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Marriage Coaching Advice From A Saint:
And again, never call her simply by her name, but with terms of endearment, with honor, with much love.Honor her, and she will not need honor from others;
she will not want the glory that comes from others, if she enjoys that which comes from thee.Prefer her before all, on every account, both for her beauty
and her discernment, and praise her.Thou wilt thus persuade her to give heed to none that are without, but to scorn all the world except for thyself.Teach her the fear of God, and all good things will flow from this as from a fountain, and the house will be full of ten thousand blessings.”
So You Can Again, Become Her Hero
I've been there; crappy marriage; crappy as a husband; crappy as a father; and a crappy servant for Our Lord.
Revelation? I was too stupid to understand how crappy I was. Tearing the heart out of my Beloved. Exposing my children to terrible and immoral schools, friends, and a Godless environment.
Moreover, I assumed, I had it all under control. I held, I was a good husband and friend, for my wife (yep, denial). I conned myself into believing she was happy, fulfilled, and thriving.
I was mistaken. In truth, there was always something missing. Sure, we laughed, and experienced good times. The kids seemed ok and progressing. Still, it always seemed as though something was lacking. Something I wasn’t getting.
The emptiness (In particular, when I was alone.) The struggling to make it all fit together. The continual distraction; trying to fill my empty gut with temporary injections of excitement.
Such as sports, sex, video games, partying, an endless drive to make money. Not to mention, cars, material gains, food, alcohol. And last, pure and total selfishness, and focus on myself.
See, many times, all seems abundant; wonderful. We benefit from an unbelievable job/career. We're making money; got a sweet-looking car. Spend time with our; so-called buddies.
Furthermore, our wife puts on a front as though she's happy. However, deep down, she's worried, and sometimes depressed. More and more miserable, but refuses to burden us with it.
In my experience, without the Father to lean on, sooner or later, your marriage, money, so-called happiness, job, career, your children's life, your life, will all; crash! Hence, my offer of marriage coaching for husbands.
Bright Lights; Big City
Realize, society will tell you that God is a crutch. In fact, you as a man, should be able to do, and manage altogether on your own. Sir, this concept is a complete illusion.
But, don't take my word. Look in the mirror; analyze your life; your Beloved's life; your mom's; your dad's, your buddies and their marriages?
Consider the so called successful people you idolize (movie stars, athletes, business men; hell; presidents). Their lives are total scams and shams.
Why? Because the Father only engulfs you in His grace for so long.
He knows, and anyone worth their salt knows that in due course, evil will settle into your life. So much so, you won't even realize how turning your back on Our Lord is driving you and your family into unchartered depths. Which sometimes, seems as though there’s no return.
My job? I don't want you to be that man. I don't want pride (because you reason you have it all together; because you refused the marriage coaching being offered.) to cloud your perception of your actual situation.
This illusion is the prime goal of society; to distract men from their prime importance. Keep them stupid, dumb, ignorant, aloof and occupied with trivial deeds. In essence, keep them asleep and foggy to their real mission. It’s working quite well isn’t it?
Look, I want you to be a man who understands his weaknesses as a creature. One who wants to lead his marriage, and his family to greatness. Not merely surviving day to day. Meanwhile, inducing societies stimulants, to mask your numbness.
But, a thriving marriage, full of passion, emotion, splendor, closeness, devotion and friendship (one flesh).
Moreover, a wife who spreads her love to your children, and each whom encounter her. Why? Because of the happiness, fulfillment, security of your love, and devotion to her, and the Father!
This magnificence is what I want for you. Because in the end, the true measure of a man, isn't his money, his friends, his career, his possessions. It's the love, admiration, respect, honor and devotion, his Beloved feels for him; his children perceive in him.
The greatness; the legend of the marriage and family he created (ordered towards God) fulfilled. And, the spreading of that wonder, to their families, and their children's children.
This my friend is a true legacy. But, it comes with a high burden. And that’s total, and complete sacrifice by you, united in Christs suffering!
No one, I mean, no one is ignorant enough to really believe, as they lie on their death bed; preparing for judgement, "Please, can I count my money one last time?"
"Can I go to work, or play one last video game?"
“Can I have just one more party, with my buddies?”
Of course not!
Your True Purpose
As A Christian Husband
I’m asking you, as a man, a husband, a father; a man of Christ. Begin focusing on your mortality. You do understand, your life will end; time does; run out? No more accolades, super bowls, awards, fame, fortune, parties?
If you don’t perform your first duty where will your Beloved end up? How will your children fair? I know, this may kill your buzz; be a downer. But, I challenge; time’s running low. You’ve wasted enough.
Construct your legacy now!
So, below I present to you; Catholic Alpha's: Marriage Mentoring For Husbands Page.
The full scope of training and teachings, to help you the Catholic husband, get the marriage coaching he needs.
Further, jettisoning his marriage to greatness. Or, preventing his marriage from tumbling from grace.
Each course is designed with you in mind. In essence, to become True Man; A Man Of Courage: In truth, the holy man, the holy husband, the holy lover, God is calling you to be!
