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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given up

34 Ways To Win Her Heart Without Looking Desperate!

In this 108th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to win the heart of your wife daily!

"Why does a wife lose the fire and desire for the husband? Simple, because he loses the fire and desire for her!"

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha
  • In this 108th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • What happens if we don’t win the heart of our wife each day?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 108th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: Continues with How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up

Today we uncover Gift #17

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

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Quote Of The Day

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“I always want to see you behaving like a brave soldier who does not complain about his own suffering but takes his comrades' wounds seriously and treats his own as nothing but scratches. [END QUOTE]

~ Saint Therese of Lisieux, to her novices

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

How to save my marriage when my wife has given up:

Today is gift 17...

Which states: A Holy Lover wins the heart of his beloved daily!

Why should you win the heart of your Beloved daily?

Why do men lose the fire and passion for their beloved?

Why does a wife lose the fire and desire for her husband?

How do you win the heart of your beloved daily?

Why is emotional closeness so important for wives?

In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men...

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series...

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest...

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...

Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you...

Becoming the man God created you to be...

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?...

Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #17...

Which states...

A Holy Lover must suffer, sacrifice, and give his life away a little each day, for his Beloved!

And as the man of the home the defender from evil...

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle...

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is...

Will you cooperate?

After the break, we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry

So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...

Holy Lover Gift #17...which states...

A Holy Lover wins the heart of his beloved daily

We say we love our wives more than anything in the world when we marry them.

We make the unsaid promise of...

I will love you forever...

I will make you feel special every day...

You will always be the #1 priority in my life...

I will give you the world!

I will make you the happiest woman in the world!

But then over the years, we slowly but surely begin a habit of breaking that promise don’t we?

Then when she becomes unhappy and unfulfilled, and ask for space...

We then desperately try our best to regain the passion, fire, and the emotional closeness that has but all faded.

Or we participate in the madness and begin the blame game of...

Well if you showed more desire for me then I would show more for you.

If you respected me more, I would give you more attention.

You know the game by now and how it works.

And that criticize and blame game never works.

And only causes more conflict and resentment.

So, how do we stop this from happening.

Well what we do is we don’t let it happen in the first place.

Why should you win the heart of your Beloved daily?

Because if you don’t, you will eventually lose her love and the all important emotional connection she needs to stay with you!

Why do men lose the fire and passion for their beloved?

Many men have this unconscious...we have conquered them thing going on.

And once we have her, we naturally look for the next problem to solve. We stop serving her and praying for her and giving our life away for her.

And we begin treating her like she is a partner and not our Beloved who we deep down love completely but have forgotten over the pull of the daily grind

Why does a wife lose the fire and desire for her husband?

Simple, because her husband has lost the excitement, and passion for her.

Husbands are the leader and women wait around for the leader to be present.

Excitement and passion are contagious.

You want passion, excitement, fire, and desire...Try giving some consistently and you will see the change!

Why is emotional closeness so important for wives?

Because women are nurturers.

They are emotional in order to bond with their children. They nurture them and they nurture you.

The emotional connection is important because it gives her purpose a feeling of fulfillment...

That she is totally and completely loved by someone and that someone is you her beloved husband.

Without it, she sees no purpose in being near her husband, making love to him, or even doing things together or talking to him.

As husbands, we must never allow the emotional closeness to vacate our marriage through laziness, neglect, anger, or frustration or selfishness

How do you win the heart of your beloved daily?

Our man radar is always up we watch how she moves, how she talks, her body language, if she is sick, if she is happy, her moods.

Then we ask questions of why is she like this, is she ok, what can I do to help.

We show appreciation daily

We never ever take her or our marriage for granted

We protect her

We serve her

We do the little things that show we care even though we don’t have to.

We make her feel secure in our love, and never take that love for granted

You continuously learn everything possible about her

You always tell what you are thinking no matter how trivial or terrible

You involve her in your life by telling her specific details about your day

You make love to her outside the bedroom

We make her feel secure

We are forever curious about her

We always place her needs, wants, and desires before our own.

We listen to her daily without interruption and if we do interrupt it is only for clarification on a point she has made

We place her needs, desires, and wants first and foremost inside the bedroom by understanding what she needs as a woman to feel completely and totally fulfilled sexually

Inside the bedroom we leave or ego at the door! We solve marriage problems immediately!

We help her with her personal problems and give advice only if she asks, but otherwise we ask her when she is finished is there anything we can do to help

We don’t act like every other man in society and only do special things or buy her special gifts on her birthday, anniversary, Christmas, or Valentines Day! We do these things throughout the year and spontaneously!

We ask her opinion, then we actually value that opinion, and take her advice when it is warranted and if we don’t take her advice tell her why lovingly

We never make huge decisions without first consulting her

We whisk her away on three day weekends

We are always excited to see her

We tell her we miss her, we love her, we can’t live without her, we can’t wait to see her

You do everything you can to become her best friend and she your's

You pray for her daily through a rosary or some sort of meditative prayer

You pray together at least occasionally

We never neglect her and spend most of our free time with her

You have pleasurable and exciting conversations daily

You make her feel she can discuss anything with you no matter how bad or terrible it is by being approachable and always maintaining control as Christ would

You place her on a pedestal and you never pull he down from it

We become a Holy Lover (becoming the man God created us to be, we become the husband she needs)

Yes, this is a lot but it works and the payoff is immeasurable

Some problems just magnificently outweigh others.

And marriage maintenance is the way to never have to deal with the horror of Marriage Crisis.

These things are a matter of habit.

You say you love your Beloved...

Then never break the unsaid promise.

Show her that she is the most important things in your life not by words but by your actions...

She signed up for your love...

Not to have kids, do dishes, take out the trash, work hours upon hours with no end in sight...

She signed up for your love...

And you are duty bound to give her all that she can stand and more!

BAM!

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Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

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Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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About Jerry Jacobs Jr.

CatholicAlpha.com is about saving YOUR marriage (plain and simple!) By compelling YOU to become a Holy Lover (The husband your wife needs; The man God created you to be)

This is done through the teachings of the Catholic Church (Christ's Church). Learn what your father failed to teach YOU about (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, and Making Love Mastery!)

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Hasn't YOUR Beloved waiting long enough for her HERO to return?

Jerry attends Our Lady Of The Most Holy Rosary Parish in the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. He and his virtuous wife, Mary Kathleen are facilitators of the Adult Faith Formation ministry in their parish.

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