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Deacon Brad Anderson – 44 Years – A Successful Marriage Interview Part 2 – CARP010

November 20, 2018 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

successful marriage deacon brad anderson part 2 - Deacon Brad Anderson and his wife Kathy posing in front of a gigantic crucifix!

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Secrets Of A Successful Marriage...

Interview With Deacon Brad Anderson Part 2

 In this tenth episode, part two of my interview with Deacon Brad Anderson

Evil always sounds logical and true; At first! - But that's Satan's way of misdirecting your attention away from God, and focusing it on him.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

  • How can practicing birth control end your marriage?
  • Birth control while dating: yes or no?
  • Warrior Stories: Interview with Deacon Brad Anderson - 44 years- How does he do it?
  • God's view on birth control - tyrannical or merciful?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This Episode

Successful Marriage Episode Part 2!

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document - https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/4786599-Testimony-by-Archbishop-Carlo-Maria-Vigan%C3%B2.html
  • See my part one of my interview with Deacon Brad Anderson here! (Successful Marriage: Part 1)
  • Pope Pius XI Encyclical On Christian Marriage: Casti Connubii
  • Genesis 1 (Be Fruitful And Multiply)
  • The true teaching of the Catholic Church on contraception: Humanae Vitae On the Regulation of Human Births Pope Paul VI - 1968
  • The Imitation Of Christ: HERE!
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man) - More on the deliberate infiltration by Communism and Radical
  • What the Catholic Alph podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

A Successfeul Marriage: At Your Fingertips

Episode 10 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 10 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Successful Marriage Part 2 Ep. 10 (Quote Of The Day)

There are two reasons for the primacy of sex over love in a decadent civilization.

One is the decline of reason.

The second factor is egotism.

As belief in a Divine Judgment, a future life, heaven and hell, a moral order, is increasingly rejected,

the ego becomes more and more firmly enthroned as the source of its morality.

Each person becomes a judge in his own case.

With this increase of selfishness, the demands for self-satisfaction become more and more imperious,

and the interests of the community and the rights of others have less and less appeal.

All sin is self-centeredness, as love is otherness and relatedness.

Sin is the infidelity of man to the image of what he ought to be in his eternal vocation, as an adopted son of God:

Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~ Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

 The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reason Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #10 Reasons Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 10 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 9…


#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn't crush the protestant revolt


Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimonial.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #10 in the document)

Comment on quote!

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#10) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

We didn’t crush contraception!

Why would God say in Genesis be fruitful and multiply?

How much more direct can He be?

See, this brings me again to the complete selfishness and brokenness of the human person.

We only want to do what we want to do, without much consideration for our fellow man.

And not understanding how birth control harms marriage, the family, and society is selfish and irresponsible at the least.

I had a friend’s wife tell me one time that God only directed (be fruitful and multiply) because at the time Adam and Eve were banished and there were no people on the earth.

And you know that does sound logical. But is it what God willed?

This is why we must understand how evil works.

It always, I mean always, sounds logical and true; at first.

But that’s Satan’s way of misdirecting your attention away from God, and focusing on him.

Also with the added degree of selfishness and the need to do what we want, instead of what God wants, makes it really easy to participate in what evil is tempting us to do.

I must ask you the question of, why would God prohibit birth control?

Is he trying to be a tyrant, mean, or unmerciful?

Or maybe he created us, and since he did, he understands what will make us truly happy?

So, here is what the men in the Catholic Church did…

They began to try and chip away at what God was asking, and developing committees and trying to subvert the teaching, to suit their cowardice.

Such as…

The Pontifical Commission on Birth Control – 1963 started by Pope John XXIII – in which 80 percent of the commission voted to change the churches teaching on birth control.

And since the Church didn’t really speak out or fight this, it was seen as a good way to go!

(hmmm, sound familiar? Can anyone say Crickets on the legalization of so-called same-sex marriage in the US by the Catholic Bishops?)

And when the Church doesn’t speak out then society takes over, which led to the…

1965 Supreme Court decision (Griswold v. Connecticut) which gave married couples the right to use birth control, ruling that it was protected in the Constitution as a right to privacy.

But then, which was really too late. The Church chimed in with…

Pope Paul VI creating his encyclical on rejecting contraception in 1968 called Humanae Vitae (latin for - Of Human Life)

So, now that we have the question, and the things that led to the acceptance of birth control,

Let’s examine the reasoning behind God’s rejection of it, and the results of Contraception, on the family, and society!

So, again, why would God ban birth control?

First, it goes against the directive in Genesis to be fruitful and multiply.

Why?

Because, God created us for what?

To love him and serve him and spend eternity with him.

See, this is God’s way of sharing his divine existence with us.

He didn’t have to create us. He didn’t need us.

