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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #24 – She Doesn’t Care Where You’ve Been CARP062

March 16, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Why She No Longer Keeps Tabs On Your Whereabouts

In this 62nd episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

I must beg you to see this for what it is. It is not your time to screw off and have more so-called fun. But to get your head in the game. And what is the game?
The game is the battle between you and Satan!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 62nd episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #24...
  • Why your wife no longer keeps tabs on you or cares where you've been!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My wife has gotten obese and I don't know how to tell her!

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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Episode 62- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

Before I tell you the #24 clue let’s review the previous 23…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

23) Her phone is now hidden and locked

So, what is clue #24 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She no longer keeps tabs on you or asks where you’ve been

You know why?

Because she doesn’t care!…

She’s starting to check out…

She is moving on!

But can’t quite move on yet because she is emotionally confused…

And if she is going to move on, she has to make plans first.

Which means a lot of avoiding you and secrecy and academy award acting!

You cannot allow this!

See as men we think, great!

I now get to spend all the time I want wherever I want

With no nagging, no kids crawling all over me.

This is spectacular, right?

Wrong!

With this clue, she is very close to avoidance.

Which means she will start avoiding you all together.

No more discussion on any problems.

No good conversation.

No intimate walks kissing or touching

And of course…no sex!

You see my brother…

We refuse to see…

that either we pay now…

or pay way more later.

Once avoidance sets in, the relationship is all but over!

It’s very important to realize…

If our Beloved no longer cares where we are…

This means that she no longer desires to serve or nurture us as her Beloved husband.

If she is not calling you to see if you are ok…

If she is not texting you, to get an idea of when you are coming home, so she can have dinner ready…

If she is in her bedroom when you do come home…

and doesn’t come out to say hello how was your day…

You are in serious trouble.

I must beg you to see this for what it is.

It is not your time to screw off and have more so-called fun.

But to get your head in the game.

And what is the game?

The game is the battle between you and Satan.

Meaning, are you are going to battle him for your relationship with God…

for your marriage…

for your wife…

for your children?

And… if you have anything left…

to battle him for your very soul!...BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #23 – Her Phone Is Hidden & Locked CARP061

March 15, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Do You Have The Right To View Your Wife's Phone Messages?

In this 61st episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

You see the evil one comes into our lives and marriages slow, cool, and sweet! He doesn’t just barge in like a robber or home invader. It’s slow, methodical, and smooth!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 60th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #23...
  • Why your wife keeping her phone hidden and locked?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My wife says I discipline the kids too tough.

 

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Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 61- Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

Before I tell you the #23 clue let’s review the previous 22…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?

21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

22) You can’t seem to make her laugh anymore

So, what is clue #23 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – You can’t see her phone because its hidden and locked?

Many are going to disagree with me on this one.

Why?

because your phone is hidden and locked as well!

Sure, if this is new and your wife has just started doing this…

When before it was out, open, and unlocked…

But now it is hidden and you can’t get into it because you don’t know the code.

This is a huge clue that something is wrong.

Everyone talks about how they love their spouse.

And they trust them and of course wouldn’t hide anything from them.

But our phones always seem to be off limits.

I must tell you, this is the way to a failing marriage.

Why?

Because it starts with the phone…

Then what else will you rationalize is ok to hide and keep from your wife as well or she keep from you?

You see the evil one comes into our lives and marriages slow, cool, and sweet!

He doesn’t just barge in like a robber or home invader.

It’s slow, methodical, and smooth!

And if we aren’t alert…

He will find his way into the heart, mind, and soul of our Beloved!

In my house I could care less who sees my phone.

Really!

It’s unlocked and is open for anyone to look at it.

My wife is the same.

My kids have been playing with her phone since they were babies.

Doing games, videos etc.

Of course, now they are grown and have their own phones.

The point is, you and your beloved are one flesh before God.

And according to Him, you each have bodily rights over each other.

