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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

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Before I tell you the #18 clue let’s review the previous 17…

• 1) Does she seem distant?
• 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
• 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
• 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
• 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
• 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
• 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
• 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
• 9) Has the bickering increased?
• 10) Has the arguing increased?
• 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
• 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
• 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
• 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
• 15) You make love less than once per week
• 16) You make love less than once a month
• 17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

So, what is clue #18 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

I used to have a business that required me to visit beauty shops all day long 5 days a week.

There were always tons of women in each shop.

Getting their hair done, nails done, feet done.

There was always a lot of talking going on.

The majority of the conversations were mostly about the women’s boyfriends or husbands.

What the men were doing right or wrong.

But the thing that mostly stood out to me was…

Even though they were happy or unhappy with their man…

They were in that beauty shop each and every week keeping themselves together.

The lesson here is…

Women don’t do things for no reason when it comes to relationships.

So, if your Beloved normally gets her hair done once a month and begins getting it done weekly for example…

There is, or may be a problem that you are missing.

I am not saying oh, go and confront your wife about her visiting the beauty shop or spa.

But what I am saying is exactly what I said yesterday…

Open your eyes gentlemen and explore and be curious about your woman (the good and the bad)

Of course this on its own means nothing.

But as I said before…

When you combine this clue with two, three, or four others like…

The losing weight, going to events without you, spending more time with single and divorced women.

Brother you have a serious problem.

That if caught now and taken care of now…

May cause you a lot less pain and agony in the future.

But of course you won’t listen to me.

You will wait, and wait, and wait, and wait and wait, and wait!

And will never get around to fixing this potential problem…

Moreover, rationalize every excuse in the book why you don’t have time right now.

Again, this is a rookie mistake!

And I expect this from a 20 year old…

But a 40 or 50 or 60 year old…

Never should you allow this to happen.

You are better than that and have way more life experience and certain instincts about these things.

But again, we allow the demonic to distract us with hour and hours of work, video games, hobbies, and just plain laziness.

Please gentlemen, don’t allow this to be you.

I have men coming to me all of the time with the…

“later never comes syndrome”

Meaning they see the problem, sense there is a problem…

but don’t move to correct the problem because…hey…

I’ll take care of it later!

But of course… later… never… comes!…BAM!