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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #3 Now! CARP037

July 7, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #3: Does She Seem Uninterested In The Marital Embrace?

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Sex The Uncomfortable Answer!

In this 37th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. The theme? Clues your wife wants out!

"One day you’re making blissful love…And all of a sudden you look up and she no longer desires you! Your advances are met with “Nope not tonight big boy!”

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
  • Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
  • In this third episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #3

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 37 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

 

Present The Marriage Minute

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…

Or are in a going nowhere marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

 They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

Clue #3

In today’s episode, we cover clue #3…

Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

I know it’s so weird.

One day you’re making blissful love…

And all of a sudden you look up and she no longer desires you.

Your advances are met with “nope not tonight big boy!”

You can’t seem to figure it out.

You thought things were ok…

But now you couldn’t buy a passionate kiss form her.

Well, I’m going to lay it on you gently.

What’s going on is she doesn’t feel close to you.

And when wives don’t feel close to their husband…

They begin not wanting or enjoying the marital embrace.

Closeness is everything to a woman.

Without it she feels like jetting.

Therefore you must at all cost start take this clue seriously.

Don’t put it off or procrastinate with this clue.

If you are always having to basically nag and force your wife to have sex with you…

You have big marriage problems.

And you’d better start focusing on and investigating the cause at once.

Sex is the second most important thing in your marriage right after prayer.

How can you expect your marriage to thrive when your wife isn’t interested in being intimate with you?

This means she is feeling unloved, unappreciated, and unfulfilled.

And eventually she will find begin looking elsewhere to fill these voids.

Single friends, divorced friends, other men etc.

All which don’t include you!

Wake up brother!

Because if you refuse to…all I see in your future is…

Divorce Court! BAM!

At The End Of Each Episode SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #2 Now! CARP036

July 5, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #2: Does She Spend More Time With Single Women

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #2: Does She Spend More Time With Single Women

In this 36th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. The theme? Clues your wife may want a divorce...Unless you want divorce court in your future?

Let me be clear...there's no way in hell your wife should be hanging out with single or divorced women!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
  • Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
  • In this second episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #2

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 36 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

 

Present The Marriage Minute

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…

Or are in a going nowhere marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

 They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

In today’s episode, we cover clue #2…

Is she spending more time with single friends?

Let me be clear…

There is no way in hell… your wife…

 Should be hanging out on a regular basis with these two types of women…

Single women or divorced women.

First off…single women are not bad per se…

But their goals, duties, and outlook on marriage and life are completely different…

Than what a married woman’s should be.

Moreover, many times single women are selfish, don’t want to have children, have one or multiple sleeping partners.

In a nut shell, single women have drunk the feminist Kool-Aid.

Now, believe it or not… divorced women are worse…

They are most times soured on marriage.

They are many times miserable, and consequently want you to miserable like them.

See, the old adage is true that misery loves company!

Divorced women are many times damaged, hurt, and have much unresolved pain…

Caused by who…yep you guessed it (other selfish men).

So what do they do…

they press those feelings upon your wife.

And guess what, if you are not perfect, and on your job as a husband…

She will listen to the single and the divorced.

Which means what?

She will then bring that evil home to your bedroom and to your children, and to you!

The single and the divorced woman, will tell your wife (with great vigor and passion) I might add…

That girl… I wouldn’t take that from him if I were you.

Girl, if that were me, no way would I have all those kids.

Girl you better be careful, he is probably thinking on leaving you high and dry with all the bills, and all those kids.

This of course is from the very depths of Hell!

Want to stay out of divorce court?

Keep divorced, and single women away from your Beloved! BAM!

At The End Of Each Episode SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #1 Now! CARP035

July 3, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #1: Does She Seem Distant?

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

What No One's Telling You!

In this 35th episode? The first Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. lessons...

How does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage? Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this first Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we begin the series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!"
  • Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
  • In the first episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #1

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The First Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 35 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

 

Present The Marriage Minute Content

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…are in a going no where marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

 They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

In today’s episode, we begin with #1…

Does she seem distant?

Yes, this is the catch all general clue.

If your wife has started being distant

Not paying attention to you, her job, the kids etc.

Or if she is not quite all there and attentive.

Being secretive, not communicating as much.

You may consider asking yourself why.

This probably means she doesn’t feel close to you, or she is depressed, or feeling unloved, or appreciated.

All of these are huge, huge, huge for wives.

The main things her is you must see that this is going on and ask her if everything is ok.

Of course she will say nothing is wrong.

But you must as her protector sit her down and really explain to her that you really care…

And that you really want to know and try and help if you can.

Usually once she knows this, the percentages are she will open up and tell you.

The key here is to not procrastinate and think things will get better…

Or the problem will disappear.

You must as her beloved husband…

Man up and take care of this now…NOT LATER!

That is…if you want to stay out of divorce court!

At The End Of Each Episode Push SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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How To Save Your Catholic Marriage Alone! CARP033

April 24, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Save My Catholic Marriage Alone...

The Stone Cold Real World Truth!

In this 33rd episode? We discuss a very special program that helps men fix their marriage on their own! As well as these other important lessons...

Divorce is immoral because it introduces disorder into the family and into society. This disorder brings grave harm to the deserted spouse…to children traumatized by the separation of their parents…who are often torn between them…and because of its contagious effect which makes it truly a plague on society

The Catechism Of The Catholic Church

 

  • Will anyone help you when your wife files for divorce?
  • Can you really save your marriage alone?
  • What no one tells your wife about the single life.
  • Why are divorced and single women a terrible influence on married women?

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Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Or Watch Now!

Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

How To Save Your Marriage By Yourself Episode

 

  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • She's Asked For A Divorce Now What? Start Here: SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Divorce and Christ - The Catechism of the Catholic Church: Why Divorce Is A Plague On Society?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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Why Should I Want To Save My Catholic Marriage By Myself?

Episode 33 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…
While also giving you… winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!
Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –
IN THIS 33rd EPISODE (How To Save Your Marriage Alone!) - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Quote Of The Day: A Vision Of Before Heaven And Before Hell!

Before Heaven; Before Hell:
“One day, I saw two roads. One was broad, covered with sand and flowers, full of joy, music and all sorts of pleasures.
People walked along it, dancing and enjoying themselves.
They reached the end of the road without realizing it.
And at the end of the road there was a horrible precipice; that is, the abyss of hell.
The souls fell blindly into it; as they walked, so they fell.
And their numbers were so great that it was impossible to count them.
And I saw the other road, or rather, a path, for it was narrow and strewn with thorns and rocks;
and the people who walked along it had tears in their eyes, and all kinds of suffering befell them.
Some fell down upon the rocks, but stood up immediately and went on.
At the end of the road there was a magnificent garden filled with all sorts of happiness, and all these souls entered there.
At the very first instant they forgot all their sufferings."[END QUOTE]

~Diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska, #153

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Bulldog Lawyer: How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn’t Want To! CARP032

April 14, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To...

Understanding Divorce!

In this 32nd episode? Bulldog Lawyer Big John Molloy on understanding divorce and how to save your marriage when she doesn't want to! As well as these other important lessons...

I've only seen a divorce stopped in its tracks when the husband self reflects and becomes Christ centered!

John Molloy~Asst. Prosecutor Indianapolis

  • How does divorce really work in the court system?
  • How long does it actually take for a divorce to become final in many states?
  • If you don't want a divorce can you stop it or only slow it down?
  • What is the actual step by step process inside of the mediation room?
  • How do you find an attorney who is willing to employ the "save my marriage" strategy?
  • As a last resort is there a way to persuade the judge to force marriage counseling?

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  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • She's Asked For A Divorce Now What? Start Here: SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com
  • The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
  • Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen (consider before Catholic Marriage counseling)
  • Divorce and Christ - The Catechism of the Catholic Church: Why Divorce Is Immoral?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Episode 32 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you… winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 32nd EPISODE (Bulldog Lawyer…Big John Molloy…How To Save Your Marriage When She Doesn’t Want Too!) - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

In history, the only causes that die are those for which men refuse to die.

The more love grows, the more its eyes open to the needs of others, to the miseries of men, and to compassion.

The remedy for all the sufferings of the modern brain… lies in the enlargement of the heart…

through love, which forgets itself as the subject, and begins to love

the neighbor as the object.

But he who lives for himself… will eventually find that nature, fellowman, and God are all against him.

The so-called "persecution complex" is the result of egotism.