Now, I know many of you out there will say…

Yes, Jerry, she has bodily rights over me…

But that doesn’t include my phone!

Look, I know this clue is not easy for you or your wife.

But in order to build a great marriage…

There must be complete openness, honesty, and trust.

There is no legendary marriage without it.

You as a husband and she as a wife…

must put everything out and in the open at all times.

Not only when you feel like it!

In this evil and demonic society today…

Almost everything we do is against God.

He is no longer on the courthouse steps.

He is no longer in the schools.

He is no longer at our jobs.

So, consequently, it is easier for us to remove Him from our hearts.

Look, I understand privacy is important.

And sure it is sometimes needed.

But that does not and must not include our Beloved.

Why?

Because trust and vulnerability in marriage is everything.

And remember, your wife and kids do what you do.

And if you are locking and hiding your phone which fights against the trust factor.

Then your wife will do the same, even if she could care less who sees her phone.

Also, if as a husband you are making the mistake of unknowingly neglecting your wife.

Then, you argue with her.

Then you criticize her.

Then you blame her.

And then on top of all of that…

Your phone is locked an inaccessible.

If you were her, over the years wouldn’t you think maybe he is hiding something?

Gentlemen this stuff doesn’t happen in a day.

It takes weeks, months, and years for your wife to believe you don’t love her.

So by the time she starts locking her phone and being extremely vague and private…

In her mind, you aren’t really her husband anymore.

Basically, just a roommate!

Why?

Because if he neglects me, doesn’t spend time with me, calls me names, hides his money, and gives me bad sex…

What else am I supposed to think?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #22 – You Are Unable To Make Her Laugh CARP060

March 14, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Why You Are Unable To Make Her Laugh!

In this 60th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Why doesn’t someone jump in and say…Hey man, wake up, you are hurting her, you are losing her…you are killing her inside with each criticism, disapproval, name called!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 60th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #22...
  • Why you are unable to make your wife laugh anymore!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My husband snores and I am ready to sleep in another bedroom!
  • Vital Sleep claims to reduce or eliminate your snoring: https://www.vitalsleep.com/

 

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 60 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

  1. Before I tell you the #22 clue let’s review the previous 21…
  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week
  • 16) You make love less than once a month
  • 17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason
  • 18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?
  • 19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?
  • 20) Are you beating her home, when before she was already home?
  • 21) She blames you for everything wrong in your marriage!

So, what is clue #22 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – You just can’t seem to make her laugh anymore?

I remember in my first marriage when my wife stopped laughing.

I was so clueless, I never even realized it.

I never noticed how depressed she was and worse, her unhappiness!

That is a very sad thing for a husband…

when he realizes that he is not the twinkle of his beloved’s eye anymore.

This makes our situation become real and we begin to see the seriousness of it.

The really unfortunate thing is, it happens so very slow!

We just don’t see it.

Looking back we do…

The arguing, the bickering, the debating, the criticizing and blaming.

It all takes its toll on her and our relationship.

Why doesn’t someone jump in and say…

Hey man, wake up, you are hurting her, you are losing her…

you are killing her inside with each criticism, disapproval, name called.

Honestly, looking back on my situation…

I believe the Holy Spirit really tried to talk to me.

But, I just didn’t listen, or know how to listen.

I really regret that I was unable to feel and hear the taps of Our Lord when he was trying to speak to me.

So, what does it mean when your Beloved no longer let’s herself go by laughing at your jokes, goofiness, and playfulness?

In a nutshell, it means pain!

The pain of her believing you no longer love her is becoming unbearable for her…

The bad communication, the mistrust, the doubt, the avoidance of intimacy.

It’s very overwhelming!

So, she is beginning to shut down.

To avoid you.

What you see may seem like anger…

And yes, many time pain does display itself as anger in women.

The I love you, but I’m not in love with you line.

The I need space line.

The it’s me, not you line.

