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Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 89th EPISODE (How to interact in marriage counseling)

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“sacrificial love reached its highest psychological expression in the Garden of Gethsemane,

where Christ so identified Himself with sinners that He began to sweat crimson drops of blood.

It reached its greatest physical expression on Calvary, when He offered His life for those whom He loved.

But before Gethsemane and Calvary, the law that love tends to unify the lovers produced the Incarnation, in which God, Who loved man, became man to save him from his sins.”[END QUOTE]

~ Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~ Book – Three To Get Married 

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Marriage Counseling

Is it good for your marriage

Should you and your wife go to marriage counseling

Wonder if one of you doesn’t want to go

What is the difference between marriage counseling and marriage coaching?

If you are Catholic what kind of marriage counselor should you go to

If you are Christian what kind of counselor should you go to

Should you go to your priest or pastor for marriage help

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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So, as promised 5 tips to help you prepare for your first marriage counseling session…

If you are a Catholic husband you can’t go to marriage counseling because it will kill your marriage not save it!

What Is Marriage Counseling

#1 - Basically, Designed To Help You Break Up Your Marriage On Good Terms

Marriage counseling places your mental state above your moral state.

Couples therapy is designed to help you reconcile as long as both spouses want to save the marriage.

This fails miserably when one spouse wants to save the marriage and the other does not.

Because most times the one that doesn’t want to save the marriage will be unresponsive or sabotage the counseling because they don’t care, are indifferent, or feel they have done all they can do to save the marriage.

So, what does the therapist do?

When they see the couple can’t or won’t fix the marriage, they change tactics to getting the couple to separate and end the marriage amicably.

The problem is when we are Catholic or Christian we are morally obligated to stay in the marriage as long as there is no infidelity or physical abuse.

Temporary separation is allowed by the Church but not permanent separation or divorce.

Abandoning a spouse who is correcting their behavior and is trying to make corrections that are working is a grave sin.

As this destroys the generations of the family and causes scandal in society.

Marriage coaching is different in that the spouse that wants to save the marriage is given strategies, tactics, and action steps that move him slowly but surely towards attracting and reconnection with their husband or wife.

Coaching does not care about the mental state of the spouse and works more towards the moral state which logically and effectively teaches the faithful spouse how to survive and thrive while working towards reconnection.

#2 - How To Act In The Marriage Counseling Session

Your main job above all else is to listen and focus on your wife.

Allow her to talk, cry, yell, scream, as much as possible, while you listen intently.

When she is done, you apologize for anything that you agree you were responsible for.

And you ignore all that you believe is not true or you don’t agree with.

If you are asked a question by your therapist or wife, you answer in one or two sentences at the most and throw the conversation back into your wife’s hands.

Do not talk, or defend yourself or do any Marriage Killers in counseling (arguing, debating, complaining, verbally attacking etc).

Don’t sit there emoting about your marriage and wife and all that she has done wrong.

If you are talking for more than 5 seconds…you are talking too long!

This will turn the counselor and your wife against you. They will start to blame you for everything and move towards getting you to separate either temporarily or permanently.

Bite your tongue and do the stress techniques.

Hail Mary

E.M.T. (emotional freedom technique)

Deep breaths for 10 seconds

#3 - Messaging That Will Get You Shut Down Quick I’m not asking you to be or become a wuss, but I am asking you to be clear, positive, and appropriate to encourage a positive response or a result getting action from your Beloved!

Bottom line: The better you communicate the better she will respond!

We must understand that we can’t just speak to our wives anyway we want.

Arguing, yelling, raising our voice, insulting them causes pain, hurt, fear and anger, which hurts your wife to the depths of her being.

Why? Because we are bonded to them, we make love with them, we have children with them, we are married before God with them.

These bonds are strong, which causes your wife to begin to believe you don’t care, love her, appreciate her.

Eventually causing her to shut down on you! And begin the Wife’s Exit Strategy!

Every time you use messages as like the examples below you lose trust points with your wife and once your trust points reach zero she will shut you down and not talk to you!

#4 - Shut You Down Quick Messages

Negative Messages (These cause emotional distance)

Examples: “I wish you weren’t so…”

“I don’t like the way…”

Can’t you…”

Cloudy Messages (these cause confusion and misunderstanding)

Examples:

“I want you to straighten up your act and be nice once in a while.”

What does ‘straighten up” mean? How often is “once in a while”?

“I wish you would behave more like a woman.”

How does a woman behave?

The way that you talk to me reminds me of why we don’t talk much.”

What way?

Stupid Messages (these cause frustration, hurt, and or anger)

Examples:

“Compared to my ex, you’re…”

You’re such a bitch, nag, hag, etc.”

“I don’t see the point in talking to you”

“It’s a waste of time talking to you”

#5 - Messaging That Works Attract your wife to you physically and emotionally, by looking good and smelling good.

By not doing any needy Marriage Killers (arguing, complaining, defending yourself etc.)

These will only cause her to withdraw and not open up the conversation.

Reconnect with your wife by empathizing, supporting, and helping her when you can in the marriage session.

Don’t try to get her to pull back the divorce, or come back home or change her plans right now.

Your main job again is to listen intently which draws her to you emotionally!

Would you like more help, because your wife has asked for a divorce, left the home, or is seeing another man?

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby\

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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