The world seems against him who wants everything for himself.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Man On Fire: Big John Molloy

My segment on married men in the Catholic faith doing it right, trying to hold it down for God, his marriage, his Beloved and his family.
• Name: John Molloy
• Has been married 10 years to his Beloved wife Amy
• He has 2 children (Sophia 5) and (Evelyn 2)
• He is an assistant DA in in Indianapolis IN
• And we bought John here for a special purpose today to help us dissect the divorce culture and how it works inside the justice system, and how it intertwines with to the Catholic Church

Part One: Background Questions
1. How did you and Amy meet?
2. How did you propose to your wife?
3. What attracted you to your wife, and why did you marry her?
4. What made you decide to get married in general?
5. When did you really start loving Christ and His Church?
6. Was Christ in your family growing up?
7. How did you meet your Beloved wife?
8. When you first met her, did you think I’m going to marry this woman, or did you think probably not?
9. What was the one thing in your life that snapped you out of the twilight zone, and made you think I need to start trying to get married and be a better man?
10. When you were first married, was Christ strong in your home, or was he absent, if he wasn’t, what events happened to make you start to lean on him? If He was, why was He so strong there?
11. Were you always a good father and husband, if not, what happened to make you start taking it seriously. If so, where did you get the foundation from?
12. Was your father into God when you were growing up more, or was your mother the one trying to lead everyone to God? If it was your mother, did that change before you graduated from high school?
13. Are you a convert to the Catholic faith? If so, what made you come to the Catholic faith?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Man On Fire: Big John Molloy On Understanding Divorce

  1. Can you explain generally how divorce works and how it is different now from how it used to be in the country?
  2. Do you think it’s too easy to file and get a divorce?
  3. How long are you seeing does it take for a divorce to be final?
  4. If a man wants to fight for his wife but she wants the divorce how would you suggest he goes about delaying the process?
  5. Divorce and Annulment why do you think the Church requires a divorce first before applying for an annulment?
  6. If a man wants to save his marriage, how would you suggest he act, and what should he say, and what demeanor should he use in the mediation or the court room?
  7. What is the actual process inside the mediation room, what about the court hearing itself?
  8. Is there anyway that a man can persuade a judge to force marriage counseling to force the wife to work on the marriage for say a year or 6 months, especially if she refuses to talk to or negotiate in good faith.
  9. Wonder if he uses a strategy of negation in the mediation or court hearing that he just wants 6 months to a year to prove he has changed, and that if he gets that and she still wants a divorce, he will not fight and he will give her the uncontested divorce if she still wants it?
  10. How do you find and attorney that is willing to employ this strategy? And what questions should be asked?
  11. Is there a way to fight and delay the divorce at all costs to give the husband time to change, and show her he has changed. Do you suggest this strategy? If not what do you suggest a husband do that does not want his family or marriage split up?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Catholic View: Why Hollywood Marriages Fail? CARP031

March 24, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Hollywood stars on the red carpet (why Hollywood marriage fail?)

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Why Hollywood Marriags Fail...

Just More Proof God Knows What He's Doing!

In this 31st episode? We talk about Hollywood marriages from the Catholic point of view. And what you can do to avoid there marriage mayhem! As well as their other important lessons...

Also, I’m so sick and tired, of people saying the kids will be ok in a divorce…NO THEY WON’T!

Jerry Jacobs Jr.~CatholicAlpha.com

  • Why second marriages fail as much as or more than first marriages?
  • Why your marriage won't change unless you change first?
  • What can women do to save their marriage when it starts going south?
  • How old was Elizabeth Taylor during her first divorce?
  • How could these 5 famous couples have saved their rollercoaster marriages?

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  • Article by the Economic Times:  5 Celebrity Couples Who Decided To Go For No-fault Divorce
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • She's Asked For A Divorce Now What? Start Here: SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com
  • The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
  • Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen (consider before Catholic Marriage counseling)

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Catholic View: Why Hollywood Marriages Fail?

Episode 31 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 31 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

Most sound minds resent flattery because they
see the egotism behind the screen of altruism.
The ego in sex pleads that it loves the alter ego…
but what it loves is really the possibility of its own pleasure in the other ego.
The other person is necessary for the return of the egotist upon himself. The egotist finds himself constantly being encircled by non-being,
purposelessness, meaninglessness;
he has the feeling of being exploited.
Refusing to be related to anything else,
he soon sees that nothing is for him:
The whole world is against him!
But love, which stresses the object,
finds itself in constantly enlarging relationships.
Love is so strong it surpasses narrowness by devotedness and forgetfulness of self.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Episode 31 - Transcript

Marriage In The News: Hollywood Hookups, shack ups, and Screw ups!

This segment is my take on marriage in Hollywood from a Catholic point of view!

On Jan. 1, 1970, the first "no-fault" divorce law in the United States went into effect in California.

Within five years, the country's divorce rate nearly doubled…

skyrocketing from 650,000 divorces a year, to more than 1 million.

It's never fallen below that mark in the decades since.

(article by Emily Stimpson Chapman OSV Newsweekly) I’ll to it in the show notes.

In an article by the economic times Here are 5 celebrity couples who decided to go for the quick fix, an opt out for a no-fault divorce

But first l talk briefly about God’s true position on divorce.

I’ll quote Sacred Scripture proof a little later.

But for now let me tell you a short story:[tell story about how I was at grouping and I thought divorce was ok in case of adultery]

Divorce is unacceptable in the Church (Christ’s Church) why?

Because one the grass is never greener

People get a divorce and don’t work through anything which makes their marriage stronger

Then find that the person they are now with is just as bad or worse than their previous spouse.

Second, you take you with you!

You can’t escape you!

So if you leave your spouse and get a divorce…

But you have so much pride and don’t look to fix your faults first…

How do you really expect things to change with your next so-called spouse?

This is why second marriages fail just as much or worse than first marriages.

And God knows this, he knows we are broken!

Look, we must fight and work things out how?

For men it’s through prayer, suffering, sacrificing, and serving our Beloved…

So that she knows unconditionally that we cherish, love, and are devoted to her.

For women it’s suffering and sacrifice, through prayer, submission to Christ, and her husband, and serving him and your family…

By forgoing your wants and desires for career, your friends, and the world.

Now let’s talk about 5 Hollywood hookups, shack ups and screw ups that failed…

and are the true example of what not to do!

#1 Elizabeth Taylor & Conrad Nicky Hilton

The movie star and the real estate tycoon met at LA’s Mocambo nightclub in October 1949.

A year later they were married in Beverly Hills, with MGM picking up the tab for the actor’s lavish wedding.

Within 205 days of their wedding the couple got divorced.

An 18-year-old Taylor won the divorce on grounds of mental cruelty and refused alimony.

Look, Elizabeth Taylor had probably more marriages than any person in the history of Hollywood!

But she just never got it.

I mean after about the third marriage…

Maybe… just maybe… you look at yourself and ask yourself…

what in the heck is wrong with me?

Moreover, with Elizabeth, she had given herself to so many men…

that her pain and inhibitions were so high, that every marriage she entered…

was probably hell from the get-go for her husband…

Because he had no idea how to calm her or make her happy!

I know fellas, it’s not fair that no one teaches us this stuff!

#2 Christie Brinkley, Richard Taubman

The supermodel and the real estate developer met at the Telluride ski resort in Colorado in 1994…

when the two of them survived a helicopter crash.

Brinkley was married to Billy Joel at the time.

Eight months after the crash, Brinkley and Taubman married near the site of the crash…

and announced at their wedding that they were expecting a child.

Their marriage ended a year later.

Ok here is another lesson…

that we all realize…

but no one wants to admit it to themselves until it’s too late!

What makes you think that when you meet a woman, and she is married to another man or with her boyfriend…

And you somehow get her to sleep with you…

Then be with you or marry you…

That eventually when your relationship starts tanking…

that she won’t do you the exact same way?

Please get real…

People tell you who they are if you are willing to see it!

In this case Christy Girl, left her husband, slept with another man…

And had his child, and… married him!

All I can say is, when it tanks they will run…

Why?

Because they have a track record…

And have shown you that track record in spades!

#3 Chad Johnson, Evelyn Lozada

The football player and the reality TV star married on July 4, 2012 after dating for a couple of years.

On August 11, Johnson was arrested on grounds of domestic battery…

after headbutting Lozada during an argument.

The athlete was released from Miami Dolphins soon after.

On August 14, Lozada filed for divorce which was finalized on September 19.

Johnson entered a plea of no contest for his charges and received a year of probation.

Ok this is classically what Father Chad Ripperger classifies as The Curse Of Eve (explain the this)

This comes from the point of view from the man and from the point of view from the wife.

First off the wife!

Oh boy Chad’s wife felt he didn’t love her!

