Today is gift 18...

Which states: A Holy Lover Protects His Sexual Health At All Times!

What is a husband’s sexual health and why it is important to maintain?

Sexual Health is anything that positively affects or is harmful or negatively effects our ability as husbands to make world class love to our Beloved wife physically or spiritually! For the benefit God and our Beloved wife!

Why is this important?

Because she is our Beloved wife, and the mother of our children, and because she deserves no less than the best we can bestow upon her during the Holy Caress!

Our mindset as husbands must always be to never, ever, disappoint our beloved during the marital embrace.

And this requires as little toxicity in the body as we can muster!

Why does it take authentic masculinity to protect our sexual health?

Simply put, to be a world class lover requires unheard of discipline!

What we put in our mouth.

Some sort of daily exercise.

The mental mindset to sacrifice our wants, desires, and needs, for that of our beloved wife during and before the marital embrace.

And the knowledge to know why we are doing these things...

Which is to get rid of all of our wife’s inhibitions and deep pain she’s incurred over her life...

To in fact bring forth her sacred self!
Why is sex the second most important thing in marriage?

The marital embrace is the second most important thing in marriage because it fosters and builds and helps maintain emotional closeness...

Which is arguably the most important thing for a wife in marriage!

Why is pornography harmful to our sexual health?

Pornography is harmful because it separates us from our Beloved and the Divine Lover!

It is selfish and harms the one flesh union God had in store for us.

It is selfish because love is meant to be shared with the woman we have chosen to spend forever with.

It begins the mental state of looking at women as objects instead of our helpmates and guides.

It also fosters a mindset trigger that over time makes it difficult for us to perform at a world class level when we make love to our wife.

Why is masturbation harmful to our sexual health?

Masturbation hurts our physical power as a man by unnecessarily wasting our sexual hormones.

All of our hormones are in our semen.

And when we masturbate over time we become sexually, spiritually, and mentally weak.

This causes a depressed state in us...

Fostering irritability, anger, frustration etc.

Which we then begin to take it out on our wives and even our children!

Love is meant to be shared and when we masturbate...

We turn in upon ourselves as a man, which basically is extreme selfishness.

Masturbation and pornography will eventually cause erectile dysfunction...

And you will be unable to perform or be severely deprived of your sexual performance and stamina!

Basically, you will get E.D. and your sexual drive will all but disappear!

Why is premature ejaculation harmful to our sexual health?

Premature ejaculation is harmful because through major toxicity in our blood system we as husbands are unable to maintain control during the marital embrace.

This in turn displeases our wives, which means over time she will abhor making love with us because of her extreme displeasure and unfulfillment sexually as a woman.

This will cause inhibitions, frigidity, and a low sexual desire for her husband.

She will also unconsciously begin to feel like an object and used only for her body.

Birth control multiplies this feeling in her significantly.

Which over time will begin distrust in the marriage and a feeling that her husband does not love her.

Again, love must have something on the line and that is children.

Again, our sexual health addresses anything that is harmful or negatively affects our ability to make world class love to our beloved physically or spiritually!

Why?

Again, because of how the Holy Caress affects the make up of our wife (emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually).

Are we being a true man if we neglect our sexual health knowing how vital it is to our Beloved?

How can offenses against chastity such As pornography and masturbation open the door to the demonic in our home, and harm our souls?

Again, our Sexual Health addresses anything that positively affects or is harmful or negatively effects our ability as husbands to make world class love to our Beloved wife physically or spiritually!

And the offenses against chastity of pornography and masturbation not only affect our sexual health physically, but attack it with a vengeance spiritually!

We must understand these two items open the door to the demonic because they interfere with procreation.

This is God’s ultimate plan for us...to send souls back to Him as saints...

In order to spend enternity with Him in Heaven.
This goes under the “I will not serve” declaration that Satan proclaimed.

Remember, the true love of God comes not under our feelings towards him...

But of our obedience to Him.

And for this reason we have free will.

Either we choose the way of Christ or the way of Satan. There is no in between.

Pornography and masturbation separates us from God immediately and places us on the team of Satan.

For this reason the demonic enter our home easily, because God is no longer present...

This holds extremely true because the husband is the protector and defender of the home.

And if he is in mortal sin, there is no protection from the Evil One in his home.

This is not theory, this is fact!

What are the fruits of you maintaining good sexual health?

As you can see, sex is not just sex!

It is much, much, more than that.

As it enhances your powers as True Man!

It is the gateway to the heart, mind, and soul, of your Beloved...

And it fosters the union between you, your beloved, and the Divine Lover!

As Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen quotes in his remarkable book on marriage...Three To Get Married...

It takes three to make Love in Heaven--

Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

It takes three for Heaven to make love to earth--

God, Man, and Mary, through whom God became Man.

It takes three to make love in the Holy Family--

Mary, and Joseph, and the consummation of their love, Jesus.

It takes three to make love in hearts--

The Lover, the Beloved, and Love.

BAM!

TRANSITION