But, he wanted us to partake in his joy.

So, this is why he bans contraception,

Because birth control aborts the souls God sends the married couple, before those souls even have a chance to be born!

Which does what…

Stops saints and souls from being created, to send back to him, to spend eternity with him in the beatific vision (Heaven)

Just as he sent Christ to come down to forgive, and die for our sins.

Why?

Because we can’t forgive our own sins, because sin is infinite, and must be forgiven, and demolished by an infinite being, which is God himself.

God is merciful, Kind, and just. He wants as many souls with him in heaven as possible!

And when we use birth control, we prevent the complete love, joy, happiness, and holiness that God wants for us.

Moreover, contraception kills those souls.

Just as abortion of that soul once implanted in the mother is murder, contraception is murder as well.

So, what are the results of contraception on our society?

First, women are looked upon as objects and eating utensils.

Women no longer nurture, educate, or create the amount of children God has in store for them.

Selfishness rules marriage, and the family, and society.

Which has spawned unimaginable divorce rates worldwide.

No fault divorce - Same-sex marriage, because if people don’t understand marriage, and what it’s meant for they make up their own definitions

Next, pornography, masturbation, rape, sex abuse of children, the gay life style, all stem from contraception.

Why, because when people don’t understand the complete reasoning behind a law or rule, they make up their own.

And this is how the current, and past leaders of the Church, stemming from the all-powerful sixties have done.

They stopped teaching and explaining the Word of God, so people stopped listening!

When a married couple practices birth control, it destroys the complete self-giving and the one-flesh concept.

This basically means, God is absent. Because the trinity runs from the evil of birth control.

Again, this kills the souls God sends to the married couple for one-flesh, for happiness, for souls they must make into saints to send back to him!

Women aren’t stupid, and even though they choose to take birth control, their nature, and their bodies, understand that she is only being used for her sex organs, and not for the divine God like act of procreation.

Without her God given right, to complete love, and self-giving love from her husband, her soul will begin to reject him, and eventually their marriage!

So, what about having sex outside of marriage plus using birth control?

This practice is doubly bad, and is why many single people having sex end up in misery, and a broken soul; full of walls, and defense mechanisms!

Look, when are we going to learn that selfishness is not the way, it only brings unhappiness, death, and chaos.

Which is what we have in the current crisis in the Catholic Church. Again, the men sat their and let events occur, and did what they wanted, and got what they wanted, complete mayhem!!!

Can we say Death, judgement, heaven, hell?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Warrior Stories

Interview With Deacon Brad Anderson

Warrior Stories - is our segment on Ordained men who are fighting the spiritual battle in the Catholic Church every day through sacrificing their lives, bodies, hearts, and souls, for our ultimate warrior Christ!

And today’s warrior is Deacon Brad Anderson of the Archdiocese of Indianapolis

He has created a beautiful, successful marriage of over 44 years with his beloved wife Kathy.

Current Assignment: St. Mary Parish in Greensburg

Vincent de Paul and Intercity Outreach and Advocacy for the ministry of charity

Previously served: Holy Angels Catholic Church in Indianapolis, Indiana

Ordained: June 23, 2012

Married to Kathy 06/08/74 Married 43yrs.

Something funny:

As a child I hated studying, funeral homes and hospitals. Jesus said tag you are a now a deacon. Love all three today.

Presenting to you my Warrior Story interview with Deacon Brad Anderson!

Successful Marriage: Listen And Learn...

Interview With Deacon Brad Anderson (Part 1)

  1. So, tell me Deacon, how did you grow up with Christ, were you a cradle Catholic or are you a convert?
  2. Growing up, was God in your family?
  3. Tell me how you met your Beloved Kathy?
  4. How many children do you have?
  5. When did you really fall head over heels for Christ?
  6. When did you start to realize that you had to become the leader and spiritual guide of your family?
  7. What are some of the steps you took to accomplish this?
  8. Did Kathy resist? If so, did feminism have a role to play in it?
  9. If not, why do you think she didn’t resist, and allowed you to lead your family?
  10. When did you first consider becoming a Deacon in the Catholic faith, and why did you ultimately give yourself and family over to Christ and His Church?
  11. In your opinion, what is wrong with the state of masculinity, and why is it being attacked?
  12. In your opinion, how can the Church recover from men leaving and rejecting the Church?
  13. What can women do encourage men to step up and take responsibility for their households, family, and the Church?
  14. How has feminism destroyed the family, and hurt the state of the Church?
  15. How has the 2018 Scandal in the Catholic Church affected you?
  16. How can the leaders in the Church (Pope, Cardinals, Bishops, Priests, Deacons) once again, gain the trust of the laity and society at large, as the moral compass for the world?
  17. Brad what gives you the courage to preach the truth during homilies?
  18. Explain what a deacon is in the Catholic Church and how it’s different from a protestant deacon.
  19. For husbands: What are the three most important things you do in your marriage to keep you out of divorce court?
  20. For single men: What are the top three things that a single man can do to find the women he’s meant to marry and build a family with?