She felt he didn’t give her enough attention…

or basically started putting her and their marriage on the back burner.

And once a woman senses this…

she begins to rebel and exhibit the curse of Eve.

Which is what is happening here!

First, they begin trying to control you by disrespecting you…

becoming angry, depressed and unhappy.

Then they begin thinking of an exit strategy when you don’t begin fixing yourself!

Then most times they get another man to make you listen…

Then they leave to make you listen…

Then they file for separation to make you listen…

Then they file for divorce to make you listen…

Then they file for an annulment to make you listen…

The key takeaway here?

We are men, and most times we don’t listen until…

They leave or ask for a divorce…

Why does your wife do this?

Because, these are the stages that she goes through to try and get you…

to prove your love for her…

and prove that you are the man she needs!

Finally, these are the stages she goes through, to get you to man up…

become the leader and begin fixing yourself!

But, what do most of us men do…we punk out and become effeminate…

and agree to the divorce and give them all they want!

Look here is the saying…

You never give your wife what she wants…

You give her what she needs to make her happy!

So, this means…you never…

Submit and give a crazy woman what they want…

when they are trying to destroy your marriage…and split up your family!

#4 Kris Humphries, Kim Kardashian

The Kardashian and Humphries marriage lasted all of 72 days!

but the divorce proceedings went on for months.

The reality TV celebrity and the NBA star met in 2011 while Kardashian was filming her show.

After a quick engagement that lasted 90 days…

the couple was married in a star-studded, widely-televised ceremony.

At the time of the divorce Kardashian was expecting a child with her rapper boyfriend Kanye West.

You know I just have to say it…

God the Father knows what He’s doing!

Mannnnn…This is the prime reason…why you don’t sleep with a woman before you marry her!

Because once you do things get all murky and cloudy!

Then everything is all about emotion.

And logic is thrown out the window.

I mean come on 72 days!

He probably didn’t even know her favorite color when they got married!

Then when they did get married, and he began living with her…

He saw how completely like Eve she was (complete and total selfishness)

He basically found himself in his worse nightmare (HELL ON EARTH!)

#5 Donatella Versace, Manuel Dallori

The Italian power couple - one the leader of a hugely successful fashion house…

and the other a businessman…

divorced within a year of being married.

The couple was married in 2004 and were divorced by 2005.

Despite speculation, little is known behind the couple’s decision to part ways.

Versace has two children with her first husband Paul Beck.

You have to know…

that this is the classic case of too many involved in a couples marriage!

Babies from other people all over the place.

The other babies mommas and daddy’s all in the business.

And the married couple has no idea how to handle it.

But, instead of digging in…and focusing on the marriage…

They succumb to the demonic influence in their marriage and home…

And they are defeated easily!…Why?

Because… God is nowhere around…

And… JESUS… HAS… LEFT… THE… BUILDING!

No grace, no true love, no sacrifice!

Doomed to failure!

Look here is the bottom line…

I stated many good arguments for the reason Our Lord forbids divorce…

And if you really think about it and remove the blinders…

You will see that they are valid and true…

But one thing I didn’t say is this…

Even though we arent’ allowed to divorce…

We are allowed to separate…

and get away from a spouse who is physically abusive.

But separation is not divorce.

Why?

Because people change and come to their senses…

and this takes time.

So, if God allowed divorce, and the person changed…

THEN became this great and awesome husband for his wife…

But she has divorced him, and given herself to another man…

This makes things very difficult for them and the children!

Also, I’m so sick and tired of people saying the kids will be ok in a divorce…NO THEY WON’T!

Now, let’s go into the foundation of marriage…

as seen through Sacred Scripture and the Church (Christ’s Church!)

Divorce in scripture – Matthew Chap 19 (v. 1-9)

Marriage and Divorce.

When Jesus finished these words,* he left Galilee and went to the district of Judea across the Jordan.

Great crowds followed him, and he cured them there.

Some Pharisees approached him, and tested him,* saying…

“Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?”

He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female?’

and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?

So they are no longer two, but one flesh.

Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.”

They said to him, “Then why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss [her]?”

He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

I say to you,* whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.”

Well, that pretty much says it…It’s from Christ’s own mouth!

Ok, here is what the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church!) teaches on divorce…

(which is what Christ handed down) as stated in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church!)…

(paragraph 2382) The Lord Jesus insisted on the original intention of the Creator who willed that marriage be indissoluble.

He abrogates the accommodations that had slipped into the old Law.

Between the baptized, "a ratified and consummated marriage cannot be dissolved by any human power or for any reason other than death."

(Paragraph 2383) The separation of spouses while maintaining the marriage bond can be legitimate in certain cases provided for by canon law.176

If civil divorce remains, the only possible way of ensuring certain legal rights, the care of the children, or the protection of inheritance…

it can be tolerated and does not constitute a moral offense.

(2384) Divorce is a grave offense against the natural law.

It claims to break the contract, to which the spouses freely consented, to live with each other till death.

Divorce does injury to the covenant of salvation, of which sacramental marriage is the sign.

Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery:

If a husband, separated from his wife, approaches another woman, he is an adulterer because he makes that woman commit adultery,

and the woman who lives with him is an adulteress, because she has drawn another's husband to herself.

(2385) Divorce is immoral also because it introduces disorder into the family and into society.

This disorder brings grave harm to the deserted spouse…

to children traumatized by the separation of their parents…

who are often torn between them…

and because of its contagious effect which makes it truly a plague on society.

NEED I SAY ANYMORE…BAM!

So, what do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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Reasons For Divorce | Time To Shut Up; Man Up; And Listen!

May 27, 2016 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Is Your Marriage In Crisis? Start Here...

Reasons For Divorce

Time To Shut Up; Man Up; And Listen!

You must ask God to give you power to fight against the sin of pride which is your greatest enemy - the root of all that is evil, and the failure of all that is good. For God resists the proud"

~Saint Vincent De Paul

 

Reasons For Divorce

Will Pride Cost You Your Beloved?

This problem is enormous with men. We let our pride impede sincere help. Meanwhile, our predicament sinks further and further into oblivion.

Many cases, we wait so long, our situation becomes unrepairable. And, we hit bottom! Thereby, allowing our Beloved's reasons for divorce to become validated.

My question is, how long will you put your marriage on hold?

How far must you fall?

How much longer does your beloved have to suffer?

How much longer must she wait for you to take hold, stand up, put her first?

More important, are you beyond a doubt, ready to sacrifice your marriage?

For these reasons; procrastination and taking your marriage for granted. Are you ready for those consequences?

Do you in fact, want these unanswered questions to be included as reasons for divorce in your marriage?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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Don't Think You Need Help?

Enter Prideful Paul

Ah, the big trap (pride). Pride the root cause of almost every sin.

“What can he tell me about my wife?”

“What can he tell me about my marriage?”

“What does he know about my family life?”

“I don’t need anything from anybody!”

“I can figure this out all on my own.”

Oh really? Then why are you here?

You’re here because you need more, want more, crave more than what you now have. In fact, I don’t blame you. You sense something isn’t quite right.

But, having a closed mind in this matter won’t help. This reasoning will keep you entrapped inside yourself. For one thing, every question posed above, mirrored my life at one time or another.

Despite this fact, seeking the truth saved me.

Denial:

The Story Of Adam Revisited

Has someone ever come to you for help? Thereafter, refuse to let you help them? They are so caught up in themselves and their ego, the truth can’t peek through?

Well, I encountered such an experience. Adam is a young confident man, a newlywed. Although, he’s never been married. Adam has numerous children by at least two different women other than his new wife.

Don’t ask me how he found her. In truth, Adam’s wife being a virgin is a blessing to their marriage. The reason being, she won’t have any accompanying baggage to work through (failed sexual relationships, other men’s children for example). Thereby squashing many future reasons for divorce.

Now, I understand from personal experience, how hard meshing one child into a family can be. Problem; Adam has several. Not to mention, with two different mothers.

Furthermore, this marriage starting, has the potential to become volatile (too many people in one marriage). Similar to merging onto an on ramp during rush hour (just won’t fit).

Can you blast, “Complications are coming.”

“Complications are coming.”

The Dilemma

Wives need extraordinary love, care and attention. A conclusion not hard to grasp. To exemplify, new wives, oh my gosh; multiply this by five.

New brides are fragile. As a matter of fact, they require continuous validity of the decision they just made. The decision to spend the rest of their lives with the groom.

In this new union, we have multiple moms, multiple children. Not to mention, the real possibility of the bride experiencing slight envy over not having any children with her husband.

Can you appreciate the predicament? The other women are one up on her. They have something she doesn’t. This intuition is natural (She’s human.)

