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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

Clues my wife may want a divorce clue #27

We’ll go into this more after the break.

 

Before I tell you the #27 clue let’s review the previous 26…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

So, what is clue #27 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She doesn’t seem to care that you are spending too much time with your friends

This one really goes along with a couple of other clues.

Which basically means…

Your beloved is checking out, almost checked out, or is checked out.

The pain has gotten too bad.

She is tired of nagging him, and trying to get him to listen to her pleas…

that your marriage needs help and that she is not sure where the marriage is going.

I beg you, if to this point, you have not listened to her.

Now is the time to really bear down and force yourself to listen and be present.

When she doesn’t care about you being gone for days or hours upon hours of time.

And that you are spending more time with them than with her.

It means that she is really serious and not playing with you anymore.

Her indifference, her secrets, her nagging, her feeling you are not hearing her…

or that you no longer value her opinion is all starting to come to a head.

And right now, the emotional connection and resentment are present or close at hand.

Honestly, it’s not that she doesn’t love you…

It’s that she no longer loves the man that you are or have become over the years.

As I said on Friday, in her mind you have broken the promise of…

you would always make her priority one…

Moreover that she is the most important thing in your life.

And that you would forever cherish her.

And I must ask are you keeping your promise?

Or have you started to slip, or have you slipped for months, years, or worse decades.

This is when her pain and resent become the worse.

The longer she feels you don’t care…the resentment builds.

And her desire to vacate becomes very strong.

In her mind, you love and care about your friends more than her.

But only because she feels you’ve neglected her and your marriage…

and that she is not first and foremost in your heart, mind and soul!

If right now, this last few minutes describes your marriage…

You are nearly out of time.

AND YOU JUST DON’T KNOW IT!

 …BAM!