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Sex The Uncomfortable Answer!

In this 37th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. The theme? Clues your wife wants out!

"One day you’re making blissful love…And all of a sudden you look up and she no longer desires you! Your advances are met with “Nope not tonight big boy!”
Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
In this third episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #3

Can you afford to miss this?

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

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The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 37 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Present The Marriage Minute

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…

Or are in a going nowhere marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

Clue #3

In today’s episode, we cover clue #3…

Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

I know it’s so weird.

One day you’re making blissful love…

And all of a sudden you look up and she no longer desires you.

Your advances are met with “nope not tonight big boy!”

You can’t seem to figure it out.

You thought things were ok…

But now you couldn’t buy a passionate kiss form her.

Well, I’m going to lay it on you gently.

What’s going on is she doesn’t feel close to you.

And when wives don’t feel close to their husband…

They begin not wanting or enjoying the marital embrace.

Closeness is everything to a woman.

Without it she feels like jetting.

Therefore you must at all cost start take this clue seriously.

Don’t put it off or procrastinate with this clue.

If you are always having to basically nag and force your wife to have sex with you…

You have big marriage problems.

And you’d better start focusing on and investigating the cause at once.

Sex is the second most important thing in your marriage right after prayer.

How can you expect your marriage to thrive when your wife isn’t interested in being intimate with you?

This means she is feeling unloved, unappreciated, and unfulfilled.

And eventually she will find begin looking elsewhere to fill these voids.

Single friends, divorced friends, other men etc.

All which don’t include you!

Wake up brother!

Because if you refuse to…all I see in your future is…

Divorce Court! BAM!

At The End Of Each Episode SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #2 Now! CARP036

July 5, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clue #2: Does She Spend More Time With Single Women

In this 36th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. The theme? Clues your wife may want a divorce...Unless you want divorce court in your future?

Let me be clear...there's no way in hell your wife should be hanging out with single or divorced women!
Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
In this second episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #2

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 36 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Present The Marriage Minute

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…

Or are in a going nowhere marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

In today’s episode, we cover clue #2…

Is she spending more time with single friends?

Let me be clear…

There is no way in hell… your wife…

Should be hanging out on a regular basis with these two types of women…

Single women or divorced women.

First off…single women are not bad per se…

But their goals, duties, and outlook on marriage and life are completely different…

Than what a married woman’s should be.

Moreover, many times single women are selfish, don’t want to have children, have one or multiple sleeping partners.

In a nut shell, single women have drunk the feminist Kool-Aid.

Now, believe it or not… divorced women are worse…

They are most times soured on marriage.

They are many times miserable, and consequently want you to miserable like them.

See, the old adage is true that misery loves company!

Divorced women are many times damaged, hurt, and have much unresolved pain…

Caused by who…yep you guessed it (other selfish men).

So what do they do…

they press those feelings upon your wife.

And guess what, if you are not perfect, and on your job as a husband…

She will listen to the single and the divorced.

Which means what?

She will then bring that evil home to your bedroom and to your children, and to you!

The single and the divorced woman, will tell your wife (with great vigor and passion) I might add…

That girl… I wouldn’t take that from him if I were you.

Girl, if that were me, no way would I have all those kids.

Girl you better be careful, he is probably thinking on leaving you high and dry with all the bills, and all those kids.

This of course is from the very depths of Hell!

Want to stay out of divorce court?

Keep divorced, and single women away from your Beloved! BAM!

At The End Of Each Episode SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #1 Now! CARP035

July 3, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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What No One's Telling You!

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How does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage? Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?
Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

In this first Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we begin the series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!"
Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
In the first episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #1

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

The First Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 35 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Present The Marriage Minute Content

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…are in a going no where marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

In today’s episode, we begin with #1…

Does she seem distant?

Yes, this is the catch all general clue.

If your wife has started being distant

Not paying attention to you, her job, the kids etc.

Or if she is not quite all there and attentive.

Being secretive, not communicating as much.

You may consider asking yourself why.

This probably means she doesn’t feel close to you, or she is depressed, or feeling unloved, or appreciated.

All of these are huge, huge, huge for wives.

The main things her is you must see that this is going on and ask her if everything is ok.

Of course she will say nothing is wrong.