At present, Adam approaches me with a problem. Sex is non-existent. Marital intimacy is a leaf carried away by a breeze.

Meanwhile, his new bride is all over the place. It hurts. Or, she doesn’t want to do it. Adding, I’m tired, because of work. In fact, any excuse to put him off.

He Just Can’t See It!

Again, to Adam, the blame lies with his wife. Every bit. In particular, the sacred intimacy part. He believes he’s an expert, and he understands the precise actions to take.

The problem is, he doesn’t know. In fact, if he did, his wife may not refuse to give every excuse in the book to avoid loving him. No new bride does that. What’s her payoff?

How many newlyweds do you know of who are unable to keep their hands off each other? Right, none!

To repeat Adam doesn’t realize this point. If he expressed even a small tidbit of humility. He might solve his problem.

Not a surprise, a couple of years later; Adam still suffers from a lack of intimacy in his marriage. And, the reasons for divorce loom over him. However, these can be fixed. But not before, he hits bottom. 

His Bottom Hasn’t Come Yet

The point here? This man perceives he understands everything. In essence, he understands nothing.
 
Again, I point to this story? Why? Because Adam’s behavior is typical.
 
It’s always the other persons fault. It’s never me. Again, you are the man. You must take the lead and responsibility to fix this. In order to accomplish your mission, you must work on yourself.
 
Even more important, consider what you need to do; to fix you. You can’t fix your wife. She must volunteer to follow your lead. But, in order for her to jump onboard, you must work through your deficiencies.
 
Ultimately, you do this by seeking help and the truth.
Click here to access my page dedicated entirely to marriage guidance.
 

Don’t You Mirror Adam

Of course pride is your number one objection and the number one reason men fail.

[pullquote]Pride becomes an objection, because it causes men to rationalize, they don’t need help. Furthermore, encouraging them to reason that there marriage is in better shape than it actually is.[/pullquote]

But, the objections and major reasons for failure don’t stop with pride. In fact, there are several different types of men, who help foster the reasons for divorce in our society.

Below, I list a few of them. In fact, scores of men possess one of these; even all of them.

Well, have fun. Consider if you see yourself, in any of the categories below.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Reasons For Divorce

8 Men who Got It Wrong!

True manhood, submits to the truth, no matter how hard it is"

 

~FR. Chad Ripperger, FSSP, Phd~Speech; How To Raise A Man

 

Prideful Paul

A man who won't listen; knows everything. As well as, denies the truth, even when it's presented

Reasons for divorce? Enter prideful Paul. Pride will explode your marriage and you will find it hard not to seek divorce. (a yelling man with exploded, blown out head in the back, black and gray colors)
Reasons For Divorce: Prideful Paul

to him factually and faithfully. He's full of selfishness, and refuses to sacrifice. His ideas, and what he believes, loom above everything, and everyone else. Including the Father! He believes he's actually greater than he truly is.

No Plan Dan

The man with no plan: Everyone has their own reasons for divorce. But a battle plan is vital to the

The reasons for divorce are plenty. But the mistake of having no plan will destroy your marriage now and in the future. (a man and wife, she is screaming at him)
Reasons For Divorce: No Plan Dan

success of never needing a divorce. Creating a marriage maintenance plan, before you have problems is the answer. The key is not to wait until the marriage is falling apart, and falling off a cliff. Again, in order to take productive action, you must devise a blueprint.

Procrastinate Nate

The man who refuses to assess his situation: These men may

The reasons for divorce? You must acknowledge you have a marriage problem and do something about it. (a man behind a screen screaming with his hands up and on it)
Reasons For Divorce: Procrastinate Nate

accept there’s a problem, but they ignore the crisis and procrastinate. Most of the time, these men don’t realize their predicament is worse than it appears.

Denial Dennis

The man who denies a problem even exists: These men are the worst. They hide behind their wife or

The reasons for divorce include denial that there is an actual problem when there is. ( a husband wrapped completely in ropes covering his whole body)
Reasons For Divorce: Denial Dennis

children. Their wife is basically sleeping with another man, and he still denies a problem exists. She has given him so many clues and hints of her depression or unhappiness. Resulting, in her taking drastic measure to get him to pull his head out of his butt! Still, he wallows in his weakness.

Blaming Bob

The man who continues to focus on his wife’s faults and imperfections: These men are condemned to failure. They refuse to become laser

The reasons for divorce include blaming all but yourself. This philosophy will kill your marriage. (a man sitting at a desk with a cup of coffee, and a huge coffee fist coming from the coffee about to hit the man in the face)
Reasons For Divorce: Blaming Bob

focused on fixing themselves. Again, continuing to blame his beloved, his children, work, his mom, dad, his friend, the government or God for all his problems. In essence, anyone but himself.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Soliciting Sam

The man who solicits advice from ignorant or unsuccessful people: Short and simple; you don’t take marriage advice in any form from

The reasons for divorce? Seeking advice from divorced or unmarried people. Bad move and will cost you in the end. (man with fire and smoke coming out of his ears and mouth with bugged out eyes, in a suit and tie)
Reasons For Divorce: Soliciting Sam

anybody who isn’t married or is at present divorced! In most cases, they are failures, and they will place their biases about marriage upon you. Remember; MISERY LOVES COMPANY!

Distracted Mack

The man who fails to remove most of or all distractions in order to become laser focused on his beloved: Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice. These men

Reasons For Divorce? being distracted and not focusing completely on your wife over time will destroy your marriage (a man with his head down in misery with women hands encircling over the top of him)
Reasons For Divorce: Distracted Mack

refuse to give up or deny themselves current pleasures or desires (for example, friends, television, other women). Their beloved is screaming for their soul mate. Who in fact, refuses to hear them. Can there exist any more of a coward on this earth?

Godless Gary

The man who refuses to enact obedience to the Father, and insert Him smack dab in the middle of his Holy Union. Again, these men are

The reasons for divorce: You must include God in your marriage. Otherwise fire will engulf your marriage (man in a suit, surrounded by flames)
Reasons For Divorce: Godless Gary

doomed to failure. The Holy sacrament of marriage takes three. These men don’t even realize they’re miserable. Evil has engulfed their marriage by proof of constant problems, trials and tribulations that inflict punishment on their Holy Union and family daily.

I implore you, wake up Christian Soldier!
 
Once again, DON’T BE THAT MAN!
 
Squash all reasons for divorce, in your Beloved's heart and mind now!

The Reasons For Divorce

No Examples Of Great Marriages

You must, search for great examples of marriage. I know, not many present and accounted for.

To begin, first you must recognize what a magnificent marriage is.

In fact, that’s where the Marriage Unchained Masterclass enters the picture. In essence, you need a mentor. Someone who’s been where you are. As well as, where you’re trying to go.

Simple right? Ha-ha, no it isn’t.

But we can get there (perseverance).

In my experience, most men today have no idea how to form a magnificent marriage. Plenty of fathers are missing in action (whether voluntary or forced).
 
The point? The reason doesn’t matter how or why your father was absent in your life. Furthermore, why your father wasn’t the man he needed to be for you to flourish.
 
The fact remains, he wasn’t. Besides, odds are, you don’t have many examples of powerful, worthy men with magnificent marriages.
 
Even if you did wish to seek them out, and use their marriage as a model.
 
To repeat, learn what an awe inspiring marriage is, and what to watch for. Then your model will be easier to spot.
 
So, one, you need instruction on what to look for in a marriage.
 
Two, you need someone who is where you want to be (a mentor).
 

The Reasons For Divorce

How Do You Place A Value On Forever?

You Must Put In The Work To Have:

A marriage where your beloved feels totally and completely loved

A marriage where your wife feels secure.

A marriage where your wife feels happy.

A marriage where your beloved feels complete fulfillment during the marital embrace.

The reasons for divorce are vast. You must put in the work to have a great marriage. Or else your wife will be standing in front of the hates of hell in a red flowing long dress, floating on water)
Reasons For Divorce: How Do You Put A Value On Forever?

A marriage where you and your wife are best friends.

A marriage full of trust, vulnerability and unselfishness.

A home filled with peace.

A marriage enhanced by sacred intimacy.

A marriage of complete self-giving, sacrifice and fidelity.

A marriage full of Grace, prayer and The Father.

A marriage where your beloved spreads her love, fulfillment and happiness
throughout your family.

This isn’t hype, but truth if you put in the work!

Unchain It; Now!

You’re bottled up; you feel restrained; restricted. You’ve got to release all that pent up resistance.
 
You must become focused, immovable, unalterable from your ultimate goal. Allow nothing (man or beast; emotion or notion) to block your path.
 

