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Reasons Why My Catholic Wife Won’t Sleep With Me! CARP074

April 3, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Why Won't My Wife Sleep With Me?

In this 74th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: What do I do if my Catholic wife won't sleep with me?

A study was done by Masters & Johnson that determined that…90 percent of women never experience complete and fulfilling orgasms

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this 74th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • Why my wife won't make love to me?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 73- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to the Catholic Alpha Radical Live! (Save My Catholic Marriage Minute) Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

  • Your marriage has very little or no emotional closeness
  • Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.
  • Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.
  • Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.
  • Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.
  • You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)
  • You are divorced but didn’t want it.
  1. IN THIS 74th EPISODE (Reasons why my Catholic wife won’t sleep with me)
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Quote Of The Day

[QUOTE]” The second cause of love is knowledge. A woman cannot love a man unless she has had at least some knowledge of him.

"Introduce me to him" is a demand for knowledge preceding love.

Even the dream girl of the bachelor has to be constructed out of

fragments of knowledge. The unknown is the unloved. The love of

the animal begins with the knowledge that comes through its

senses, but the knowledge of man comes from his senses and his

intellect. As love comes from knowledge, so hatred comes from

want of knowledge. Bigotry is the fruit of ignorance.” [END QUOTE]

 

~Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~Book: Three To Get Married

 

 

Save My Catholic Marriage Minute

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  2. Why won’t my wife make love to me?
  3. Why is sex the second most important thing in marriage?
  4. Why doesn’t my wife enjoy making love with me?
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  • What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment
  • Do you have a troubled wife?
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TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

SMCM Minute Content: My Wife Won’t Sleep With Me!

My Story…

  • About 15 years ago my wife began now wanting to make love anymore.
  • Her libido became very low and she was uninterested in making love.
  • We would have sex but it was infrequent and I initiated it 99 percent of the time; unlike when we were dating or first married.
  • At first we thought it was something to do with her (hormones, pre-menopause etc)
  • We couldn’t figure it out together so I started researching on my own.
  • And here is what I found…

 

 

The Second Most Important Thing In Marriage

  • Over the years many couples take the act of making love for granted.
  • As they get older they get used to infrequent intimacy and begin to lose one of the very things that builds closeness in their relationship.
  • Which is the most important factor for women in marriage.
  • And what do man men do…
  • We begin to ignore it thinking it will be ok and come back.
  • But of course most times the fire never comes back and so we find substitutes for the closeness with our wives…
  • Like hobbies, other women, television, work, friends etc.
  • Once this happens our marriages become boring, lackluster, and passionless.

 

Does Your Wife Display The Following?

  • Feelings of unhappiness
  • Feelings of emptiness
  • Feelings of depression
  • Feelings of boredom with making love
  • Feelings she is unsatisfied
  • Feelings she is unfulfilled as a woman
  • Has shut down emotionally
  • Has stopped speaking and having conversations with you
  • Throws her anger and frustration at you frequently
  • Neglects, or treats the kids bad.
  • Most times these symptoms are caused by a lack of fulfilling intimacy.
  • For this reason sex for women is substantially more important and will cause them to feel unloved thereby beginning the Women’s Exit Strategy!

 

Little Known Facts About The Marital Embrace

  • A study was done by Masters & Johnson that determined that…
  • 90 percent of women never experience complete and fulfilling orgasms
  • 75 percent of men are premature ejaculators
  • Which means that before his wife is completely and totally sexually fulfilled by having all the orgasms she needs, he loses his cool (ejaculates) which ends the sex session.
  • Why because for a man ejaculation is like an atomic bomb and depletes all of his energy.
  • On the other hand, for women, one orgasm expends only 1/50th of the energy a man does.
  • Which explains why women need (not want) many more orgasms then their husbands.
  • It takes women 20 minutes to warm up to making love (actual penetration)
  • Many men Lose Their Cool in 5-15 minutes.
  • This causes a disparity in the marital act.
  • As one partner is satisfied and the other has been denied fulfillment.
  • How does the Church look at this?
  • Pope John Paul II reveals that every husband is required to give his wife at least one orgasm during lovemaking to prevent her from feeling used as an utensil or object.

 

You Must Prolong Lovemaking…

  • Many men think they are studs or at least adequate in the bedroom.
  • But as seen above at least 75 percent of men are not.
  • And who is the judge? Your wife is the judge…
  • If a wife is displaying any of the symptoms I mentioned above (depression, unhappiness, unloved etc) she is unfulfilled sexually and as a woman. And will eventually begin the Women’s Exit Strategy!
  • You must at all cost realize that the marital embrace is much more than an orgasm and pleasure for you the husband.
  • But for your wife it is her very essence of feeling that she is loved by you.
  • All of the items mentioned above are your wife’s inhibitions (her deep pain) which must be removed or your marriage will eventually suffer!
  • How long does this take?
  • To remove all inhibitions from your wife takes a prolongation of the sex act of at least 3 times a week, for a minimum of 1-4 hours for a period of 1-3 years!
  • This depends on the amount of pain your wife has experienced in her life. Sexual abuse, premarital sex partners etc. will take longer. Then a normal life of no pain. But no matter every woman needs a minimum of a year!
  • Once this purge of inhibitions takes place, your wife will return to a more normal need for lovemaking of twice per week or so.
  • But you will have to remember to continuously make sure she is completely satisfied or she will revert back.