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Radical Successful Marriage Tips For Men Part 2!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Yes, yes, that's it, create a successful marriage, to last for all ages!

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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Sexless Marriage| The Top 24 Reasons For Intimacy Agony In Marriage

March 7, 2016 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Is Your Marriage In Crisis? Start Here...

Sexless Marriage: The Agony

The Top 24 Reasons For Intimacy Anguish In Your Marriage

Is The Intimacy Lukewarm? Enter The Marriage Masterclass

Sexless Marriage: Intimacy Anguish

Causes With Devastating Effects

 

To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is and must always be holy.  It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to him who is holy." 
 
~Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Catholic Marriage Therapist and Author
 

Yes, causes (plural). Several possible reasons exist for sexual issues in marriages. Is your marriage fortunate to have one possibility? Or, is your Holy Union one of the unlucky, meaning two or more to wrestle with?

For this reason, I must bring you along slow. Because, I realize how big of a job you have in front of you.

Just as they proclaim about being overweight. Getting fat didn’t take a couple of weeks. So, what makes you think you’ll lose 100lbs in two weeks?

Remove the quick fix mentality from your brain right now.

If you appraise this journey is a two week or even 30 day task, you are mistaken. Now, I’m not concluding you won’t have small successes along the way.

I need you to understand, this crossroads has taken you years or in some cases decades to reach. A complicated issue, such as a sexless marriage, can't be solved as quick as tomorrow.

Most of all, I need you to dig in; get ready for a battle; persevere.

Do what I’ve addressed earlier in my previous articles; send forth your will. Tell yourself, you will smash this, as you smash a clove of garlic.

You will fight. You will endure, and sacrifice whatever is needed to succeed. Indeed, save and keep what you’ve built, what rightfully is yours by the Grace of God.

Most Common Causes Three Categories:

Emotional, Physical And Spiritual

Some of these issues are close in nature. But, for now we will separate them. In order that you can see the intricacies of how each may be a cause of intimacy problems or a sexless marriage.
 
In my experience, none of these problems can exist in a marriage. If they do, you must dig your feet in hard and fast, and solve them now! Without a doubt, you can’t procrastinate, be lazy or make excuses.
 

Again, your full focus is required to conquer this invader. An invader that’s entered, your home, your family, your marriage, and last; your bed.

Jerry Jacobs Jr. ~ Catholic Alpha
 
You must above all, decide which of these is the culprit (my bet is you have more than one). In my followup course, Marriage Unchained: INFLAMED! I cover a major secret that can help with some of these causes.
 
Moreover, devising a plan for action.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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Sexless Marriage: Ripping The Heart Out Of Closeness

Emotional

  1. Feelings Of Depression:
  • Each of us experiences mild depression which is normal, but severe depression is another story.
  • Depression will affect every aspect of your marriage, including the sacred union.
  1. Feelings Of Emptiness:
    Coping with the emotional fiery rampage of a sexless marriage
    Battling The Anguish In Your Marriage
  • This can cause severe promiscuity; always searching to fill that hole in your gut.
  • Drugs, pornography, money, any vice you can dream of. Problem; it’s never enough!
  1. Genital Pain (Mental):
  • There’s some mental anguish or pain that you’ve caused. She unknowingly transfers this to making sacred love, believing the sacred marital act causes her physical pain.
  1. Infidelity:
  • Chronic infidelity breaks the bond (physically and emotionally).
  • The total giving of self is impossible. Without this, you have no marriage (well, maybe on paper).
  1. Lack Of Trust:
  • Stops self-giving; self-sacrificing love in its tracks.
  • No trust, no marital intimacy. No marital intimacy; no marriage.
  1. Lack Of Vulnerability:
  • Each partner must feel vulnerable to the other. There must be something given up; something on the line.
  • Only then can you sense as though you’re giving up something for the greater good of the other.
  1. Mental Illness (severe):
  • This is self-explanatory, but is often overlooked.
  1. Premature Ejaculation:
  • 75% of men suffer this.
  • Meaning, you ejaculate before your wife has a chance to experience her first climax.
  1. Premarital Sex With Multiple Partners:
  • Each failed sexual relationship creates defensive barriers, making it difficult to create a lifelong marriage.
  1. Premarital Sex With Your Wife:
  • Cohabitation increases the chance of divorce at a high rate.
  1. Selfishness:
  • Focusing on self.
  • Unwilling to sacrifice your life for your wife.