These all spell doom for the unsuspecting husband.

But my friend, there is a way to avoid this.

As I’ve said in many of the other clues…

Please open your eyes now…

Pay attention to her every move, mood, and pain.

It’s your responsibility as her Beloved…

to protect her, not hurt her.

To love her, not neglect her.

To draw her to you, not, push her away!

This is your mission given unto you by Our Heavenly Father!

Name calling, arguing, avoiding the problems…

does nothing but cause both of you to shut down on each other.

And that is just as bad as yelling and arguing!

Someone has to take the lead and do whatever it takes…

to get the relationship to greatness and out of mediocrity

And it just so happens…

That the decision has already been made for who is responsible for that task.

As God said to our first Father Adam…

My son, you are now responsible for all of this.

Now…what…are you…going to do…with it! …BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #21 – She Blames You For All That Is Wrong? CARP059

March 13, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Why Is Everything Your Fault?

In this 59th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Each time you feel the need to do any of these Marriage Killers ask yourself: Do you want to be right, or do you want your marriage and family back?

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 59th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #21...
  • Why does she blame you for all that is wrong in your marriage?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - I stood up in the middle of Mass
  • Caller #2 - How do I advise my friend, who complains about her husband to me?

 

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  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
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  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 59 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

Before I tell you the #21 clue let’s review the previous 20…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

20) Is she staying out later

So, what is clue #21 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – She blames you for everything going wrong in your marriage?

Marriage Killers the core of communication

Marriage killers is how we hurt each other deeply, cause resentment, and cause intimacy to leave our relationship.

Especially for wives.

If your wife is blaming you for all things wrong in your marriage…

this means that you are doing marriage killers…

so she has started doing marriage killers to you.

Now, what are marriage killers?

Oh, I am so glad you asked Grasshopper!

To be specific they are…

Arguing with her, bickering with her, debating with her, criticizing her, trying to control her, correcting her behavior, blaming her, and complaining, verbally attacking her, and defending, reminding her of past wrongs, and stopping the need to defend yourself!

One thing that is higher than a marriage killer which damages your marriage severely over time is…

When your wife is talking you are not listening.

All of these items push her further away.

And stops your relationship from progressing.

Each time you feel the need to do any of these relationship killers ask yourself:

Do you want to be right, or do you want your marriage and family back?

The way you stop the killing behaviors is, if things begin to rise to arguing…

you only respond to what you agree with, and say nothing on things she says that you don’t agree with!

If you break this rule, you will cause an argument and your relationship will regress!

And eventually, sadly, your marriage will be over!

Which means divorce court has entered your future!

Remember even though your wife blames you for everything and you blame her for everything…

She is the one who is more effected by the marriage killer practice.

Why?

Because she runs on emotion…

and when you insult her, argue with her, yell at her, raise your voice to her, disrespect her by not listen to what she is saying…

It hurts her very deeply because women can’t take trauma as well as men can.

So, when husbands yell, fight, criticize, argue etc.

It hurts their wives to the core of their being because they are bonded to us.

Which means we can hurt them much easily and deeply than anyone else on the planet.

This is why one of our missions as men is to protect our wifes from ourselves!

This is our power as men that we have no clue about.

Why are husbands able to cause so much pain so deeply…

Because you and your wife are bonded.

Bonded through marriage before God…

Bonded through the marital embrace…

Bonded through children together.

This is why when or if a wife has an affair…

She is still drawn to her husband way more because of the bonds they share.

When we continually do marriage killers on our wives…

She begins to become resentful…

He begins to become resentful…

She begins to feel her husband doesn’t care or love her anymore

And the all important, emotional connection begins to leave her and consequently your marriage.

And as you know or should know by now…

When the emotional closeness is gone…

Your beloved desires to leave with it.

Again, if your wife is blaming you for everything…basically nagging you!

This is the first clue that you have serious marriage problems.