What Would You Give?

  • For peace?
  •  For your beloved to once again approach you to make sacred love to her?
  • For one hour, two hours, three hours, four hours, five hours, six hours plus?
  • For the lifelong satisfaction of a marriage not just surviving but thriving?
  • Even if you’re 35, 45, 55 or 65 years young!

I Demand That You …

Release your doubt, get a plan; jettison it into practice.

Moreover, begin to unchain your trust, unchain your passion, unchain your sacrifice, unchain your vulnerability, unchain your intimacy, unchain your unselfishness, unchain your will!

While at last, unchaining your marriage, and, terminating all reasons for divorce.

I must testify. It's a magnificent place to be!

Summary

To summarize and state once again, Catholic Alpha is about leading you down the path to Sainthood and Holiness. And, that starts with your marriage. As I've stated many times before, you are commanded to get your beloved to Heaven. Even at the sacrifice of your one and only life.

You can’t be the man God is calling you to be without your wife; without your marriage. Furthermore, you need her. She is part of you; she is made for you; she is made from you.

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • How pride is the #1 reason men fail in their mission to save their marriage.
     
  • The top seven secondary reasons men fail and the description of each and how they affect your success.
     
  • How to spot a great marriage.
     
  • Where to find help to obtain a marvelous marriage.
     
  • How a bad marriage looks and how to avoid them.
 
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium: 
 
Do you have experience, or know of a marriage that has any of the problems listed above?
 
Which one of the men above do you most emulate?
 
What is your plan to fix this craziness?
 
Let me know something. List your thoughts below.

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • One of the most neglected questions that is never discussed in a marriage.
  • Why it's never asked.
  • And how asking this vital question, can change your whole approach to the Holy Caress.
  • While helping subdue your reasons for divorce.

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Fasting And Prayer | A Husband’s Secret Weapon

April 7, 2016 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.



Is Your Marriage In Crisis? Start Here...

Fasting And Prayer

A Husband's Secret Weapon

 

When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her.

The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her.

The history of civilization could actually be written in terms of the level of its women.”
~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen~ Life Is Worth Living

Fasting And Prayer:

Get Rid Of Your Boring Marriage Once And For All

I was a heathen. Didn’t know, didn’t care; hated any conversations concerning God (let alone fasting and prayer). I didn’t care if the discussions were positive or negative. I didn’t want to face my morality.
 
In effect, this happens when we observe nuns in their habits, priests in their collars; God in His Glory. We sense we must at once, straighten up and fly right. In essence, we must face our morality, examine our lives; look in the mirror.
 
And in today’s society that is the exact opposite of what evil wants.
 
Have you noticed? when is the last time you encountered a nun in her habit? In fact, can you point to a nun that carries her holiness outward? Are they trying to hide? Don’t they understand, habits are their uniforms. Just as military men, police officers, firemen.
 
Moreover, don’t they realize little girls turn to them for guidance? Why do young boys gravitate towards being a policeman or fireman? Because, they encounter them on occasion. They are tangible. Something they can touch and observe. Further, someone to look up to.
 
So, where are our nuns; priests? Can’t find them. Don’t see them. To children, they are as ghosts, that can’t be seen touched or obtained. Sad, isn’t it?
 
This reason is primary for the shortage of priests and nuns. Out of sight; out of mind!
 
As a matter of fact, I view numerous priests these days that can’t wait to strip those collars off. Thus, able to move around in society incognito.
 
I just want to shout to them, “Father, we love you, we adore you, we miss you.”
“Lead us, guide us; show us the way!”

A Power; Underestimated

I coach youth football. For years an intense passion of mine. Moreover, when my two youngest sons are born, I have an inkling to get back in the game.
 
Of late, I noticed one of my player’s father wasn’t attending practice and games as usual.
 
The mother confided in me, he abandoned them for another woman. On this day, this wife and mother, showed me an outstanding example of what a faithful Christian woman and mother can do in a Godless society. If she put her mind to it.
 
Now, she is upset, but not bitter. Commencing with, she informed me that keeping her family together was foremost in her mind. Meanwhile, willing to keep working and fighting; not giving up. Although, tough.
 
Few women in our society today agree. I can hear the comments now:
 
“Girl, you need to let that fool go!”
 
“You need to move on and get yourself another man.”
 
“You don’t need him!”

Yep, Exactly What All The Miserable Say

Misery loves company. Right? The ignorant always spew this crap. Heck, I used to be one of them.
 
Earlier in my life, I would have spouted pretty much the exact same statements!
But, what I didn’t recognize, and what they don’t realize; her point is precise.
In fact, she not only leaned on the faith, but she used her common sense (Faith and logic; you can never lose.)
 
She understands her boys need their father and their mother, married; together; in the same house and attending Church.
 
Next, she realizes, even though Our Lord, doesn’t recognize divorce. He does allow for separation and demands forgiveness. But, we must always strive to bring our family back together.
 
Separation; contrary to popular view, and ignorance, is not a license to wander the earth in search of personal satisfaction.
 
In this case, satisfaction in the name of sex with other people. We must remember, children are involved. And, we are bound to set the utmost example to them (even if we fall).
 
Last of all, she understands that we’re human. And recognizes that sometimes, we just lose our dang minds.
 
Now, I’m not saying be a doormat. But, we must lean on the Father for strength in chaotic times and persevere (didn’t say change would be easy).
 
Why? Because he demands this of us. During hard and unimaginable times, he wants us to understand, we can’t and don’t have to endure suffering alone (evil is always about seeking the ruin of souls.)
 
This fact is why we need fasting and prayer.

Ah, Fasting And Prayer; This Is Grace

As our conversation ended, I’m disturbed. I’m familiar with her husband. But I sense, he’s a genuine man under attack. In truth, he’s confused and lost.
 
Although, in the future he’ll again regain his sanity. Rebounding from a debacle such as this, cannot and will not be simple.
 
Now, this conversation happened in March. In the meantime, I place the family on my prayer list. Each day I prayed, I asked God to bless and guide them. Short and simple.
 
Over the months, I observed her a few times, but we didn’t speak at length. The discussion was a polite one and short.
 
July is now here. I’m at the practice field. As I walk on to the field, I hear, “Hey coach!” I haven’t turned around, so I don’t realize who’s calling me.
 
As I turn around, I’m surprised. In fact, I’m so excited and happy, I bear hug him. It’s the husband, the boy’s father. He’s at practice.
 
You must realize, he’s been missing in action for over a year. In effect, he missed the entire previous season. Whereas the season before , he attends each game and practice.
 
Coincidence? My friend, time you learn. Nothing in this world is a coincidence. Everything is deliberate; has a plan, a purpose. If you doubt; my advice; shoo away the Father Of Lies.

You Must Enable Fasting And Prayer In Your Marriage

Even hard core Christians, announce prayer in a casual manner. As if praying is an afterthought. In like manner, they use this petition as a precursor to their idea of how to solve a particular problem.
 
I say you’re at a severe disadvantage, if you dismiss fasting and prayer in your marriage!
In the Catechism Of The Catholic Church, the paragraph states, “Issues, trials and problems in your marriage are caused by the state of sin.”
 
Not by your sin necessarily, but due to the fall. Owing to, Adams ignorant decision to defy The Father.
 
So, this natural consequence of the first sin, coupled with your unforgiven sin, may explain why your marriage is in its current state.

The Bubble

It’s vital you use fasting and prayer as a weapon to ward off evil. Ok, view  my point this way. Imagine you, your wife and family encased in a huge vulnerable bubble.
 
Also, imagine your bubble is floating 30,000 feet in the air. Furthermore, every day numerous helicopters fly around the bubble. In those helicopters are professional bowman shooting arrows at your bubble. In effect, weakening the outer layer with every shot. They are Olympic medalists (They don’t miss.)
 
Now, these arrows are sin. So, each time an arrow connects, the bubble weakens, and descends (in rapid fashion).
 
The good news is, the bubble is forever repairable. Above all, the single most effective way to repair the bubble; prayer.
 
Prayer by you for your wife. Prayer by you and your wife together. Prayer by you for your marriage. Prayer by you and your wife for your marriage. Fasting for your wife by you. Fasting for your marriage by you.
 
Again, remember the most important relationship in this world (other than The Father) you and your wife’s relationship. This must be foremost. Even before, your children.
 
Why? Because without you and your wife; no marriage; no family. In essence; no peace. You have failed in your mission (just another knucklehead out here; goalless; aimless!)
 
Fasting and prayer, provides you Grace. I visualize Grace, as a jolt of energy or power. This power pumps up your marriage.
 
