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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given up
10 Tips To Become A Man Of Sacrifice To Ignite Her Love - Part 1
In this 112th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to win her love through Authentic Masculinity - Part 1!
"Confession Hurts! This is why we can't rely on our feelings, because we'd never go into confession"
- In this 112th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
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"Show Transcript"
Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…
While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!
Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –
IN THIS 112th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: Continues with How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up
Today we uncover Gift #19 part 1
Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…
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Quote Of The Day
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[QUOTE]
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.
To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,
That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish..”
[END QUOTE]
~Ephesians 5 (verses 25-27)
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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview
Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire
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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.
How to save my marriage when my wife has given up: 10 tips to become a man of sacrifice to ignite her love!
Today is gift 19...
Which states: A Holy Lover Rejects Selfishness In All Areas Of His Live More Important His Marriage!
Why is selfishness the murderer of marriage
The number one cause of divorce is selfishness, why?
How do you defeat selfishness in marriage?
What are some action steps you can do to overcome selfishness as a husband?
I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.
But I know men...
We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.
And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!
Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.
But in the Holy Lover series...
I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...
Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series
... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.
I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.
I must also be completely transparent and honest...
A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.
He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.
Why?
Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.
Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!
But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!
The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...
Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!
Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?
Which is you...
Becoming the man God created you to be...
And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?
If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.
No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...
To begin warrior mode.
Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...
Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...
As the spiritual battle is now upon us.
I must ask, What will you do as a man?...
Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?
There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover
33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.
Today we cover Holy Lover gift #18...
Which states...
A Holy Lover must protect his sexual health at all times!
And as the man of the home the defender from evil...
Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.
If you lack the will for battle...
I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.
The only question is...
Will you cooperate?
After the break, we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.
What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment
Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.
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Call To Action #1
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview
Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry
So as promised...
How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...10 Tips to become a man of sacrifice and ignite her love!
Today is gift 19...
Which states: A Holy Lover Rejects Selfishness In All Areas Of His Live More Important His Marriage!
So, now we are going to go into the action steps to help you defeat selfishness and become a man of sacrifice...
Which will ignite the fire, desire, devotion, and passion from your beloved wife!
We will cover the first 5 today...and the second 5 tomorrow!
Sacrifice One: A Husband’s Natural Order Of Service
First off in order to defeat selfishness in marriage and remove Satan from in between you are your beloved you must at all cost understand the order of service that will apply to all areas of your life...
This train of thought will serve you well...
And that thought is...
You never ever consider your wants, desires, and needs, above that of...
God first, your wife and marriage second, your kids third, and yourself last
This is the priority of problem solving in your life.
When it comes to the order of importance of things and problems in your life...
If it harms your relationship with God, you don’t do it.
If it has the possibility of harming your relationship with your wife, you don’t do it.
If it has the potential of hurting your relationship with your children, you don’t do it!
Again, this priority of service will serve you well!
Sacrifice Two: Prayer
Prayer is sacrifice
Prayer is hard, difficult, and a real challenge to make a habit.
This is why the real meaning of love according to the Catholic Church is willing the good of another.
This not how you feel about someone, but how strong your will is for their betterment their holiness.
Feelings will abandon you.
Sacrifice Three: Confession
Confession Hurts!
This is why we can’t rely on our feelings, because we’d never go to confession.
You must frequent confession or you’ll feel guilty about instructing your children on how to deal with evil.
At least once a month.
God instruct priests to perform this task.
Jesus said: ("Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained" (John 20:22–23).
We must remember, that nothing we do (prayer, good works, sacrifice, suffering) merits nothing in the eyes of God if we are in mortal sin.
Sacrifice Four: The Rosary
Your number battle weapon to defeating a bad marriage, and selfishness
Many men are ignorant to spiritual warfare.
Start out saying one decade for 30 days.
It will change your life and build holiness and virtue.
Sacrifice Five: Fasting
You can’t become holy if you don’t deny your pleasure and if you don’t suffer.
Fasting teaches you to sacrifice for another.
Fasting builds a strong and powerful intellect and will. It prevents us from becoming soft and weak of mind.
It assists you in purifying your wife by giving yourself (your pleasure, your comfort) for hers
Fasting teaches us mortification of self. We begin to die to our own wills and accept holiness, and virtue in the acceptance of Gods will for us.
Christ gave His life over for his Bride the Church. As men we must do the same. And only through our willing to sacrifice can this be done.
We are made for this battle, and will never find peace until we accept the mission!
Sacrifice Six: Adoration (Begin Part 2)
Do you want to become Holy?
Do you seek virtuousness?
Spending time in front of the blessed sacrament fosters peace, and holiness, a clear mind, and a sense of direction.
Your relationship becomes stronger with God.
He is more likely to hear your prayers as you develop a powerful relationship through your time in Adoration.
