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There comes to every human, at one period or another, the discovery of his nothingness.
The man who wanted a certain position eventually becomes dissatisfied with it, and wants something higher; he who has wealth does not have enough, not even with the first million.
So, in married love, there comes the crisis of not completely realizing the ideal. But this crisis of nothingness which comes to everyone, married or not, does not mean life is to be mocked.
One has not hit the bottom of life, but only the bottom of one's ego...
During this crisis of nothingness, the thing that hearts are kicking and complaining against in not their destiny, nor their nature, but their limits, their weakness, their insufficiency.
The human heart is not wrong in wanting love; it is wrong only in thinking that a human can completely supply it.
What the soul yearns for in the crisis is the Light of love, which is God, and not the shadow.
...instead of thinking that the other partner is to blame for this emptiness, which is so common today, one ought to peer into his own soul.
...the thorn in the flesh is a summons to climb to the Flame of Love which is God."
~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen~Three To Get Married
The Embodiment Of Perseverance
To be true man, you must give your life away. There’s no other way, for you to truly be; worthy of your Beloved. Moreover, for her to feel compelled to be; worthy of you!
I demand, you must abandon your pride. You must subdue your ego. In order to gain true manhood, and become in essence; worthy of your Beloved. In essence, create the happy marriage you so desperately seek (peace).
I realize, this path of consideration is foreign in today’s men. The issue? We as men, complain, gripe, and murmur, with regard to our wives. What they do and don’t do. Furthermore, how they don’t respect us as men.
My answer; why should they?
I mean, let’s get real for a span. When is the last occasion you hunkered down and focused with extreme intensity on; winning your Beloved’s heart?
When is the last juncture, you did anything to bewilder her? More important, mesmerize her, or compel her, to stand up, and shout to the world; “Yes My Lord, I without a doubt, married the correct man!”
When is the last moment you, beyond question, made her sense she’s a lady? I don’t mean some 2000’s, new millennium, confused, programmed woman, full of backwards, feminist’s ideas and views.
I mean a real woman, a human woman; a woman of God. One who desires complete and total closeness. One who needs a husband, at long last to understand her, inside and out. One who desires protection, happiness, and fulfillment. One who is seeking to serve, as well as, be served.
Furthermore, one who embraces love from the top of her head, to the tips of her toe nails.
Again, my friend, when is the last time you instilled in your Beloved these things? You must have, at some point in your life, or she wouldn’t have married you.
I reason, I can without a doubt proclaim, not for a long while.
A Mighty Partner; A Mighty Foe
Question: To receive the peace and tranquility of a happy marriage; what are you willing to endure?
Question: How much are you willing to serve; to in fact, humble yourself?
Question: Can you forgo selfishness (forever?)
Question: Are you willing to bow down, and sacrifice your one life, in service of your Beloved? Not to mention, fight to understand, what that in reality means?
Question: As protector of your wife; are you willing to suffer for her sake? Above all, show her for the next 100 years you are, without a doubt, her hero; her knight?
Question: Lastly, will you demand of yourself, further ask the Father for the grace, and gift of perseverance?
Question: More important, ignite your will; decide to be all in for your Beloved? Even if she becomes paralyzed, and you have to wipe her butt for the next 50 years?
For A Happy Marriage:
The Example Given To You
I want you to you tell yourself right now. Make a decision; be true man; "A Man Of Courage". That come what may, you are there for your Beloved.
Furthermore, committed to her for the next 100 years into eternity. In essence, send forth your will. Be strong; endure; the rock for your marriage. While doing it with vigor and complete joy!
Indeed, as Christ was for his bride the Church. He suffered for her. He served her. He placed Himself last. He sacrificed His only life for her. He is your example.
Martyr yourself; for your marriage; for your Beloved; for your children! I repeat, be "A Man Of Courage", give your life away!
Once again, become true man; a man whose Beloved can't wait to see him; smell him; touch him; to walk through the door. Whose children adore, respect, and embrace his leadership. To at last, become the man God created you to be! The Father has waited many moments for you.
Understand, this is your legacy to the world; your path to greatness! Not money; not fame, or material gains (is Heaven so cheap?) Society has programmed you to believe that in the end these things are all that matter.
I proclaim! I demand! I shout; they are not! These items are quite the illusion. In the end, they are not the true measure of a man.
The legacy of your marriage, your children, your relationship with our Creator. These are your end game.
Sir, I ask; DO YOU HEAR ME!
So, below I present to you; Catholic Alpha's: Happy Marriage Page.
The page designed to help you abandon an unhappy marriage. While creating a happy marriage; a legendary marriage. Each article designed with you in mind.
So, sit in your big chair. Light a cigar. Grab a beer, or pour yourself a smooth glass of Crown Royal.
You're about to explore the possibilities of what your marriage could be; is supposed to be; demanded of you by Christ. In essence, a journey into the soul of your Beloved.
Your adventure starts now.
Don’t disappoint her! Begin now!
Articles Focused Entirely On Creating And Maintaining A Joyous Marriage
"Jerry, thank you so much for lesson one.
"I have just read it for the fifth time!"
"I saw something new each time."
"I finally had to start taking notes, to help me remember"
"I wish there was a way at the bottom of each lesson for me to respond to you.
"I had so many things on my mind that I wanted to discuss."
"Thank you so much for being there. Thank you so much for being out there!"
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