 

The Benefits For Your Wife…

  • Total emotional, psychological and sexual fulfillment for your wife.
  • A euphoric sense of being loved and cherished by you her husband.
  • Complete and total feelings of vulnerability.
  • A dramatic increase in libido
  • An unquenchable hunger for her husband.
  • An increased sentiment of love that she needs to spread throughout your family.
  • An almost unbreakable bond with her husband

A complete and deep understanding of how to make sacred love to her husband.

 

 

The Benefits For The Husband…

  • Your wife will once again desire you.
  • Your wife will no longer be bored with the marital act.
  • Your wife will approach you to make sacred love.
  • You will have sacred intimacy multiple times per week.
  • You will have a substantial increase in sex drive.
  • Your stamina will increase.
  • The bond with your wife will increase.
  • You will experience extreme vulnerability (essential for a lifelong fulfilling marriage).
  • You will experience a greater sense of moral character.
  • Your insecurities of how to make love; disappear!
  • This list is a small example of the benefits.

 

One Final Word…

  • This way of looking at intimacy will be hard for you to accept at first.
  • But again you must realize that this program takes you step by step through this process of all three categories (prayer warfare, the art of manliness, and making love mastery).
  • Because you are unfamiliar in most cases of how these things work you must push past the pain and uncertainty, which will get you to where you must be.
  • Again, everything in this program feeds off of every other thing.
  • Try to buy in and do the work and use the tool at the appropriate time and you will see wonders you never imagined!

…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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My Catholic Wife Wants To Leave Me; What Do I Do? CARP073

March 31, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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My Catholic Wife Wants To Leave Me; What Do I Do?

Learn The 7 Phases Of A Wife's Exit Strategy!

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How Do I Stop My Catholic Wife From Leaving Me

Learn The 7 Phases Of A Wife's Exit Strategy!

In this 73rd episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: What do I do if my Catholic wife wants to leave me?

When a wife starts trying to control you, this is the first clue that you have marriage problems!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this 73rd episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • What to do when your Catholic wife wants to leave you!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My wife is made she makes more money than me; What do I do?

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

Episode 73- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

Quote Of The Day

[QUOTE]”If it be asked why the drunkard loves alcohol,

why the libertine loves perversion,

or why the criminal loves stealing,

it is because each of them sees some good in what he does.

What each seeks is not the highest moral good,

for endowed with free will,

each can always choose a partial rather than a total good,

thus making a god of his appetites.

Evil in order to be attractive must at least wear the guise of goodness.

Hell has to be gilded with gold of paradise,

or men would never want its evil.

If evil were always called by its right name,

it would lose much of its appeal.” [END QUOTE]

 

~Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~Book: Three To Get Married

 

 

She Has Been Planning For Years To Leave Your Marriage…

  • You just refused to see the clues
  • And now it’s biting in your butt, because she has asked for a divorce, or left the home.
  • What do you do?
  • What is your next move?
  • What you do is get in the game, open your eyes, and learn how your woman thinks.
  • And the first phase of that is, you must learn what she is going to do, then make a logical plan to stop it or delay it, to get your marriage back!
  • You must learn what I call the Wife’s Exit Strategy.
  • The Wives Exit Strategy is what your wife does when she still loves, and cares about you, but is no sure what she is going to do with you…
  • Divorce you or keep you.
  • During the time, you must improve yourself, remain consistent with those changes, and be patient over a long period of time, so she again trust’s you.
  • And you must stop the needy behaviors that repel her from you such as…
  • being desperate, pleading, begging, becoming angry etc.
  • These only push her away.
  • The Wives Exit Strategy tells you what she is going to do and in what order (in fact it shows you your future).
  • Lastly, it’s very important that you keep your wife in the phase she is currently in…
  • Because if she moves further into the Wives Exit Strategy the more cold hearted, and entrenched in her current course of action she will be…
  • Which spells, hell on earth for you!

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 1 – The Need To Control You

  • After the fall women have a overwhelming need to control their husband
  • When a wife starts trying to control you, this is the first clue that you have marriage problems
  • She feels no attention from you
  • She doesn’t feel appreciated by you
  • She is starting to feel you don’t love her

 

 

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 2 – She Leaves You Temporarily

  • To get your attention and to encourage you to get it together, she does the only thing she feels will make you listen…she leaves
  • She usually will take the kids in this phase.
  • She may go to her moms house, a hotel, a friends house, or family member
  • My first wife left like 3 times to her moms house, before she left permanently.

