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Marriage problems, Girlfriend Issues, And Intimacy!
This is my flagship episode! A show dedicated to marriage advice, and dating tips for men (with a Catholic twist).
So, if marriage problems are circling, your relationship with your girlfriend is on the rocks or lukewarm, intimacy in the toilet? Then you've come to the right place!
This first show discusses the benefits to you, and what Catholic Alpha Radical will bring to you each week.
Also, my rant on the current scandal in the Catholic Church! Can you afford to miss this?
Links And Resources Mentioned In This...
Marriage Problems Episode
- Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document - https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/4786599-Testimony-by-Archbishop-Carlo-Maria-Vigan%C3%B2.html
- Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
- 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
Marriage Problems-Girlfriend Problems? Listen Now!
Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While making sure you understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith! BAM!
Now let’s get started!
Quote of the Day – “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” Proverbs 27-17
Why I Do This?
My Story – Going to do this in four parts
Because I was sick and tired of being sick and tired!
I had to do something!
Part 1: My first child story
- I’ve made a lot of mistakes in the past, that’s why I can warn others
- The Jacobs curse (having kids in high school)
- Was in high school
- Had sex
- Girl got pregnant
- She got mad at me, I got mad at her
- Went to the military
- Never got to see him
- Missed his entire life
What This Show Is About?
Do-It-Yourself Marriage Problems Help For Men
Quote – "I wanted to create somewhere, where men could go and find answers to their problems on their own. Without interference, from counselors, governments, therapists, and wives. A Place where they could think and reflect in peace!” END QUOTE
Jerry Jacobs jr. ~ CatholicAlpha.com
- Used to be men dealt with their problems on their own with the help of the church.
- Confession, prayer, the sacraments, and the natural law (ten commandments) helped us through most things (physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of our lives)
- Our Priest was our confessor and guide if it came to that.
- Now that is all gone, we have become blobs of emotional, whiney, wusses.
- The Evil One has taken control of most things and has infiltrated the Church at it’s highest levels.
- We can’t handle anything without crying to some therapist.
- Or we do nothing and watch things escalate to suicide, disease, drug addiction, porn, abuse etc…
- The Evil One has taken control of most things (because he is the prince of of this realm) and has infiltrated the Church at its highest levels.
- This show is about teaching you and encouraging you to once again become the hero of your marriage, wife, and children.
- How to take responsibility for your marriage, and become the man God created you to be!
- Thereby creating a legendary marriage that will span not just a lifetime, but eternally as the fruits of your labor spread to your children and your children’s children.
- And if single, how to find and choose the perfect woman, woman of your dreams, the woman God has in store for you, the one to help get you, and your children to heaven without screwing it up!
This Show Will Deal With Three Main Areas
- Prayer Warfare
- This will teach you how to pray to protect your family from infiltration by evil forces in your marriage, family, and home.
- Thereby preventing unnecessary marriage problems!
- That the battle for the lives and souls of your wife and children is a spiritual battle not a physical battle.
- And how you must enter that battle daily or face trials in your marriage and home that will cause dissent, unrest, and in many cases divorce!
- If single, how to enter in the battle daily, so that you are able to see the perfect woman when she comes.
- And gain the habits (once married) to be able to protect and defend your wife and family spiritually!
- The Art Of Manliness
- This area teaches you how to man up. Have courage and defend Christ, your marriage, wife, and children.
- What the true definition of a man is as deemed by God, not the world!
- Why you must embrace your role as the head and leader of your family.
- How to release yourself and your son from emasculation and effeminacy!
- How to be a great example of manliness for your wife, children, environment, and society as a whole!
- What suffering and sacrifice truly is. And how you as the head of your family must embrace this (as Christ did) if you are to have a prosperous family and lead them towards God.
- Making Love Mastery
- Understanding what the true meaning of sex is.
- Why God created it.
- Why you must understand how to become a great lover for the benefit of your Beloved wife.
- Why the marital embrace is meant for marriage only.
- The difference between intimacy and lust. And why lust is a lie and intimacy is long lasting and forever.
- The complete and total satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved wife.
- Why you must delay your wants, desires, and needs in lieu of your wife’s. And how this leads to a greater union with God!
- Why the marital embrace takes three (God, you and your wife) or eventually your intimacy will become lukewarm, passionless, and infrequent)
- How to involve God in your bedroom or risk sexual inhalation.
What Is This Shows Goal For You?