But you must as her protector sit her down and really explain to her that you really care…

And that you really want to know and try and help if you can.

Usually once she knows this, the percentages are she will open up and tell you.

The key here is to not procrastinate and think things will get better…

Or the problem will disappear.

You must as her beloved husband…

Man up and take care of this now…NOT LATER!

That is…if you want to stay out of divorce court!

At The End Of Each Episode Push SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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How To Save Your Catholic Marriage Alone! CARP033

April 24, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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The Stone Cold Real World Truth!

In this 33rd episode? We discuss a very special program that helps men fix their marriage on their own! As well as these other important lessons...

Divorce is immoral because it introduces disorder into the family and into society. This disorder brings grave harm to the deserted spouse…to children traumatized by the separation of their parents…who are often torn between them…and because of its contagious effect which makes it truly a plague on society

The Catechism Of The Catholic Church

Will anyone help you when your wife files for divorce?
Can you really save your marriage alone?
What no one tells your wife about the single life.
Why are divorced and single women a terrible influence on married women?

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Divorce and Christ - The Catechism of the Catholic Church: Why Divorce Is A Plague On Society?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Why Should I Want To Save My Catholic Marriage By Myself?

Episode 33 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…
While also giving you… winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!
Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –
IN THIS 33rd EPISODE (How To Save Your Marriage Alone!) - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Quote Of The Day: A Vision Of Before Heaven And Before Hell!

Before Heaven; Before Hell:
“One day, I saw two roads. One was broad, covered with sand and flowers, full of joy, music and all sorts of pleasures.
People walked along it, dancing and enjoying themselves.
They reached the end of the road without realizing it.
And at the end of the road there was a horrible precipice; that is, the abyss of hell.
The souls fell blindly into it; as they walked, so they fell.
And their numbers were so great that it was impossible to count them.
And I saw the other road, or rather, a path, for it was narrow and strewn with thorns and rocks;
and the people who walked along it had tears in their eyes, and all kinds of suffering befell them.
Some fell down upon the rocks, but stood up immediately and went on.
At the end of the road there was a magnificent garden filled with all sorts of happiness, and all these souls entered there.
At the very first instant they forgot all their sufferings."[END QUOTE]

~Diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska, #153

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Bulldog Lawyer: How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn’t Want To! CARP032

April 14, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Understanding Divorce!

In this 32nd episode? Bulldog Lawyer Big John Molloy on understanding divorce and how to save your marriage when she doesn't want to! As well as these other important lessons...

I've only seen a divorce stopped in its tracks when the husband self reflects and becomes Christ centered!
John Molloy~Asst. Prosecutor Indianapolis

How does divorce really work in the court system?
How long does it actually take for a divorce to become final in many states?
If you don't want a divorce can you stop it or only slow it down?
What is the actual step by step process inside of the mediation room?
How do you find an attorney who is willing to employ the "save my marriage" strategy?
As a last resort is there a way to persuade the judge to force marriage counseling?

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Episode 32 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you… winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 32nd EPISODE (Bulldog Lawyer…Big John Molloy…How To Save Your Marriage When She Doesn’t Want Too!) - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

In history, the only causes that die are those for which men refuse to die.

The more love grows, the more its eyes open to the needs of others, to the miseries of men, and to compassion.

The remedy for all the sufferings of the modern brain… lies in the enlargement of the heart…

through love, which forgets itself as the subject, and begins to love

the neighbor as the object.

But he who lives for himself… will eventually find that nature, fellowman, and God are all against him.

The so-called "persecution complex" is the result of egotism.

The world seems against him who wants everything for himself.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Man On Fire: Big John Molloy

My segment on married men in the Catholic faith doing it right, trying to hold it down for God, his marriage, his Beloved and his family.
• Name: John Molloy
• Has been married 10 years to his Beloved wife Amy
• He has 2 children (Sophia 5) and (Evelyn 2)
• He is an assistant DA in in Indianapolis IN
• And we bought John here for a special purpose today to help us dissect the divorce culture and how it works inside the justice system, and how it intertwines with to the Catholic Church