 

 

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 3 – Another Man

  • If you don’t get yourself together in extreme cases, she will put herself on the market.
  • When she gets really desperate, she begins to allow other men to gain her fancy (at work, at the store, her friends, old boy friends etc.)
  • This is extremely dangerous in many ways…
  • If she brings him to your home
  • If you try and get her back…he may see this as a threat
  • He may confront you
  • He may threaten you
  • It is very difficult to persuade her to return to you, unless her relationship with him begins to turn sour.
  • This is what happens almost all of the time, if the husband is patient, and begins improving himself, she will many times change her mind, and realize her current relationship is going no where, and that she needs her family and will return.
  • If she leaves the other man, usually he will be ok with it, and allow things to break up amicably.
  • This is why your prayer of defense against the diabolical is extremely important, as the Holy Spirit helps you protect your marriage when you are unable to be present.

 

 

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 4 – She Asks For A Divorce

  • This can happen when she leaves the home permanently, but usually it happens while she is in the house.
  • Sometimes this threat is just a ploy to get you to man up and take her seriously, and to see what you will do or how you will react.
  • But many times she is really serious, and is willing to threaten with divorce, to see if you will get yourself together, and begin being the husband she needs again.
  • In my experience, many husbands still don’t take her serious, and decide this is just a bluff, or that she is overreacting, or being emotional.
  • So, they allow pride to get in the way and do nothing. Which is a terrible ROOKIE MISTAKE!

 

 

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 5 – She Separates Permanently

  • If things don’t change, she will then leave permanently, move to another room in the house permanently, or ask you to leave temporarily.
  • She is now desperate! In her mind, she’s done all that she can do to save her marriage.
  • She has most likely had a plan for separation from you for months or in many cases years.
  • If she leaves, more than likely, she will try and take the children with her
  • She has plans where to go, what to do with the kids, her money situation, and has talked to many people for advice and their experience in divorce matters.
  • And has probably went to see a lawyer. All under the guise of making you think everything is still normal and ok.
  • Long term separation, along with her having another man, is very grave, and a serious burden on your soul, her soul, and the souls of your children.
  • In order to get your wife back in this situation, you must be in for the long game, and willing to die to yourself, and remove all pride and ego, and begin a journey of self discovery, and include a walk towards God!

 

 

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 6 – She Files For Divorce

  • If she doesn’t see a substantial change in you as a husband, father, or man, she will play her final two cards.
  • Card one is she will file for divorce, and in all states, she will get it, it’s only a matter of time.
  • She will hire a lawyer, use her and yours, and other friends or family resources to get the best attorney she can afford.
  • You must remember, she’s been planning this for a long time, while you were in the Twilight Zone thinking this all will blow over!
  • In order for her to file, she must willingly turn her heart cold towards you.
  • Why? Because she still cares for you, and if she allows you to speak to her, she knows that most likely she will change her mind and not file.
  • But she is scared of the continued pain, so this is why she remains as mean, cold, and heartless as she can.
  • You can turn this around, but you must be nonemotional and task driven, at all times!

 

 

Her Exit Strategy: Phase 7 – The Annulment

  • This is her final card to play, and your last chance to man up and get things together!
  • If you don’t, she will file for an annulment and within a year or so, she will get it.
  • Then your marriage is not only over in the eyes of the state (because of her divorce from you)
  • But now your marriage is over in the eyes of God
  • Which means in all practical purposes, you and your wife are finished as a couple!

 

Your Options As A Husband…Best Case & Worst Case Scenario

  • Best case scenario: If you change in time. If you show your wife that you can change and make her feel like a real woman again, who is loved, cherished, and adored above all and everything in your life, SHE WILL RETURN!
  • Or if you fail in this task, you invite the worst case scenario…which is…
  • After she gets the annulment…you can still dedicate your life to getting her back.
  • Or you can decide to move on with your life and seek another partner to spend the rest of your life with.
  • Which means your family is toast for the most part.
  • The good thing about all of this, is that you have this program, and it prepares you for both scenarios!
  • And you must know when to up the strategies as she ups hers.
  • Also, for months you’ve been operating from behind, at all cost, you must get even with her strategies, and better yet surpass her and begin out thinking her!

 

 

Your Keys To Success

  • You must at all cost stop the avalanche as soon as possible at the current phase you are in.
  • You can’t allow yourself to enter into the next phase, as each phase worsens her cold heart and you must fight harder to regain it.
  • This is where your willingness to sacrifice and suffer as Christ did is of utmost importance.
  • You must do whatever it takes, more prayer, more spiritual battle, more humility etc.
  • You must not listen to what she says, because all she says is on emotion, and in many cases this is just to throw you off, because deep down she doesn’t know what she is going to do.
  • If you continuously listen to her, you will be drawn in to her abyss.
  • This will confuse you, make you lose heart, and entice you to get angry and in the end give up!
  • Above all else, finish the course, learn how to keep her if she comes back.
  • If you quit the course, then she comes back, how are you going to get her to want to stay and never leave gain?
  • This is a grave question you must ask yourself!
  • You all must realize, the only losers are the ones who quit!
  • If you stay in the battle, using all of the tools at your disposal, you will get results and have a high chance of success.
  • But if you rollover, and die, you will have no chance of success!

…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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What’s The Real Reason Catholic Husbands Cheat? CARP072

March 30, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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What's The Real Reason Catholic Husbands Cheat?

Learn How To Love The One You're With

In this 72nd episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: What's the real reason Catholic husbands cheat?

