Love to be real, it must cost—it must hurt—it must empty us of self."
~Mother Teresa Of Calcutta~ Catholic Nun
How To Make Love
Unchain Your Sexuality
I failed her. I took her for granted. I let her down. Because of my ignorance, of how to make love.
For the first eight or so years of my marriage, I had no clue of the neglect I imposed upon my wife.
Here I have the woman of my life. Furthermore, I figured our sex life was fine. (Well, that’s what I get for figurin.)
Meanwhile, over time, my wife experienced a drop in libido. It’s slow at first. So, I don’t notice. Of course she does. As a result, our lovemaking declined.
In the beginning, we focused our efforts on what she could do to repair our sex life. In fact, I left the situation in her hands, figuring this problem is a feminine concern (Yep, there I go figurin again.) During this span, our marital intimacy declined to almost nil).
As time passed, and I researched. I learned I’m responsible for my wife’s low sex drive. Yes, me (no one else). In essence, I’m ignorant and don’t know it.
What’s the problem? I climax too soon. In fact, the problem isn’t that this happened before she had her first climax (because on most every occasion she did).
On the contrary, the problem is, she didn’t have enough of them. I mean many, many more of them. As a result, she’s bored with sex, unfulfilled, unsatisfied, unsecure, void of contentment. Furthermore, she feels unloved and neglected.
In essence, she no longer desires me. Her hunger for me; subsided. As her lover, her hero, I’m in a way; insignificant.
As a husband, can you understand the sensations of hurt and shame, swirling in my heart?
In short, my wife, who I’m supposed to love, protect, sanctify, fulfill her every desire and need. Who’s great mission is to ensure her soul is accepted before The Father. Is in effect; bored with me.
Oh, here’s the funny part of the story. She’s unaware of any of these points. She’s not conscious of these issues. Which means, she’s not doing it on purpose. Wow!
Warning!
What you’re about to learn contains great power and requires an How To Make Love: Warning!uninhibited sense of responsibility. Very few men in the entire world understand what you’re about to experience.
Proceed with extreme caution. But know this; if you abuse this technique without the previous strategies suggested. You may end up in a worse predicament then your current situation.
You’ve come here for advice, mentorship, someone to help guide you. Please take what I’m offering you to heart.
Your wife will experience extreme vulnerability: The catch? So will you.
I strongly suggest you implement the previous mentioned principles (prayer, best friend concept) Use these as your foundation to build a legendary marriage.
You will have a strong urge to move straight into the following lesson without changing your current habits.
I encourage a strong stance against this action.
Without a foundation, you will find yourself back in the same predicament. (your marriage, your family, your very life is at stake.)
How To Make Love
The Art Of The Caress
Reverend Noyes, Dr. Alice Stockham, Dr. Stanley S. Bass. These names may be unfamiliar to you. But if they aren’t, then you understand what I’m about to teach you.
From my research, the above mentioned, for all practical purposes, are responsible for refining and bringing the Art Of The Caress to North America.
The Art Of The Caress, is an advanced sexual technique on how to make love, based on a single principle. A husband must at all cost, totally and completely deny and sacrifice himself (by withholding all ejaculations). Until his wife has experienced at least one, but more important, all the climaxes she desires.
Thereby, giving her one of the greatest gifts and sacrifices a husband can bestow upon his beloved; the Forever Orgasm.
This may be one (doubtful) or 50. Above all, you her Beloved, must give her the time to experience all she desires; all she needs. This must be without question, without impediment.
Sacrifice
For this reason, I’ve placed extreme importance on sacrifice. If you, her husband, are unwilling to sacrifice yourself, deny yourself satisfaction (for 30 minutes, an hour, two or maybe even four hours).
You cannot fulfill your Beloved’s every desire; every need (help her to be everything The Father wants her to be).
Moreover, you’re obligated to understand your roll in your marriage, as well as, in this world. You have a duty, a responsibility to become her hero, her knight, her protector (in spite of what the ignorant in this society tell you).
I present to you, what better way to accomplish this mission, then to give her a gift that can’t be bought?
That can’t be demanded?
That can only be given by you?
Her Beloved husband. Who above all else, places her foremost in his life.
In fact, is now showing her (not with words) but with all that he is (his true sacred self). Further, expressing to her with the ultimate gift of sacrifice (an action) that he loves her, cherishes her, and needs her, above all else.
Question: Are you up to this challenge? Can you release your ego, your selfishness for the mother of your children?