Part One: Background Questions
1. How did you and Amy meet?
2. How did you propose to your wife?
3. What attracted you to your wife, and why did you marry her?
4. What made you decide to get married in general?
5. When did you really start loving Christ and His Church?
6. Was Christ in your family growing up?
7. How did you meet your Beloved wife?
8. When you first met her, did you think I’m going to marry this woman, or did you think probably not?
9. What was the one thing in your life that snapped you out of the twilight zone, and made you think I need to start trying to get married and be a better man?
10. When you were first married, was Christ strong in your home, or was he absent, if he wasn’t, what events happened to make you start to lean on him? If He was, why was He so strong there?
11. Were you always a good father and husband, if not, what happened to make you start taking it seriously. If so, where did you get the foundation from?
12. Was your father into God when you were growing up more, or was your mother the one trying to lead everyone to God? If it was your mother, did that change before you graduated from high school?
13. Are you a convert to the Catholic faith? If so, what made you come to the Catholic faith?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Man On Fire: Big John Molloy On Understanding Divorce

Can you explain generally how divorce works and how it is different now from how it used to be in the country?
Do you think it’s too easy to file and get a divorce?
How long are you seeing does it take for a divorce to be final?
If a man wants to fight for his wife but she wants the divorce how would you suggest he goes about delaying the process?
Divorce and Annulment why do you think the Church requires a divorce first before applying for an annulment?
If a man wants to save his marriage, how would you suggest he act, and what should he say, and what demeanor should he use in the mediation or the court room?
What is the actual process inside the mediation room, what about the court hearing itself?
Is there anyway that a man can persuade a judge to force marriage counseling to force the wife to work on the marriage for say a year or 6 months, especially if she refuses to talk to or negotiate in good faith.
Wonder if he uses a strategy of negation in the mediation or court hearing that he just wants 6 months to a year to prove he has changed, and that if he gets that and she still wants a divorce, he will not fight and he will give her the uncontested divorce if she still wants it?
How do you find and attorney that is willing to employ this strategy? And what questions should be asked?
Is there a way to fight and delay the divorce at all costs to give the husband time to change, and show her he has changed. Do you suggest this strategy? If not what do you suggest a husband do that does not want his family or marriage split up?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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Catholic View: Why Hollywood Marriages Fail? CARP031

March 24, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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In this 31st episode? We talk about Hollywood marriages from the Catholic point of view. And what you can do to avoid there marriage mayhem! As well as their other important lessons...

Also, I’m so sick and tired, of people saying the kids will be ok in a divorce…NO THEY WON’T!
Jerry Jacobs Jr.~CatholicAlpha.com

Why second marriages fail as much as or more than first marriages?
Why your marriage won't change unless you change first?
What can women do to save their marriage when it starts going south?
How old was Elizabeth Taylor during her first divorce?
How could these 5 famous couples have saved their rollercoaster marriages?

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Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

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Catholic View: Why Hollywood Marriages Fail?

Episode 31 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 31 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

Most sound minds resent flattery because they
see the egotism behind the screen of altruism.
The ego in sex pleads that it loves the alter ego…
but what it loves is really the possibility of its own pleasure in the other ego.
The other person is necessary for the return of the egotist upon himself. The egotist finds himself constantly being encircled by non-being,
purposelessness, meaninglessness;
he has the feeling of being exploited.
Refusing to be related to anything else,
he soon sees that nothing is for him:
The whole world is against him!
But love, which stresses the object,
finds itself in constantly enlarging relationships.
Love is so strong it surpasses narrowness by devotedness and forgetfulness of self.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Episode 31 - Transcript

Marriage In The News: Hollywood Hookups, shack ups, and Screw ups!

This segment is my take on marriage in Hollywood from a Catholic point of view!

On Jan. 1, 1970, the first "no-fault" divorce law in the United States went into effect in California.

Within five years, the country's divorce rate nearly doubled…

skyrocketing from 650,000 divorces a year, to more than 1 million.

It's never fallen below that mark in the decades since.

(article by Emily Stimpson Chapman OSV Newsweekly) I’ll to it in the show notes.

In an article by the economic times Here are 5 celebrity couples who decided to go for the quick fix, an opt out for a no-fault divorce

But first l talk briefly about God’s true position on divorce.

I’ll quote Sacred Scripture proof a little later.

