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So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up: Understanding your wife’s 6 phases of intimacy...

Today is gift 26...

Which states: A Holy Lover understands his wife’s phases, leading up to complete sexual fulfillment!

• I will admit, this one is complicated.
• But the short version is before and during lovemaking...
• your Beloved experiences phases.
• Each phase builds upon itself for her total sexual fulfillment(ex: intimacy outside the bedroom, foreplay, her initial rise etc.)
• You must remain in control, throughout each phase until completion.
• Which means, you mustn’t Lose Your Cool.
• This gift is also complicated...
• in that total sexual fulfillment isn’t something you can accomplish in one session.
• Her complete fulfillment will take at least one year; most likely two or three.
• Why?
• Because of what’s called her inhibitions.
• Her transference from her old self to her new self. Like I said, complicated!

• Don’t fall for this trap!
• Now we review each of the6phases...
• Phase 1 - Prayer...

  ❖  Prayer and spiritual warfare are the key to success...

  ❖  and you becoming the man your wife and every other woman sees...

  ❖  as a holy and authentically masculine man that they are drawn towards.❖  Without God, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, you will fail in your battle with the Evil One and his minions!

• Phase 2 - The Best Friend Concept

  ❖ Is the key to closeness for your wife.
  ❖ If you are not her best friend...
  ❖ She will find someone else to fill this role.
  ❖ Which does what...
  ❖ Moves you down the list of priorities.
  ❖ Women need best friends... and if it is not you...
  ❖ You will suffer, you will not get into her head...
  ❖ you will not be the one she runs to for comfort and security.
  ❖ She will run to the one who she believes has been there for her...
  ❖ And if you are not her best friend...
  ❖ IT...WILL...NOT...BE...YOU!

• Phase 3 - Intimacy Outside The Bedroom

  ❖ This is actually the first phase that actually gets her deeply desiring you.
  ❖ You must not ever ignore this phase...
  ❖ Many take this phase for granted.
  ❖ They mistakenly believe they can take care of this when it’s convenient.
  ❖ Again, this is another rookie mistake.
  ❖ If you want your Beloved to totally desire you, crave you, need you...
  ❖ You must give her conversation.
  ❖ Do special things for her.
  ❖ Hug her, embrace her...serve her...
  ❖ Let her know that she is special to you...
  ❖ Not just by words, but by your actions.
  ❖ This is the beginning of her warmth and hotness for you... and only you.
  ❖ This prepares her body and psyche for you and only you.
  ❖ Please don’t neglect this phase.
  ❖  When most marriages start having problems...
  ❖  it’s because the husband neglects the work required in the Intimacy Outside

  The Bedroom Phase!

  • Phase 4 - Foreplay

  ❖  Eventually, your wife won’t need this phase, after she is used to the last two phases...
  ❖  Her Initial Rise and Her Rise To Complete And Total Sexual Fufillment (Enkindled Bliss)
  ❖  But initially, it’s very vital.
  ❖  It prepares her actual physical body, for you and for penetration.
  ❖  It gets her juices flowing...
  ❖  And her mind ready for lovemaking.
  ❖  As I’ve said, patience is the key her...
  ❖  As well as, your mindset of serving!• Phase 5 - Her Initial Rise

  ❖  Your goal must at all cost be... to get into the mindset of loving your wife more than she could ever believe possible for as long as possible...
  ❖  Even multiple hours if necessary.
  ❖  Her initial rise is important, as it’s something she’s used too...
  ❖  But when you don’t lose your cool, she will be totally flabbergasted!
  ❖  You will throw her off her game.
  ❖  You will begin to show her heights of love, lovemaking, commitment, and holiness...
  ❖  that her mind, body, and soul have never experienced...
  ❖  Or even believe that could happen!
  ❖  The key here for you... is to remain patient, cool, calm, and move slow and methodical.
  ❖  This will keep you in control, and thinking clearly as to your true mission...
  ❖  To remove all pain, inhibitions, and trauma, psychologically, emotionally,and spiritually from your wife...
  ❖  As you move to the next and final phase...
  ❖  of true and complete fulfillment, of sexual love, oneness with God, and devotion for your beloved!• Phase 6 -  Her Rise To Complete Sexual Fulfillment And Completeness As A Woman

❖  This is what I call the coupe degras!

❖  All the prayer, all the work, all the suffering and sacrificing by you finally pays off as you...

❖  completely remove all of your wife’s inhibitions...

❖  Which entrenches her having a feeling of complete and total love, security, fulfillment, happiness, and euphoria from you...

❖  And for you!

❖  Again, this normally takes a year but in extreme cases...

❖  it can take two or three years.

❖  In either case you won’t care how long it takes...

❖  Because you will be having all the intimacy you can stand!

❖  And your wife will come along with you and be a different loving and nurturing woman.

❖  it’s safe to say your wife is in extreme pain...

❖  and it will take a while to completely remove all of her inhibitions!

❖  But, once you begin this technique...

❖  You’ll see immediate and powerful results.

❖  YOU...WILL...NOT...RECOGNIZE...YOUR...WIFE!

❖  During this time your wife is becoming the wife you need...

❖  and she begins to realize how totally and completely you love her.

❖  She begins to sense you will never leave or abandon her.

❖  This is invaluable!

❖  As her transformation to her sacred self begins to emerge...

❖  Merging you, her, and God in complete unity!

Bringing It All Together...

• To be honest, I am not exactly sure why God our Creator set up the marital embrace in this way.
• But I do know that it is a must for wives in this day and age of selfishness, feminism, the removal of Our Lord from every corner of society.
• Our wives and women in general are miserable today.
• They have no purpose, no feeling of completeness in themselves, and so they rebel and most men have no idea what to do or how to love them.

• So, most men revert to selfishness, effeminacy, and a mindset of indifference, because they have no clue how to be the husband their wife needs.
• Satan has taken over many corners of our society causing women to rebel and men to allow them.
• There is no harmony of God, wife, or husband. The one-flesh union that is needed for the couple and their children to reach a certain peace as they journey towards Our Lord.
• One thing I do know for sure...
• Husbands cannot keep their heads in the sand anymore.
• We must view our wives as the most important person in our lives and treat them as such.
• They are fragile and in order to love them properly and completely, we must refuse selfishness at all cost.
• And give our lives totally to God and to the service of our wives, to in fact die for something greater than ourselves...
• In order to bring forth the woman and wife we were meant to have from the beginning of time!

  BAM!

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