As a man, you will never be happy, fulfilled, satisfied, or complete until you are willing to give your life for something greater than yourself!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this 72nd episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • The real reasons Catholic husbands cheat and how to love the one you're with and be happy with it!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

 

Can you afford to miss this?

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 72- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

Why are you unhappy?

Why are you frequently depressed?

Why can you never seem to feel completely fulfilled; or satisfied?

Why is there never complete peace?

Why do always seem to be pulled somewhere?

Why do we do stupid stuff then look back days, months, or years from now and ask…why in the heck did I do that?

Why do I feel inadequate or incomplete as a man?

Because deep inside your life has no purpose, no reason for being, no mission!!!

We’ll go into this more after the break.

 

What are you willing to die for?

As a man, you will never be happy, fulfilled, satisfied, or complete until you are willing to give your life for something greater than yourself!

This is a proven fact!

Your Mission As A Man As Given To Adam

In the Garden Of Eden, Adam was given responsibility

He was tasked with naming the animals etc.

Your wife has faults, you have faults, but you are held responsible for everything.

The marriage, the money, the house, the kids etc.

Your wife’s job is to help you do your job as your guide, helpmate, and battle partner against the demonic.

Your job is expansive because your wife has more responsibility for dealing with the children (raising, educating, nurturing etc.)

 

 

Mission One: To Protect

Your first mission is to protect your wife from you.

The next part of protection is to protect your family from outside physical threats

 

 

Mission Two: To Defend

Part two of your mission is to defend against the Fallen Angels, the demonic, Satan.

Men must understand that by our refusal to build a strong relationship with God, we fail to defend our family properly and allow the doorways to the demonic to open in our homes and marriage.

Satan and his evil minions have walked right past you upstairs to your wife and children.

You must understand it’s easier to keep them out then to get them out once they are in.

 

 

Mission Three: To Serve

You are the leader. You are given special powers by God to lead, protect and defend your home.

If you don’t defend it no one else will.

Leadership means to serve.

You must serve God, your wife and marriage, and your children before you even think of your wants desires and needs.

If you fail in serving these three entities first your home will suffer.

Once your wife sees that you have changed in this way, she will begin to allow you to lead your family (this is critical for you to understand)!

Her and your children will see that you are not making decisions for yourself, but for the benefit of them!

Again, what are you willing to die for?

As a man how do you give your life away for something greater than yourself?

Your wife are you willing to die for her.

To give your time daily in suffering and sacrifice in daily prayer?

Finally Christian Soldier…

Will you embrace the mission…Our Lord has placed before you?

Will you dawn your armor, lift your shield, and sheath your sword in battle against the Evil One?

Or will deny God, your Beloved, and your children and remain as you are?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #33 – My Catholic Wife Doesn’t Respect Me! CARP071

March 29, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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My Catholic Wife Does Not Respect Me!

In this 71st episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

You may say, Jerry no wife can, or does have that kind of passion for her husband. And I say, a husband only says that when he doesn’t have it.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 71st episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #33...
  • Why doesn't my wife respect me anymore?...
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - I cheated on my wife and she will not let it go. What should I do?

 

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  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 71- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

Before I tell you the #33 clue let’s review the previous 32…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

29) She no looks at you or makes loving eye contact

30) She increasingly needs more time alone

31) You can’t listen to her without interrupting

32) She seems indifferent to you, she is emotionally disconnected

So, what is clue #33 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – You have lost respect: You no longer get the big piece of chicken!

Yes, the big piece of chicken.

This is Chis Rock’s metaphor for respect in the home for husbands and fathers.

Moreover an ever greater case for the big piece of chicken and respect is in Ephesians 5 versus 21-33 where St. Paul remarks that wives are to respect their husbands.

He doesn’t, Christ doesn’t, God doesn’t say one thing about love your husband.

But see many women today disregard this verse…

just as they disregard the submission of Christ and husband.

But then demand, everyone else including their children… respect them.

Really makes you wonder doesn’t it.

Again, ladies the only true proof of your love for Christ is your obedience to Christ and His Father!

Get it! Got It! Good!

You see gentlemen, when wives feel you care deeply for them and that she is the #1 top priority in your life…

You get as much love, respect, care, devotion, selflessness, intimacy, service and sacrifice from your wife that you can stand.

Why?

Because my man loves me more than anything else in this world.

This along with an emotional connection makes a wife thrive in her marriage and home life.

For this reason, we husbands must never, ever allow these two things (emotional closeness, and her feeling that you are completely devoted to her) to ever diminish!

The big piece of chicken at the dinner table is the ultimate act of respect for you as the leader, protector, defender, and server of your home.

Your wife holds you in high esteem above everyone (even the children).

Why?

Because my brother, you are extremely valuable.

Remember in the movie Jerry McGuire…

When Cuba Gooding Jr (an NFL wide receiver) got hurt in the game.

And everyone was worried and devasted that he may not get up.

And his brother tried to console the wife.

But she screamed at him to get away from her because he didn’t understand.

That their family did not work without her husband.

As his wife, she understood how valuable his love, respect, honor, care, and service was to their marriage and family.

