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So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #30…that your wife may want a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

Before I tell you the #29 clue let’s review the previous 28…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

 

Before I tell you the #30 clue let’s review the previous 29…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

24) She no longer cares where you’ve been or keeps tabs on you

25) Her hugs and kisses seem shorter with no feeling

26) She is keeping secrets and being vague even when you ask her

27) She doesn’t care you spend too much time with friends

28) She places her parents above you!

29) She no longer looks at you or makes loving eye contact

So, what is clue #30 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She increasingly needs more time alone!

I’m going out of town for my job.

I’m going on a girl’s trip.

I’m going on a girl’s night out.

I’m going out for drinks after work with my co-workers.

I need some time alone in my room.

I just need space right now.

All code for…

I’m about out of this marriage if things don’t change for the better…

And I mean real quick!

It’s all hitting the fan.

And the fan is spreading it through your marriage and home.

Right about now a husband is really starting to feel the urgency to get it together.

Unless he is completely clueless or egotistic.

Meaning he is still on the…

she is the problem.

She doesn’t give me sex.

She doesn’t clean the house.

The kids are still unruly.

She isn’t making any money at that worthless job she has.

She knows I am busy and don’t have time for her emotional craziness.

Well, let me tell you…

You are about right.

Because at this point, she is looking for fulfilment elsewhere.

And in my experience she will find it.

It’s only a matter of time.

First it starts with the work trips.

Then the trips with the girls.

And eventually trips and weekends with her new hubby.

All while her selfish, egotistic, effeminate, clueless husband…

Continues to blame and criticize her for all of her faults.

Not knowing that she is about done with him anyway.

Especially since her new hubby, gives her more…

Attention, love, conversation, dates, money, exciting sex, and most of all he listens to her and values her opinion!

Can you say, time is short.

You see, most women when they begin these antics are just trying to fill the void they aren’t getting from their husband.

I know, it sounds crazy but it’s the truth!

You see, it takes much courage for a woman to leave her husband or have a physical or emotional affair on him.

But what makes leaving, or asking for a separation or divorce much easier…

Is, she as another hunk of a man in the wings, waiting on her to get out of dodge, and get with him.

Then the problems for her husband compound.

Meaning, when the husband tries to get her back or confront him.

The homewrecker believes that the husband in intruding on his fun.

That she belongs to him now.

Hell, you weren’t man enough to keep her happy, fulfilled, and satisfied.

So, I’m going to help you out!!!

And you know…

Basically, he is correct.

The husband was not man enough to keep his woman thrilled and fulfilled.

He broke the cardinal rule.

He neglected her and took her for granted.

Opening the door to the demonic to stride right in.

You see, the I need space line, is really meant for us husbands.

She isn’t saying, you know I need time to work on myself.

She is thinking, I need space so he can work on himself.

Because, I tried the whole… save the marriage thing for 20 years now.

Gentlemen, this clue is really far down the road.

And if you see this in your marriage, time is about out.

Because not only is she spending more time away from you.

She has another man.

And even more detrimental…

The emotional closeness is just about out of there.

And when that is gone, so is your Beloved wife…

So, are your children,

And so is your marriage!

Now, you can still save it.

But now the job has become a lot tougher.

Not as tough as if she leaves and you are separated.

But dam close.

You must begin the process of drawing her back to you and away from him.

But in order to do that…

You must stop the blaming, criticizing, arguing, and confronting.

But most of all, you must go to the restroom.

Close the door.

And stick you mug in the mirror!…BAM!