But more importantly, this is a gift from God because…

You have a chance to fix your marriage before the Wife’s exit strategy really sets in…meaning…

Her leaving, getting another man, moving to another bedroom, asking for a separation, asking for a divorce, filing for divorce, getting the divorce, filing for annulment, getting an annulment.

Gentlemen remove marriage killers, and this will remove her nagging.

Doesn’t that sound like a beautiful world?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #20 – Is She Staying Out Later? CARP058

March 10, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Pay Attention: Has She Started Coming Home Later Than Normal?

In this 58th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Next in the homewrecker’s eyes your wife is his now.
You messed up and lost her…and he feels since she came to him, she now belongs to him!
And that you are the one intruding on his fun!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 58th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #20...
  • Is your wife staying out later than normal?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 - My wife says I'm lazy and wants to leave.

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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Episode 58 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

IS THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE BETTER?

  • 1) Her leaving?
  • 2) All the paperwork?
  • 3) The time spent at the lawyers office?
  • 4) The endless hours preparing for court?
  • 5) The custody battle over the kids?
  • 6) Only getting to see the kids once every other weekend?
  • 7) All the wasted money and resources?
  • 8) Losing the house?
  • 9) Losing the property?
  • 10) Losing the cars?
  • 11) Her treating you like a complete stranger?
  • 12) Having to get a part-time job to make ends meet?
  • 13) Having to now go to separate Churches
  • 14) Not being around your friends, because those are her friends too?
  • 15) The kids growing up with split up parents?
  • 16) Hoping the kids will be ok, knowing deep down they won't?
  • 17) The kids as adults having no examples of a good marriage?
  • 18) So, they quit too just as their parents did!

WOULDN'T IT BE SO MUCH BETTER TO COME HOME TO...

  • peace, a happy and loving wife, who loves, respects, and is completely devoted to you?
  • Just an all-around beautiful marriage and family?
  • This is why you must listen to these clues even if you are already in marriage crisis!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #19…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

After the segment pose the question…

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Do you have a troubled wife?

Call (313) 723-4225 now! or call from your browser…

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Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every…

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Encourage listeners to call…

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 I need to talk to you!

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

 

Before I tell you the #20 clue let’s review the previous 19…

1) Does she seem distant?

2) Is she spending more time with single friends?

3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?

4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?

5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?

6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?

7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?

8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?

9) Has the bickering increased?

10) Has the arguing increased?

11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?

12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?

13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily

14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

15) You make love less than once per week

16) You make love less than once a month

17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

19) Lately, does she dress nicer, or more provocative?

So, what is clue #20 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – Lately are you beating her home when before she was already home?

Ok this is a no brainer, right?

Most all men pick up on this one.

But there a few mistakes they make.

One is they hire someone or they follow her.

Two they confront her and cause a huge argument.

Three they go and find the man and confront him and cause violence and someone is hurt or put in jail.

Four once they know she is having an affair they go to the persons house or their wife’s new house.

Let’s take these one at a time.

First off I learned in my first marriage to not follow anyone.

She is grown and I can’t control anything she does anyway.

Number two, confronting her and causing an argument…

The mistake men in this situation make is they get verbal and physical…

which means things happen that can’t be taken back.

And continually over the years she uses it as a barrier over and over again…

of how you hit her or called her a certain name!

Not to mention, she calls the Po Po on him and he is put in jail for the night.

And many times he is arrested in front of the kids.

This is never good.

And goes back to my first point of trying to control someone who is grown.

Also, if your instincts are telling you your wife is messing around, they are probably correct.

But the way to confront her is not with an argument…

but to just let her know that you know what she is doing…

and that it has to stop, if she has any desire that your marriage will or can get better.

Then let her take it from there!

Don’t argue or debate or fight.

If she wants to explain herself that is fine.

All you do is listen and reserve all of your comments and thoughts for after you have had time to digest what she’s told you.

