete fulfillment will take at least one year; most likely two, or extreme three years...

Why?

Because of what’s called her inhibitions. Her transference from her old self to her new self. Like I said, complicated!

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

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Target specific callers...

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If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: 9 Tests Of How To Man Up In Your Marriage – Part 2 (CARP115)

May 30, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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  • In this 115th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • That we must embrace that our masculinity is a gift from God! – Part 2
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 115th EPISODE (How to man up in your marriage to win her love) Gift 20 Part 2

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

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So, let’s-do-this!

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[QUOTE]

“Society Offers You Comfort; But you weren’t made for comfort; You were made for greatness!”

~Pope Benedict XVI

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

 We cover Gift 20 of a Holy Lover which states...

A Holy Lover understands his masculinity is a gift!

How can Authentic Masculinity draw your wife’s love and respect?

What is Authentic Masculinity and why is it important?

Why is Authentic Masculinity being attacked?

Why does being a wuss in our families and refusing to man up, cause descension, separation, and disrespect?

How can we be the man God is calling us to be in our marriage and family? To in fact become True Man?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry

So as promised...

The Art Of Manliness: The 9 Tests Of True Man to win the heart of your Beloved...

The 20th gift of a Holy Lover which states a Holy Lover understands that his masculinity is a gift from God!

One: Get Over It...This Life Is A Test

A test of what? Of Obedience

The only measure of your claim of true love of God is obedience.

Must realize your ultimate goal is not pleasure but Heaven

And you can’t make it to Heaven on pleasure

You must be willing to give your life away

You will never be truly fulfilled and happy as a man until you are willing to die for something; To in fact give all of your life away and deny selfishness.

 

Two: The Way To Authentic Masculinity Through Suffering And Responsibility

Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

We are taught to abhor suffering at all costs

This makes us soft and kills our thirst for battle

Instead of embracing responsibility today we do all we can to reject responsibility

This causes emascualtion and effeminacy

You never give in to your wife just to gain peace in your home if it interferes with your duties and responsibility to do what’s best for the marriage and family.

If you do this just for the pleasure of peace; you are in fact rejecting Authentic Masculinity and in the end you will invite chaos!

 

Three: You Are Charged With Leadership

Why did I name my Apostolate Catholic Alpha?

You cannot be a wuss in your home

You must do the tough and hard stuff

You must make the hard and tough decisions even when no one else in your family sees it

It’s ok to be laid back in society

But in your home you must lead and serve, you must take an alpha role, so that you can get things done, and lead your marriage and family towards God!

You must realize in the end, that your family will do what you do and be what you be!

 

Four: Chapter 2 (v. 15-25) Your True Purpose Is To Protect, Defend, And Serve!

God tasked Adam to be responsible for all in the Garden Of Eden

The animals, the birds, trees and all

His wife, his marriage

As True Man, you are responsible for everything

Your wife is your helper, your advisor, you counselor

You must let her do her job in this area, or you fail as True Man!

 

Five: Protect

You are tasked by God to protect your wife and family from physical threats

In protection the person you are charged to protect is your Beloved wife from you

Because she loves you, the opportunity for you to cause great pain is always present.

 

Six: Defend

You are charged to by God to defend

Defend your wife and family against the diabolical, the Fallen Angels, Satan!

To so this you need the help of the Holy Spirit

You must be in grace with God

And you must fight to the end, you must embrace the battle

If not you are failing as True Man and Satan will move right past you devouring your wife and children.

Your wife cannot protect your home from the Evil One. Only you are tasked with this special power

This is why you must enter the Spiritual Battle Daily

Sunday is your main day of work; this is why adoration on Sunday is imperative, this is your main Battle time!

 

Seven: To Serve

As True Man, you can never consider your wants and desires over those for whom you are charged to protect

God is first to serve, your wife is second to serve, your children are third to serve, and yourself last if you have anything left

This causes the effect of submission by your wife

This causes her to lead your children towards you

You then lead your wife and your children towards God

When you serve all ahead of you, your wife allows you to lead your family and denies the Curse Of Eve!

For this 16 weeks you have vowed as a man to put your marriage first and foremost

After the program is over, you will then take that time spent on the program and make it available to your wife.

Serve her with all of your heart, mind, and soul, and she will return your devotion and service 10 fold!

 

Eight: Humility Defeats Evil
Pride is the act of judging yourself greater than you are

Humilty is living by the highest and moral truth, meekness, and act of you dying to yourself (meaning forgoing all of your wants, desires, and needs) in order to rest in God!

Humility is the ultimate measure of a man! Christ shows us by His acceptance of His true mission as a man. He never waivered, He leaned on the Father, and held strong and steadfast in the face of evil!

This is ultimately what He wants of you!
Engage, Fight, Battle, and die Christian Soldier if necessary!!!

