When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her. The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her.
The history of civilization could actually be written in terms of the level of its women.”
Bad Wife?
Could The Problem Be You?
A span of 30 years. An adventure to over five countries. An encounter of thousands of people, and hundreds of marriages.
Furthermore, in all those years, in all those places, and the meeting of all those people. Never did I stumble upon, one man that approached with this statement. As their marriage faded into oblivion:
“Jerry, my marriage is in a terrible way. And I realize my wife has some problems. But if I were to be honest. I would have to admit. I haven’t, for the most part, been the man I needed to be in our marriage. In fact, the man my Beloved needed me to be.”
This Is The Man Our Society Needs!
Now this is what I’m talking about! A look in the mirror. A smack in the face. A series kick butt, man up, strong, masculine, take responsibility, leader of men; response I’m looking for.
Not some soft, weak, wuss response blaming our woman! It’s all her fault. She did this. She did that. She’s like this. She’s like that. She doesn’t do this for me. She doesn’t do that for me.
Look man, our wives are just being who they are (women). They’re emotional, they’re sensitive, they’re loving, they’re compassionate.
View it this way:
The Father already told you:
“Woman He made them.”
Should you expect anything else? I mean, come on man. Be real!
Sure, women may be all the things I’ve stated. But I’ll tell you this; straight out.
In all those years.
In all those places.
In all those people.
I’ve never met a good wife or a bad wife, who disrespected; bad mouthed; deceived; wanted to abort a child; slept around or abandoned:
A strong, masculine, Christian man on the journey, and accepted becoming the man that God was calling him to be!
And that’s the truth. Sure, extreme exceptions exist. And I’m sure you can state one. In fact, these occasions are rare.
Revelation:
Women, wives, mothers, do not leave, abandon, divorce Men (husbands, fathers) when they feel; loved, cherished, fulfilled and first in all things.
Sorry, it just doesn’t happen. It’s natural law, in her instincts; just not in her DNA!
Brother, can you feel me?
The First, Middle, Last And Only Question
I WANT YOU TO BE THAT MAN!
It's why I created Catholic Alpha and Marriage Unchained.
I understand from the deepest depths of my soul; we must change the men of our society, in order to change the world at large.
I want you to become part of this movement. One of you at a time. One great marriage, one great family, one great man. Turning a bad wife into a great wife.
As I’ve stated before. Our women will be who and what they are. The facts are plain, simple, exact.
This assessment isn’t good or bad. It’s just the way it is.
However, there’s one thing I must tell you. And you may not believe me. Indeed, the truth is the only direction I can approach from.
Contrary to popular belief; and even if you have a bad wife:
YOUR WIFE WANTS TO FOLLOW YOU.
YOUR WIFE WANTS TO BE IN YOUR CORNER.
YOUR YOUR WIFE WANTS YOU TO DEFEND, PROTECT AND SERVE HER.
YOUR WIFE WANTS YOU TO LEAD YOUR FAMILY IN GOOD, HOLINESS AND TOWARDS SAINTHOOD.
Brother, she has to. She is your Beloved. But you must earn this. You must pursue this objective with complete fierceness, passion, fire and reckless abandonment.
You must, in fact; be worthy.
Hey, even a bad wife can get behind a man such as this!
Women aren’t stupid. They possess instincts, insights and powers we can’t and never will in truth understand.
Moreover, are you worthy of your beloved?
Right now, at this point in your life? Have you been that man?
Can you honestly step up and proclaim to the world:
“Yes Father, I have been that man!”
Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?
Not Sure Where To Begin?
Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?
Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?
- Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
- Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
- Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?
Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."
If You Can’t Guess What? It’s OK
Why? Because my friend, life is a journey. In truth, An ever growing trek towards the Father. Where you will learn, grow and advance.
Meanwhile, becoming worthy of your Beloved.
This path is all she asks.
The Question: The Answer
So, the question, what is it? What could it possibly be? What in fact, is this awe inspiring, mind blowing revelation?
The answer?
What can I do, to change me, fix me, kill my old self above all else; become worthy?
See, no other way exists. By changing you; you change her.
Again, she is part of you, made for you; made from you.
You can only fix her, mold her, purify her, by igniting your will in suffering and sacrifice of her. In essence, fixing yourself.
Then, and only then, will you become worthy of her, and the things the Father has given you.
Tired of hearing sacrifice, suffering and unselfishness? I know, so was I.
Nevertheless, it’s part of the job; part of our mission as Christian men (the price of greatness).
This holds true no matter your current predicament of a good wife, or a bad wife.
Denying this part of us, is denying what Christ asks of us (to accept our role as protector, defender and server).
For this to work, you must rinse and repeat for a lifetime. Why?
Hey brother, haven’t you heard?
This crazy and messed up world isn’t it (isn’t the end).
The Father awaits!
Yeah, you got it; exactly.
Summary
Again, are you worthy of your Beloved? Do you fight to gain virtue, and become the best moral example of yourself daily? In essence, fighting the spiritual battle within yourself. Never relenting?
Look, this is why you are Christian! Lean on the Father. Ask him to send the Holy Spirit to guide you, and help you fight. Pray, fast and prepare for battle!
See this is how you change a bad wife. She and your family, follow your lead. If you fall, they fall. If you rise, they rise. You must protect them from yourself. By being the best moral example of a man, you're able to muster.
No excuses, no whining; just freakin' do it!
In This Article: How We've Rocked It!
- You learned the beginnings of how to start to turn your marriage around.
- You've started to consider the worthiness of you as a husband.
- Also, if you have a bad wife; maybe you could be the problem.
- Lastly, get in the fight, and begin fighting the spiritual battle today!
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium:
Have you started taking your Beloved for granted?
When is the last time you really tried to win her heart?
Do you really expect your wife to be into you, if you refuse to be into her (totally and completely?)
What's Coming Next?
In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:
- Pride and egoism in marriage, and how it can cost you your Beloved.
- Seven examples of men who have let pride murder their marriage. And how not to let his happen to you!
- Also, an old secret you can use to help you keep your marriage on track.