We need this time with Christ, especially if we suffer from, anxiety, frustration, anger, and emptiness of soul!
We need quit from all the. We must rest in God!
Start with 15 minutes per week. And as your faith grows increase a little with an ultimate goal of an hour daily!
Offer this sacrifice for your wife; for your children.
Sacrifice Seven: Daily Mass
It’s the most powerful prayer
The Eucharist purifies you when taken in grace and not in mortal sin.
Offering daily mass up for your wife is powerful and will change her life.
Remember, if sacrifice were easy everyone would do it.
Everyone would enter Heaven; but the sad truth is; many don’t!
Your suffering has meaning.
Daily mass requires the great sacrifice of your time for another (your wife; your children)
Sacrifice Eight: The Marital Embrace
Although this sacrifice, is in the eighth position. Its importance, ranks among the top two. If I’d put this further up, you may not have read the other seven!
It takes three to make love
Without God in all facets of your marriage especially your sex life; little by little it will suffer or worse wilt away.
God created sex as an extension of His divine love for us.
Our society (Satan) has tainted and corrupted sex.
Men can very easy become selfish when making love
Ego and selfishness can never enter the bedroom.
If at any time (me or I) enters your head during making love; you have already failed as a world-class lover, a Holy Lover; a man!
Why, because the ego is from the diabolical, it’s selfish, self-serving, and considers itself above all else!
If this continues your wife will start to feel as if she is an eating utensil (a fork a knife, and object) She will never be fulfilled sexually and as a wife!
Understand you are responsible for everything in your marriage as charged by God!
Sex is not about you; It’s about God; It’s about your beloved wife!
Again, you are charged by God to protect, defend and serve.
And when making love you are the server.
Remember Sacrifice!
Sacrifice Nine: Offer all of your pains, sufferings up to Christ for the intention of your wife!
[Quote] Love to be real, it must cost-it must hurt-it must empty us of self! [End Quote] St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta
This quote pretty much says it all.
Again, I refer to Ephesians 5 (25-27)
“(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.
(26) To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,
(27) That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish..”
God has given you the power and grace to affect the purity of you Beloved’s soul!
Your suffering has meaning!
You must embrace your masculinity, your headship of the home. Without that no of this works! Remember the natural order!
Sacrifice Ten: Christ teach me to serve her!
This one is huge because it demands courage from you. Courage to seek the truth; to look in the mirror at yourself; to seek criticism.
I know the truth hurts; but you must embrace it if your marriage is to become legendary; become great; journey closer to God!
Again, you must be willing to suffer for her; If you don’t who will?
But, this is unlike Christ. He volunteered to suffer.
Why?
Because it was His duty; His mission; His complete love (remember, not a feeling, but an act of His will) for us.
But more important; This is just what men do (courage)!
We must understand what our wife needs (not wants) then do our best to give it to her!
Part of our job as men is to serve! So we don’t become complacent, lazy and forget our mission!
We must move to squash problems immediately (don’t procrastinate)
Ask these questions of yourself or your wife often if not daily to keep yourself on your toes:
How do I sacrifice for her?
Am I lofting anything above our relationship?
Am I seeing to her needs?
Am I putting her needs above everyone else’s including my own?
Am I making her feel she is the most important person in my life.
Why am I her servant, how and why do I serve her?
Bringing It All Together...
To answer the question, how to save a failing marriage?
Men must start doing things because of duty; not because of how it feels to us.
Suffering for the benefit of another, is courageous; heroic. Moreover, what men are called to do by God.
Of course, society (The Evil One) will steer you towards selfishness, and pleasure, above all other things.
Why does Satan do this? Because, if he can get you to remain effeminate, emasculated, weak and soft, it’s a lot easier to claim your soul. But more drastic, the souls of your wife and children!
Again, men must begin to train their intellects, and wills to endure as Christ did. Otherwise, we are just plain men; nothing special; nothing worthwhile; just another chicken in the coop.
Further, awaiting our next form of manipulation from our electronic device, or television program, or government directive.
Is this really how you want to live your life?
Going along to get along? Void of courage, because you are unwilling to make others uncomfortable, or sacrifice for the truth of God?
Again, in this article I ask; if you aren’t willing to suffer; sacrifice; or give your life away for your Beloved; who on this earth will?
Who will take responsibility, and care for her soul, in this abyss of chaos?
To repeat, as with Adam, God has charged you as the keeper of this realm.
The question is, how will you respond?
With courage or cowardice?
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Call To Action #2
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit
SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
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Conclusion
As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI
Quote “Society offers you comfort…
But you weren’t made for comfort…
You were made for greatness!
So go forth Christian Soldier…
The Spiritual fight is upon you…
Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!
Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!
More About Catholic Alpha Radical!
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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.
Why?
I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...
- Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
- The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
- Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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