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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: Why Are Children Important to Saving A Catholic Marriage? (CARP083)

April 14, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Why Are Children Important To Saving A Catholic Marriage?

In this 83rd episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: Why are children important to saving a Catholic marriage?

"Without children love is fleeting and can never be complete…Love must be shared!"

Jerry Jacobs Jr. ~ Catholic Alpha

  • In this 83rd episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • The value of children to our Catholic marriage and how a lack of children can make marriage seem empty!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 – How do I fix my masturbation problem? How do I fix the problem with my nephew disrespecting my mother?
  • Book “The 7 Big Myths About Marriage” By Dr. Christopher Kaczor
  • Here is the link to the book: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/19335730

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 83rd EPISODE (How to save my Catholic marriage when my wife has given up)

Today we uncover gift #5 – A Holy Lover understands the value children (at least four) to a marriage!

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

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If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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How To Save My Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: Ways Birth Control Can Ruin Your Christian Marriage! (CARP080)

April 11, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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What Every Husband Should Know (show notes)

In this 80th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: The many ways contraception (aka birth control) can and does destroy Christian marriages!

"Birth control will end your marriage. The reason why is, your wife will begin to feel used only for her body and flesh and not her soul, heart, and mind as God intended."

Jerry Jacobs Jr. ~ Catholic Alpha

  • In this 80th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: The many ways contraception (aka birth control) can and does destroy Christian marriages!
  • In this 80th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • Holy Lover Gift #3: Why women are severely damaged when they use birth control in marriage!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 – How can I get my husband to do what I want?
  • Fr. Ripperger video on Hell…

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

Episode 80- Show Script

"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 80th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: How to save my marriage when my wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever!)

Today we uncover Gift #3

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC

 

 

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

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Over the next four weeks I will give you quotes directly from the diary of Church mystic and saint…St. Maria Faustina. Who was shown four visions

1) A vision of before Heaven and before Hell, which we will visit today.

2) A vision of Hell.

3) A vision of Purgatory

4) A vision of Heaven.

Saint Faustina: Her tour of Hell:

[QUOTE]”Today, I was led by an Angel to the chasms of hell.

It is a place of great torture; how awesomely large and extensive it is!

The kinds of tortures I saw: the first torture that constitutes hell is the loss of God;

the second is perpetual remorse of conscience;

the third is that one’s condition will never change;

the fourth is the fire that will penetrate the soul without destroying it, a terrible suffering, since it is a purely spiritual fire, lit by God’s anger;

the fifth torture is conditional darkness and a terrible suffocating smell, and despite the darkness,

the devils and the souls of the damned see each other and all the evil, both of others and their own;

the sixth torture is the constant company of Satan,

the seventh torture is horrible despair, hatred of God, vile words, curses and blasphemies.

These are the tortures suffered by all the damned together, but that is not the end of the sufferings.

There are special tortures destined for particular souls.

These are the torments of the senses.

Each soul undergoes terrible and indescribable sufferings, related to the manner in which it has sinned.

There are caverns and pits of torture where one form of agony differs from another.

I would have died at the very sight of these tortures if the omnipotence of God had not supported me.

Let the sinner know that he will be tortured throughout all eternity, in those senses which he made use of to sin.

I am writing this at the command of God,

so that no soul may find an excuse by saying there is no hell,

or that nobody has ever been there, and so, no one can say what it is like.

I, sister Faustina, by the order of God, have visited the abysses of hell so that I might tell souls about it and testify to its existence.

I cannot speak about it now; but I have received a command from God to leave it in writing.

The devils were full of hatred for me, but they had to obey me at the command of God.

What I have written is but a pale shadow of the things I saw.

But I noticed one thing:

that most of the souls there are those who disbelieved that there is a hell.

When I came to, I could hardly recover from the fright.

How terribly souls suffer there!

Consequently, I pray even more fervently for the conversion of sinners.

I incessantly plead God’s mercy upon them.

