• How to meet women the right way!
• Dating is for sex – Why?
• One – we are not focused on the person but what we can get out of them
• Not really considered what is best for her but what you want
• Two – We are just trying to get in her pants.
• If we were for real we’d know that this doesn’t lead anywhere but to disaster.
• She will get psychological problems
• She will bond to you
• Why do you think women kill their babies, and flatten your tires
• She may say she doesn’t want to get married but that’s a lie.
• No women gives her self to you unless she believes you will ask her to marry you in the future, unless she is disordered in some way.
• Three – We are just seeking to get pleasure
• Sex makes us feel good but it’s only temporary and that’s what you are seeking erotic lustful, temporary pleasure that only has one means to an end – to fulfill a need that only benefits your ego.
• Four – we have no real goal to get married
• We may try and make her believe that but in reality we just want a temporary thing.
• Marriage means I have to give up my freedom
• Marriage means I have to commit to one woman, No way I can do that!
• And children, responsibility Oh hell no!
• Again pure selfishness!
• Five – we only want to have so-called fun
• But is it really fun?
• What happens when she gets pregnant, and she will get pregnant you know why?
• Because sex works, it’s doing what it’s supposed to do, participate in creation, which is a gift from God!
• Does she know you only want to have fun?
• Sure she doesn’t because no way are you going to really tell her that…
• and if you did it’s only a mind game you use, so you can say in the future (when she gets pregnant) I told you I only want to have fun! Abort it!
• Six – she is just a means to an end – an object, of fork, a knife, a thing to use.
• When we do this we are using up her youth, her beauty, her vitality, the things that God gave her to attract her husband. Not some selfish bum!
• Seven – in the end dating is for wusses and is complete cowardice!
• Courting is for marriage – Why?
• Eight - Because when we really understand how the world really works, our goal is God, marriage, children, family, duty, responsibility.
• This builds something for eternity, something we can really take with us.
• Nine – We are seeking something greater than ourselves.
• Courting is unattached to the ego or selfishness, it is considering the bigger picture and understands time is a factor!
• What is the something bigger?
• Journey and eventual peace with God. For the benefit of my wife and children, and their children, and their children!
• Ten – Marriage makes real men out of us – because of the sacrifice and responsibility of giving our life away for another!
• We will never be True Man until we have something we’re willing to sacrifice, die, and give our life for!
• We’ll never be truly happy or at peace as men.
• Remember Christ? This is exactly what He did and calls us to do as men!
• Eleven – We are looking for that perfect woman (helpmate) that can and will joy in helping me get to heaven!
• This is what real life is about a test of sacrificing for that true love, with both of us on the same page (a journey towards holiness)
• What is love? (according to the Catholic Church) Love is an act of the will, which is what daters don’t understand. It’s all about the emotion with them, and what they can get out of it!
• Twelve – We are looking for that one woman that can help me get our children to heaven.
• See helpmate. Our wife’s job is to assist and guide us.
• This is what Ephesians 5 v. 21-33 speak of
• Thirteen – And because of the last two – assist in helping me get to heaven as well as my children – we seek that perfect Beloved to become one flesh with!
• One flesh understanding it takes three…
• One flesh with my Beloved wife and both of us one flesh in God!
• Fourteen – In the end courting is for warriors and is heroic!
• It undertakes the role given to Adam by God for everyman throughout eternity – To protect, defend, and serve!

I ask you, whom do you aspire to be Wuss or Warrior!