But for now let me tell you a short story:[tell story about how I was at grouping and I thought divorce was ok in case of adultery]

Divorce is unacceptable in the Church (Christ’s Church) why?

Because one the grass is never greener

People get a divorce and don’t work through anything which makes their marriage stronger

Then find that the person they are now with is just as bad or worse than their previous spouse.

Second, you take you with you!

You can’t escape you!

So if you leave your spouse and get a divorce…

But you have so much pride and don’t look to fix your faults first…

How do you really expect things to change with your next so-called spouse?

This is why second marriages fail just as much or worse than first marriages.

And God knows this, he knows we are broken!

Look, we must fight and work things out how?

For men it’s through prayer, suffering, sacrificing, and serving our Beloved…

So that she knows unconditionally that we cherish, love, and are devoted to her.

For women it’s suffering and sacrifice, through prayer, submission to Christ, and her husband, and serving him and your family…

By forgoing your wants and desires for career, your friends, and the world.

Now let’s talk about 5 Hollywood hookups, shack ups and screw ups that failed…

and are the true example of what not to do!

#1 Elizabeth Taylor & Conrad Nicky Hilton

The movie star and the real estate tycoon met at LA’s Mocambo nightclub in October 1949.

A year later they were married in Beverly Hills, with MGM picking up the tab for the actor’s lavish wedding.

Within 205 days of their wedding the couple got divorced.

An 18-year-old Taylor won the divorce on grounds of mental cruelty and refused alimony.

Look, Elizabeth Taylor had probably more marriages than any person in the history of Hollywood!

But she just never got it.

I mean after about the third marriage…

Maybe… just maybe… you look at yourself and ask yourself…

what in the heck is wrong with me?

Moreover, with Elizabeth, she had given herself to so many men…

that her pain and inhibitions were so high, that every marriage she entered…

was probably hell from the get-go for her husband…

Because he had no idea how to calm her or make her happy!

I know fellas, it’s not fair that no one teaches us this stuff!

#2 Christie Brinkley, Richard Taubman

The supermodel and the real estate developer met at the Telluride ski resort in Colorado in 1994…

when the two of them survived a helicopter crash.

Brinkley was married to Billy Joel at the time.

Eight months after the crash, Brinkley and Taubman married near the site of the crash…

and announced at their wedding that they were expecting a child.

Their marriage ended a year later.

Ok here is another lesson…

that we all realize…

but no one wants to admit it to themselves until it’s too late!

What makes you think that when you meet a woman, and she is married to another man or with her boyfriend…

And you somehow get her to sleep with you…

Then be with you or marry you…

That eventually when your relationship starts tanking…

that she won’t do you the exact same way?

Please get real…

People tell you who they are if you are willing to see it!

In this case Christy Girl, left her husband, slept with another man…

And had his child, and… married him!

All I can say is, when it tanks they will run…

Why?

Because they have a track record…

And have shown you that track record in spades!

#3 Chad Johnson, Evelyn Lozada

The football player and the reality TV star married on July 4, 2012 after dating for a couple of years.

On August 11, Johnson was arrested on grounds of domestic battery…

after headbutting Lozada during an argument.

The athlete was released from Miami Dolphins soon after.

On August 14, Lozada filed for divorce which was finalized on September 19.

Johnson entered a plea of no contest for his charges and received a year of probation.

Ok this is classically what Father Chad Ripperger classifies as The Curse Of Eve (explain the this)

This comes from the point of view from the man and from the point of view from the wife.

First off the wife!

Oh boy Chad’s wife felt he didn’t love her!

She felt he didn’t give her enough attention…

or basically started putting her and their marriage on the back burner.

And once a woman senses this…

she begins to rebel and exhibit the curse of Eve.

Which is what is happening here!

First, they begin trying to control you by disrespecting you…

becoming angry, depressed and unhappy.

Then they begin thinking of an exit strategy when you don’t begin fixing yourself!

Then most times they get another man to make you listen…

Then they leave to make you listen…

Then they file for separation to make you listen…

Then they file for divorce to make you listen…

Then they file for an annulment to make you listen…

The key takeaway here?

We are men, and most times we don’t listen until…

They leave or ask for a divorce…

Why does your wife do this?

