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In this 20th episode, I insert the first Catholic Alpha Marriage Minute (which gives the "2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church" series a break.) In this first marriage minute we speak on "One of the top signs your marriage is over".
- Learn how this one marriage tactic improves your marriage immediately?
- Learn how neglecting this one issue, can be your first step towards divorce court?
- What's the one problem you may have, that prevents your wife from fully committing to you?
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- Resource: Modern Catholic Dictionary - John A. Hardon, S.J.
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Episode 20 Show Notes
Hello - This is the Catholic Alpha Marriage Minute
Tactic #1 You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know – BAM!
Common Long Term Relationship Problems: This One Gets You In Divorce Court: Quick!
- Quote: “You must ask God to give you power to fight against the sin of pride which is your greatest enemy - the root of all that is evil, and the failure of all that is good. For God resists the proud" End Quote: Saint Vincent De Paul
- Today I want you to consider the description of a man…
- His name is “Prideful Paul”
- Prideful Paul is a man who won't listen; knows everything. As well as, denies the truth, even when it's presented factually and faithfully.
- He's full of selfishness, and refuses to sacrifice. His ideas, and what he believes, loom above everything, and everyone else. Including God!
- He believes he's actually greater than he truly is.
- Again, does this describe you in your marriage?
- You sure? Not even a little bit?
- A problem with men that’s continued to grow over the centuries, is when we think we know something, there’s nothing that anyone can do to change our minds!
- Our usual attitude is - Hey I got this. I know my wife. I know how she thinks, and what she is going to do next!
- Our wife will give us clues about her unhappiness, or concerns with our marriage. But we ignore them.
- This is the first step to divorce court
- The problem here is you don’t know what you don’t know
- Many times, our pride holds us back in marriage, mainly because we just don’t want to deal with its problems.
- Our wife is ready to walk out the door and take the children, and we’re still clueless.
- What I want you to understand now is, that your marriage is probably in the lackluster/ boring stage right now.
- Why? Because you’re neglecting it, as you do with projects needing done around the house!
- So, what’s the solution?
- Here are some things that will help…
- One: Confession because it’s a sacrament, and all graces from God stem from you being in grace with God.
- Two: Pray the litany of humility
- Three: Accept the trials of pride when the Holy Spirit sends them your way.
- The only way to beat the evil of pride is through humility. And the only way to help you with pride is for God to send you tests of humiliation to help you get used to defeating pride in your marriage and common life.
- Next, Benefits to working on Tactic #1
- Humility will allow you to consider that maybe your wife isn’t responsible for all problems plaguing your marriage.
- Eliminating pride will allow you to grow in virtue (which leads to holiness and authentic masculinity)
- Your virtue and holiness will drive your wife crazy with respect, submissiveness, and devotion. Compelling her to begin fixing her flaws in your marriage.
- Some consequences of failing to follow Alpha Marriage Tactic #1?
- Your marriage will never become great, holy, or legendary (yep mediocrity).
- Your wife will never fully commit to you, or follow your lead, because your pride will always come between you, her, and God.
- An uncomfortable tension will always exist between you as you are always blaming her for your problems, and she reciprocates blaming you!
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