The magic trick to fix my marriage does it really exist?

Today we always want some magic pill to fix our life.

Some quick fix to stop us from having to go through the soul saving pain...

that is required to become a saint and enter heaven.

This is how doctors and hospitals make so much in revenue these days.

Doctors aren’t really taught to cure disease anymore,

they are taught to stop the pain...to mask the symptoms.

To take away the pain immediately.

They are just taking advantage of our unwillingness to suffer and get to the heart of the matter...

To in fact cure our bodies for the long haul.

And this is the way we men think of repairing our broken marriages.

There has to be some trick,

some quick process, some pill to get my wife to return to her right mind, to regain her senses...

And come back to a husband that has not changed,

is broken, and really does not see the damage he has done or is doing...

But thinks she should return anyway if only just to continue the status quo.

And hear in lies the problem.

We men won’t listen, we comb the internet in search of the magic pill.

We won’t take action because, well, we just have not found that quick fix yet.

And it has to be out there.

So, we procrastinate, and stall, and blame our wife for her gall to put us through this unimaginable pain!

So, when the Holy Spirit does send us the person or avenue that can help us...

We reject that because...

it is going take too long, cost too much, or ask more work from us then we are willing to give.

And I just don’t have time for that right now!

Because you know, it took decades to break my marriage,

and there is no way it’s going to take any more than a couple of weeks to fix it.

That is the exact mindset of why a wife leaves, takes her children, and moves away (sometimes, many states away)

It’s important that husbands realize...

our beloved is not a machine, a toy, a knife, fork, or a spoon.

She is not a freaking broken down car that will continue to respond to a man who doesn’t listen,

neglects her, and places whatever he wants in front of her.

And moreover, has not a clue of the pain he has caused...

over the last 10 to 40 years of his marriage.

So today we will go into the mindset that we as husbands must have in order get into battle mode.

And stop the egotistical search for the magic pill...

Which...does...not...exist!

So, how do you get into the proper mindset...

to prepare for the battle it’s going to take to fix a marriage in crisis?

Here are four quick tasks to help you get your mind right and get into battle mode...

to ignite your warrior spirit and get your beloved back wife from Satan!

One: You And Your Wife Caused This It Will Take Time To Correct It!

It will take suffering and complete sacrifice
The temporal effects of your actions must be repaired

The Holy Spirit will help but He can only help through your willing to sacrifice

Remember it took years even decades for some of you to get here (the pain, the misery, the rejection) and it is going to take enduring the patience to correct it.

All of you have had some improvement and many of you have had great success.

You must see the wins and reject the influence of the demonic.

Two: You Can’t Expect To Make Headway Without Praying Properly

The way I’m showing you is the way God wants you to pray You must pray everything everyway and not slack.

Do you really think you will get results without properly praying, remember this is how you got in your current situation.

If all you have time to do is do the prayers than that is what you need to do!

If you want more results pray more and sacrifice more for her your marriage and God!

Four: When She Is Angry, Fighting Mad, Vengeful...THIS HELPS YOU!

You must allow her to get her frustrations and pain out on you! You must listen and embrace it!
Which means what?
No smart remarks by you!

Only sympathy, empathy, and understanding. In other words HUMILTY!
You must remove her ammunition at all costs!

BAM!

TRANSITION