While, defending your bubble against evil (which assaults you each sunrise). Grace is God’s way of protecting the Sacrament he’s blessed you with. Your bubble needs the Grace of God, each day, each week, each month, each year to survive.
 
[pullquote]Prayer in effect, asks Our Lord each day to bless and guide your marriage. In essence, to protect it, to purify it, to make it Holy![/pullquote]

Fasting?

A Husband's First Defense Against Divorce

What in the heck is fasting? Why is fasting important to my marriage?
 
An organization of men called e5 men (e5 short for Ephesians 5) fast for their wives once a month. In addition, this group has members throughout the world.
 
THAT’S HOW VITAL FASTING IS!
 
Remember, in the previous lesson, how I spoke of sacrifice unchained? Well brother, time to step up.
 
Fasting is when you forego food for the sake, purification and sacrifice of another.
Radical idea, huh? Well, it’s not. In fact, this giving of self has been a mainstay for Christians (over 2000 years). Of note, in the Catholic Church.

The Suffering Of Christ

Numerous people haven’t a clue to what suffering really means. Even Christians fail in their understanding of Christs suffering (alone celebrating the so called risen Christ).
 
This is ludicrous! Do we for all practical purposes maintain, God lowered himself to the equivalent of a gnat (became incarnate/human).
 
Endured growing up a human child. Moreover, experiencing pain, peeing and pooping. Suffering the horrible and inhuman, indignity of crucifixion. While baring himself to the entire world.
 
Further, exposing himself to his mother? All this so you (in essence a mound of dirt) would never have to suffer one runny nose, one pain, one inconvenience? Are you insane! Do you really subscribe to this foolishness?
 
Shame on you. Shame on who ever taught you this crap.
 
Christ (Our Lord, The Father, The Almighty God, The Creator of the entire universe) didn’t suffer so you wouldn’t have to.
 
He suffered in spite of you! He came to repair an unrepairable debt that alone he could repair. What is the debt? The debt of the fall, the debt of original sin. Man, the fall screwed up everything.
 
Look, Christ came to show you his mercy. To reveal, he’s here for you. To add, he came to help us recognize that in spite of the evil in the world, we have him to lean on.
 
I mean, how can we grow, become purified, become Holy, realize Sainthood, if we don’t suffer?
 
Deacon Harold Sivers of (deaconharold.com a Deacon in the Catholic Church)has an humbling quote. He states:
 
“There are no good people in Heaven.”
 
Why would he proclaim this fact? The reason being, there are only Saints in Heaven (Ask around, it’s quite the unspoken truth.) The Father asks a lot more from us than being just a good person. Hey again, Don’t fall for the lies! Seek the truth.
 
How many times have you encountered an ignorant person doing dumb stuff. You in your mercy try to help him, and tell him the truth of how to ease his misery.
 
But, he doesn’t listen. In fact, he is hostile, even to you his friend. So, inside what do you say? “Well, I guess he’s a hard head and has to learn the hard way.”
 
Which means what? He has to suffer a tiny bit or maybe a lot, in order to what? Learn his lesson!
 
Understand? This concept is why The Father lowered himself to a mound of dirt. Not so you can avoid suffering. On the contrary, so you learn to sacrifice self for a greater good other than yourself.
 
This is how we sanctify (purify) ourselves and become worthy to enter the Kingdom of Heaven! Bam! Brother you have to perceive this revelation.
 
Question: Right now are you worthy to stand before The Almighty? Are you pure enough? How dirty are you?
 
[pullquote]THIS IS WHY YOU NEED YOUR WIFE; TO GIVE YOU SOMEONE TO SACRIFICE YOUR LIFE FOR[/pullquote].
Hence, fasting and prayer!
 
To make you clean, Holy, a Saint. Deep huh?
 
Contemplate the idea a little more. We’ll address it again (more in depth) later.
 

Your Wife

When you sacrifice part of yourself and deny yourself the pleasure and denial of food (fasting and prayer). You are suffering. Moreover, the remarkable point; your suffering has purpose; it has meaning (Remember, fasting is a high form of prayer.)
 
You are in fact, laying your life down for your Beloved. Why? So that God can use your suffering to help sanctify (purify) your wife. In order that she can join him in the Kingdom Of Heaven. How sweet is that?
 
Every decision, every act, every sacrifice you incur benefits your wife. Which in turn, benefits your marriage. Which in turn, benefits your family. Which in turn, spreads throughout the world for generations and generations, benefiting the entire world on your behalf. Because of your suffering for your wife. In essence, giving your life meaning and purpose.
 
BROTHER, NEVER LET YOUR BUBBLE BURST!

What can I Do?

To Save Your Marriage; To Enhance Your Marriage: Sacrifice!

Fasting And Prayer

Do Not Delay; Start Today!

  1. Pray to The Father for your wife every single day!
  2. As a husband fasting and prayer in your marriage is vital. This sacrifice (purple silk cloth with Christ's thorns on top) daily will divorce off of your tail.
    Fasting And Prayer In Marriage: This Is Sacrifice!

    Pray to The Father every day for your marriage.

  3. Without prayer, evil will penetrate your marriage and household.
    You will be attacked.
  4. This battle is real, and it’s no joke. Remain in denial if you want. Just don’t say you weren’t warned.
  5. Fast for your wife a minimum of once a month.
  6. Once you can handle this move to twice a month.
    Then at least once a week.
  7. I fast one meal daily for my wife.
  8. I can’t tell you the benefits this sacrifice has endeared upon my marriage.
  9. Fast for your marriage at least one meal a month.
  10. Begin praying with your wife for your marriage.

If you don’t have a prayer there is one below:

The Spouses Prayer:

Father, all-powerful and ever-living God, we thank you and bless your holy Name. For you created man and woman to be a help and support for each other.

Fasting and prayer is the way to enhance your marriage spiritually through the fire (rose on passionate fire) and passion of Christ
Fasting And Prayer: To Pray With Your Beloved
 
Remember us today. Protect us and enable our love to be the mutual gift of self in the image of Christ and the Church.
 
Enlighten and strengthen us for the mission of teaching our children to be authentic Christians and energetic builders of the earthly city.
 
Enable us to grow old together in joy and peace so we can always praise and thank you in our hearts through your Son in the Holy Spirit. Amen.
 
~Regnum Christi Prayer Book, Circle Press, A Division Of Circle Media

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Marriage Maintenance:

How I Save My Marriage Every Day

Fasting And Prayer

Understanding How To Sacrifice: The Basics

Below I’ve listed a few of the actions I do every day to maintain my marriage.In essence, to keep it on the right track. (See my previous article unhappy marriage? here.)
 
Just as you would do your car. You must do actions to maintain your Holy Union in the proper working condition. Otherwise, your marriage will let you down when you most need it.
 
Understand, marriage is not one thing right. It’s a ton of things right. In today’s society, we’re always searching for the quick fix. Well, your marriage isn’t a car or machine, in that context.
 
Your Sacred Union must be worked on with reckless abandonment. Never ending, never ceasing for a lifetime.
 
Never forget, marriage needs the natural as well as the supernatural to endure, to survive, to persevere. Don’t fall for the lie. Remember again, there’s no such thing as coincidence. God is not an absentee God. You ask, and He will reveal.
 
More important, He will not force you to obey, to adapt, to conform. This must be your decision. I’ve done my job. I put it out there. Now the time has come for you  to view and analyze your individual situation.

Below, I have written a partial list of actions I consider daily if not weekly.

1. Fast for my wife
2. Fast for my marriage
3. We pray together

To keep your marriage (a huge dark red cracked heart dripping in blood) out of trouble. Perform marriage maintenance (fasting and prayer) daily.
Fasting And Prayer: Keeping Your Marriage Out Of Divorce Court!
4. I attend Mass (Church) for my marriage
5. How do I sacrifice for her?
6. Am I lofting anything above our relationship?
7. Am I seeing to her needs?
8. Am I putting her needs above everyone else’s including my own?
9. Am I making her feel she is the most important person in my life.
10. Why am I her servant, how and why do I serve her?
 
These are a few things I do pertaining to prayer and sacrifice. I hope these ideas can help you in your marriage.

Summary

The ignorant and prideful husband (the one who thinks he has it all together.) Will do his damnedest to dismiss the above saviors of his marriage.

More and more, a husband with a good marriage (so he believes) will tell himself, he doesn't need to consider the above points. Well, because he thinks things are going well.

Forgive my candor, but that's total ignorance and foolishness. Are you the type of husband, who reasons his marriage is great? Yep, right up until the point your Beloved approaches you pledging, she's leaving, and taking the kids; wanting a divorce?

