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The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
~Father Theodore Hesburgh~Catholic Priest~President; University Of Notre Dame
The Fall Of A Hero
I've enlisted in broken promises. In my early twenties, I was due to depart on a mission to Australia. My wife and I, got in a stupid argument. So, me being young and dumb, used my anger as a weapon to engage in infidelity (read my article on intimacy problems in marriage here).
This past rationalization for my actions is, the reason I can speak on this immorality. And, trust me, even though these days, no one wants to admit it. Infidelity is immoral, ruins marriages, and breaks the spirits of children.
Furthermore, if our so-called clergy, parents, and friends told us this more often. Instead, of allowing us to infect society with this destruction of the family. Maybe our children wouldn't be so broken. Is this the legacy we intend to leave?
This brings me to the men, the husbands in our society. Infidelity in simple terms is cowardice. Not to mention, the ultimate act of selfishness in marriage.
We’re unable to deal with our Beloved wife. So, we search other places. Instead, of fixing the mess we've created in our homes. We forget, or fail to realize that the grass is never greener. The home wrecker we choose, has just as many problems or more than, our Beloved we've abandoned at home.
Moreover, we fail to understand, we'll never be truly happy abandoning our wife and children. Sure, a temporary high exists. Filled with excitement, eroticism, and lust. But, just as with any drug, the high soon fades. And, we're right back in our selfish, miserable state.
Iron Sharpens Iron
My concern, as men, how can we allow this chaos to continue. In our friends as well as, in ourselves? What kind of cowards are we? We stand up for nothing. We allow every immorality. Then by osmosis, we expect our children to turn out like saints.
Don’t you remember, we’re our wives and children’s hero. Not Captain America or Spider Man. We are! The husbands, the fathers of this society. And, its damn time we start acting like it. As “Men Of Courage” it's our duty to emit the best moral version of ourselves.
Sure, we'll make mistakes (we're human). But, to continue to allow the men, the so-called crappy husbands of this society to destroy our families. Meanwhile, we sit; refuse to speak out, and influence the husbands in our environments.
As I've said, in the past, Christian men and Catholic Christians alike, are the only soldiers left to fight the spiritual battle. Which looms in front of us.
My job? To do my best, to instruct you on how to keep your marriage intact. Infidelity and abandonment, isn't the key to a happy life. I beg, it's only temporary. (more on the psychological effects of extra marital affairs here maritalhealing.com)
You as a Christian Soldier, must learn perseverance, and ignite your will to love your Beloved as only you can. Sure, marriage is hard at times. But, what worthwhile isn't. This is how the Father, purifies your soul, to be able to stand in front of Him. Please realize, you only grow and mature, through sacrifice and suffering.
And, your wife and marriage is the key to that growth, Holiness and Sainthood.
Again, be the icon for your children. Embrace heroism for your Beloved. God is calling you to be more than a mound full of broken promises. He's calling you to greatness. Allow me, to help you reach this apex.
So, below I present to you; Catholic Alpha's: Infidelity Page.
The page designed, to help you in preventing actions and thoughts of infidelity. A page full of articles, encouraging you to realize, love is an act of your will. Not a bunch of feelings that will abandon you sooner or later.
"A Man Of Courage" understands this blessing. You chose your wife. Moreover, she chose you. Use this lifetime, to explore the depths of each other’s soul. Instead, of wasting your life searching for an elusive drug. Which never; quite; seems; to materialize.
Trust me, happiness isn't concealed in other relationships. It's in your Beloved (the mother of your children). Again, you'll never feel whole until your heart rests in your wife, as well as, in the Father.
Your Beloved is waiting. Once again, be her hero, her protector; the man she married. Allow me to help you, learn how to be the man she needs.
Comrade, waste; no; more; time. Begin now!
Articles Focused Entirely On The Prevention Of Extra Marital Affairs
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"I have just read it for the fifth time!"
"I saw something new each time."
"I finally had to start taking notes, to help me remember"
"I wish there was a way at the bottom of each lesson for me to respond to you.
"I had so many things on my mind that I wanted to discuss."
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