Can you forego every relationship, by placing them on the back burner. In order, to focus with complete fierceness on your Beloved?
Can you be the Christian soldier, the warrior, the man that Our Lord is calling you to be?
Can you for no matter how long it takes, be the man your wife needs you to be? Can you be the husband she hungers for?
Are you able, to oppose every brainwashing technique, every ingrained instinct, every bit of advice you’ve gotten up until this point in your life? Concerning, women, relationships, marriage, your wife?
Not to mention, the art of how to make love?
At last, are you able to put her first in all things? Can you show her (not tell her) that you can be the husband, the father, the man she’s longed for?
In the end, will you be the man upon his dying bed, who lived his life in sacrifice of nothing? Not even his Beloved wife, the mother of his children? Deciding never; unable; unrelenting; to give up ego and self?
I’m being hard, ruthless, relentless. Why? Because in your entire life, I’m betting; no other man has spoken to you in this manner.
Urgent, I need you to step up and stand up for your wife, your marriage. Hell, if you don’t, who else will?
Why? Because generations are at stake. Your descendants; your children, your children’s children.
Again, every action; every decsion you make, means something!
Again, every action; every decision you make, means something. Right here and right now, I’m giving you the keys to the kingdom. The key to help you accomplish your mission (getting your wife in front of The Father).
Question is; Are you the man for the job?
Ok, I’m done with my rant. Let’s move forward.
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How To Make Love
The Facts
(90%) of women, never experience complete and fulfilling orgasms. (hard truth; your wife is probably one of them.)
(75%) of men are premature ejaculators.
Meaning, before a wife has the chance to experience her first climax, her husband Loses His Cool (ejaculates).
When the husband ejaculates, the session is over.
Problem is: his wife’s climax expends 1/50th the energy he does when he ejaculates.
Which explains why she needs (not wants) many more orgasms than he does.
What Happens During Deep Marital Intercourse?
%
Of Men: Premature Ejaculators
%
Of Women: Lack Sexual Fulfillment
%
How To Make Love? Kill Your Ego
It takes your wife’s body a minimum of 20 minutes (often much longer 30 min to an hour) to warm up for proper deep fulfilling sexual pleasure.
As stated above, most men are finished prematurely. More often 5-15 minutes (sound familiar?)
Revelation: If it takes wives a minimum of 20 minutes to an hour just to warm up. And husbands Lose Their Cool in five minutes.
There’s a serious discrepancy in time here.
Moreover, this stems from selfishness. Husbands must understand that selfishness in marriage is the number one cause of divorce. Many husbands today are focused on themselves.
This is due to how they were brought up. No father in the home. Not tasked to do anything that requires denial of self or toughness to build up resistance to the ego. (more on selfishness in marriage here)
Consequences For Your Beloved:
For Your Lack Of Sacrifice
Feelings Of Depression
Feelings She Is Unloved
Feelings She’s Unfulfilled
Feelings of unhappiness
Feelings She Is Unsatisfied
Feelings Of Boredom With The Sacred Act Of Making Love
These are few of many!
A Big Problem:
Rushing your wife makes these symptoms worse. You can never rush her. Considerable time and care must be taken.
How To Make Love
The Benefits: The Husband
Your wife will once again desire you.
Your wife will no longer be bored with the marital act.How To Make Love? Become Virtuous!
Your wife will approach you to make sacred love.
You will have sacred intimacy multiple times per week.
You will have a substantial increase in sex drive.
Your stamina will increase.
The bond with your wife will increase.
You will experience extreme vulnerability (essential for a lifelong fulfilling marriage).
You will experience a greater sense of moral character.
Your insecurities of how to make love; disappear!
This list is a small example of the benefits.
How To Make Love
The Benefits For Your Beloved Wife
Total emotional, psychological and sexual fulfillment for your wife.
A euphoric sense of being loved and cherished by you her husband.How To Make Love: The Benefits Of Your Sacrifice
Complete and total feelings of vulnerability.
A dramatic increase in libido
An unquenchable hunger for her husband.
An increased sentiment of love that she needs to spread throughout your family.
An almost unbreakable bond with her husband
Note: In order to, experience the greatest benefit, you and your wife must not be on any contraceptives.
a) This interferes with the total giving of self.
b) Being open to life is a main purpose of marriage.
Children (the more you have; more specific four or more) will decrease the chance of divorce to almost nil.
c) Your wife’s instincts will react to contraception.