O my Jesus, I would rather be in agony until the end of the world, amidst the greatest sufferings, then offend You by the least sin.” [END QUOTE]

~Diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska, #741

 

 

(TRANSITION MUSIC)

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men…

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series…

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”…

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

… and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest…

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever…

Will help and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you…

Becoming the man God created you to be…

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle…

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must…

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword…

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?…

Return to your man cave…or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #3…

Which states…

A Holy Lover rejects contraception (aka birth control) in any form.

Make no mistake…

The battle for your marriage is a spiritual battle.

And as the man of the home the defender from evil…

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle…

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is…

Will you cooperate?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser…

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Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

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Hey has she asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

 

 

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

So as promised…

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up…

Holy Lover Gift #3…

A Holy Lover rejects contraception (aka birth control) in any form.

Understanding birth control and its evil in your marriage is vital to your role as a husband and the fulfillment of your wife.

Why?

Because birth control will end your marriage.

The reason why is, your wife will begin to feel used only for her body and flesh and not her soul, heart, and mind as God intended.

Her instincts will eventually kick in, and she will realize all the time she has wasted in selfishness and more important her lack of mission in having children.

This is in the natural law of all women.

No matter if they are a feminazi or a regularly ordered woman.

I will get push back on this, but don’t kill the messenger…take it up with God!

Why would God say in Genesis be fruitful and multiply?

How much more direct can He be?

See, this brings me again to the complete selfishness and brokenness of the human person.

We only want to do what we want to do, without much consideration for our fellow man.

And not understanding how birth control harms marriage, the family, and society is selfish and irresponsible at the least.

I had a friend’s wife tell me one time that God only directed (be fruitful and multiply) because at the time Adam and Eve were banished and there were no people on the earth.

And you know that does sound logical. But is it what God willed?

This is why we must understand how evil works.

It always, I mean always, sounds logical and true; at first.

But that’s Satan’s way of misdirecting your attention away from God, and focusing on him.

Also with the added degree of selfishness and the need to do what we want, instead of what God wants, makes it really easy to participate in what evil is tempting us to do.

I must ask you the question of, why would God prohibit birth control?

Is he trying to be a tyrant, mean, or unmerciful?

Or maybe he created us, and since he did, he understands what will make us truly happy?

So, here is what the men in the Catholic Church did…

They began to try and chip away at what God was asking, and developing committees to trying to subvert the teaching, to suit our selfishness our brokenness.

Such as…

The Pontifical Commission on Birth Control – 1963 started by Pope John XXIII – in which 80 percent of the commission voted to change the churches teaching on birth control.

And since the Church didn’t really speak out or fight this, it was seen as a good way to go!

And when the Church doesn’t speak out then society takes over, which led to the…

1965 Supreme Court decision (Griswold v. Connecticut) which gave married couples the right to use birth control, ruling that it was protected in the Constitution as a right to privacy.

So then, then, The Church chimed in with…

Pope Paul VI creating his encyclical on rejecting contraception in 1968 called Humanae Vitae (latin for - Of Human Life)

Which came out way too late as the court decision had already taken place.

So, now that we understand a little about the things that led to the acceptance of birth control,

Let’s examine the reasoning behind God’s rejection of it, and the results of Contraception, on the family, and society!

So, again, why would God ban birth control?

First, it goes against the directive in Genesis to be fruitful and multiply.

Why?

Because, God created us for what?

To love him and serve him and spend eternity with him.

See, this is God’s way of sharing his divine existence with us.

He didn’t have to create us. He didn’t need us.

But, he wanted us to partake in his joy.

So, this is why he bans contraception,

Because birth control aborts the souls God sends the married couple, before those souls even have a chance to be born!

Which does what…

Stops saints and souls from being created, to send back to him, to spend eternity with him in the beatific vision (Heaven)

Just as he sent Christ to come down to forgive, and die for our sins.

Why?

Because we can’t forgive our own sins, because sin is infinite, and must be forgiven, and demolished by an infinite being, which is God himself.