 

Nine: Stress Techniques

Use these techniques when fighting back anger or frustration when dealing with your wife’s anger, anxiety, and frustration towards you.

Pray a Hail Mary

Pressure Point Technique (EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique) Take a deep breath and exhale for 10 seconds counting in your head

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: 9 Tests Of How To Man Up In Your Marriage – Part 1 (CARP114)

May 29, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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9 Tests Of How To Man Up In Your Marriage - Part 1

In this 114th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to man up in your marriage to get her devotion and respect - Part 1!

We are taught to abhor suffering at all costs! This makes us soft and kills our thirst for battle

 

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 114th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • That we must embrace that our masculinity is a gift from God! – Part 1
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

 

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 114th EPISODE (How to man up in your marriage to win her love) Gift 20 Part 1

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

Continually look for calls in the queue! 

[QUOTE]

“Society Offers You Comfort; But you weren’t made for comfort; You were made for greatness!”

~Pope Benedict XVI

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

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 We cover Gift 20 of a Holy Lover which states...

A Holy Lover understands his masculinity is a gift!

How can Authentic Masculinity draw your wife’s love and respect?

What is Authentic Masculinity and why is it important?

Why is Authentic Masculinity being attacked?

Why does being a wuss in our families and refusing to man up, cause descension, separation, and disrespect?

How can we be the man God is calling us to be in our marriage and family? To in fact become True Man?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

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[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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So as promised...

The Art Of Manliness: The 9 Tests Of True Man to win the heart of your Beloved...

The 20th gift of a Holy Lover which states a Holy Lover understands that his masculinity is a gift from God!

One: Get Over It...This Life Is A Test

A test of what? Of Obedience

The only measure of your claim of true love of God is obedience.

Must realize your ultimate goal is not pleasure but Heaven

And you can’t make it to Heaven on pleasure

You must be willing to give your life away

You will never be truly fulfilled and happy as a man until you are willing to die for something; To in fact give all of your life away and deny selfishness.

 

Two: The Way To Authentic Masculinity Through Suffering And Responsibility

Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

We are taught to abhor suffering at all costs

This makes us soft and kills our thirst for battle

Instead of embracing responsibility today we do all we can to reject responsibility

This causes emascualtion and effeminacy

You never give in to your wife just to gain peace in your home if it interferes with your duties and responsibility to do what’s best for the marriage and family.

If you do this just for the pleasure of peace; you are in fact rejecting Authentic Masculinity and in the end you will invite chaos!

 

Three: You Are Charged With Leadership

Why did I name my Apostolate Catholic Alpha?

You cannot be a wuss in your home

You must do the tough and hard stuff

You must make the hard and tough decisions even when no one else in your family sees it

It’s ok to be laid back in society

But in your home you must lead and serve, you must take an alpha role, so that you can get things done, and lead your marriage and family towards God!

You must realize in the end, that your family will do what you do and be what you be!

 

Four: Chapter 2 (v. 15-25) Your True Purpose Is To Protect, Defend, And Serve!

God tasked Adam to be responsible for all in the Garden Of Eden

The animals, the birds, trees and all

His wife, his marriage

As True Man, you are responsible for everything

Your wife is your helper, your advisor, you counselor

You must let her do her job in this area, or you fail as True Man!

 

Five: Protect

You are tasked by God to protect your wife and family from physical threats

In protection the person you are charged to protect is your Beloved wife from you

Because she loves you, the opportunity for you to cause great pain is always present.

 

Six: Defend

You are charged to by God to defend

Defend your wife and family against the diabolical, the Fallen Angels, Satan!

To so this you need the help of the Holy Spirit

You must be in grace with God

And you must fight to the end, you must embrace the battle

If not you are failing as True Man and Satan will move right past you devouring your wife and children.

Your wife cannot protect your home from the Evil One. Only you are tasked with this special power

This is why you must enter the Spiritual Battle Daily

Sunday is your main day of work; this is why adoration on Sunday is imperative, this is your main Battle time!

 

Seven: To Serve

As True Man, you can never consider your wants and desires over those for whom you are charged to protect

God is first to serve, your wife is second to serve, your children are third to serve, and yourself last if you have anything left

This causes the effect of submission by your wife

This causes her to lead your children towards you

You then lead your wife and your children towards God

When you serve all ahead of you, your wife allows you to lead your family and denies the Curse Of Eve!

For this 16 weeks you have vowed as a man to put your marriage first and foremost

After the program is over, you will then take that time spent on the program and make it available to your wife.

Serve her with all of your heart, mind, and soul, and she will return your devotion and service 10 fold!