Because, these are the stages that she goes through to try and get you…

to prove your love for her…

and prove that you are the man she needs!

Finally, these are the stages she goes through, to get you to man up…

become the leader and begin fixing yourself!

But, what do most of us men do…we punk out and become effeminate…

and agree to the divorce and give them all they want!

Look here is the saying…

You never give your wife what she wants…

You give her what she needs to make her happy!

So, this means…you never…

Submit and give a crazy woman what they want…

when they are trying to destroy your marriage…and split up your family!

#4 Kris Humphries, Kim Kardashian

The Kardashian and Humphries marriage lasted all of 72 days!

but the divorce proceedings went on for months.

The reality TV celebrity and the NBA star met in 2011 while Kardashian was filming her show.

After a quick engagement that lasted 90 days…

the couple was married in a star-studded, widely-televised ceremony.

At the time of the divorce Kardashian was expecting a child with her rapper boyfriend Kanye West.

You know I just have to say it…

God the Father knows what He’s doing!

Mannnnn…This is the prime reason…why you don’t sleep with a woman before you marry her!

Because once you do things get all murky and cloudy!

Then everything is all about emotion.

And logic is thrown out the window.

I mean come on 72 days!

He probably didn’t even know her favorite color when they got married!

Then when they did get married, and he began living with her…

He saw how completely like Eve she was (complete and total selfishness)

He basically found himself in his worse nightmare (HELL ON EARTH!)

#5 Donatella Versace, Manuel Dallori

The Italian power couple - one the leader of a hugely successful fashion house…

and the other a businessman…

divorced within a year of being married.

The couple was married in 2004 and were divorced by 2005.

Despite speculation, little is known behind the couple’s decision to part ways.

Versace has two children with her first husband Paul Beck.

You have to know…

that this is the classic case of too many involved in a couples marriage!

Babies from other people all over the place.

The other babies mommas and daddy’s all in the business.

And the married couple has no idea how to handle it.

But, instead of digging in…and focusing on the marriage…

They succumb to the demonic influence in their marriage and home…

And they are defeated easily!…Why?

Because… God is nowhere around…

And… JESUS… HAS… LEFT… THE… BUILDING!

No grace, no true love, no sacrifice!

Doomed to failure!

Look here is the bottom line…

I stated many good arguments for the reason Our Lord forbids divorce…

And if you really think about it and remove the blinders…

You will see that they are valid and true…

But one thing I didn’t say is this…

Even though we arent’ allowed to divorce…

We are allowed to separate…

and get away from a spouse who is physically abusive.

But separation is not divorce.

Why?

Because people change and come to their senses…

and this takes time.

So, if God allowed divorce, and the person changed…

THEN became this great and awesome husband for his wife…

But she has divorced him, and given herself to another man…

This makes things very difficult for them and the children!

Also, I’m so sick and tired of people saying the kids will be ok in a divorce…NO THEY WON’T!

Now, let’s go into the foundation of marriage…

as seen through Sacred Scripture and the Church (Christ’s Church!)

Divorce in scripture – Matthew Chap 19 (v. 1-9)

Marriage and Divorce.

When Jesus finished these words,* he left Galilee and went to the district of Judea across the Jordan.

Great crowds followed him, and he cured them there.

Some Pharisees approached him, and tested him,* saying…

“Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?”

He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female?’

and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?

So they are no longer two, but one flesh.

Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.”

They said to him, “Then why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss [her]?”

He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

I say to you,* whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.”

Well, that pretty much says it…It’s from Christ’s own mouth!

Ok, here is what the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church!) teaches on divorce…

(which is what Christ handed down) as stated in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church!)…

(paragraph 2382) The Lord Jesus insisted on the original intention of the Creator who willed that marriage be indissoluble.

He abrogates the accommodations that had slipped into the old Law.

Between the baptized, "a ratified and consummated marriage cannot be dissolved by any human power or for any reason other than death."

(Paragraph 2383) The separation of spouses while maintaining the marriage bond can be legitimate in certain cases provided for by canon law.176

If civil divorce remains, the only possible way of ensuring certain legal rights, the care of the children, or the protection of inheritance…

it can be tolerated and does not constitute a moral offense.

