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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

Before I tell you the #24 clue let’s review the previous 23…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

So, what is clue #24 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She no longer keeps tabs on you or asks where you’ve been

You know why?

Because she doesn’t care!…

She’s starting to check out…

She is moving on!

But can’t quite move on yet because she is emotionally confused…

And if she is going to move on, she has to make plans first.

Which means a lot of avoiding you and secrecy and academy award acting!

You cannot allow this!

See as men we think, great!

I now get to spend all the time I want wherever I want

With no nagging, no kids crawling all over me.

This is spectacular, right?

Wrong!

With this clue, she is very close to avoidance.

Which means she will start avoiding you all together.

No more discussion on any problems.

No good conversation.

No intimate walks kissing or touching

And of course…no sex!

You see my brother…

We refuse to see…

that either we pay now…

or pay way more later.

Once avoidance sets in, the relationship is all but over!

It’s very important to realize…

If our Beloved no longer cares where we are…

This means that she no longer desires to serve or nurture us as her Beloved husband.

If she is not calling you to see if you are ok…

If she is not texting you, to get an idea of when you are coming home, so she can have dinner ready…

If she is in her bedroom when you do come home…

and doesn’t come out to say hello how was your day…

You are in serious trouble.

I must beg you to see this for what it is.

It is not your time to screw off and have more so-called fun.

But to get your head in the game.

And what is the game?

The game is the battle between you and Satan.

Meaning, are you are going to battle him for your relationship with God…

for your marriage…

for your wife…

for your children?

And… if you have anything left…

to battle him for your very soul!...BAM!