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The 8-Step Battle Plan
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How To Save My Marriage Alone When My Wife Has Given Up:
The 8-Step Battle Plan
In this 101st episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to fix my marriage alone if my wife doesn't want to "The key to saving a Marriage Crisis is to have a logical plan to follow"
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- How to save my marriage alone using an 8-Step Battle Plan!
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Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…
While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.
If you are in Marriage Crisis how do you save your marriage when your wife acts as if she could care less?
What actually is Marriage Crisis?
How do you know when you are in Marriage Crisis?
How do you save your marriage by yourself?
Is it even possible to save a marriage when it seems all is lost?
After the break, we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.
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[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]
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Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
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That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
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So as promised...
How to save your marriage alone even if it seems your wife has given up...
The 8-Step Battle Plan
The keys to saving a marriage in Marriage Crisis is to have a logical plan to follow.
Many don’t know what to do...who to ask...
and if they did the odds are the person would have no clue on how to help.
When men come to me, they are so many steps behind their wife.
She has planned for years the moves she is making.
And so, when we men find out...we are playing catchup from the get go.
Our wives have decided that they can be happier with us then without us...no matter what the Church says, God says, or you say...she is done!
And so, they have implemented a plan of escape which I call the Wives Exit Strategy.
So today we will discuss a plan of how to save your marriage alone...even if your wife seems not to care or even wants to help you!
Sound impossible? Sure, it does on the surface...
But that is what the Evil One does to you when you are alone and have no help...
He plays on your vulnerability. And it works.
Which is why many men don’t sign up for marriage help!
STEP ONE: Patience With Action
It’s taken decades to get where you are.
You must be patient and take this one step at a time.
Hence “Patience With Action!” Be at peace with it!
Do not try and rush your wife. As many of you have seen this does not work.
She will say that “she feels uncomfortable” which is code for you are moving too fast!
We can’t rush love or an emotional connection or closeness.
In these eight steps you must stay in the current step until you master it.
Once you make your final plea of asking her to change her mind and she doesn’t agree...YOU MUST LET IT GO! And move to the “8 Step Battle Plan!”
If you move out of the current step before mastering it, you will have trouble and your progress will regress.
This is how you know that you are moving too fast!
If you begin arguing again, or she begins to rebel or say hateful and disrespectful things YOU ARE MOVING TOO FAST!
This is the beauty of this system. You can troubleshoot it and know when you need to go back to a step because things are getting chaotic.
Be patient and know that you have a plan that can and will work if you don’t think like a man and try to jump around and skip steps.
Moving too fast will kill your progress and throw you backwards!
And if you miss one step and don’t go in order this will again throw you even further backwards!
STEP TWO: The Tougher It Gets The More You Lean On Christ
Things will get hard. You will feel hopeless at times, during these times you must lean on your 500lbs gorilla (Jesus Christ!)
Give it to him and you stay focused.
Remember you have your mission, the Holy Spirit has His mission, Jerry has his mission, and your lawyer has his mission!
We all are a team, and we must let each other do our jobs!
We must work together and lean on each other to win the war!
The harder it gets for ex: (more Adoration – if you are only going once a week move to two. If you are doing two move to three etc.)
This is why you came to me for a plan!
So, become laser focused and stick to the plan!
This will give you comfort!
With each step you must build a foundation of success before you move on to the next step!
For ex: One good night of conversation does not mean you should go out the next night to dinner, then have sex and think that all is wonderful in the world.
Each step should be done multiple times to build a foundation of success, consistency and habit!
STEP THREE – STOP REPELLING & START ATTRACTING: Put Your Wife At Ease (Create Calm And Relaxation)
It’s time you understand it’s what you say but how you say it to your wife that counts.
Small talk is the key at this stage as well as actively finding something to agree on and to not argue or bicker!
You and your wife must begin a habit of ease and relaxation with each other while you are in the same room.
If there is tension or stress at the sight of each other, she will not want to have a conversation with you or do activities alone with you, for example.
One of the things to make her feel more comfortable and at ease is to stop trying to get her to change her mind on leaving, divorcing, or coming back home.
When you see her be sincerely glad to see her.
Another is to leave the tough relationship conversations for a specific time not each and every time you see her.
Once she sees you are not trying change her mind or put pressure on her to talk about your relationship problems, she will begin to relax and open up to you!
When you see her give her a glass of wine and you do the same and help her relax.
In other words, keep things lite so she begins to relax around you!