Gentlemen again, if your wife is not your number one fan…

You have a serious problem.

If your wife is not shouting from the mountain top how great of a husband, father, lover, provider, protector, defender, and server you are.

Then you have a problem.

This my friend is an awesome gift.

Sure, you might think this is overkill.

But I beg to differ, it is not.

You may say, aww Jerry that is unrealistic.

I must say you are wrong.

You may say, Jerry no wife can, or does have that kind of passion for her husband.

And I say, a husband only says that when he doesn’t have it.

Look, if a wife is not leading their children, friends, family, church members, to her husband…

then again, that husband has a problem.

And he is seen as a take it or leave it kind of guy.

A man that no different than any other man out in society.

If this is the case for a husband, this means, that he is not leading his family to God.

Which means his marriage and family, do not have the grace for greatness.

So again, I must ask…

Are you valuable to your Beloved.

Are you valuable to your children?

Are you valuable to God…in that…your family and environment are influenced by you…for Him?

Again, DO-YOU-GET-THE-BIG-PIECE-OF-CHICKEN?

…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #32 – My Catholic Wife Avoids Me! CARP070

March 28, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Why Is My Wife Emotionally Attached?

In this 70th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Many men just don’t have the stomach and warrior spirit…for saving their very lives these days. We are weak, effeminate and emasculated. We are in a society that no longer values, honor, virtue, and courage.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 70th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #32...
  • Why is my wife emotionally disconnected and avoiding me?...
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My wife marriage counseling because we can't stop arguing.
  • Caller #2 - How can I convince the judge to give us marriage counseling as a stipulation for divorce?

 

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  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 69- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #30…that your wife may want a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

 

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Before I tell you the #31 clue let’s review the previous 30…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

29) She no looks at you or makes loving eye contact

30) She increasingly needs more time alone

So, what is clue #31 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – You just can’t listen to her without interrupting.

The good ole Wife’s Exit Strategy

We just can’t seem to get away from it can we.

If this is not the most devastating clue to your marriage…

It is very close.

The nagging, the belittling, the defending yourself, and yes, the not listening…

because what you have to say is 10 times more important than anything the most important person in your life has to say.

As I’ve said many times in this clueless marriage series.

The first sign that you have serious marriage problems is nagging.

And this just happens to be the first phase of the Wife’s Exit Strategy.

Why?

Because at this stage, your wife still loves you deeply but feels you don’t love or cherish her.

Which to her means she is not #1 in your life.

So, she nags, to get affirmation of your love for her.

But of course, us being men, we just don’t listen.

And eventually your wife will digress into avoidance.

Which means in her mind…

you don’t care what she thinks.

You don’t care that she has your best interest at heart and only wants to nurture, respect, and love you.

And she gets very tired of trying to reach you.

So, she shuts down.

She stops talking to you.

She stops wanting to make love.

She stops wanting to do things with you.

She is on her way out…

and has decided that instead of an argument…

I will just remain quiet and dormant.

I won’t ever mention any more problems.

Because if I do, he will fight with me and I’m too emotionally exhausted to fight anymore!

Avoidance is just as bad or worse than arguing, fighting, debating, or bickering.

But for her it helps her fight the pain.

And she starts to bury her feelings for you as well.

This protects her emotionally and psychologically.

Which is why if this goes on for years…

It makes it extremely hard to cause those feelings to again rise in her.

You see, before avoidance happens, most husbands don’t hear her pleas for assurance, closeness, oneness with her beloved.

All we men hear is noise!

Which of course is a rookie mistake.

Gentlemen, husbands, Christian Soldiers hear me…

When your wife’s mouth is moving…

YOURS IS CLOSED!

This will serve you well!

You close it and not only listen…

But listen attentively, unless you have a clarifying question.

You never defend yourself, you never look away, you never defend,, interrupt, attack back, point out her flaws, you never call her names, you never raise your voice.

You do sit there empathetically and listen with your body language, your eyes looking directly and affectionately into hers.

And when she is done, you take responsibility for anything that you did do wrong.

And look her square in the eye and ask her sincerely…

Sweetheart, what can I do to make this better!

And then you get off your butt and take action on whatever she says that can make it better.

And most of all, you don’t bitch or whine about it.

You do it with great enthusiasm!

That is it.

Get it? Got it? Good!!!

This alone, will change your marriage in two weeks!

You see in scripture, your wife is not called to love you…

She is called to respect you.

In scripture, you are called to love your wife as Christ loved the Church.

Which means what my friend?

He died for her!

Can you do no less?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #31 – You Can’t Listen To Her Without Interrupting CARP069

March 27, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Why Won't Value Her opinion!

In this 69th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Gentlemen, husbands, Christian Soldiers hear me…When your wife’s mouth is moving…YOURS IS CLOSED! This will serve you well!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 69th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #31...
  • Why you can't just listen to her without interrupting and how to fix it!...
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 69- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #30…that your wife may want a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

 

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

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Before I tell you the #31 clue let’s review the previous 30…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

29) She no looks at you or makes loving eye contact

30) She increasingly needs more time alone

So, what is clue #31 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – You just can’t listen to her without interrupting.

