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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

Clues my wife may want a divorce clue #26

We’ll go into this more after the break.

 

Before I tell you the #26 clue let’s review the previous 25…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

So, what is clue #26 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her.

This clue is kind of the sister clue to clue #23 about her locked phone.

Trust just means so much.

And when a married couple starts to allow mistrust to enter into their marriage…

All hell brakes loose.

For this reason it is so very important to be an open book for your beloved.

That way it is hard for Satan to interject himself into the relationship through mistrust.

Mistrust can grow like a cancer.

Also, a great companion of mistrust is selfishness.

Wives need validation of their husbands love daily.

And when they don’t get it…

They start to wonder if his feelings for her are fading or genuine.

As a husband, being able to spot this through observation is very important.

The big clue is her nagging you.

When your wife begins nagging you…

This is the first phase of the Wife’s Exit Strategy.

And means that your marriage problems are real and require immediate attention.

The way to combat nagging…

is to basically stop neglecting her and giving her more attention…

and placing her and your marriage at the top of your priority list.

Usually, by the time a husband realizes that his wife is keeping secrets…

Things like an emotional affair, physical affair, secret outings and trips with divorced and single women have already been occurring.

You see, divorced women always stick their nose into married women’s business.

They are damaged and don’t realize it…

and unknowingly give advice to a wife that can…

and usually does…

cause unrest in a family and marriage.

You see, divorced women don’t mean to be cruel or uncaring.

But misery loves company.

Satan never stops.

It all starts out innocently enough right.

The wife is having problems at home and confides in the divorced woman.

They then become friends.

And then the divorced woman cascades all of her so-called wisdom onto your beloved.

Who has no clue what is really going on.

For this reason as a husband, you must be on your game and your radar must always be in research and rescue mode.

If not, single and divorced women will corrupt your wife.

And then the secrets begin.

You even ask her about what is going on, and she is very vague and uncooperative.

Sometimes, a wife doesn’t even try and hide her relationships of these kind.

Because she sees nothing wrong with it.

If you look at good and great marriages.

The wives and husbands very rarely hangout or spend time with single people.

They mainly spend time with other married couples.

Why, to build friendships and because other married couples are for the most part…

trying to do what they are doing.

Have a good marriage, raise their kids, and collaborate with God.

People who are not married are not bad…

they just have different goals and priorities in life.

Again, the way to stop mistrust and secrets…

is to nip them in the bud early…

by having a habit of…

you and your wife being open and honest with each other on a daily basis.

Going on date night, having bonding conversations each and every night.

No marriage killers of arguing, bickering, criticizing, blaming etc.

Sharing and collaboration on projects and coming to decisions together on God, your marriage, and children.

This assures your wife that you value her input and opinion.

This keeps your marriage and relationship strong…

But more important, makes it very hard for anything or anyone to rupture that relationship...

Because you are each others best friend…BAM!