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IS THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE BETTER?

1) Her leaving?

2) All the paperwork?

3) The time spent at the lawyers office?

4) The endless hours preparing for court?

5) The custody battle over the kids?

6) Only getting to see the kids once every other weekend?

7) All the wasted money and resources?

8) Losing the house?

9) Losing the property?

10) Losing the cars?

11) Her treating you like a complete stranger?

12) Having to get a part-time job to make ends meet?

13) Having to now go to separate Churches

14) Not being around your friends, because those are her friends too?

15) The kids growing up with split up parents?

16) Hoping the kids will be ok, knowing deep down they won't?

17) The kids as adults having no examples of a good marriage?

18) So, they quit too just as their parents did!

WOULDN'T IT BE SO MUCH BETTER TO COME HOME TO...

peace, a happy and loving wife, who loves, respects, and is completely devoted to you?

Just an all-around beautiful marriage and family?

This is why you must listen to these clues even if you are already in marriage crisis!

Clues my wife may want a divorce clue #28

We’ll go into this more after the break.

Before I tell you the #29 clue let’s review the previous 28…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

So, what is clue #29 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She no longer looks at you, or makes loving eye contact!

Don’t take this for granted!

Wives and women love to flirt!

And one of the greatest flirting techniques of all time is the loving eye contact.

That no one in the room sees or understands but the two Beloveds who are united with God and themselves.

I remember one time on our anniversary that my wife and I went over to a friends house.

And we caressed each other the whole night.

And frankly it made the other guests uncomfortable.

Because of the love we showed each other.

The whole night my wife and I looked at each other very lovingly and romantically.

We couldn’t get enough of each other.

This comes from us trying to actually get into each other.

To be passionate and excited about the one who we say we adore and are devoted to.

This is the problem with most married couples today.

They have no passion or even try to display passion and excitement for each other.

And we wonder why the divorce rate is north of 50 percent!

I can’t say it enough…

Gentlemen, if your marriage is boring and lackluster…

It is because we as husbands are boring and lackluster.

Just as with Christ.

Knowledge of Christ is passion for Christ!

If your Beloved has stopped making eye contact with you…

Or worse yet (loving eye contact)…

This means the passion and excitement and emotional closeness is wavering.

And you must at all costs get back in the game.

And let that woman know that she is the one and only one that you cherish and desire.

Because if you don’t…

Some other homewrecker surely will.

There is a saying I have.

That if you don’t want your woman…

There is someone out there that surely does!

Communication without words is the hallmark of true lovers.

Has your Beloved stopped winking at you?

Has she stopped making you the apple of her eye?

Could she care less if you communicate non-verbally anymore?

Worst case scenario…

Has another man gained her loving eye contact?

Remember…

Love the one you’re with my brother…

Love the one you’re with!

It’s much cheaper and more exciting…

If you would only…

open your eyes and see the gift God has giving you!…BAM!