This keeps you out of jail and from saying or doing anything stupid…

which your children may hear or watch you taken away in handcuffs.

The third point of confronting the man is completely illogical.

This many times causes the police to get involved and all the police see is this crazy man trying to harm an innocent man.

You know it’s like in football…

the referee never sees the first punch only the retaliation.

Next in the homewrecker’s eyes your wife is his now.

You messed up and lost her…

and he feels since she came to him, she now belongs to him!

And that you are the one intruding on his fun!

The fourth point of going to the man’s house to see if your wife is there is also illogical.

And most times you get more than what you bargained for…

I knew a man who was obsessive.

And so one night he went down to the man’s house and saw his wife’s car there.

But oh no, he didn’t stop there.

He decides to go up to the bedroom window and look in.

And of course you know what he saw…

The whole deal and his wife was making pleasurable noises and it really destroyed him.

Gentlemen, you can’t get that kind of seen out of your head…Ever!

Moreover, if and when you and your wife work it out, you’ll always see that horror in your mind.

So, I’ve just told you how to handle all of these marriage horrors if they occur.

But the best way to handle all of these, and all of the clues in this series…

is to stop them from happening before they happen in the first place…

How, by you not becoming distracted with your relationship with God and your Beloved…

Do ya feel me?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #19 – Does She Dress More Provocatively? CARP057

March 9, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Pay Attention: Has She Started Dressing More Sexy?

In this 57th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

A Holy Lover is one, you becoming the man God created you to be. And two, you becoming the husband your wife needs.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 57th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #19...
  • Has she started dressing nice or more provocative for no apparent reason?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • And is the chaos of divorce better than a husband bearing down and working to save his marriage?
  • Caller #1 - My wife is having an affair with my best friend from high school!

 

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 57 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

IS THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE BETTER?

  • 1) Her leaving?
  • 2) All the paperwork?
  • 3) The time spent at the lawyers office?
  • 4) The endless hours preparing for court?
  • 5) The custody battle over the kids?
  • 6) Only getting to see the kids once every other weekend?
  • 7) All the wasted money and resources?
  • 8) Losing the house?
  • 9) Losing the property?
  • 10) Losing the cars?
  • 11) Her treating you like a complete stranger?
  • 12) Having to get a part-time job to make ends meet?
  • 13) Having to now go to separate Churches
  • 14) Not being around your friends, because those are her friends too?
  • 15) The kids growing up with split up parents?
  • 16) Hoping the kids will be ok, knowing deep down they won't?
  • 17) The kids as adults having no examples of a good marriage?
  • 18) So, they quit too just as their parents did!

WOULDN'T IT BE SO MUCH BETTER TO COME HOME TO...

  • peace, a happy and loving wife, who loves, respects, and is completely devoted to you?
  • Just an all-around beautiful marriage and family?
  • This is why you must listen to these clues even if you are already in marriage crisis!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #19…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

After the segment pose the question…

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Do you have a troubled wife?

Call (313) 723-4225 now! or call from your browser…

Inserting the URL…CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every…

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Encourage listeners to call…

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 I need to talk to you!

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

 

Before I tell you the #19 clue let’s review the previous 18…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week
  • 16) You make love less than once a month
  • 17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason
  • 18) Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

So, what is clue #19 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – Does she dress nicer, or more provocative lately?

I know this one is kind of crazy…

because today most women dress kind of slutty and provocative all the time.

The tight close and the pushed up boobs and the tight hugging pants and dresses!

It drives us men crazy.

But I hear it all of the time.

We have to dress this way because this is all that the manufacturers are making.

My wife tells me that women don’t look good for their husbands or boyfriends…

but that they are in a competition with each other.

Wow! Man, I didn’t know it was that deep!

Look brother, here is the deal.

You know or should know your wife better than me.

If she all of a sudden starts getting her hair and nails done…

and those clothes are a little bit more sexy or revealing than usual.

