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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up:
4 Ways To Bond With Your Wife
In this 91st episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: Can a marriage survive if the husband and wife are not best friends? "The knowledge and intimate details of your beloved can only begin once you ignite true friendship and curiosity for her!"
- In this 91st episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
- How to bond with your wife for a happier marriage
- Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
- Caller #1 – Can long-distance love survive?
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Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?
Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?
- Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
- Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
- Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

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"Show Transcript"
Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…
While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!
Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –
IN THIS 91st EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: How to save my marriage when my wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever!)
Today we uncover Gift #9
Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…
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[QUOTE]"
“Love is friendship set on fire." [END QUOTE]
~Jeremy Taylor, Cleric in the Church of England, Author and Poet”
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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview
Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire
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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.
Is it vital for you and your wife to be best friends to have a great marriage?
Notice I didn’t say good marriage or ok marriage...
I said great and legendary marriage.
If your wife isn’t your best friend then ask yourself...
Who does she tell her deepest hopes, dreams, and concerns too?
Because if she isn’t your best friend then she will not tell you!
Can being best friends enhance the intimacy or the duty as a wife and husband to deeply try to fulfill each other in this area?
In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)
I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.
But I know men...
We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.
And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!
Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.
But in the Holy Lover series...
I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...
Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series
...and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.
I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.
I must also be completely transparent and honest...
A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.
He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.
Why?
Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.
Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!
But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!
The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...
Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!
Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?
Which is you...
Becoming the man God created you to be...
And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?
If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.
No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...
To begin warrior mode.
Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...
Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...
As the spiritual battle is now upon us.
I must ask, What will you do as a man?...
Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?
There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover
33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.
Today we cover Holy Lover gift #9...
Which states...
A Holy Lover is his wife’s best friend and she is his.
The battle for your marriage is a spiritual battle.
And as the man of the home the defender from evil...
Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.
If you lack the will for battle...
I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.
The only question is...
Will you cooperate?
After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.
What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment
Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.
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Call To Action #1
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview
Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry
Interview
So as promised...
How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...
Holy Lover Gift #9...which states...
A Holy Lover is his wife’s best friend and she is his!
If you and your Beloved, aren’t best friends, your marriage will eventually fail.
And I don’t mean just divorce. I mean a dull, lackluster, passionless marriage.
I mean, why did you get married? To spend time with other men; allowing them to steal precious moments away from your soulmate?
Your job is to become one flesh with your Beloved. How can you do this, if you and your wife share your dreams, wants, and desires with another human being?
The answer is; you can’t!
I married my best friend.
Yes, I did. I got it right.
I’ve known my wife since we were 12 years old. We met at summer camp. In fact, I and my sister are emphatic about not attending the camp.
If my mom hadn’t been so adamant about us going. I would’ve never met my future best friend and wife. Coincidence?
As I’ve said before, I don’t subscribe to coincidence. I was meant to meet my beloved. Thus, this theory is how you should view your Holy Union with your wife.
As a matter of fact, this view is how each husband and wife should reflect on their relationship.
Understand, you were destined to meet each other, find love and marry.
And if you’re meant to be married, then The Father had a purpose for you to fulfill in your marriage (Events are never random.)
Before my wife and I were married, we developed an unbelievable closeness.
As a matter of fact, we did everything together (What every husband and wife should do, might I say.)
I even did events with her which I didn’t care for. Although, there are places and events she isn’t on fire for as well.
Understand, suffering and sacrifice is what married couples (best friends) do for each other.
They sacrifice their needs and wants for the betterment of the whole (their marriage).
This mindset has to be eternal; not temporary. Remember, the goal is joy; not happiness. Happiness is too fleeting.
The rewards and benefits of sacrifice are so much more fulfilling and revealing (if you are patient and keep the end goal in mind).
What is the endgame? The sanctification (purification) of you and your beloved, spanning the decades.
What’s the payoff?
Your marriage; your family; your families future generations; LEGENDARY!
You will have changed your environment and your family tree forever!
There is a Domino Effect
Look, everything you do has a domino effect on your family, and every generation after you. Every action; every decision.
As a result, these doings affect you. Which in turn, affects your wife.
Next, your children and their children (and their children; something a husband and wife never seem to consider).
Realize, evil, never ends; until you man up and kill it!
It’s difficult to slow the dominos, and get them back in line. Once they start moving.
Start now. Cultivate a marriage like no other!
Make your Beloved your best friend.
And, encourage her to follow your lead.
Look, you Can Stop The Dominos From Falling
My wife does things with me she isn’t crazy about.
Why? Because I like them, and she is spending time with me. In fact, many wives mirror this.
Problem is, husbands don’t get it.
“I gotta go do this.”
“I gotta do that.”
“I’m going over John’s house to watch the football game.”
“I’m going out to the sports bar tonight with the fellas.”
“I’m working late, won’t be home for dinner.”
I’ll just leave you home and neglect you. While I do whatever I want in search of a good time.
Oh, of course we get mad when our wives tells us, she’s fallen for another man. Hmm, how did that happen?
