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Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to the Catholic Alpha Radical Live! (Save My Catholic Marriage Minute) Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

• Your marriage has very little or no emotional closeness
• Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.
• Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.
• Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.
• Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.
• You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)
• You are divorced but didn’t want it.

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Quote Of The Day

[QUOTE]” The second cause of love is knowledge. A woman cannot love a man unless she has had at least some knowledge of him.

"Introduce me to him" is a demand for knowledge preceding love.

Even the dream girl of the bachelor has to be constructed out of

fragments of knowledge. The unknown is the unloved. The love of

the animal begins with the knowledge that comes through its

senses, but the knowledge of man comes from his senses and his

intellect. As love comes from knowledge, so hatred comes from

want of knowledge. Bigotry is the fruit of ignorance.” [END QUOTE]

~Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~Book: Three To Get Married

Save My Catholic Marriage Minute

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2. Why won’t my wife make love to me?
3. Why is sex the second most important thing in marriage?
4. Why doesn’t my wife enjoy making love with me?
5. We’ll go into this more after the break.
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SMCM Minute Content: My Wife Won’t Sleep With Me!

My Story…

• About 15 years ago my wife began now wanting to make love anymore.
• Her libido became very low and she was uninterested in making love.
• We would have sex but it was infrequent and I initiated it 99 percent of the time; unlike when we were dating or first married.
• At first we thought it was something to do with her (hormones, pre-menopause etc)
• We couldn’t figure it out together so I started researching on my own.
• And here is what I found…

The Second Most Important Thing In Marriage

• Over the years many couples take the act of making love for granted.
• As they get older they get used to infrequent intimacy and begin to lose one of the very things that builds closeness in their relationship.
• Which is the most important factor for women in marriage.
• And what do man men do…
• We begin to ignore it thinking it will be ok and come back.
• But of course most times the fire never comes back and so we find substitutes for the closeness with our wives…
• Like hobbies, other women, television, work, friends etc.
• Once this happens our marriages become boring, lackluster, and passionless.

Does Your Wife Display The Following?

• Feelings of unhappiness
• Feelings of emptiness
• Feelings of depression
• Feelings of boredom with making love
• Feelings she is unsatisfied
• Feelings she is unfulfilled as a woman
• Has shut down emotionally
• Has stopped speaking and having conversations with you
• Throws her anger and frustration at you frequently
• Neglects, or treats the kids bad.
• Most times these symptoms are caused by a lack of fulfilling intimacy.
• For this reason sex for women is substantially more important and will cause them to feel unloved thereby beginning the Women’s Exit Strategy!

Little Known Facts About The Marital Embrace

• A study was done by Masters & Johnson that determined that…
• 90 percent of women never experience complete and fulfilling orgasms
• 75 percent of men are premature ejaculators
• Which means that before his wife is completely and totally sexually fulfilled by having all the orgasms she needs, he loses his cool (ejaculates) which ends the sex session.
• Why because for a man ejaculation is like an atomic bomb and depletes all of his energy.
• On the other hand, for women, one orgasm expends only 1/50^th of the energy a man does.
• Which explains why women need (not want) many more orgasms then their husbands.
• It takes women 20 minutes to warm up to making love (actual penetration)
• Many men Lose Their Cool in 5-15 minutes.
• This causes a disparity in the marital act.
• As one partner is satisfied and the other has been denied fulfillment.
• How does the Church look at this?
• Pope John Paul II reveals that every husband is required to give his wife at least one orgasm during lovemaking to prevent her from feeling used as an utensil or object.

You Must Prolong Lovemaking…

• Many men think they are studs or at least adequate in the bedroom.
• But as seen above at least 75 percent of men are not.
• And who is the judge? Your wife is the judge…
• If a wife is displaying any of the symptoms I mentioned above (depression, unhappiness, unloved etc) she is unfulfilled sexually and as a woman. And will eventually begin the Women’s Exit Strategy!
• You must at all cost realize that the marital embrace is much more than an orgasm and pleasure for you the husband.
• But for your wife it is her very essence of feeling that she is loved by you.
• All of the items mentioned above are your wife’s inhibitions (her deep pain) which must be removed or your marriage will eventually suffer!
• How long does this take?
• To remove all inhibitions from your wife takes a prolongation of the sex act of at least 3 times a week, for a minimum of 1-4 hours for a period of 1-3 years!
• This depends on the amount of pain your wife has experienced in her life. Sexual abuse, premarital sex partners etc. will take longer. Then a normal life of no pain. But no matter every woman needs a minimum of a year!
• Once this purge of inhibitions takes place, your wife will return to a more normal need for lovemaking of twice per week or so.
• But you will have to remember to continuously make sure she is completely satisfied or she will revert back.

The Benefits For Your Wife…

• Total emotional, psychological and sexual fulfillment for your wife.
• A euphoric sense of being loved and cherished by you her husband.
• Complete and total feelings of vulnerability.
• A dramatic increase in libido
• An unquenchable hunger for her husband.
• An increased sentiment of love that she needs to spread throughout your family.
• An almost unbreakable bond with her husband

A complete and deep understanding of how to make sacred love to her husband.

The Benefits For The Husband…

• Your wife will once again desire you.
• Your wife will no longer be bored with the marital act.
• Your wife will approach you to make sacred love.
• You will have sacred intimacy multiple times per week.
• You will have a substantial increase in sex drive.
• Your stamina will increase.
• The bond with your wife will increase.
• You will experience extreme vulnerability (essential for a lifelong fulfilling marriage).
• You will experience a greater sense of moral character.
• Your insecurities of how to make love; disappear!
• This list is a small example of the benefits.

One Final Word…

• This way of looking at intimacy will be hard for you to accept at first.
• But again you must realize that this program takes you step by step through this process of all three categories (prayer warfare, the art of manliness, and making love mastery).
• Because you are unfamiliar in most cases of how these things work you must push past the pain and uncertainty, which will get you to where you must be.
• Again, everything in this program feeds off of every other thing.
• Try to buy in and do the work and use the tool at the appropriate time and you will see wonders you never imagined!

…BAM!