 

Eight: Humility Defeats Evil
Pride is the act of judging yourself greater than you are

Humilty is living by the highest and moral truth, meekness, and act of you dying to yourself (meaning forgoing all of your wants, desires, and needs) in order to rest in God!

Humility is the ultimate measure of a man! Christ shows us by His acceptance of His true mission as a man. He never waivered, He leaned on the Father, and held strong and steadfast in the face of evil!

This is ultimately what He wants of you!
Engage, Fight, Battle, and die Christian Soldier if necessary!!!

 

Nine: Stress Techniques

Use these techniques when fighting back anger or frustration when dealing with your wife’s anger, anxiety, and frustration towards you.

Pray a Hail Mary

Pressure Point Technique (EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique) Take a deep breath and exhale for 10 seconds counting in your head

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: 10 Tips To Become A Man Of Sacrifice To Ignite Her Love – Part 2 (CARP113)

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Confession Hurts! This is why we can't rely on our feelings, because we'd never go to confession

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  • In this 113th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • Become a lamb in your home to win the heart of your Beloved! – Part 2
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  • Caller #1 – What to do when my wife doesn’t listen, go to church, do dishes, or have sex with me?
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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

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Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
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Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 113th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: Continues with How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up

Today we uncover Gift #19 part 2

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

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Quote Of The Day

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[QUOTE]

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.

To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,

That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish..”[END QUOTE]

~Ephesians 5 (verses 25-27)

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Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

How to save my marriage when my wife has given up: 10 tips to become a man of sacrifice to ignite her love!

Today is gift 19 Part 2...

Which states: A Holy Lover Rejects Selfishness In All Areas Of His Live More Important His Marriage!

Why is selfishness the murderer of marriage

The number one cause of divorce is selfishness, why?

How do you defeat selfishness in marriage?

What are some action steps you can do to overcome selfishness as a husband?

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men...

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series...

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest...

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...

Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you...

Becoming the man God created you to be...

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?...

Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #18...

Which states...

A Holy Lover must protect his sexual health at all times!

And as the man of the home the defender from evil...

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle...

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is...

Will you cooperate?

After the break, we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry

So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...10 Tips to become a man of sacrifice and ignite her love!

Today is gift 19 Part 2...

Which states: A Holy Lover Rejects Selfishness In All Areas Of His Live More Important His Marriage!

So, now we are going to go into the action steps to help you defeat selfishness and become a man of sacrifice...

Which will ignite the fire, desire, devotion, and passion from your beloved wife!

We will cover the first 5 today...and the second 5 tomorrow!

Sacrifice One: A Husband’s Natural Order Of Service

First off in order to defeat selfishness in marriage and remove Satan from in between you are your beloved you must at all cost understand the order of service that will apply to all areas of your life...

This train of thought will serve you well...

And that thought is...

You never ever consider your wants, desires, and needs, above that of...

God first, your wife and marriage second, your kids third, and yourself last

This is the priority of problem solving in your life.

When it comes to the order of importance of things and problems in your life...

If it harms your relationship with God, you don’t do it.

If it has the possibility of harming your relationship with your wife, you don’t do it.

If it has the potential of hurting your relationship with your children, you don’t do it!

Again, this priority of service will serve you well!

Sacrifice Two: Prayer

Prayer is sacrifice

Prayer is hard, difficult, and a real challenge to make a habit.

This is why the real meaning of love according to the Catholic Church is willing the good of another.

This not how you feel about someone, but how strong your will is for their betterment their holiness.

Feelings will abandon you.

Sacrifice Three: Confession

Confession Hurts!

This is why we can’t rely on our feelings, because we’d never go to confession.

You must frequent confession or you’ll feel guilty about instructing your children on how to deal with evil.

At least once a month.

God instruct priests to perform this task.

Jesus said: ("Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained" (John 20:22–23).

We must remember, that nothing we do (prayer, good works, sacrifice, suffering) merits nothing in the eyes of God if we are in mortal sin.

Sacrifice Four: The Rosary

Your number battle weapon to defeating a bad marriage, and selfishness

Many men are ignorant to spiritual warfare.

Start out saying one decade for 30 days.

It will change your life and build holiness and virtue.

Sacrifice Five: Fasting

You can’t become holy if you don’t deny your pleasure and if you don’t suffer.

Fasting teaches you to sacrifice for another.

Fasting builds a strong and powerful intellect and will. It prevents us from becoming soft and weak of mind.

It assists you in purifying your wife by giving yourself (your pleasure, your comfort) for hers

Fasting teaches us mortification of self. We begin to die to our own wills and accept holiness, and virtue in the acceptance of Gods will for us.

Christ gave His life over for his Bride the Church. As men we must do the same. And only through our willing to sacrifice can this be done.

We are made for this battle, and will never find peace until we accept the mission!

Sacrifice Six: Adoration (Begin Part 2)

Do you want to become Holy?