(2384) Divorce is a grave offense against the natural law.

It claims to break the contract, to which the spouses freely consented, to live with each other till death.

Divorce does injury to the covenant of salvation, of which sacramental marriage is the sign.

Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery:

If a husband, separated from his wife, approaches another woman, he is an adulterer because he makes that woman commit adultery,

and the woman who lives with him is an adulteress, because she has drawn another's husband to herself.

(2385) Divorce is immoral also because it introduces disorder into the family and into society.

This disorder brings grave harm to the deserted spouse…

to children traumatized by the separation of their parents…

who are often torn between them…

and because of its contagious effect which makes it truly a plague on society.

NEED I SAY ANYMORE…BAM!

So, what do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!

Is Your Marriage In Crisis? Start Here...

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Reasons For Divorce | Time To Shut Up; Man Up; And Listen!

May 27, 2016 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Reasons For Divorce

Time To Shut Up; Man Up; And Listen!

You must ask God to give you power to fight against the sin of pride which is your greatest enemy - the root of all that is evil, and the failure of all that is good. For God resists the proud"

~Saint Vincent De Paul

Reasons For Divorce

Will Pride Cost You Your Beloved?

This problem is enormous with men. We let our pride impede sincere help. Meanwhile, our predicament sinks further and further into oblivion.

Many cases, we wait so long, our situation becomes unrepairable. And, we hit bottom! Thereby, allowing our Beloved's reasons for divorce to become validated.

My question is, how long will you put your marriage on hold?

How far must you fall?

How much longer does your beloved have to suffer?

How much longer must she wait for you to take hold, stand up, put her first?

More important, are you beyond a doubt, ready to sacrifice your marriage?

For these reasons; procrastination and taking your marriage for granted. Are you ready for those consequences?

Do you in fact, want these unanswered questions to be included as reasons for divorce in your marriage?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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Don't Think You Need Help?

Enter Prideful Paul

Ah, the big trap (pride). Pride the root cause of almost every sin.

“What can he tell me about my wife?”

“What can he tell me about my marriage?”

“What does he know about my family life?”

“I don’t need anything from anybody!”

“I can figure this out all on my own.”

Oh really? Then why are you here?

You’re here because you need more, want more, crave more than what you now have. In fact, I don’t blame you. You sense something isn’t quite right.

But, having a closed mind in this matter won’t help. This reasoning will keep you entrapped inside yourself. For one thing, every question posed above, mirrored my life at one time or another.

Despite this fact, seeking the truth saved me.

Denial:

The Story Of Adam Revisited

Has someone ever come to you for help? Thereafter, refuse to let you help them? They are so caught up in themselves and their ego, the truth can’t peek through?

Well, I encountered such an experience. Adam is a young confident man, a newlywed. Although, he’s never been married. Adam has numerous children by at least two different women other than his new wife.

Don’t ask me how he found her. In truth, Adam’s wife being a virgin is a blessing to their marriage. The reason being, she won’t have any accompanying baggage to work through (failed sexual relationships, other men’s children for example). Thereby squashing many future reasons for divorce.

Now, I understand from personal experience, how hard meshing one child into a family can be. Problem; Adam has several. Not to mention, with two different mothers.

Furthermore, this marriage starting, has the potential to become volatile (too many people in one marriage). Similar to merging onto an on ramp during rush hour (just won’t fit).

Can you blast, “Complications are coming.”

“Complications are coming.”

The Dilemma

Wives need extraordinary love, care and attention. A conclusion not hard to grasp. To exemplify, new wives, oh my gosh; multiply this by five.

New brides are fragile. As a matter of fact, they require continuous validity of the decision they just made. The decision to spend the rest of their lives with the groom.

In this new union, we have multiple moms, multiple children. Not to mention, the real possibility of the bride experiencing slight envy over not having any children with her husband.

Can you appreciate the predicament? The other women are one up on her. They have something she doesn’t. This intuition is natural (She’s human.)

At present, Adam approaches me with a problem. Sex is non-existent. Marital intimacy is a leaf carried away by a breeze.

Meanwhile, his new bride is all over the place. It hurts. Or, she doesn’t want to do it. Adding, I’m tired, because of work. In fact, any excuse to put him off.