The good ole Wife’s Exit Strategy

We just can’t seem to get away from it can we.

If this is not the most devastating clue to your marriage…

It is very close.

The nagging, the belittling, the defending yourself, and yes, the not listening…

because what you have to say is 10 times more important than anything the most important person in your life has to say.

As I’ve said many times in this clueless marriage series.

The first sign that you have serious marriage problems is nagging.

And this just happens to be the first phase of the Wife’s Exit Strategy.

Why?

Because at this stage, your wife still loves you deeply but feels you don’t love or cherish her.

Which to her means she is not #1 in your life.

So, she nags, to get affirmation of your love for her.

But of course, us being men, we just don’t listen.

And eventually your wife will digress into avoidance.

Which means in her mind…

you don’t care what she thinks.

You don’t care that she has your best interest at heart and only wants to nurture, respect, and love you.

And she gets very tired of trying to reach you.

So, she shuts down.

She stops talking to you.

She stops wanting to make love.

She stops wanting to do things with you.

She is on her way out…

and has decided that instead of an argument…

I will just remain quiet and dormant.

I won’t ever mention any more problems.

Because if I do, he will fight with me and I’m too emotionally exhausted to fight anymore!

Avoidance is just as bad or worse than arguing, fighting, debating, or bickering.

But for her it helps her fight the pain.

And she starts to bury her feelings for you as well.

This protects her emotionally and psychologically.

Which is why if this goes on for years…

It makes it extremely hard to cause those feelings to again rise in her.

You see, before avoidance happens, most husbands don’t hear her pleas for assurance, closeness, oneness with her beloved.

All we men hear is noise!

Which of course is a rookie mistake.

Gentlemen, husbands, Christian Soldiers hear me…

When your wife’s mouth is moving…

YOURS IS CLOSED!

This will serve you well!

You close it and not only listen…

But listen attentively, unless you have a clarifying question.

You never defend yourself, you never look away, you never defend,, interrupt, attack back, point out her flaws, you never call her names, you never raise your voice.

You do sit there empathetically and listen with your body language, your eyes looking directly and affectionately into hers.

And when she is done, you take responsibility for anything that you did do wrong.

And look her square in the eye and ask her sincerely…

Sweetheart, what can I do to make this better!

And then you get off your butt and take action on whatever she says that can make it better.

And most of all, you don’t bitch or whine about it.

You do it with great enthusiasm!

That is it.

Get it? Got it? Good!!!

This alone, will change your marriage in two weeks!

You see in scripture, your wife is not called to love you…

She is called to respect you.

In scripture, you are called to love your wife as Christ loved the Church.

Which means what my friend?

He died for her!

Can you do no less?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #30 – She Is Asking For Space CARP068

March 24, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Does She Increasingly Need More Time Alone?

In this 68th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

The husband was not man enough to keep his woman thrilled and fulfilled. He broke the cardinal rule. He neglected her and took her for granted.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 68th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #30...
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Episode 68- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #30…that your wife may want a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

Before I tell you the #29 clue let’s review the previous 28…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

 

Before I tell you the #30 clue let’s review the previous 29…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

29) She no longer looks at you or makes loving eye contact

So, what is clue #30 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She increasingly needs more time alone!

I’m going out of town for my job.

I’m going on a girl’s trip.

I’m going on a girl’s night out.

I’m going out for drinks after work with my co-workers.

I need some time alone in my room.

I just need space right now.

All code for…

I’m about out of this marriage if things don’t change for the better…

And I mean real quick!

It’s all hitting the fan.

And the fan is spreading it through your marriage and home.

Right about now a husband is really starting to feel the urgency to get it together.

Unless he is completely clueless or egotistic.

Meaning he is still on the…

she is the problem.

She doesn’t give me sex.

She doesn’t clean the house.

The kids are still unruly.

She isn’t making any money at that worthless job she has.

She knows I am busy and don’t have time for her emotional craziness.

Well, let me tell you…

You are about right.

Because at this point, she is looking for fulfilment elsewhere.

And in my experience she will find it.

It’s only a matter of time.

First it starts with the work trips.

Then the trips with the girls.

And eventually trips and weekends with her new hubby.

All while her selfish, egotistic, effeminate, clueless husband…

Continues to blame and criticize her for all of her faults.

Not knowing that she is about done with him anyway.

Especially since her new hubby, gives her more…

Attention, love, conversation, dates, money, exciting sex, and most of all he listens to her and values her opinion!

Can you say, time is short.

You see, most women when they begin these antics are just trying to fill the void they aren’t getting from their husband.

I know, it sounds crazy but it’s the truth!

You see, it takes much courage for a woman to leave her husband or have a physical or emotional affair on him.

But what makes leaving, or asking for a separation or divorce much easier…

Is, she as another hunk of a man in the wings, waiting on her to get out of dodge, and get with him.

Then the problems for her husband compound.

Meaning, when the husband tries to get her back or confront him.

The homewrecker believes that the husband in intruding on his fun.

That she belongs to him now.

Hell, you weren’t man enough to keep her happy, fulfilled, and satisfied.

So, I’m going to help you out!!!

