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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #19 – Does She Dress More Provocatively? CARP057

March 9, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Pay Attention: Has She Started Dressing More Sexy?

In this 57th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

A Holy Lover is one, you becoming the man God created you to be. And two, you becoming the husband your wife needs.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 57th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #19...
  • Has she started dressing nice or more provocative for no apparent reason?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • And is the chaos of divorce better than a husband bearing down and working to save his marriage?
  • Caller #1 - My wife is having an affair with my best friend from high school!

 

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IS THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE BETTER?

  • 1) Her leaving?
  • 2) All the paperwork?
  • 3) The time spent at the lawyers office?
  • 4) The endless hours preparing for court?
  • 5) The custody battle over the kids?
  • 6) Only getting to see the kids once every other weekend?
  • 7) All the wasted money and resources?
  • 8) Losing the house?
  • 9) Losing the property?
  • 10) Losing the cars?
  • 11) Her treating you like a complete stranger?
  • 12) Having to get a part-time job to make ends meet?
  • 13) Having to now go to separate Churches
  • 14) Not being around your friends, because those are her friends too?
  • 15) The kids growing up with split up parents?
  • 16) Hoping the kids will be ok, knowing deep down they won't?
  • 17) The kids as adults having no examples of a good marriage?
  • 18) So, they quit too just as their parents did!

WOULDN'T IT BE SO MUCH BETTER TO COME HOME TO...

  • peace, a happy and loving wife, who loves, respects, and is completely devoted to you?
  • Just an all-around beautiful marriage and family?
  • This is why you must listen to these clues even if you are already in marriage crisis!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #19…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

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What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

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Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

 

Before I tell you the #19 clue let’s review the previous 18…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week
  • 16) You make love less than once a month
  • 17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason
  • 18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

So, what is clue #19 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – Does she dress nicer, or more provocative lately?

I know this one is kind of crazy…

because today most women dress kind of slutty and provocative all the time.

The tight close and the pushed up boobs and the tight hugging pants and dresses!

It drives us men crazy.

But I hear it all of the time.

We have to dress this way because this is all that the manufacturers are making.

My wife tells me that women don’t look good for their husbands or boyfriends…

but that they are in a competition with each other.

Wow! Man, I didn’t know it was that deep!

Look brother, here is the deal.

You know or should know your wife better than me.

If she all of a sudden starts getting her hair and nails done…

and those clothes are a little bit more sexy or revealing than usual.

And she is more perky and excited daily than she was before.

Your Catholic man radar ought to immediately search out and seek the reason why.

As I’ve said with this category of clues…

Alone (hair done, nails, losing weight, nicer clothes, smelling better) mean nothing.

But together or one or two of them should have your radar on red alert.

Then when the other clues I mention pop up you have already solved the other ones.

Again, marriage maintenance, marriage maintenance, marriage maintenance is how you as a husband stay out of divorce court!

You cannot and must not let 3,4,5,10, 20, 50 problems present themselves in your family and continue to bury them with the “I’ll take care of it later syndrome”

Plain and simple the way you stay out of divorce court is marriage maintenance.

The way you keep your wife and girlfriend happy, fulfilled, and satisfied is marriage maintenance!

You give first and be on top of your game now, and get served 10 times better in the future!

Meaning you never ever, ever, take your wife, marriage and God for granted.

In the Catholic Alpha Marriage program this is a Holy Lover Gift.

This is how important it is.

So, what is a Holy Lover?

A Holy Lover is you becoming the man God created you to be

And you becoming the husband your wife needs.

Again, you may be asking, why is he always on the wife’s side.

The answer is I’m not.

I am on the side of God and marriage.

I have come to realize that our wife and children are waiting around for us to get it together.

We are naturally held responsible in the eyes of God

Also, our wife is the heart and nurturer of our home and if she is unhappy, sick, depressed, or irritable…

This changes the entire complexity and feel of our home.

And lastly, once we as husbands lose our egos and pride and become servers of God our wife and children…

Neglecting our own needs, wants, and desires…

Our wives begin to want to look in the mirrors at themselves…

and wonder how can they now become worthy of us!

Gentlemen, your suffering, sacrifice, penance, and dying to your selfishness is the only way to greatness!

Need I say anymore?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #18 – She Get’s Her Hair Done For No Apparent Reason! CARP056

March 8, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Pay Attention: Has She Started Getting Her Hair Done More Often For No Apparent Reason??

In this 56th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Women don’t do things for no reason when it comes to relationships.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 56th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #18...
  • Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • And the Catholic Alpha 10 Day Lent Challenge: The benefits of fasting, and how to detoxify the body at the same time!
  • Caller #1 - I want a dog but my husband doesn't, how do I handle it?

 

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 56 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

After the segment pose the question…

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Do you have a troubled wife?

Call (313) 723-4225 now! or call from your browser…

Inserting the URL…CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every…

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Encourage listeners to call…

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 I need to talk to you!

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

 

Before I tell you the #18 clue let’s review the previous 17…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week
  • 16) You make love less than once a month
  • 17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

So, what is clue #18 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

I used to have a business that required me to visit beauty shops all day long 5 days a week.

There were always tons of women in each shop.

Getting their hair done, nails done, feet done.

There was always a lot of talking going on.

The majority of the conversations were mostly about the women’s boyfriends or husbands.

What the men were doing right or wrong.

But the thing that mostly stood out to me was…

Even though they were happy or unhappy with their man…

They were in that beauty shop each and every week keeping themselves together.

The lesson here is…

Women don’t do things for no reason when it comes to relationships.

So, if your Beloved normally gets her hair done once a month and begins getting it done weekly for example…

There is, or may be a problem that you are missing.

I am not saying oh, go and confront your wife about her visiting the beauty shop or spa.

But what I am saying is exactly what I said yesterday…

Open your eyes gentlemen and explore and be curious about your woman (the good and the bad)

Of course this on its own means nothing.

But as I said before…

When you combine this clue with two, three, or four others like…

The losing weight, going to events without you, spending more time with single and divorced women.

Brother you have a serious problem.

That if caught now and taken care of now…

May cause you a lot less pain and agony in the future.

But of course you won’t listen to me.

You will wait, and wait, and wait, and wait and wait, and wait!

And will never get around to fixing this potential problem…

Moreover, rationalize every excuse in the book why you don’t have time right now.

Again, this is a rookie mistake!

And I expect this from a 20 year old…

But a 40 or 50 or 60 year old…

Never should you allow this to happen.

You are better than that and have way more life experience and certain instincts about these things.

But again, we allow the demonic to distract us with hour and hours of work, video games, hobbies, and just plain laziness.

Please gentlemen, don’t allow this to be you.

I have men coming to me all of the time with the…

“later never comes syndrome”

Meaning they see the problem, sense there is a problem…

but don’t move to correct the problem because…hey…

I’ll take care of it later!

But of course… later… never… comes!…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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