So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

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Clue #12

So, what is clue #12 that your wife wants a divorce?

Drum roll please – She continuously places the kids above you!

Remember the time before the kids came into your lives how it was with your beloved?

All she talked about was you…

All she wanted was you…

All she lived for was you…

Your love was everything to her!

She just couldn’t get enough!

She put your wants, desires, and needs above everything.

Including her own.

Then the kids came along, and she still put you first…

But her time is now split between you, the kids, her job etc.

She handles it all because she believes you love her

You put her happiness and needs above everything and everyone…

even yourself.

And she knows this.

But then comes the stress of job, money, the kids

Wow! It all seemed to change in an instant.

And before you know it, your marriage turns into a partnership, a roommate situation,

a marriage of boredom or just going a long to get along.

So, you begin neglecting her and not wanting to come home because of all the chaos.

You didn’t mean to neglect her or stop making her feel special

It just kind of happened.

So she reacted by clinging more to the children

Because that is all she really has, that and her job…

to help her bury the feeling that you don’t love her anymore…

Or at least as much as you did.

When this happens, she starts to place the needs and desires of the kids above you.

Even though that is wrong and eventually kills a marriage…

Your wife is only trying to protect her psyche by burying her feelings for you.

So, no longer are you prime in her life.

No longer are you first priority, because maybe you leave her

Or maybe she is planning to leave you.

Because without the emotional closeness, she is wondering why am I here?

So, there is a cause and effect here…

You unknowingly begin neglecting her…

She is high maintenance (as all women are) and begins to believe you don’t love or care for her as much…

Because you forgot your priority of winning her heart everyday and not taking her for granted!

So, she begins moving into the dreaded Wife’s Exit Strategy

Which means ever so slightly that she is starting to wonder where is your marriage actually going?

Can I be happier without him.

I mean, all of my single and divorce friends say I should leave or divorce him…

And they say, No way would they put up with his craziness!

Even my brother is on my side and he’s a man!

This clue is huge!

Please open your eyes and see the future!

Give her what she needs from you…

The feeling that she is #1 and the most important thing in your life…

and that you appreciate her.

Fellas…Stop taking your wife and marriage for granted!

Please, lose the ego and selfishness and save your marriage!

It’s not about your happiness, but the happiness and fulfillment of your wife and children…

And your obedience to God

Until you accomplish this, you’ll never fill complete or whole as a man…BAM!