So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...10 Tips to become a man of sacrifice and ignite her love during the martial embrace!

Today is gift 21 Part 1...

Which states: A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

So, now we are going to go into the action steps to help you defeat selfishness and become a man of sacrifice during the marital embrace...

Which will ignite the fire, desire, devotion, and passion from your beloved wife!

We will cover the first 5 today...and the second 5 the next show!

Sacrifice One: Die To Self!

Die to self means just what it says, we must die to what we want and be molded by God Himself...

This way we become pure and holy and are then worthy of heaven. The same is true during the marital embrace.

We must die to ourselves, meaning forgetting what we want in lieu of what our Beloved wife needs!

We must change our attitude. Lose our selfishness. When you sacrifice for something greater than ourselves (our wife; our marriage; God) humility and holiness replace the old you.

Sacrifice Two: You Are The Server

You’re commanded by the Father (as a husband); to protect, to defend; to serve.

These are your duty.

And this means sacrificing yourself each day for your Beloved.

And this starts in the bedroom.

Serve her early and often.

Die to self, be a joyful giver, as no other husband can be.

Give your life away for her. What nobler cause could there be?

Sacrifice Three: Seek Only The Desires, Wants, And Needs, Of Your Beloved

I mean total reckless abandonment.

Focus all your sexual power on her; holding nothing back.

Figure out what she needs, and at all costs give it to her.

Odds are, over the years, you’ve forgotten this insight; this gift.

She chose you; you chose her.

There was a reason for your marriage.

Remember what that was. And keep this memory first in your mind, during your time with her during the Holy Caress!

Sacrifice Four: Kill Your Ego

You are a man. Of course you have pride.
But during the time with your Beloved in the bedroom...

You must remove your ego and never let it come between you and the fulfillment of your wife.

How are you going to show her that you are the man she needs if for some reason you are unable to place her first at the time when she most needs you to do so?

Or would you rather pay that divorce lawyer?

Sacrifice Five: Making Love Is An Art

The problem? No one teaches us men about true intimacy.

How to be attentive; give everything we have to our Beloved; how to sacrifice every bit of ourselves.

And many times, we just fumble through sexual intimacy.

Big mistake.

We tell ourselves; we understand, but we don’t.

We tell ourselves we are doing it right, but realize we probably aren’t. LEARN YOUR ART!

Sacrifice Six: Remember Each Time You Make Love You Are Renewing Your Wedding Vows (Begin Part 2)

Refuse to forget this fact.

As the Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen says “It takes three to make love; you, your wife, and God” (the Divine Lover).

Marriage is special; a sacrament (sacred). God chose to raise marriage to this level.

Why? Because, He wants to make sure we understand how special marriage is; the marital embrace; children.

You made a vow before Him. Again, remember this.

Your promise of marriage, is the most important signature you’ve placed on a piece of paper in your life. Rise Up!

Sacrifice Seven: Your Wife Is Giving You A Gift; The Doorway To Her Very Soul

Over the decades, men have forgotten this fact. We forget, how precious our wives are.

We forget, what’s between their legs is more than an instrument of pleasure for us.

Her decision is a gift, each time.

She’s giving her soul, her complete self; the love she offers; sacred; special. Remember?

Sacrifice Eight: Never Lose Your Cool (Ejaculate) Before You’re your Wife Has Experienced Her First Climax

Another lost art.

Today we are selfish. We know it, and our wives know it.

Sure, we pretend like we aren’t; but we are.

Many of us have no idea, how to last longer in bed.

How to reach even 20 minutes; an hour; two hours; before we experience meltdown.

Over the years, this inadequacy can get worse.

The older we get, other problems arise.

Stamina for one.

Remember what I said earlier. SEX IS IMPORTANT TO YOUR WIFE! Even more important; than to you. This leads us to my next point.

Sacrifice Nine: Begin The Practice Of The Gift Of Ten

Look these days we can’t operate like our fathers and their fathers. Our wives have too many outlets and influences at their disposal

We must learn how to be great husbands. How to lead our families towards God.

And get our wife to allow us to do these things without combating us at every turn.

And one of the best ways is to understand how to love her better and deeper reaching her soul...

So that without a shadow of a doubt she trusts our love for her and knows we will never abandon her!

This one is why the gift of 10 is huge because it demands courage from you.

What is The Gift Of Ten?
The Gift Of Ten is a philosophy I created.

The practice encourages you, to make sure your beloved is completely fulfilled for that particular sex session.

The practice is advanced, and in many cases difficult.

But only because, the technique requires the mindset of complete and total sacrifice by you.

Sacrifice Ten: Ask Your Beloved; “Am I Fulfilling You Sexually?”

A significant problem for men today?

Many of us are effeminate.

We refuse toughness in any form.

We want comfort, pleasure, forever an easy chair. Anything that makes us uncomfortable; we won’t do.

Well, you wanted the answer to the question “What can a husband do to save his marriage?”

Sorry but this question is an important place to start.

Many wives today feel, insecure, unhappy, unfulfilled, and void of exhaustive love from you.

I’m willing to declare that your words no longer work with her. She is in most cases, tired of talk.
She now wants action.
Furthermore, you must ask this question.

You may get the truth, or you may not; doesn’t matter.

You’ll be able to read her body language. Observing this, will give you all the answers you need.

However, when you get the answer, I suspect you’ll want to fix it.

BUT FIRST, YOU MUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO ASK THE QUESTION!

BAM!

TRANSITION