Can you say; plane crash!

When your Holy Union is going well is the time you should be fasting and praying. Not waiting until you have to approach the Father (shameful) because you refused to seek guidance in the bountiful times.

Please, don't be this type of husband. One that takes his good fortune for granted. I have one of the most out of this world marriages I've ever encountered. But, I never, ever take that for granted. I work hard, every single day to make my union better through fasting and prayer.

Shouldn't you? Refuse laziness!

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You learned why fasting and prayer can enhance and lead you to a bountiful and divorce free marriage.
  • You also learned that fasting is one of the most important prayers out there (including its awe inspiring power).
  • Also, prayer action steps you can begin implementing today. 
  • Finally, as usual, sacrifice. And, how using fasting and prayer as a foundation will get and keep your marriage on track.

And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium:

Do you know of a super marriage that incorporates some or all of the fasting and praying concepts I've mentioned above?
 
If so, have you ever collaborated with them? Have you ever considered asking them to adopt your marriage, and be a couple mentor for your wife and yourself?
 
Do you know of a married couple that could use these faith concepts in their marriage? Would you consider approaching them to offer your help?
 
Leave your thoughts below and let's get this conversation started!

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article In This Three Article Series, We'll Focus On:

  • The second most important category in your marriage (intimacy outside the bedroom). And how it can generate toe-curling intimacy inside the bedroom.
  • Also, we'll cover my test on the state of emotional intimacy in your marriage.
  • Next, if your marriage foundation is broken, action steps to help you reestablish it.
  • Finally, if you deem your marriage is good, how to take it to the next level. Never forget, the goal is greatness (perfection!)

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Christian Marriage Counseling | Public Enemy #1

February 27, 2016 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Is Your Marriage In Crisis? Start Here...

Christian Marriage Counseling:

Public Enemy #1

As iron sharpens iron, so does one man sharpen another"
~Proverbs 27:17

Christian Marriage Counseling

The Emergence

I’m young and dumb with no experience. It’s a night terror (a haze). As a result, my wife and I are having troubles. But, I don’t realize it.

I’m in the military, so my work hours are outrageous. The span’s been weeks or longer since we’ve made love. As a matter of fact, this pattern is now normal for us.

Each night, the same routine. She slides into the farthest point of the bed. Next, turning her back towards me; falling asleep.

I conclude, she has to sense I’m upset with this treatment. In fact, I misconceive she’s doing this on purpose to hurt me (this happens when a husband and wife don’t talk enough.)

My mind wanders and imagines all sorts of thoughts in her head. Again, the emotion of rejection and frustration arise. I explode!

Although, my rational mind knows these points aren’t valid. The stress and frustration take over.

I remove myself from under the covers. At once, I start pacing. I look at her as she sleeps (she appears, peaceful).

I approach the foot of the bed. An emotion so strong engulfs my whole body, as I lift the foot of the bed, and slam it on the floor!

My wife awakens with a start. “What’s wrong with you!”

Again, I’m a coward, “Nothing, nothing, just go back to sleep.”

In short, I don’t want to expose my true emotions. I’m already sensing inner rejection and frustration. So, now she wants me to admit my shame, and talk about the issue (after this dumb move?)

Hell no! Screw her! It will not happen. I shouldn’t have to say anything. She knows why I’m agonizing. She’s just doing this to prove some stupid point (Although, I have no idea what the heck the point is.)

So, what happens. Nothing. She turns over and resumes sleeping. Me, feeling foolish; get back in the bed; count sheep; fall asleep; problem unresolved.

Iron Sharpens Iron

 
 Fact, no matter what society tries to impress upon you; men alone influence men. Hence, iron sharpens iron. We look to other men, even as adults, to mold and guide us.

Further, we try never ending, to find examples of strong, and masculine men worthy of our admiration.

In fact, calling forth the instinct, to forge us into purposeful and honorable men of God. Although, sad but true, few (very few) men today own these qualities.

Why? Well, because it’s hard. Difficult in fact, assuming the responsibility of a virtuous role model. Forever setting the best example of ourselves for our sons to emulate.

This takes extreme courage. And the sad fact; this forging has to take place beginning in the womb.

But, with no husbands around to start the steps, we get what we have today; cowards.

The Future

A habit of mine is to always consider the future of my current environment (actions, decisions/indecisions). Thus, helping me to ponder, and head off potential car crashes down the road.

Now, I want you to consider the following five questions. Take at least 30 seconds to a minute (of course, you should take longer) and reflect:

Stop Christian Marriage Counseling In Its Tracks!

Get Your Marriage Off The Back Burner!

5 Questions: Your Crossroads

The affects of Christian Marriage Counseling can set you ablaze (your mind, your body and your soul!)
The Crossroads Of A Christian Soldier

1) Why do you think you’re having mild or severe intimacy problems in your marriage, when it comes to the marital embrace?

2) Why do you want to save your marriage?

3) Do you possess enough perseverance and fortitude to endure for the long haul?

4) Six months or a year from now, what vision do you have for your marriage?

5) And last, what is your plan to get there?

Tough questions huh?

Good, you need challenging. How else will you grow?

Warning: If You Don’t Grasp This Idea: You Will Fail!

LOVE IS AN ACT OF THE WILL!

Love isn’t this warm and fuzzy feeling used only to inflate our ego, selfish desires and pleasures. To be clear, ego should never partner with love. Love isn’t fleeting. The disparity between love, and “in love” is a façade.

More important, love is a decision; a commitment. You either decide to love or you decide not to love. On the same note, you either commit to love or you don’t. Plain and simple; no in between.

Perseverance is the key.

You must command yourself, “ I will weather the storm! Not; “I hope I can weather the storm.”

“I will love her 100 lifetimes.”

Not; “I hope I can love her for a lifetime.”

You see the difference? If you don’t; you must keep reading and sign up for my free two week email course located in this article. (Or read more on this subject here.) It's vital you comprehend this one principle. It's the foundation of marriage and love!

 

Furthermore, it's a staple principal to keep you out of so called, Christian marriage counseling.

If you’re unable to get past this, the odds are, nothing else will help you (1, 5, 10 or 100 years) into the future. Why? Because you can’t give the gift of total self to your wife.

You’ll always have one foot in, and one foot out the door. To this end, her natural instincts will reveal this in her heart, in her mind and in her soul.

What does this mean? In truth, you are dispensable, interchangeable, just like every other coward in society (unwilling to be; ALL IN!)

I Didn’t Have What You Have: A Mentor

An article exists called “How Therapy Can Be Hazardous To Your Marital Health”. This article by William J. Doherty, PhD instructs us to invoke marriage counseling (or Christian marriage counseling) as a last resort.
 
The reason being is, most therapists are terrible at it. In the article he calls marriage counseling (divorce counseling).
 
He advises, what couples need more than (priests, reverends, ministers, counselors or therapists) is a strong mentor.
 
This means, couples need successful examples of strong and lasting marriages from …? Yep, you guessed correct, other couples who are doing things the right way.
 
Moreover, Christian marriages set the most outstanding examples.
 
Dr. Doherty also states, men don’t do well in therapy such as Christian marriage counseling, one because they hate therapy.
 
Second, because there’s too much talking, and the therapist more often than not, ends up blaming the husband.
 
Third, the man realizes a problem exists. In effect, just wants to get the answer, so he can begin working on the exact issue.
 
He doesn’t want 100 sessions focused on talking, and feelings and all that nonsense (and I don’t blame him).

Well, I have come to believe that this is really the reverse of how it ought to be, that people first need support people, mentors, other couples in their lives, and then they need marriage educators and then they need therapists—in that order.”

~Dr. William J. Doherty~smartmarriages.com

 

My Parents Divorced Late

Although, divorce happened to my parents in my twenties. They separated when I was 16. So, my father was around my whole childhood.
On the other hand, my sister and I never recovered from my parent’s marriage demise.
 
The propaganda children and families receive concerning divorce, is foolishness. Moreover, I suspect numerous couples realize the facts, but center too much on themselves to admit and act on the disinformation.
 
As much as it’s perpetrated as pure truth. There’s not a single entity in this country that in reality, cares about the complete well-being of children.
 
For instance, the courts, the government, the schools, the parents.
 
Yes, I said it, these factions are too busy considering their own wants and desires, to deal with such third class citizens as children.
 
Consider the facts, divorce above 50%. Terrible schools. Mothers having sex with multiple partners, and chasing the fathers away. The fathers impregnating numerous women, and abandoning their families. And last but not least, empty Churches. Say I’m lying!
 

