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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

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Clue #14

Before I tell you the #14 clue let’s review the previous 13…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you as a man stopped entering the spiritual battle daily?

So, what is clue #14 that your wife wants a divorce?

Drum roll please – Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

You must learn how to pay attention to your woman!

Her mysteries, her moods, the way she talks, her body language, the way she walks, what she says, and more importantly what she doesn’t say!

You must get into her so that you can spot when things are not quite right.

You must learn these things so that when something is wrong you are the first to know even when she doesn’t know herself.

This is what great husbands do.

They don’t sit around waiting for problems to present themselves, they solve the problems before there is a problem.

If we wait until the problem presents itself, for our wife we are already way behind the eight ball.

As I’ve said in the past when a wife is unhappy or depressed and the pain becomes unbearable…

she begins to figure out how to make the pain stop.

And that is usually when evil enters her mind and she considers leaving, divorcing or taking the children.

As a husband you must be on top of these things before she is.

Which means you must not take your wife and marriage for granted at anytime, because then you become distracted.

And once you are distracted you are blind to the ways of your wife.

Remember when you used to do this when you first met and you were truly into her.

Nothing got passed your senses, because you were her hero, her knight in shining armor!

You were completely and totally into her!

YOU MUST GET THAT BACK AND BUT BETTER!!!

If she is depressed, unhappy, avoiding you, spending time away from you more, not wanting to make love, etc.

You must notice this, but more importantly you must act to squash it…Now, Not Later!

This tactic is what I teach each and every husband in my program.

Why, because it is vital to understanding how to keep your wife happy forever not just a day, week, month, year, or decades, but a lifetime.

Please, don’t let your wants, desires, and needs get in the way of service to God and your Beloved.

Because if you do, it will be a hard lesson to recover from…BAM!