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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up

My Wife Is Cheating What Should I Do?

In this 106th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: What to do if your wife is having an affair!

"A man of God, realizes that he must learn to control his urges, Battle his inner demons, and protect his Beloved from himself!"

Jerry Jacobs Jr - Catholic Alpha

  • In this 106th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • How to save Catholic marriage when my wife has given up: My wife is cheating what should I do?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1: How do I stop my divorce?
  • Caller #2: My girlfriend turned down my proposal for marriage, what should I do?

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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 106th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: Continues with How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up

Today we uncover Gift #16

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

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Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

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[QUOTE]

“When it is all over you will not regret having suffered; rather you will regret having suffered so little, and suffered that little so badly.[END QUOTE]

~St. Sebastian Valfre

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

How to save my marriage when my wife has given up: My wife is cheating what should I do?

Today is gift 16...

Which states: A Holy Love must embrace fidelity!

Why are men called to control their passions?

If our wife has an affair on us are we obliged to return the favor?

If we are in marriage crisis and our wife has left the home or wants a divorce why do we lose all credibility if we get another woman?

If our wife refuses to make love to us does that give us the right to masturbate?

If our wife refuses to be intimate with us is this a license to watch pornography or get a prostitute?

Why is it a mortal sin for our wife to refuse to make love to us?

If our wife has given up on the marriage, when is it appropriate for us to give up on the marriage as well?

In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men...

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series...

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest...

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...

Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you...

Becoming the man God created you to be...

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?...

Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #14...

Which states...

A Holy Lover must suffer, sacrifice, and give his life away a little each day, for his Beloved!

And as the man of the home the defender from evil...

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle...

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is...

Will you cooperate?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser...

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Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 !

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has she asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now...call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry

So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...

Holy Lover Gift #16...which states...

A Holy Lover embraces fidelity

If you are serious about understanding your masculinity; your manliness.

The first virtue you must endure is chastity.

A man of God, realizes that he must learn to control his urges.

Battle his inner demons, and protect his Beloved from himself.

How can we proclaim, were are “A Man Of Courage” “True Man”, a “Holy Lover” if we indulge in our own selfishness?

Man, you are not made for this. You are made for more than this.

If you can’t make the woman you have now happy.

What makes you presume, you can make another happy without fixing yourself.

Furthermore, conquering the battle within yourself?

I want you to be that man!

The one who others look to for guidance, and as an example of Authentic Masculinity, leading them towards the Father!

You can do this, you are made for this, you must do this!

Embrace fidelity!

Why are men called to control their passions?

We must embrace suffering and sacrifice for our bride as Christ did for his bride the Church. This is True Man!

Controlling our passions, urgers, are what real men do.

Doing this we become virtuous, holy, and move closer to God Himself.

This draws our wife closer to us, making her want to love us!

If our wife has an affair on us are we obliged to return the favor?

Sure...if you want to lose all credibility with your wife, children, parents, friends, etc.

No one will tell you the truth because these days no one really loves you enough to tell you the truth.

If you are in marriage crisis and you tell your wife you love her and want her back, then go out and become unfaithful, what kind of message is this really sending.

Basically that you won’t change, have not changed, and can’t change!

If we are in marriage crisis and our wife has left the home or wants a divorce why do we lose all credibility if we get another woman?

First off we draw the other woman into our sin, and kill her soul

Next, if we are unable to keep our wife happy what makes us think that we can keep the next woman, and the next, and the next happy.

Truth...we can’t!

The only way to gain credibility, and get our wife to again trust us, we must be as Christ and control our passions!

If our wife refuses to make love to us does that give us the right to masturbate?

I hear this all of the time...man I have needs to be met.

I ask is masturbating really fulfilling a need or is it opening the door to the demonic in your home?

Spilling our seed as a man on the ground is a mortal sin and Onan was struck down by God for doing this.

Love is meant to be shared and our masculine seed is valuable, has purpose, and is proof of our love for God, and our beloved.

We participate in the giving of life, a Godlike gift given to us as men.

Why do we degrade ourselves by wasting it and hurting our soul?

If our wife refuses to be intimate with us is this a license to watch pornography or get a prostitute?

Pornography even if it is a picture of our wife is gravely sinful.

It kills the soul and causes premature ejaculation and eventually erectile dysfunction.

Pornography invites the demonic into your home and open the door to chaos.

Which is the number one job of Satan.

And is the very reason our marriages and homes become unsettled, our wife becomes unhappy, depressed, and unfulfilled.

Pornography and masturbation are infidelity and our wives know it...

Because they are not getting our complete selves which belongs to them!

Why is it a mortal sin for our wife to refuse to make love to us?

Simple, it interferes in the number one reason we are placed on this earth...

For the creation of souls that are sent back to God to be happy with Him for eternity.

When men interfere in creation (same-sex attraction, abortion, no fault divorce, birth control) God is displeased and slams the hammer.

Why because this is His ultimate plan to have souls in heaven with Him!

So when our wife refuses intimacy with us because of selfishness, or fake sickness, or because she is so-called tired, or because she is mad, or for whatever reason she can think of to not serve her husband and God

it a mortal sin because it interferes in creation and the real meaning and reason God created marriage in the first place!

Procreation, education of the children in the faith, and unity of the spouses

If our wife has given up on the marriage, when is it appropriate for us to give up on the marriage as well?

Christ said Himself that divorce was only allowed by Moses because of the hardness of our hearts.

In the new testament, he declares that divorce is grave and that God forbids it.

So, that being said, there are only two reason for separation for our spouses and divorce is never even in the picture.

One: physical abuse Two: infidelity

And once those two things are rectified the spouse is to forgive the other and return to the home and begin the marriage anew.

The only way to separate permanently from our spouse in the eyes of God is to apply and receive an annulment!

And that is only if the marriage was unlawful in the eyes of God.

Meaning before the marriage someone lied, or was not in the right mindset for marriage.

Then and only then should the marriage technically be given up on, because it is now over in the eyes of the state (divorce) and in the eyes of God (annulment)

Why? Because you, were made, for greatness! Show her that you are more than enough man for her! Once again, become her Hero! BAM!

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Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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About Jerry Jacobs Jr.

CatholicAlpha.com is about saving YOUR marriage (plain and simple!) By compelling YOU to become a Holy Lover (The husband your wife needs; The man God created you to be)

This is done through the teachings of the Catholic Church (Christ's Church). Learn what your father failed to teach YOU about (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, and Making Love Mastery!)

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Hasn't YOUR Beloved waiting long enough for her HERO to return?

Jerry attends Our Lady Of The Most Holy Rosary Parish in the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. He and his virtuous wife, Mary Kathleen are facilitators of the Adult Faith Formation ministry in their parish.

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