Do you seek virtuousness?

Spending time in front of the blessed sacrament fosters peace, and holiness, a clear mind, and a sense of direction.

Your relationship becomes stronger with God.

He is more likely to hear your prayers as you develop a powerful relationship through your time in Adoration.

We need this time with Christ, especially if we suffer from, anxiety, frustration, anger, and emptiness of soul!

We need quit from all the. We must rest in God!

Start with 15 minutes per week. And as your faith grows increase a little with an ultimate goal of an hour daily!

Offer this sacrifice for your wife; for your children.

Sacrifice Seven: Daily Mass

It’s the most powerful prayer

The Eucharist purifies you when taken in grace and not in mortal sin.

Offering daily mass up for your wife is powerful and will change her life.

Remember, if sacrifice were easy everyone would do it.

Everyone would enter Heaven; but the sad truth is; many don’t!

Your suffering has meaning.

Daily mass requires the great sacrifice of your time for another (your wife; your children)

Sacrifice Eight: The Marital Embrace

Although this sacrifice, is in the eighth position. Its importance, ranks among the top two. If I’d put this further up, you may not have read the other seven!

It takes three to make love

Without God in all facets of your marriage especially your sex life; little by little it will suffer or worse wilt away.

God created sex as an extension of His divine love for us.

Our society (Satan) has tainted and corrupted sex.

Men can very easy become selfish when making love

Ego and selfishness can never enter the bedroom.

If at any time (me or I) enters your head during making love; you have already failed as a world-class lover, a Holy Lover; a man!

Why, because the ego is from the diabolical, it’s selfish, self-serving, and considers itself above all else!

If this continues your wife will start to feel as if she is an eating utensil (a fork a knife, and object) She will never be fulfilled sexually and as a wife!

Understand you are responsible for everything in your marriage as charged by God!

Sex is not about you; It’s about God; It’s about your beloved wife!

Again, you are charged by God to protect, defend and serve.

And when making love you are the server.

Remember Sacrifice!

Sacrifice Nine: Offer all of your pains, sufferings up to Christ for the intention of your wife!

[Quote] Love to be real, it must cost-it must hurt-it must empty us of self! [End Quote] St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta

This quote pretty much says it all.

Again, I refer to Ephesians 5 (25-27)

“(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.

(26) To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,

(27) That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish..”

God has given you the power and grace to affect the purity of you Beloved’s soul!

Your suffering has meaning!

You must embrace your masculinity, your headship of the home. Without that no of this works! Remember the natural order!

Sacrifice Ten: Christ teach me to serve her!

This one is huge because it demands courage from you. Courage to seek the truth; to look in the mirror at yourself; to seek criticism.

I know the truth hurts; but you must embrace it if your marriage is to become legendary; become great; journey closer to God!

Again, you must be willing to suffer for her; If you don’t who will?

But, this is unlike Christ. He volunteered to suffer.

Why?

Because it was His duty; His mission; His complete love (remember, not a feeling, but an act of His will) for us.

But more important; This is just what men do (courage)!

We must understand what our wife needs (not wants) then do our best to give it to her!

Part of our job as men is to serve! So we don’t become complacent, lazy and forget our mission!

We must move to squash problems immediately (don’t procrastinate)

Ask these questions of yourself or your wife often if not daily to keep yourself on your toes:

How do I sacrifice for her?

Am I lofting anything above our relationship?

Am I seeing to her needs?

Am I putting her needs above everyone else’s including my own?

Am I making her feel she is the most important person in my life.

Why am I her servant, how and why do I serve her?

Bringing It All Together...

To answer the question, how to save a failing marriage?

Men must start doing things because of duty; not because of how it feels to us.

Suffering for the benefit of another, is courageous; heroic. Moreover, what men are called to do by God.

Of course, society (The Evil One) will steer you towards selfishness, and pleasure, above all other things.

Why does Satan do this? Because, if he can get you to remain effeminate, emasculated, weak and soft, it’s a lot easier to claim your soul. But more drastic, the souls of your wife and children!

Again, men must begin to train their intellects, and wills to endure as Christ did. Otherwise, we are just plain men; nothing special; nothing worthwhile; just another chicken in the coop.

Further, awaiting our next form of manipulation from our electronic device, or television program, or government directive.

Is this really how you want to live your life?

Going along to get along? Void of courage, because you are unwilling to make others uncomfortable, or sacrifice for the truth of God?

Again, in this article I ask; if you aren’t willing to suffer; sacrifice; or give your life away for your Beloved; who on this earth will?

Who will take responsibility, and care for her soul, in this abyss of chaos?

To repeat, as with Adam, God has charged you as the keeper of this realm.

The question is, how will you respond?

With courage or cowardice?

BAM!
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If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

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Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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