As I’ve indicated earlier, her body knows when she doesn’t have complete and total commitment.
d) And contraceptives enhance this sensation.
A complete and deep understanding of how to make sacred love to her husband.
This list is a small sample of the benefits.
Marriage Maintenance:
What Can I Do?
1) At all cost, complete and total sacrifice of yourself:
Allow your wife to experience as many orgasms as she desires (even if it’s 20 or more). Thereby giving her your gift of the Forever Orgasm.
2) Never rush her. Be patient. Handle with extreme care.
How To Make Love: Save Your Beloved From Yourself
Be aware, it may take up to an hour for her to have her first climax.
3) Starting now: never again, allow ego and selfishness in your bedroom.
4) Starting now: during sacred intimacy:
You must above all, put your wife’s wants, needs and desires before yours during lovemaking.
5) More important, withhold all ejaculations until the end of the session (your Forever Orgasm).
In other words, your wife must be in complete satisfaction (Meaning; she's experienced all the orgasms she needs. Hint: It isn't just one. Furthermore, she's completely fatigued, and ready for sleep from all the energy she's expended.)
These criteria must be met, before you Lose Your Cool!
6) Control Your Excitement:
Slow down or withdraw if you have to, in order to, calm down. Remember, if you Lose Your Cool, sacred intimacy is over.
Your wife although she may not say it, will be disappointed. (how much longer will you allow her disappointment to last? Another year, three years, five, 20?)
I plea, once again, become her magnificent lover, her hero!
7) Your initial goal: try to last 30 minutes Once you reach 30 minutes then try for an hour.
8) Don’t make the mistake of assuming your wife has had orgasms before during your lovemaking.
Even if you have to ask her. Women are great actors in this area You must be sure she has satisfied her sensual intimacy for you. (I’m here to tell you, one climax is not enough. Trust me!) You never want her to experience disappointment.
Now that you know. This is your duty, your responsibility as a Christian husband. Man up. This gift is going to be tough in the beginning. But remember, enduring toughness is why you were made masculine by the Father.
Summary
To summarize and state once again, this series of articles is about leading you down the path to Sainthood and Holiness. And, that starts with your marriage. As stated above, you are commanded to get your Beloved to Heaven. Even at the sacrifice of your one and only life.
You can’t be the man God is calling you to be without your wife; without your marriage. Furthermore, you need her. She is part of you; she is made for you; she is made from you.
Understanding the importance of how to make love to your Beloved. As well as, all that it accomplishes, and means to your marriage, has no words for description.
In the end, you are the one she desires. You are the one she hungers for. Refuse to ever again disappoint her. Do the work, learn her mysteries. Become her hero!
In This Article: How We've Rocked It!
We covered sacred intimacy and how you can control the course of your family by sacrificing yourself. For the unconditional act of total sacrifice and self-denial. Of major interest, for the benefit of your wife and marriage.
You also learned, the art of the caress, as well as, the action steps to increase the intensity (10 fold) of sexual intercouse in your marriage.
Next, we covered the benefits for you and your Beloved, if you decide to embrace this wonderful, sexual form of how to make love.
Last, sacrifice. Without your sacrifice, your wife’s soul is in dire straits. She needs you to reach Heaven. Never forget this fact. There is a Heaven, and with more intensity, there is a Hell!
Will you be the man to reach this apex, with your wife and children in tow?
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium:
When is the last time you felt a complete bond in your marriage, between you and your Beloved?
Have you ever allowed your wife to experience as many climaxes as she needs? Have you ever even thought about this concept?
Or, were you too focused on your own desires?
As a Christian husband, do you believe your sex life with your Beloved could be better?
What's Coming Next?
In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:
Two case studies: One on what to do. The other on what not to do, when trying to implement the principles of prayer, best friend concept, and unchaining your sexuality. In your marriage
Also, how easy it is for a marriage to degrade into oblivion without proper maintenance, care, and attention to detail.
See you then. And until then, get to work on the action steps in this article. DO-IT-NOW!
About Jerry Jacobs Jr.
CatholicAlpha.com is about saving YOUR marriage (plain and simple!) By compelling YOU to become a Holy Lover (The husband your wife needs; The man God created you to be)
This is done through the teachings of the Catholic Church (Christ's Church). Learn what your father failed to teach YOU about (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, and Making Love Mastery!)
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Jerry attends Our Lady Of The Most Holy Rosary Parish in the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. He and his virtuous wife, Mary Kathleen are facilitators of the Adult Faith Formation ministry in their parish.
