There is no place for selfishness—and no place for fear! Do not be afraid, then, when love makes demands. Do not be afraid when love requires sacrifice"
~Saint Pope John Paul II
Sexless Marriage: Death To Selfishness
I once spoke to a gentleman, on depression medicine. Which, affected his sexual desire, causing erectile dysfunction.
Now, I detest pills, such as the blue pill; used to cause erection. Why? Because they’re foreign to the body (therefore toxic). And men must start realizing, everything affects the sexual reproductive system. Everything! No matter your age (18 to 108).
Anyway, this husband took the pills for performance. A while later, he stopped taking the pills. And do you know why?
Because according to him, he became tempted by the site of other women. I understand, things we regular men experience daily.
So, he stopped taking them. Not considering his Beloved, who had gone years without his closeness.
And this, because he lacked the courage to fight temptation. Not understanding, that suffering and sacrificing his turmoil for the benefit of his Beloved, would’ve enhanced their marriage.
Thereby, making him a stronger man, to do battle, and ward off temptation.
Sexless Marriage: The Lack Of Courage
Men are so weak these days. Sometimes, it makes me want to vomit!
Sorry to say, this type of story isn't unusual. Furthermore, selfishness plagues our society.
For this reason, many sexless marriages exist. It's an enormous problem and growing. (understand how the Church can help you with intimacy problems in your marriage here maritalhealing.com)
Men; husbands; fathers; we’re in control of the fulfillment of our Beloved. Our wives need us to once again embrace courage, stand up for them, fight for them. More importantly; be men.
To prevent the destruction of many more millions of marriages and families, we must regain our strength and masculinity.
Be an upright, and moral example for our sons to follow. As well as, show our daughters glimpses of the men they should desire to marry.
Yep, seems like a monumental task. But remember, only through sacrifice and suffering comes Holiness. Embrace your mission; don’t hide from it as so many cowards in our society do today. You are “A Man Of Courage”; A Christian Soldier!
In order to accomplish this, we must start with our Beloved. And that means as a husband, placing yourself last. While uplifting the needs, wants and desires of your wife.
Next, being "A Man Of Courage" by protecting your children, and keeping your family together. Again, your happiness matters not (last). Your wife is above all things. Your children; your true legacy to the world.
- No matter what our current society preaches. The marital embrace is of extreme importance.
- Marriage is the most vital institution in this world.
- And our children deserve a household, with their mothers and fathers married; under the same roof; attending Church!
To solve a dramatic problem such as a sexless marriage, you must purge your pride and listen. The things above, can and will propel you to a thriving marriage.
So, below I present to you; Catholic Alpha's: Sexless Marriage Page.
The page designed to help you reach the apex of intimacy in your marriage. Each article designed with you in mind. To give you some ideas of how to escalate your Holiness through sacrifice as did Our Lord.
So, sit in your big chair. Light a cigar. Grab a beer, or pour yourself a smooth glass of Crown Royal.
You're about to explore the possibilities of what your marriage could be; is supposed to be; demanded of you by Christ. In essence, a journey into the soul of your Beloved.
Your adventure starts now.
Articles Focused On Understanding And Solving The Agony Of A Sexless Marriage
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