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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

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Before I tell you the #17 clue let’s review the previous 16…

• 1) Does she seem distant?
• 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
• 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
• 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
• 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
• 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
• 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
• 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
• 9) Has the bickering increased?
• 10) Has the arguing increased?
• 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
• 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
• 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
• 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
• 15) You make love less than once per week
• 16) You make love less than once per month (severe)

So, what is clue #17 that your wife wants a divorce?

Drum roll please – Has she lost weight for no apparent reason?

This may not seem that important when considered by itself

But when coupled with one or two the other clues

It suddenly becomes huge.

This goes directly back to you being distracted and not noticing the small and intimate things your wife does.

Was she unhappy and depressed, but now is more excited and perky?

That coupled with losing weight could mean she is thrilled about something.

And if you are honest with yourself and analyze your marriage over the past few years

… her losing weight could mean an emotional affair for example.

One of the concepts I push very aggressively in the Catholic Alpha Marriage program…

is the need for husbands to raise their radar daily concerning their wives.

You as a husband must be in tune with her each and every day.

Not just to see if something is wrong…

but also to search for opportunities to serve her…

and do the small things that actually show her you love her deeply!

Which is her dream!

Is your wife moving differently than normal?

Does she look wore down and tired?

Does she seem really sick or not feeling well today?

Is she limping?

Does she seem to be avoiding you and or the kids?

Is she not smiling or laughing as she usually does?

Has she not been quite herself for two or more days?

Does she seem down or that something is bothering her?

Is she unusually quiet?

Is she wearing her hair differently?

Did she buy a new purse, shoes, or blouse?

Is she more snappy or irritable at you or the kids or both?

These are just a few things that should be on your radar.

This may sound like a lot but it is nothing compared to the alternative of her considering if your love is genuine or not.

The real point here is will you solve problems now or wait until they are unsolvable?

This is what neglectful, lazy, boring, and inattentive husbands do.

And if your wife has lost weight and you noticed, did you tell her how good she looks?

Open your eyes gentlemen! The woman of your dreams is standing right before you.

All you have to do is bring out the passion and fire in her!…BAM!