Further, the man God created you to be.
Above all, this starts with your number one duty, responsibility; end game. Your Marriage!
Below are mentoring options to further your mission.
Consider the explanation of each below. Click on the link to view a full scope of the product, and what the course can do for you.
And last, I’m thrilled. You're about to explore the possibilities of what your marriage could be; is supposed to be; demanded of you by Christ. In essence, a journey into the soul of your Beloved.
She’s waiting; refuse to disappoint her. Begin Now!
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About Jerry Jacobs Jr
CatholicAlpha.com is about saving YOUR marriage (plain and simple!) By compelling YOU to become a Holy Lover (The husband your wife needs; The man God created you to be)
This is done through the teachings of the Catholic Church (Christ's Church). Learn what your father failed to teach YOU about (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, and Making Love Mastery!)
We Must Now Rise!
It's time that someone stands up for Christ and His Church, concerning marriage and the family. Men worldwide (especially in America) are asleep.
The Christian husband is the only entity left, who stands for Christ's revelation and Truth. But, what do many of us do? We continue to sit on our plush couches, and be manipulated by the square box. Which takes great advantage, to brainwash us in favor of a Godless society.
Allow Marriage Unchained to give you a mission, a purpose in your now aimless life.
The Questions Of True Man!
Why are you here? Why did you marry your Beloved? Why did you have those beautiful children? And, how will you educate, protect and serve them? What happens to them when they die?
Your current society fails to answer these critical questions. Don't you think it's time for you to get in the game, and stop allowing yourself to be distracted?
Well my friend. I can answer the questions (with the help of the Holy Spirit). If you allow me to lead you into a world full of hope, promise and a quest for eternity.
A lifetime of sacrifice. But, a sacrifice that is for a reason. To unite and become part of the body of Christ. Not just for now. But, for eternity.
I need help (your help). One husband at a time. One husband who understands his role in his family; in this chaotic society. A "True Man; A Man Of Courage"
Join me in my mission for the family (God, Marriage, Husband, Wife, Children). When has the Father ever been wrong? When has being disobedient ever lead you to pure truth and goodness? It hasn't, and it never will.
They Will Ask, "How Are You Doing It?"
Imagine building intimacy unlike any other time in your marriage. Passion, fire, devotion, complete fulfillment for your Beloved wife.
Imagine building a marriage that's the envy of society. And believe me, they will wonder how you do it. Because, they can't get it right, and never will, as long as they pursue their own selfishness (which in essence, is the pursuit of evil.)
Let me help you instill the grown up Christ in your marriage. Shed the baby version, and go deeper in your relationship. A relationship involving three ( You, Your Beloved and the Father, Himself).
Understand, your marriage is a catalyst for society. But, not if it's heading towards divorce court.
Don't let your Beloved down; don't let your marriage down; don't let your family down. And lastly, refuse to ever again, disappoint the Father!
Marriage Unchained: The Art Of One Flesh
Finally, Marriage Unchained; The Art Of One Flesh. The righteous Christian marriage advice. What it's done for me, and what it can do for you:
1) I have peace in my home.
2) My wife senses complete love, devotion, fulfillment and security.
3) Our intimacy and love-making is forever, for always and for love.
4) We're the best of friends; enveloped in a relationship that includes perseverance, strength, durability, truth, complete honesty and the Father.
5) Our children are fulfilled, flourishing and happy. With a mommy and daddy, in the same home as their foundation.
6) Ever since I became the spiritual leader of my family, our marriage inches closer to The Father every day.
7) Ever since I’ve become an engaged on fire Christian, along with practicing of “The Art Of The Caress” I have purpose, I have a mission, and I’m no longer aimless!
Come Get What I have!
This is what I’ve learned
I want to share it with you
So, what are you waiting for?
Take the next step with me.
Make your negative thoughts of divorce a problem of the past. Become a world-class lover for the most important person in your life; your wife!
Regain The Intimacy; Stop The Pain!
Indulge in Catholic marriage advice that will dig deep, and challenge you to be the man God created you to be. In fact, a True Man; A Man Of Courage!
Again, how much longer will you deny your Beloved of your true sacred self? Give her all that she deserves? A husband full of the gift of the Holy Spirit? A man willing to suffer, sacrifice, and give up his life for her?
I want you to be that man. "A Man Of Courage"
The Time For Talking Is Over!
The time for talking is over; the time for action has arrived. Hasn't she waited long enough?
But, if you need more, want more, crave more? Then read my life story here: This will help you understand, why I do what I do. Why I have given my life over to the Father, husbands, and the lost art of masculinity.
After you have satisfied all curiosities. After you have analyzed me from top to bottom; left to right. The Christian marriage problems you now possess, will still be there.
Marriage Unchained, will change the course of your marriage; your family; your journey towards the Father!
Your Road To The Rapturous Lover She Needs Stands Before You!
The answers to a failing marriage are at your feet; Act Now!
Jerry attends Our Lady Of The Most Holy Rosary Parish in the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. He and his virtuous wife, Mary Kathleen are facilitators of the Adult Faith Formation ministry in their parish.