STEP FOUR - ATTRACT: You Must Stop YOUR Marriage Killing Behaviors (Neediness)
Remember, you are the leader and everything is your responsibility in the eyes of God.
You cannot and must not expect your wife to lead in this area why?
Because in her mind for years or even decades she has done all of this and in her mind you didn’t listen or help her in any way. So she has given up.
This is why you must take the lead. Because she doesn’t see any reason to.
At all cost you must stop these damaging behaviors...
Arguing, bickering, debating, criticizing her, trying to control her, correcting her behavior, blaming her, and complaining, verbally attacking her, and defending, reminding, and stopping the need to defend yourself!
All these do is push her further away. And stops your relationship from progressing.
Each time you feel the need to do any of these relationship killers ask yourself: Do you want to be right, or do you want your marriage and family back?
Once you get your wife to relax with you (step three) and you stop the needy and unmasculine behaviors (step four) It will be much easier to do step five of great and enjoyable conversations.
The way you stop the killing behaviors is, if things begin to rise to arguing...you only respond to what you agree with, and say nothing on things she says that you don’t agree with!
If you break this rule, you will cause an argument and your relationship will regress!
STEP FIVE - CONNECT: Create Pleasurable Conversations With Your Wife
You notice I didn’t say enjoyable conversations for you.
Again, this is not about your ego or feelings, it’s temporarily about her. You building a closeness with her, which is all important for women.
How do you do this?
You two must again enjoy each others company.
When you first met you were completely into her and she knew it.
You listened, didn’t interrupt, listened intently, and smiled and nodded. This is what you do now.
Learn her hobbies, her activities, her wants, desires, dreams, and give them to her fully in conversation, so she once again enjoys speaking and spending time with you.
This will take time, but again “patience with action” will get you there!
You must have conversations that help your wife feel good about herself and about you.
This will start to build the emotional connection that you are now missing! Again, don’t rush this, do it many times.
If you again start arguing or bickering you must start all over again!
Remember, time is on your side, consistency and persistency works wonders.
This kills all of her thoughts about trust, manipulation, etc.
The main key her is no relationship killing behaviors (arguing, debating controlling her, etc.)
STEP SIX: Use Boundaries To Stop The Marriage Killing Behaviors Your Wife Is Doing
To earn respect and love we must insert boundaries, there is no other way, and it works!
Remember, people always hate change. Especially when they are used to getting their way with it!
Once you try and get your wife to stop arguing, debating, controlling you, bickering with you, criticizing you, blaming you...SHE WILL GET PISSED!
If you give in even one time to this controlling behavior, she will start and keep doing it.
Why? BECAUSE IT WORKS WITH YOU!
If you don’t put up walls for these behaviors your relationship will never change.
You must always tell her sincerely that you love her but you can no longer put up with this type of disrespect, and destructive behaviors to your relationship!
Again, this will be painful for you at first. But you must push through the pain and maintain focus on the future!
Without these boundaries there will be no future!
Please remember, that the consistency with the first five steps will help you immensely in this most difficult step!
STEP SEVEN – BUILD CLOSENESS: Time For Enjoyable, fun, and pleasurable Activities
This does not mean sex!
Men think that once they have sex things are great again (NOT!)
Women get confused if they have sex before they are totally committed again, and this can cause a serious regression in the relationship!
Doing activities that are fun, exciting, and loving further solidify your renewed relationship. They build closeness and naturally build to intimacy outside the bedroom.
Which leads to intimacy inside the bedroom!
As I tell all of you that reach the “making love mastery category” Intimacy inside the bedroom is the coup de gras!
Don’t ruin your relationship at this time by having sex to quickly unless your wife actually asks for it.
STEP EIGHT - BOND: Enjoying The Marital Embrace
In the first 7 steps you’ve created an emotional bond and a closeness that will now be hard to break if you don’t screw it up!
Your love making will now include the Trinity (you, your wife, and God).
Your marriage, life, and family have changed and will continue growing closer to God.
This is why you must continue to progress and not get lazy or again take your Beloved for granted!
You are now primed for a legendary marriage! God Love You!!!
STEP NINE: How To Talk About Problematic Issues
Never talk about sensitive issues until your relationship has become strong enough to withstand it.
Basically, you two have agreed to give your marriage another chance and are committed to it!
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Call To Action #2
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit
SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
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Conclusion
As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI
Quote “Society offers you comfort…
But you weren’t made for comfort…
You were made for greatness!
So go forth Christian Soldier…
The Spiritual fight is upon you…
Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!
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- The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
- Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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