I mean anything of value such as, how they can better satisfy each other.

Or, what marital intimacy really means in the big scheme of their marriage.

Or the big one; the wife won’t tell her husband, the father of her children;

That she isn’t having fulfilling sexual experiences with him.

I mean, you would think this little tid bit of information would be important.

But, she can tell a friend or a family member.

Somebody, please tell me, what telling her friend is going to do?

Or, how it’s going to help?

No, don’t bother. I will answer this one.

IT CAN’T!

Look, talking about sex can be uncomfortable, especially for men.

Most of the talk, if not all of it, is about eroticism, pornography (soft and hard)

With men, it’s about how many women we conquered, and what they did to us and for us.

All trying to boost up our egos.

No one ever takes the time to really sit down, and get to the core of sexuality.

Its purpose, and why we have it and why The Father created it for us.

Same thing with marriage.

We are so ignorant as to why we even get married.

ex is about intimacy; not eroticism (lust). This is what our society is about.

And this my friend, is why men are so clueless about the marital embrace.

They haven’t been formed correctly.

They haven’t been taught or conditioned on the proper ways to make love to their beloved.

Don’t trust me? Don’t believe me?

Well just look at the divorce rate.

Man, it’s above 50%, with 25% of the remaining 50% married, but in total misery.

Heck, 70-80 percent of the divorces filed are filed by women!

And they say we shouldn’t talk about sex or bring God into the bedroom!

So, what’s going on?

Well, people over time, begin to take their beloved for granted.

They forget how to love them.

They in fact, over time, forget about true intimacy, self-giving and sacrifice for one another.

Without these three core things, your marriage is doomed to failure.

This is why intimacy is so important in marriage.

It keeps us close to each other at all times.

It keeps us best friends.

It keeps us close, and one flesh with the Father.

The husband above, is only doing what he was taught, or what he figured out on his own.

Which most of the time, is lacking in what true sexuality, intimacy and closeness is really about.

Let’s discuss a few things that are important for us to understand, as we move forward.

I want to give you a reason, a purpose, a mission as to why you should change your mindset.

Again, we in this society are hypocritical. We only speak about the surface of our sexuality.

But when someone wants to really discuss it or write about it. We get all clamed up and righteous.

We start shying away and rationalizing.

Oh, that’s dirty or immoral.

Or we try to bring The Father into it saying, “it’s impure”

In fact, giving us a way out of the discussion.

Releasing us from the duty of having to talk about it, in any meaningful way.

My man, this is exactly why 75% of us are premature ejaculators and can’t fully and deeply satisfy, fulfill or make our beloved happy.

This also is why 90% of women never experience a deep and fulfilling intimate experience.

Because we (men) have forgotten how to sacrifice ourselves for our wives.

To in fact, be her hero, her protector, her champion.

Yep, I said it.

We are letting our wives down in so many ways.

But we can bounce back.

We can again take charge.

We can be the one in control of our wives fulfillment, security and happiness.

But in order to do this, we must educate ourselves; become knowledgeable in the areas of marriage, intimacy and Christ.

Then and only then, can we get on the road, to becoming the man God is calling us to be.

As well as, the husband our wives need us to be.

So, now with the help of Saint Pope John Paul II

We will go into the Catholic Church’s view on intimacy...

and the complete fulfillment of a wife...

and the consequences of husbands not placing her first and foremost during intimacy.

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love is defined in the Catholic Faith as “Willing and ensuring the true good of the other.”

Why would I bring up the taboo word love?

Well, in order to make love, and be the best versions of ourselves in this act.

We must understand what love actually is.

And since we now know that love is seeking the good and well-being of our beloved.

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