God is merciful, Kind, and just. He wants as many souls with him in heaven as possible!

And when we use birth control, we prevent the complete love, joy, happiness, and holiness that God wants for us.

Moreover, contraception kills those souls.

Just as abortion of that soul once implanted in the mother is murder, contraception is murder as well.

So, what are the results of contraception on our society?

First, women are looked upon as objects and eating utensils.

Women no longer nurture, educate, or create the amount of children God has in store for them.

Selfishness rules marriage, and the family, and society.

Which has spawned unimaginable divorce rates worldwide.

No fault divorce - Same-sex marriage, because if people don’t understand marriage, and what it’s meant for they make up their own definitions

Next, pornography, masturbation, rape, sex abuse of children, the gay life style, all stem from contraception.

Why, because when people don’t understand the complete reasoning behind a law or rule, they make up their own.

Many Christian sects have stopped teaching and explaining the True Word of God, so people have just stopped listening!

When a married couple practices birth control, it destroys the complete self-giving and the one-flesh concept.

This basically means, God is absent. Because the trinity runs from the evil of birth control.

Again, this kills the souls God sends to the married couple for one-flesh, for happiness, for souls they must make into saints to send back to him!

Women aren’t stupid, and even though they choose to take birth control, their nature, and their bodies, understand that she is only being used for her sex organs, and not for the divine God like act of procreation.

Without her God given right, to complete love, and self-giving love from her husband, her soul will begin to reject him, and eventually their marriage!

So, what about having sex outside of marriage plus using birth control?

This practice is doubly bad, and is why many single people having sex end up in misery, and a broken soul; full of walls, and defense mechanisms!

Look, when are we going to learn that selfishness is not the way, it only brings unhappiness, death, and chaos.

As men, husbands, and fathers, we must understand the true reason Our Lord came as man to die for us…

Can we say Death, judgement, heaven, hell?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

BAM!

TRANSITION

 

 

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Continually look for calls in the queue!

Target specific callers…

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Solicit calls on air.

Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

 

 

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Deacon Brad Anderson – 44 Years – A Successful Marriage Interview Part 2 – CARP010

November 20, 2018 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

successful marriage deacon brad anderson part 2 - Deacon Brad Anderson and his wife Kathy posing in front of a gigantic crucifix!

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Secrets Of A Successful Marriage...

Interview With Deacon Brad Anderson Part 2

 In this tenth episode, part two of my interview with Deacon Brad Anderson

Evil always sounds logical and true; At first! - But that's Satan's way of misdirecting your attention away from God, and focusing it on him.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

  • How can practicing birth control end your marriage?
  • Birth control while dating: yes or no?
  • Warrior Stories: Interview with Deacon Brad Anderson - 44 years- How does he do it?
  • God's view on birth control - tyrannical or merciful?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This Episode

Successful Marriage Episode Part 2!

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document - https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/4786599-Testimony-by-Archbishop-Carlo-Maria-Vigan%C3%B2.html
  • See my part one of my interview with Deacon Brad Anderson here! (Successful Marriage: Part 1)
  • Pope Pius XI Encyclical On Christian Marriage: Casti Connubii
  • Genesis 1 (Be Fruitful And Multiply)
  • The true teaching of the Catholic Church on contraception: Humanae Vitae On the Regulation of Human Births Pope Paul VI - 1968
  • The Imitation Of Christ: HERE!
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man) - More on the deliberate infiltration by Communism and Radical
  • What the Catholic Alph podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

A Successfeul Marriage: At Your Fingertips

Episode 10 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 10 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Successful Marriage Part 2 Ep. 10 (Quote Of The Day)

There are two reasons for the primacy of sex over love in a decadent civilization.

One is the decline of reason.

The second factor is egotism.

As belief in a Divine Judgment, a future life, heaven and hell, a moral order, is increasingly rejected,

the ego becomes more and more firmly enthroned as the source of its morality.