Sexless Marriage:

Overcoming The Physical

1. Genital Pain (physical):

  • This is actual pain experienced upon penetration.
  • The pain is real and not imagined.

2. Lack Of Sexual Stamina:

You’re only able to perform in short periods, if at all.

3. Loss Of Hormones:

  • Your hormones are valuable.
  • You must learn how to hold on to them.

4. Low Sex Drive:

  • Your desire should be on demand and frequent.
  • Your wife should never be denied or have to wait for you to be in the mood for sacred intimacy.

5. No Sex Drive:

  • No matter if you are 18 or 108 your drive should always be present and available. 

6. Unable To Achieve Or Maintain An Erection:

  • Again, this cause is self-explanatory.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Sexless Marriage: Not New Age Or New Wave

I mean the one and only Holy Trinity (Father; Son; Holy Spirit)

Spiritual

  1. Contraception:
  • Stops trust, stops vulnerability, stops the giving of total self, stops (emotional, physical and psychological) bonding in your marriage. (DOOMED TO FAILURE!)
  • More important, it stops children. It’s proven, the more children the less chance of divorce and marital problems.

 

  1. Didn’t Get Married In The Church:

    A sexless marriage has a facet absent of God. In essence, inviting evil to reign as a heart wrapped in a chain engulfed in fire.
    A Sexless Marriage Absent Of God
  • If you don’t understand what grace is, you better find out quick.
  • In the Catholic Faith marriage is a sacrament. This means your marriage receives special graces from God. (in short, it enhances the effects of your marriage).

 

  1. Godless Marriage:
  • God created marriage. It takes three, your odds of success are low without the Almighty.

 

  1. Prayer:
  • Prayer will save your marriage if you persevere and endure.
  • Without prayer you have no protection from the effects of “The Fall” (sin, the bad, evil).
  1. Sin
  • Bad, evil or immoral behavior crushes your marriage like a tin cup. Marriage is hard enough when you do things right.
  • It’s like swimming in the ocean against a huge wave. Problems come fast and hard. Too fast for you to fix them all.
  1. Pornography
  • Pure selfishness; causes you to turn in upon yourself
  • Only a matter of time before your marriage is over.
  • Can cause erectile dysfunction (can you say sexless marriage?)

7. Forgoing Confession

  • This is where our marriage counseling should be.
  • Confession relieves an unbelievable amount  of weight from your soul.
  • We must understand what God loves about the marital embrace. Confession is where we learn this!

My Marriage

Hey, I was there. Furthermore, I’ve had more than a few of these possibilities during my marriages.
 
Yep, my marriage was screwed up. Yet, I didn’t realize it. I was so blinded by my selfishness, it almost cost me my soulmate (experience my story here).
 
Don’t let this be you. Continue reading and begin the battle!

Summary

Many will analyze what I've stated above, and dismiss it outright.

One, because they've never considered how much their selfish past, has infected their once rapturous marriage.

But even less noticeable, once they realize most of what is said above either applies to them, or partially applies. They will get angry, or hurt feelings, and retreat back into the twilight zone of denial.

Why? Because the truth hurts. In fact, anger is usually the first response to truth. It's hard to face up to our own sins and misdeeds.

These conclusions are of course a mistake, and moreover, naive. In order to fix our selfish lives, and to claim peace. We must seek courage; embrace truth. 

Hey, no husband starts out wanting to endure the effects of intimacy problems, or more drastic, a sexless marriage (but it happens.) Why? Because men get complacent. We get lazy; the big head. In essence PRIDE!

We think we know everything. But in fact, we don't know crap. And worse yet? We refuse to look in the mirror, and admit it! Just Dumb!

 

Finally, a sexless marriage will kill your marriage (guaranteed). Sex is a gift from the Father, for the married couple. It's the only way that they can become seamless, inseparable, unbreakable; one flesh. 

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You learned the many possible reasons for the cause of intimacy problems in a marriage.
  • You also learned, an absence of God in your marriage will invite evil to reign.
  • Also, how your past immoral deeds (however you choose to look at it) is now contaminating every aspect of your union with your Beloved.
  • Finally, how in order to solve these issues, perseverance is a must.
Do you have experience, or know of a marriage that has any of the problems listed above?
 
How is that marriage surviving? Are they happy? Are they thriving?
 
Do you think a sexless marriage can endure for a lifetime?

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • One of the most controversial verses in the bible concerning marriage.
  • And how that verse should really apply to marriage.
  • Is the Christian faith just a list of rules, or a guaranteed path to happiness, fulfillment and peace?
  • What does submit, subordinate or subject to really mean; concerning wives and marriage?
  • Understanding what the Father is asking of you, as a Christian husband.
  • And why Christ's example of masculinity, must be your course!

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