Can You Afford To Take This Lightly?
To repeat, the relationship with your wife must rein far and above any other.
Above all, a husband and wife must strive to claim each other as best friends.
I understand; not going to be easy.
But listen, I promise, she can give you what you’re searching for (if you allow her to).
By the way, the benefits far outweigh the negatives (saving of your marriage, family, soul).
The closeness you are so much searching for. The oneness; the sacred intimacy. The exalted feeling of completeness!
YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS CAN’T GIVE YOU THIS.
In addition, would a real friend try to deny you this treasure?
Leave your boy’s in the sports bars. I don’t care if you’ve known them since childhood.
Don’t make the drastic mistake or adopt the illusion, they actually matter in the big scheme of your life.
Because, they don’t!
Remember Ephesians 5 (21-33?) Husbands are commanded to leave their mother and father, and cleave to their wives.
127. Question:
❖ Who’s tolerated you through the ups and downs?
❖ Who married your crazy butt in spite of yourself?
❖ Who gave her true, free and complete self to you (when your slimy rear end didn’t deserve a quarter?)
❖ Oh, and then gave you the greatest gift imaginable (your son, your daughter?) Priorities brother; priorities.
❖ If all your so-called “boyz” abandon you; right now; who would you run to? She, who is given to you by the Father as your helpmate, your partner, your confidante.
Today; right now! Start the steps of ensuring, you and your Beloved become inseparable for a lifetime.
How? By igniting the purifying power, awe inspiring practice of the best friends concept.
Talk about HOLY SEX! You will slap me for not telling you about this sooner.
Test Questions To See If You are Best Friends; One Flesh test you might say...
❖ If your wife isn’t the one who you love being with just because. She isn’t your best friend.
❖ If she isn’t the one who you can’t wait to go and encounter life with. She isn’t your best friend.
❖ If she isn’t the one who you turn to, to spill in complete confidence your deepest secrets worries and mysteries. She isn’t your best friend.
❖ If she’s not the one who you love to have fun with, she probably isn’t your best friend.
❖ If she isn’t the one who you long to behold every day, then she isn’t your best friend.
❖ If she isn’t the one that as she walks through the door, you shiver with excitement, because she’s at last arrived home and you missed her, then she isn’t your best friend.
❖ If she isn’t the one who your day isn’t complete until,
➢ you have heard her voice,
➢ you may have a serious problem
➢ and you’re just existing in a relationship
➢ and aren’t in essence one with each other because,
➢ “She isn’t your best friend!”
❖ If you do everything you can to avoid going home at night. Then your wife isn’t your best friend.
❖ If you put your momma, your daddy, your brother, your sister, aunt, uncle, Joe, Bob, Nina, the kids, before your beloved. Yep, you guessed correct. She isn’t your best friend.
❖ If you don’t tell her the hard problems because you are trying to protect her; Sorry; not your best friend!
Relationships take time and hard work.
So, if you aren’t present and are an absentee husband (in essence, checked out in the emotional and literal sense)
how do you expect your marriage to grow, prosper, be your all in all? It can’t
Look at the Best Friend Concept Like This...
It’s hard to leave and abandon your best friend.
It’s tough to hurt and disrespect your best friend.
In an extreme sense, it’s difficult to betray your best friend.
But millions of men commit all the above acts against someone who they’re in lust for or proclaim to be so-called, in love with every day!
The best friend concept ignites intimacy like no other!
Again, love is friendship set on fire!
The knowledge and intimate details of your beloved can only begin once you ignite true friendship and curiosity for her!
So what can you do to begin the best friend concept...
I’m going to list some things that have helped me build the most special friendship possible.
Feel free to analyze and adopt them for yourself; how to bond with your wife
❖ #1 Deep prayer – prayer produces and intimate love for the beloved!
❖ #2 Deep Conversation:
➢ Not surface or small talk
➢ We delve deep into discussion on important topics to each other, and to our family's lives
➢ Talk about any and everything on your mind.
➢ Get it out; hold nothing back
➢ Use all your words for the day on your wife; not your friends. Build unbreakable rapport with her, for a lifetime.
❖ #3 Never Stop Learning About Each Other
➢ Never stop asking questions about each other.
➢ Always be curious to learn more.
➢ Being genuinely interested in each other.
➢ This is easy the first year. But what about the tenth year?
➢ I promise your Beloved has many mysteries to her
➢ Your job? Find each one.
❖ #4 Simply Spending Time Together (an enormous amount)
➢ How can you grow if your time together is sparse?
➢ Do everything and all things together.
➢ Familiarity breeds love and friendship.
➢ The potential problem is once you do these things: you stop doing them and boredom and taking each other for granted sets in; again.
BAM!
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Call To Action #2
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit
SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
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Conclusion
As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI
Quote “Society offers you comfort…
But you weren’t made for comfort…
You were made for greatness!
So go forth Christian Soldier…
The Spiritual fight is upon you…
Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!
Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!
More About Catholic Alpha Radical!
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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.
Why?
I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...
- Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
- The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
- Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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