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Intimacy For Husbands

In Essence; The Sacrificing Of Self

And again, never call her simply by her name, but with terms of endearment, with honor, with much love.

Honor her, and she will not need honor from others;
she will not want the glory that comes from others, if she enjoys that which comes from thee.

Prefer her before all, on every account, both for her beauty
and her discernment, and praise her.

Thou wilt thus persuade her to give heed to none that are without, but to scorn all the world except for thyself.

Teach her the fear of God, and all good things will flow from this as from a fountain, and the house will be full of ten thousand blessings.”

~St. John Chrysostom~On Marriage; On Your Beloved

Intimacy: To Deny Thy Self For Thy Beloved

Today, this minute; in this world; what are you willing to sacrifice your one and only life for?

I don't mean someone withdraws a Glock; places it to your head, spouting, "You choose; your wife or yourself?"

How often, in a lifetime will this happen?

No, I mean, what are you willing to sacrifice, suffer and endure, day by day, month by month, year by year? In fact, give your life away.

If your answer neglects to include your marriage; your Beloved; far must you travel, to understand the true meaning, and intention of intimacy.

Furthermore, are you content with your marriage relationship? Do you even realize that contentment breeds complacency (taking your beloved for granted?)

If you are; again, you have many miles to go, before understanding the marital embrace the way the Father intends.

I ask you to become "A Man Of Courage". Never rest, never cease, embracing your agreed sacrifice.

In fact, be relentless in the pursuit of your Beloved's fulfillment; her happiness; her feelings of security.

Until you understand every mystery, every nuance of your Beloved; you cannot afford to rest on your laurels. Furthermore, divorce; separation; dissatisfaction can, and will start to loom over your household.

So, Rise up off the couch. Focus with pinpoint accuracy upon your number one mission as a Christian husband. To protect, defend, and serve your Beloved.

Sacrifice for her each day (small things, medium things, large things of importance). Why? Brother didn't you get the memo? PEACE!

Until you give your life away. Until you sacrifice it, lose it; suffer for another. Then and only then, can your number one mission be accomplished (in essence, become a man.)

To present your Beloved before the Father (spotless, purified and sanctified).

But, this can't begin until you learn how to sacrifice, deny yourself, postpone your desires, and pleasures for the total and complete fulfillment of your Beloved. (more on how the marital embrace is meant to be here maritalhealing.com)

So, below I present to you; Catholic Alpha's: Intimacy For Husbands Page.

The page designed to help you reach the apex of intimacy in your marriage. Each article designed with you in mind. It's divided into 4 sections:

Intimacy Outside The Bedroom
Making Love Mastery
Female Orgasm: Wisdom
Sexless Marriage

So, sit in your big chair. Light a cigar. Grab a beer, or pour yourself a smooth glass of Crown Royal.

You're about to explore the possibilities of what your marriage could be; is supposed to be; demanded of you by Christ. In essence, a journey into the soul of your Beloved.

Your adventure starts now.