And you know…

Basically, he is correct.

The husband was not man enough to keep his woman thrilled and fulfilled.

He broke the cardinal rule.

He neglected her and took her for granted.

Opening the door to the demonic to stride right in.

You see, the I need space line, is really meant for us husbands.

She isn’t saying, you know I need time to work on myself.

She is thinking, I need space so he can work on himself.

Because, I tried the whole… save the marriage thing for 20 years now.

Gentlemen, this clue is really far down the road.

And if you see this in your marriage, time is about out.

Because not only is she spending more time away from you.

She has another man.

And even more detrimental…

The emotional closeness is just about out of there.

And when that is gone, so is your Beloved wife…

So, are your children,

And so is your marriage!

Now, you can still save it.

But now the job has become a lot tougher.

Not as tough as if she leaves and you are separated.

But dam close.

You must begin the process of drawing her back to you and away from him.

But in order to do that…

You must stop the blaming, criticizing, arguing, and confronting.

But most of all, you must go to the restroom.

Close the door.

And stick you mug in the mirror!…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #29 – She Never Makes Loving Eye Contact CARP067

March 23, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Why She No Longer Looks At You Lovingly

In this 67th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

I can’t say it enough…Gentlemen, if your marriage is boring and lackluster…It is because we as husbands are boring and lackluster.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 67th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #29...
  • Why your wife no longer looks at you or makes loving eye contact...
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - Divorce court mediation is more about money than fairness!

 

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Episode 67- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

IS THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE BETTER?

1) Her leaving?

2) All the paperwork?

3) The time spent at the lawyers office?

4) The endless hours preparing for court?

5) The custody battle over the kids?

6) Only getting to see the kids once every other weekend?

7) All the wasted money and resources?

8) Losing the house?

9) Losing the property?

10) Losing the cars?

11) Her treating you like a complete stranger?

12) Having to get a part-time job to make ends meet?

13) Having to now go to separate Churches

14) Not being around your friends, because those are her friends too?

15) The kids growing up with split up parents?

16) Hoping the kids will be ok, knowing deep down they won't?

17) The kids as adults having no examples of a good marriage?

18) So, they quit too just as their parents did!

WOULDN'T IT BE SO MUCH BETTER TO COME HOME TO...

peace, a happy and loving wife, who loves, respects, and is completely devoted to you?

Just an all-around beautiful marriage and family?

This is why you must listen to these clues even if you are already in marriage crisis!

Clues my wife may want a divorce clue #28

We’ll go into this more after the break.

Before I tell you the #29 clue let’s review the previous 28…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

So, what is clue #29 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She no longer looks at you, or makes loving eye contact!

Don’t take this for granted!

Wives and women love to flirt!

And one of the greatest flirting techniques of all time is the loving eye contact.

That no one in the room sees or understands but the two Beloveds who are united with God and themselves.

I remember one time on our anniversary that my wife and I went over to a friends house.

And we caressed each other the whole night.

And frankly it made the other guests uncomfortable.

Because of the love we showed each other.

The whole night my wife and I looked at each other very lovingly and romantically.

We couldn’t get enough of each other.

This comes from us trying to actually get into each other.

To be passionate and excited about the one who we say we adore and are devoted to.

This is the problem with most married couples today.

They have no passion or even try to display passion and excitement for each other.

And we wonder why the divorce rate is north of 50 percent!

I can’t say it enough…

Gentlemen, if your marriage is boring and lackluster…

It is because we as husbands are boring and lackluster.

Just as with Christ.

Knowledge of Christ is passion for Christ!

If your Beloved has stopped making eye contact with you…

Or worse yet (loving eye contact)…

This means the passion and excitement and emotional closeness is wavering.

And you must at all costs get back in the game.

And let that woman know that she is the one and only one that you cherish and desire.

Because if you don’t…

Some other homewrecker surely will.

There is a saying I have.

That if you don’t want your woman…

There is someone out there that surely does!

Communication without words is the hallmark of true lovers.

Has your Beloved stopped winking at you?

Has she stopped making you the apple of her eye?

Could she care less if you communicate non-verbally anymore?

Worst case scenario…

Has another man gained her loving eye contact?

Remember…

Love the one you’re with my brother…

Love the one you’re with!

It’s much cheaper and more exciting…

If you would only…

open your eyes and see the gift God has giving you!…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #28 – Her Parents Are More Important Than You! CARP066

March 22, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Why Does She Place Her Parents Above You?

In this 66th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

People just can’t keep their nose out of other peoples homes, and marriages.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 66th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #28...
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IS THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE BETTER?

1) Her leaving?

2) All the paperwork?

3) The time spent at the lawyers office?

4) The endless hours preparing for court?

5) The custody battle over the kids?

6) Only getting to see the kids once every other weekend?

7) All the wasted money and resources?

8) Losing the house?

9) Losing the property?

10) Losing the cars?

11) Her treating you like a complete stranger?

12) Having to get a part-time job to make ends meet?

13) Having to now go to separate Churches

14) Not being around your friends, because those are her friends too?

15) The kids growing up with split up parents?

16) Hoping the kids will be ok, knowing deep down they won't?

