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Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 86th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: How to save my marriage when my wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever!)

Today we uncover Gift #7

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“It takes three to make love, not two, you, your spouse and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.” [END QUOTE]

~Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen: Book – Three To Get Married

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men…

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series…

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”…

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

… and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest…

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever…

Will help…and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you…

Becoming the man God created you to be…

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle…

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must…

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword…

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?…

Return to your man cave…or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #7…

Which states…

A Holy Lover reads, understands, and applies Ephesians 5 (21-33) in service of his Beloved and the Father.

In short, a Holy Lover must understand marriage and the road map of marriage.

This is where Ephesians 5 (vs 21-33) come in

These versus explains to us who to love…

Who to respect…

Who to serve…

And who to leave…

For happiness and fulfillment in our marriage.

Today we are going to explore this Sacred Scripture more closely.

There are many misconceptions about Ephesians 5 vs 21-33.

This is because as usual, many don’t understand or even care to understand God’s plan for their happiness.

The Creator of the human machine always knows what He is doing…

If we would only listen!

The battle for your marriage is a spiritual battle.

And as the man of the home the defender from evil…

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle… I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is…

Will you cooperate?

After the break, we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

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[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

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Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

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So as promised…

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up…

Holy Lover Gift #7…

A Holy Lover reads, understands, and applies Ephesians 5 (21-33) in service of his Beloved and the Father.

(21) Wives and husbands be subordinated to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Isn’t if funny. In society you never hear this verse quoted. But out of the 13 verses this verse is the most telling of what Christ is asking.

If both spouses are subordinate or submit to each other out of love, respect, obedience and reverence for Christ, how can either encounter total domination?

(22) Wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord.

You must understand that St. Paul starts with the complete responsibility of both spouses acting as one in verse 21.

In being married remember that you and your spouse are no longer individuals, with separate bodies and minds. But, are one flesh acting only together as one.

Each not only belongs to one another, but actually have bodily rights over each other!

So, now in verse 22, St. Paul instructs each spouse in a more direct manner what they are expected to do individually in order to accomplish total and complete oneness with each other.

In each family the husband is the head, but the wife is the heart. These two cannot and must not be in conflict.

Understand that the Natural Order is also an order of protection from the diabolical. Many women seem to forget this little known fact.

(23) For the husband is head of his wife just as Christ is head of the Church, He Himself the savior of the body.

Remember, that Christ is not only the head of the Church, but also he came from Heaven incarnate to save the Church as well.

Understand that Christ is the groom and the Church is his bride.

And in this context what did Our Lord do? He gave himself, sacrificed himself for the Church; the communion of the body.

Here husbands are commanded to love, govern, protect and give up his entire life for his wife. As she is his bride as the Church is Christs bride. You see?

(24) As the Church is subordinate to Christ, wives should be subordinate to their husbands in everything.

Ok, submit, subordinate, subject to; all mean the same. But what is the exact meaning of these three ideas?

Here wives are asked to submit to their husbands, but only as long as they are on the mission of Christ and his Church.

Remember verse 21 and 22, submit to each other “In reverence to Christ”, “As to the Lord”.

If the husband is always following Christ and His Church, the wife is obligated to follow and lead the family in this direction as well.

Why? Because you love The Father and if you love him you must keep and do as he asks.

(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.

(26) To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,

(27) That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.

What is your number one responsibility as a husband? To make sure your wife becomes Holy, a saint and to make sure her soul is accepted into Heaven. Big responsibility huh?

This is why you must above all things, sacrifice your life little by little, day by day. Only then will you have accomplished your mission.

Sacrifice your one and only life so that your precious wife, shall be purified, cleansed and spotless before God. Because you gave yourself for her.

Then and only then will she become the woman that you need. The woman that God created her to be.

For this The Father will forever reward you.

28) So also, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

(29) For no one hates his own flesh, but rather nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ does the church,

Again, St. Paul aggressively defines the role of the husband, to be clear that a husband cannot abuse his privilege (his wife, his helpmate, made from him, without whom he would be incomplete).

Again, we must refer back to the first verse 21, the foundation of this whole passage. Husbands and wives must submit to each other. Wives are our helpmates, guides, not doormats. As the opposite holds true for wives. The husband is not to be manipulated or abused in any way. Decisions must be made as partners.

How beautiful is this? But when we disobey God and go our own way, turn our backs on him, evil (sin) is allowed to enter the marriage. From this; chaos, abuse and selfishness ensues.

(30) because we are members of his body.

(31) For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

(32) This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the Church.

No relationship on earth is more important than your marriage. All other relationships (mother, father, children, friends) should pale in comparison.

Again, marriage takes three: Husband, wife, The Father.

Without your wife, your marriage, do you in actuality have a family? I would argue you don’t.

As stated, this is a mystery. We must trust in The Father, and let him lead us. While giving our obedience free and without doubt. Ah, faith, that beautiful, magnificent gift.

(33) In any case, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and the wife should respect her husband.

To repeat, St Paul has led us starting with verse 21. Instructing us in the ultimate purpose of this passage. Husbands and wives should in the end serve, submit, care for and sacrifice for each other. Just as Christ showed us.

Notice this passage says nothing about wives love your husband, but respect your husband.

He told the wife what she must do. He instructed the husband in what he must do.

And, in the end, he directs both on the ultimate purpose and actions to be completed.

In his Apostolic Exhortation: Familiaris Consortio Pope John Paul II writes:

[Quote]Authentic conjugal love presupposes and requires that a man have a profound respect for the equal dignity of his wife:

“You are not her master,” writes St. Ambrose, “but her husband; she was not given to you to be your slave, but your wife… Reciprocate her attentiveness to you and be grateful to her for her love.”

With his wife, a man should live a very special form of personal friendship.

As for the Christian, he is called upon to develop a new attitude of love, manifesting toward his wife a charity that is both gentle and strong like that which Christ has for his Church.[End Quote]

There you have it. God, a saint and a pope (who has become a saint) telling you with as much love and care they can muster, to follow the plan. What else do you need?

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby\

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!