The Goal of this show is to give you a mission and purpose:
And that mission is for you to Become A Holy Lover!
What is a Holy Lover
- You becoming the man your wife needs
- You becoming the man God created you to be
- What will this accomplish?
- Keep you out of divorce court
- Keep you outside of the Annulment Tribunal
- Keep your family together and prosperous.
- Keep peace in your home.
- Keep your wife happy, fulfilled, and secure!
- Give you a guide and purpose as to what life is really about. And that ain’t money and career!
- Help you save your soul and the souls of your wife and children.
- Because let’s be real, ultimately, you are responsible for the success or failure of your marriage.
- If single to understand your duties and responsibilities in courting, marriage, family, and society.
- Also to understand single is not vocation – marriage, religious life and how to prepare for both.
- And how to court to find the woman God is trying to show you (basically, to find the mate that will help get you and your children to heaven)
- And lastly, how to learn how to fix yourself first before blaming God, your wife, your children, your girlfriend, society, the government, your friends, you parents, your siblings!
- This is how God set it up. So, don’t kill the messenger!
- Understand Holy Lover Status is a journey! A journey you must complete for the reward of a whole and complete marriage and family grounded in holiness!
Moreover, you cannot allow petty marriage problems, and pride to interfere in this mission!
How Are We Going To Accomplish This?
- Interviews with priests, and religious
- Interviews with men doing it right in their marriages
- Q&A email questions from you.
- Learn how to fix ourselves as men first then worry about our wife, girlfriend, children, and society…
- The teachings of Christ’s Church – The Catholic Faith
- Checklists and Guides on how to implement these principles in your daily life!
Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day
The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reason Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!
- Before I start – This will be a 21 episode series (one per show)
- Also understand scandal of the homosexual infiltration of the Catholic Church was planned and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church – there are many Judases among us. You don’t leave Christ for Judas!
- Why? Because Judas leads you to hell!
- We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
- In society, what is a major cause for the failure of marriage and family?
- If you didn’t say the men, you got it wrong!
- Wusses Of The West
- Concerned only with feeling good
- No one has taught us the real meaning of being a man
- We think because we have all of this technology, we think we’re so advanced!
- We’ve in fact regressed
- The nature of man doesn’t and won’t change because of our brokenness (Original Sin).
- Which is why we need God and His Grace!
- Technology is only a physical tool, nothing more nothing less
- Technology doesn’t improve your character, virtuousness, or holiness.
- We sacrifice for nothing of real importance
- Sure we will sacrifice somewhat for a career or money, but these should be a low priority sacrifice.
- Because materialism, a great education, great schools, nice cars, and homes; beautiful clothes, tons of money, and careers, are all fleeting!
- Moreover, these don’t pose any real questions, such as
- What’s my purpose as a man?
- Why was I created?
- What happens when I die?
- Also, what good is all of these things if when you die, your soul is banished to Hell?
- Look, a real man pursues the truth, no matter where it leads him.
- The truth is painful
- It causes us to seek God and answer the above questions.
- Pleasure and selfishness are a lie. And neglecting holiness (virtue) and not speaking out for truth (God) is complete cowardice!
- If you are not seeking the ultimate truth, which is God, you are seeking the ultimate lie, which is the Evil One!
- Isn’t it time you choose a side?
- So let’s get started with number one of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.
- Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Cardinal Carlo Maria Vigano.
- So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, society, work)
- Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick
- These are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.
(#1) REFUSAL TO ACCEPT OUR ROLL AS TRUE MEN OF CHRIST!
- We’ve basically given up understanding what true masculinity entails.
- We really don’t care because it’s hard
- Hard be responsible for each and everything in this realm.
- Remember in Genesis God charged Adam with everything
- And that was before Eve was even created
- The means men are responsible for everything in his marriage, home, work, society, the world.
- If we reject that duty, we will be held responsible at the particular judgement.
- Meaning what did we do to further the kingdom of God
- Did we bring our wives, sons, daughters along with us
- Or did we abandon them to fend for themselves in a den of wolves because we were to selfish and effeminate?
- The real crime is not knowing…
- The real crime is the refusal to listen to the Holy Spirit urging you to seek your true mission as a man and not ignore your ultimate mission!
- And once you have men who don’t care, or don’t want to care about their true purpose…
- You get what we have today in the Church and society.
- Men who are aloof, weak, clueless, and really don’t care.
- What do you think?
- Send your questions to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage problems on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.
I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...
- Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
- The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
- Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!