17) The kids as adults having no examples of a good marriage?

18) So, they quit too just as their parents did!

WOULDN'T IT BE SO MUCH BETTER TO COME HOME TO...

peace, a happy and loving wife, who loves, respects, and is completely devoted to you?

Just an all-around beautiful marriage and family?

This is why you must listen to these clues even if you are already in marriage crisis!

Clues my wife may want a divorce clue #28

We’ll go into this more after the break.

Before I tell you the #28 clue let’s review the previous 27…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

So, what is clue #28 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She places her parents above you!

This goes directly against Sacred Scripture

In Ephesians 5 verses 21-33

Paul gives us direct guidance when it comes to parents and our marriage.

Which basically means anyone in our lives as well as our parents.

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

See, this goes back to my true thoughts on what women think about divorce.

Not just women but men as well.

If you ask anyone before they are married…

or as soon as they are married…

about their belief in divorce.

Each and every one will say in choir…

No way do I believe in divorce.

Christ did not mean for anyone to be divorced.

But then, as soon as a wife is unhappy, and the emotional connection is gone…

To a tee…the narrative switches to…

Well, he hurt me, he doesn’t pay attention to me.

He is a drunk a drug addict.

Or whatever kind of rationalization they can come up with…

to exit stage left.

You see my take on the whole divorce thing is this.

No matter if a wife is an Orthodox Catholic, or Orthodox Christian…

No one believes in divorce…

Until they want one!

I get wives all of the time who abandon their responsibility as wives and mothers…

and go off for weeks, months, or even years to care for a parent, who is in another town or state.

This is especially popular in the older women’s population.

Say 40 – 70’s

They will just go off and leave their husband for months or at worse years to care for a parent.

And many times there is another sibling or aunt or uncle in the same town who can relieve some of the burden.

This makes me wonder what is really the motivation right?

Look, I am not saying don’t go and care for a sick parent.

What I am saying is…

we cannot do this at the sacrifice of our marriage.

Many times there are many other options to make sure a parent is taken care of in this situation.

It is sad to say…

But usually, this is the result of a very weak marriage.

When a wife goes off on trips with single or divorced women, or even married women…

Leaving her husband alone at home with the kids multiple times per year.

Another thing that is detrimental to a marriage is when parents butt in too much.

This happens with husbands and wives.

The husband can’t let his momma’s boy complex go.

And the wife still runs to her mother or father and spills everything that is wrong in the marriage…

But won’t do anything to try and really make it better.

The bottom line is…

There is nothing or no one more important than the marriage.

Even the parents or the children.

People make this vital mistake all of the time.

And when they find themselves in divorce court wonder what in the heck happened.

The opinion of parents is placed above God.

The opinion of parents is placed above the husband.

Just like the government today…

people just can’t keep their nose out of other peoples homes, and marriages.

Instead of telling a wife to go home and work on her marriage with their husband…

They will give her some dumb advice of…

Go on a trip with your girlfriends…

Which basically mean…

Go on a trip girl…

and be like Stella, and get your groove back with other new and exciting men!

I ask…

Is this the advice from Hell or what?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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In this 65th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

The longer she feels you don’t care…the resentment builds.
And her desire to vacate becomes very strong.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 65th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #27...
  • Why your wife doesn't care that you are spending too much time with your friends and less time with her..
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My wife hangs out with single and divorced women and I don't like it!

 

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Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

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  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 65- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

Clues my wife may want a divorce clue #27

We’ll go into this more after the break.

 

Before I tell you the #27 clue let’s review the previous 26…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

So, what is clue #27 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She doesn’t seem to care that you are spending too much time with your friends

This one really goes along with a couple of other clues.

Which basically means…

Your beloved is checking out, almost checked out, or is checked out.

The pain has gotten too bad.

She is tired of nagging him, and trying to get him to listen to her pleas…

that your marriage needs help and that she is not sure where the marriage is going.

I beg you, if to this point, you have not listened to her.

Now is the time to really bear down and force yourself to listen and be present.

When she doesn’t care about you being gone for days or hours upon hours of time.

And that you are spending more time with them than with her.

It means that she is really serious and not playing with you anymore.

Her indifference, her secrets, her nagging, her feeling you are not hearing her…

or that you no longer value her opinion is all starting to come to a head.

And right now, the emotional connection and resentment are present or close at hand.

Honestly, it’s not that she doesn’t love you…

It’s that she no longer loves the man that you are or have become over the years.

As I said on Friday, in her mind you have broken the promise of…

you would always make her priority one…

Moreover that she is the most important thing in your life.

And that you would forever cherish her.

And I must ask are you keeping your promise?

Or have you started to slip, or have you slipped for months, years, or worse decades.

This is when her pain and resent become the worse.

The longer she feels you don’t care…the resentment builds.

And her desire to vacate becomes very strong.

In her mind, you love and care about your friends more than her.

But only because she feels you’ve neglected her and your marriage…

and that she is not first and foremost in your heart, mind and soul!

If right now, this last few minutes describes your marriage…

You are nearly out of time.

AND YOU JUST DON’T KNOW IT!

 …BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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