Each person becomes a judge in his own case.

With this increase of selfishness, the demands for self-satisfaction become more and more imperious,

and the interests of the community and the rights of others have less and less appeal.

All sin is self-centeredness, as love is otherness and relatedness.

Sin is the infidelity of man to the image of what he ought to be in his eternal vocation, as an adopted son of God:

Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~ Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

 The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reason Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #10 Reasons Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 10 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 9…


#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn't crush the protestant revolt


Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimonial.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #10 in the document)

Comment on quote!

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#10) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

We didn’t crush contraception!

Why would God say in Genesis be fruitful and multiply?

How much more direct can He be?

See, this brings me again to the complete selfishness and brokenness of the human person.

We only want to do what we want to do, without much consideration for our fellow man.

And not understanding how birth control harms marriage, the family, and society is selfish and irresponsible at the least.

I had a friend’s wife tell me one time that God only directed (be fruitful and multiply) because at the time Adam and Eve were banished and there were no people on the earth.

And you know that does sound logical. But is it what God willed?

This is why we must understand how evil works.

It always, I mean always, sounds logical and true; at first.

But that’s Satan’s way of misdirecting your attention away from God, and focusing on him.

Also with the added degree of selfishness and the need to do what we want, instead of what God wants, makes it really easy to participate in what evil is tempting us to do.

I must ask you the question of, why would God prohibit birth control?

Is he trying to be a tyrant, mean, or unmerciful?

Or maybe he created us, and since he did, he understands what will make us truly happy?

So, here is what the men in the Catholic Church did…

They began to try and chip away at what God was asking, and developing committees and trying to subvert the teaching, to suit their cowardice.

Such as…

The Pontifical Commission on Birth Control – 1963 started by Pope John XXIII – in which 80 percent of the commission voted to change the churches teaching on birth control.

And since the Church didn’t really speak out or fight this, it was seen as a good way to go!

(hmmm, sound familiar? Can anyone say Crickets on the legalization of so-called same-sex marriage in the US by the Catholic Bishops?)

And when the Church doesn’t speak out then society takes over, which led to the…

1965 Supreme Court decision (Griswold v. Connecticut) which gave married couples the right to use birth control, ruling that it was protected in the Constitution as a right to privacy.

But then, which was really too late. The Church chimed in with…

Pope Paul VI creating his encyclical on rejecting contraception in 1968 called Humanae Vitae (latin for - Of Human Life)

So, now that we have the question, and the things that led to the acceptance of birth control,

Let’s examine the reasoning behind God’s rejection of it, and the results of Contraception, on the family, and society!

So, again, why would God ban birth control?

First, it goes against the directive in Genesis to be fruitful and multiply.

Why?

Because, God created us for what?

To love him and serve him and spend eternity with him.

See, this is God’s way of sharing his divine existence with us.

He didn’t have to create us. He didn’t need us.

But, he wanted us to partake in his joy.

So, this is why he bans contraception,

Because birth control aborts the souls God sends the married couple, before those souls even have a chance to be born!

Which does what…

Stops saints and souls from being created, to send back to him, to spend eternity with him in the beatific vision (Heaven)

Just as he sent Christ to come down to forgive, and die for our sins.

Why?

Because we can’t forgive our own sins, because sin is infinite, and must be forgiven, and demolished by an infinite being, which is God himself.

God is merciful, Kind, and just. He wants as many souls with him in heaven as possible!

And when we use birth control, we prevent the complete love, joy, happiness, and holiness that God wants for us.

Moreover, contraception kills those souls.

Just as abortion of that soul once implanted in the mother is murder, contraception is murder as well.

So, what are the results of contraception on our society?

First, women are looked upon as objects and eating utensils.

Women no longer nurture, educate, or create the amount of children God has in store for them.

Selfishness rules marriage, and the family, and society.

Which has spawned unimaginable divorce rates worldwide.