I Know Your Wife Has Faults Too

If you appraise this article is a “fix my wife, and ignore all my shortcomings” you’re in the wrong place. I recognize you don’t want to hear this, but we can’t worry about your wife’s faults, actions and behaviors at this time.
 
You can be sure, we will never focus on her. Why? First of all because it’s dumb. You can’t force someone to change. They must want to change through free will.
 
If you try to force her, she will rebel. Which means, more distrust, more arguing more chaos. Is this what you want in your future? Can you say Christian marriage counseling? 
 
For this purpose, “The Father” doesn’t force a soul to come to Him. Furthermore, if He forces us or you force your wife, is that real love? Or, are we submitting because we must?
 
More important, if we get you right, and focus on how to improve you, your wife will be glad and ecstatic to follow your lead. She’ll have no ammunition to fling at you.
 
Above all, she’ll then center on what she may be doing wrong to undermine your marriage. How wonderful is that?
 
The trick is, your wife will see how you’ve changed (not by your words but by actions). From this point, she’ll start focusing on her own faults. As well as, how she can please you, and be the best wife possible.
 
Not because you forced her into submission, but because you trimmed away the rough edges. In essence, becoming the husband she needs.
 
In my experience, a smart, intelligent, sweet and feminine woman can get behind a man like that. In fact, she is compelled to.

Before You Quit; Please Consider These: Brother We Need You!

The society doesn’t need one more failed marriage. What we need is perseverance, and outstanding examples of magnificent marriages. Christian marriages that nothing but a strong, courageous and masculine man, such as yourself can provide.

Will You Be "A Man Of Courage?"

Do You Possess The Will, Perseverance, Patience, Discipline And Humility?

Fatherless Home Statistics: Will This Be Your Legacy?

To avoid Christian marriage counseling requires a king of the jungle mentality such as the courage of a lion. Do you possess the perseverance?
Are You A Man Of Courage?

1) Children with involved, loving fathers are significantly more likely to do well in school, have healthy self-esteem, exhibit empathy and pro-social behavior, and avoid high-risk behaviors such as drug use, truancy, and criminal activity compared to children who have uninvolved fathers.

 
2) 24 million children (34 percent) live absent their biological father. The same stat for black children is more dramatic.
 
3) 72% of black children live absent their father. Remember; what happens to the least of us; happens to the rest of us.
 
4) Nearly 20 million children (27 percent) live in single-parent homes.
 
5) 43 percent of first marriages dissolve within fifteen years; about 60 percent of divorcing couples have children; and approximately one million children each year experience the divorce of their parents.
 
6) Fathers who live with their children are more likely to have a close, enduring relationship with their children than those who do not.
 
7) Compared to children born within marriage, children born to cohabiting parents are three times as likely to experience father absence, and children born to unmarried, non-cohabiting parents are four times as likely to live in a father-absent home.
 
8) About 40 percent of children in father-absent homes have not seen their father at all during the past year; 26 percent of absent fathers live in a different state than their children; and 50 percent of children living absent their father have never set foot in their father’s home.
 
9) Children who live absent their biological fathers are, on average, at least two to three times more likely to be poor, to use drugs, to experience educational, health, emotional and behavioral problems, to be victims of child abuse, and to engage in criminal behavior than their peers who live with their married, biological (or adoptive) parents.
 
10) Studies on parent-child relationships and child wellbeing show that father love is an important factor in predicting the social, emotional, and cognitive development and functioning of children and young adults.
More Stats Here: The Fatherless Generation

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Divorce: Bad Move

Ok, I know what you’re thinking. No way am I going to abandon my kids! Yeah, right (see bullet eight above).

The Consequence Of Selfishness

The Future Of Your Child Without You

The Top 5 Actions That Occur Upon Divorce

1. Multiple men raise your children (they are no longer influenced by you). Why?

You are no longer around.

2. Your ex-wife moves to another state or town.

3. Your children are sexually abused.

Main target; your daughter.

4. You spend half the time with your kids than before the divorce.

5. Your ex-wife poisons the children against you.

And Many More I Haven't Mentioned!

Message To The Ignorant:Your Marriage Must Come First

Above all, after your relationship with Christ, your marriage must come first. Your relationship with your wife must never yield to any other union or friendship. 

Evil is after your family. Evil knows the way to any man is his family. Moreover, he knows the first casualty has to be the destruction of your marriage.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.
 
To accentuate, I  mean everything and everyone. Your job, your possessions, your mom, your dad, your friends, your siblings, and yes; your children. Why? Because without your wife, without your marriage, do you have a family? No you don’t!
 
In fact, you’re less than what you were. You will never be whole again. Your children will never recover.
 
Furthermore, you must work on your marriage until exhaustion. Never allow anything to cause interference between you, and your beloved.
 
Remember, first priority; no excuses!
 
Your marriage can’t ever be second place. As a matter of fact, you must do battle in the supernatural. As well as the physical world.
 
Christ must be involved in every facet of your union. Holy Matrimony takes three. You, your wife and God. Understand my friend, a battle is going on, whether you want to admit the conflict or not.

Hey, I Thought This Was About Enhancing The Intimacy In My Marriage?

Yes, that misconception is common in today’s society. We are bombarded with sex so often. As a by-product, we mistake the solution as simple. All I need is sex, and I’m ok.
 
The problem; this kind of sex is a temporary fix. Sure, sex (other than Christ) is the most important action in your marriage. However, it must be the right intimacy. Your love making must be sacred and looked upon as such.
 
To reach this point, you must establish a foundation. If not, your situation will repeat itself in a year or less.
 
As a result, you’re pissed off at me, yelling, “What Happened!”
 
At once, the first thing I will ask, “Did you do as I instructed?”
 
Stick with me, I will lead you to your destination. However, you can’t be lazy. This one time in your life, you must follow instruction to the tee. Your marriage and family are on the line.
 
Don’t be aloof! Stay focused on the prize.

Rejection

This sensation can be overpowering. I understand. I’ve experienced rejection (more than once, more than twice). Moreover, rejection has a sidekick (frustration). These two in conjunction compound matters.
 
You must focus on how you arrived here. Did you neglect her? Did you take her for granted? Were you depressed and trying to bury your emptiness in sports, games, technology, friends?
 
Furthermore, to mask that hole in your gut, did you use the above to distract you from the reality that your life is going nowhere? And, in fact, will come to an end?
 
What I need you to realize is, you can turn this around. Understand that your life has meaning. Every action, every decision you make can move you towards Christ or away.
 
Yet, God has instilled in you a plan from the beginning of your creation. I realize you hear this a lot, but do you in reality, understand why?

Since Adam

 
Yes, since Adam caused the fall, God has sent prophets and set many things into motion. He enlisted Abraham, Moses and David to create great people, generations and countries.
 
He even humbled Himself to the level of dirt, to sacrifice His only begotten Son for His mission; His ultimate plan.
 
And all for what? Why did God create this vast mission? Battling over millennia; enduring the rebellion of Angels; dispensing mercy and love. All the while, experiencing suffering and  death?
 
Why would he do this? After all, in the end, we; the people; are dirt.
Why has the Almighty sacrificed so many and so much?
 
Because, he wants all in existence; all that ever was, and ever will be, to once again join in one Christian community.
 
In essence, join Him. Once and forever, bond as the Church Triumphant, the Church Suffering, and the Church Militant. In turn, we His children can share in His Divine existence. To be forever eternal.
 
This mission is your number one mission. To get your wife’s one and only soul to Heaven. For this my friend, you are held accountable.
 
Will you fail?
 
Not if I have anything to do with it!
 

 

Summary

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You learned the most important idea you must perceive or your Christian marriage will fail! (Love is an act of the will.)
  • You learned the five actions that will occur immediately upon your divorce (now fatherless home). Ex: Your wife will let another man raise your children.
  • You learned which relationship is the most important on this earth. Far and above; your marriage relationship!
  • And finally, you learned your number one mission as a Christian husband in service of Christ. To get your Beloved wife to Heaven.
  • Bonus: As a man, do your utmost to stay away from Christian Marriage Counseling!
Have you been to Christian Marriage Counseling (AKA Divorce Counseling?)
 
If you are a husband. What are some of your experiences?

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • Intimacy/sexual problems in your marriage? Learn the more than 20 possible causes. As well as, how to begin squashing them now!
  • Realize how your many years of premarital sex is now contaminating your marriage, and the marital embrace.
  • Understand how every sexual taboo you've broken over the years, is now inserting cancerous cells directly into your marriage, and bedroom today. More importantly, how you can begin repairing it now!

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