He Just Can’t See It!

Again, to Adam, the blame lies with his wife. Every bit. In particular, the sacred intimacy part. He believes he’s an expert, and he understands the precise actions to take.

The problem is, he doesn’t know. In fact, if he did, his wife may not refuse to give every excuse in the book to avoid loving him. No new bride does that. What’s her payoff?

How many newlyweds do you know of who are unable to keep their hands off each other? Right, none!

To repeat Adam doesn’t realize this point. If he expressed even a small tidbit of humility. He might solve his problem.

Not a surprise, a couple of years later; Adam still suffers from a lack of intimacy in his marriage. And, the reasons for divorce loom over him. However, these can be fixed. But not before, he hits bottom.

His Bottom Hasn’t Come Yet

The point here? This man perceives he understands everything. In essence, he understands nothing.

Again, I point to this story? Why? Because Adam’s behavior is typical.

It’s always the other persons fault. It’s never me. Again, you are the man. You must take the lead and responsibility to fix this. In order to accomplish your mission, you must work on yourself.

Even more important, consider what you need to do; to fix you. You can’t fix your wife. She must volunteer to follow your lead. But, in order for her to jump onboard, you must work through your deficiencies.

Ultimately, you do this by seeking help and the truth.

Don’t You Mirror Adam

Of course pride is your number one objection and the number one reason men fail.

[pullquote]Pride becomes an objection, because it causes men to rationalize, they don’t need help. Furthermore, encouraging them to reason that there marriage is in better shape than it actually is.[/pullquote]

But, the objections and major reasons for failure don’t stop with pride. In fact, there are several different types of men, who help foster the reasons for divorce in our society.

Below, I list a few of them. In fact, scores of men possess one of these; even all of them.

Well, have fun. Consider if you see yourself, in any of the categories below.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Reasons For Divorce

8 Men who Got It Wrong!

True manhood, submits to the truth, no matter how hard it is"

~FR. Chad Ripperger, FSSP, Phd~Speech; How To Raise A Man

Prideful Paul

A man who won't listen; knows everything. As well as, denies the truth, even when it's presented

to him factually and faithfully. He's full of selfishness, and refuses to sacrifice. His ideas, and what he believes, loom above everything, and everyone else. Including the Father! He believes he's actually greater than he truly is.

No Plan Dan

The man with no plan: Everyone has their own reasons for divorce. But a battle plan is vital to the

The reasons for divorce are plenty. But the mistake of having no plan will destroy your marriage now and in the future. (a man and wife, she is screaming at him) — Reasons For Divorce: No Plan Dan

success of never needing a divorce. Creating a marriage maintenance plan, before you have problems is the answer. The key is not to wait until the marriage is falling apart, and falling off a cliff. Again, in order to take productive action, you must devise a blueprint.

Procrastinate Nate

The man who refuses to assess his situation: These men may

The reasons for divorce? You must acknowledge you have a marriage problem and do something about it. (a man behind a screen screaming with his hands up and on it) — Reasons For Divorce: Procrastinate Nate

accept there’s a problem, but they ignore the crisis and procrastinate. Most of the time, these men don’t realize their predicament is worse than it appears.

Denial Dennis

The man who denies a problem even exists: These men are the worst. They hide behind their wife or

The reasons for divorce include denial that there is an actual problem when there is. ( a husband wrapped completely in ropes covering his whole body) — Reasons For Divorce: Denial Dennis

children. Their wife is basically sleeping with another man, and he still denies a problem exists. She has given him so many clues and hints of her depression or unhappiness. Resulting, in her taking drastic measure to get him to pull his head out of his butt! Still, he wallows in his weakness.

Blaming Bob

The man who continues to focus on his wife’s faults and imperfections: These men are condemned to failure. They refuse to become laser

The reasons for divorce include blaming all but yourself. This philosophy will kill your marriage. (a man sitting at a desk with a cup of coffee, and a huge coffee fist coming from the coffee about to hit the man in the face) — Reasons For Divorce: Blaming Bob

focused on fixing themselves. Again, continuing to blame his beloved, his children, work, his mom, dad, his friend, the government or God for all his problems. In essence, anyone but himself.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent?

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."