No fault divorce - Same-sex marriage, because if people don’t understand marriage, and what it’s meant for they make up their own definitions

Next, pornography, masturbation, rape, sex abuse of children, the gay life style, all stem from contraception.

Why, because when people don’t understand the complete reasoning behind a law or rule, they make up their own.

And this is how the current, and past leaders of the Church, stemming from the all-powerful sixties have done.

They stopped teaching and explaining the Word of God, so people stopped listening!

When a married couple practices birth control, it destroys the complete self-giving and the one-flesh concept.

This basically means, God is absent. Because the trinity runs from the evil of birth control.

Again, this kills the souls God sends to the married couple for one-flesh, for happiness, for souls they must make into saints to send back to him!

Women aren’t stupid, and even though they choose to take birth control, their nature, and their bodies, understand that she is only being used for her sex organs, and not for the divine God like act of procreation.

Without her God given right, to complete love, and self-giving love from her husband, her soul will begin to reject him, and eventually their marriage!

So, what about having sex outside of marriage plus using birth control?

This practice is doubly bad, and is why many single people having sex end up in misery, and a broken soul; full of walls, and defense mechanisms!

Look, when are we going to learn that selfishness is not the way, it only brings unhappiness, death, and chaos.

Which is what we have in the current crisis in the Catholic Church. Again, the men sat their and let events occur, and did what they wanted, and got what they wanted, complete mayhem!!!

Can we say Death, judgement, heaven, hell?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Warrior Stories

Interview With Deacon Brad Anderson

Warrior Stories - is our segment on Ordained men who are fighting the spiritual battle in the Catholic Church every day through sacrificing their lives, bodies, hearts, and souls, for our ultimate warrior Christ!

And today’s warrior is Deacon Brad Anderson of the Archdiocese of Indianapolis

He has created a beautiful, successful marriage of over 44 years with his beloved wife Kathy.

Current Assignment: St. Mary Parish in Greensburg

Vincent de Paul and Intercity Outreach and Advocacy for the ministry of charity

Previously served: Holy Angels Catholic Church in Indianapolis, Indiana

Ordained: June 23, 2012

Married to Kathy 06/08/74 Married 43yrs.

Something funny:

As a child I hated studying, funeral homes and hospitals. Jesus said tag you are a now a deacon. Love all three today.

Presenting to you my Warrior Story interview with Deacon Brad Anderson!

Successful Marriage: Listen And Learn...

Interview With Deacon Brad Anderson (Part 1)

  1. So, tell me Deacon, how did you grow up with Christ, were you a cradle Catholic or are you a convert?
  2. Growing up, was God in your family?
  3. Tell me how you met your Beloved Kathy?
  4. How many children do you have?
  5. When did you really fall head over heels for Christ?
  6. When did you start to realize that you had to become the leader and spiritual guide of your family?
  7. What are some of the steps you took to accomplish this?
  8. Did Kathy resist? If so, did feminism have a role to play in it?
  9. If not, why do you think she didn’t resist, and allowed you to lead your family?
  10. When did you first consider becoming a Deacon in the Catholic faith, and why did you ultimately give yourself and family over to Christ and His Church?
  11. In your opinion, what is wrong with the state of masculinity, and why is it being attacked?
  12. In your opinion, how can the Church recover from men leaving and rejecting the Church?
  13. What can women do encourage men to step up and take responsibility for their households, family, and the Church?
  14. How has feminism destroyed the family, and hurt the state of the Church?
  15. How has the 2018 Scandal in the Catholic Church affected you?
  16. How can the leaders in the Church (Pope, Cardinals, Bishops, Priests, Deacons) once again, gain the trust of the laity and society at large, as the moral compass for the world?
  17. Brad what gives you the courage to preach the truth during homilies?
  18. Explain what a deacon is in the Catholic Church and how it’s different from a protestant deacon.
  19. For husbands: What are the three most important things you do in your marriage to keep you out of divorce court?
  20. For single men: What are the top three things that a single man can do to find the women he’s meant to marry and build a family with?

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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