And she is more perky and excited daily than she was before.

Your Catholic man radar ought to immediately search out and seek the reason why.

As I’ve said with this category of clues…

Alone (hair done, nails, losing weight, nicer clothes, smelling better) mean nothing.

But together or one or two of them should have your radar on red alert.

Then when the other clues I mention pop up you have already solved the other ones.

Again, marriage maintenance, marriage maintenance, marriage maintenance is how you as a husband stay out of divorce court!

You cannot and must not let 3,4,5,10, 20, 50 problems present themselves in your family and continue to bury them with the “I’ll take care of it later syndrome”

Plain and simple the way you stay out of divorce court is marriage maintenance.

The way you keep your wife and girlfriend happy, fulfilled, and satisfied is marriage maintenance!

You give first and be on top of your game now, and get served 10 times better in the future!

Meaning you never ever, ever, take your wife, marriage and God for granted.

In the Catholic Alpha Marriage program this is a Holy Lover Gift.

This is how important it is.

So, what is a Holy Lover?

A Holy Lover is you becoming the man God created you to be

And you becoming the husband your wife needs.

Again, you may be asking, why is he always on the wife’s side.

The answer is I’m not.

I am on the side of God and marriage.

I have come to realize that our wife and children are waiting around for us to get it together.

We are naturally held responsible in the eyes of God

Also, our wife is the heart and nurturer of our home and if she is unhappy, sick, depressed, or irritable…

This changes the entire complexity and feel of our home.

And lastly, once we as husbands lose our egos and pride and become servers of God our wife and children…

Neglecting our own needs, wants, and desires…

Our wives begin to want to look in the mirrors at themselves…

and wonder how can they now become worthy of us!

Gentlemen, your suffering, sacrifice, penance, and dying to your selfishness is the only way to greatness!

Need I say anymore?…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #18 – She Get’s Her Hair Done For No Apparent Reason! CARP056

March 8, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Pay Attention: Has She Started Getting Her Hair Done More Often For No Apparent Reason??

In this 56th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Women don’t do things for no reason when it comes to relationships.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 56th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #18...
  • Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • And the Catholic Alpha 10 Day Lent Challenge: The benefits of fasting, and how to detoxify the body at the same time!
  • Caller #1 - I want a dog but my husband doesn't, how do I handle it?

 

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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Episode 56 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

After the segment pose the question…

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Do you have a troubled wife?

Call (313) 723-4225 now! or call from your browser…

Inserting the URL…CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every…

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Encourage listeners to call…

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 I need to talk to you!

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

 

Before I tell you the #18 clue let’s review the previous 17…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week
  • 16) You make love less than once a month
  • 17) Has she lost weight for no apparent reason

So, what is clue #18 that your wife may want a divorce?

Drum roll please – Has she started getting her hair done more often for no apparent reason?

I used to have a business that required me to visit beauty shops all day long 5 days a week.

There were always tons of women in each shop.

Getting their hair done, nails done, feet done.

There was always a lot of talking going on.

The majority of the conversations were mostly about the women’s boyfriends or husbands.

What the men were doing right or wrong.

But the thing that mostly stood out to me was…

Even though they were happy or unhappy with their man…

They were in that beauty shop each and every week keeping themselves together.

The lesson here is…

Women don’t do things for no reason when it comes to relationships.

So, if your Beloved normally gets her hair done once a month and begins getting it done weekly for example…

There is, or may be a problem that you are missing.

I am not saying oh, go and confront your wife about her visiting the beauty shop or spa.

But what I am saying is exactly what I said yesterday…

Open your eyes gentlemen and explore and be curious about your woman (the good and the bad)

Of course this on its own means nothing.

But as I said before…

When you combine this clue with two, three, or four others like…

The losing weight, going to events without you, spending more time with single and divorced women.

Brother you have a serious problem.

That if caught now and taken care of now…

May cause you a lot less pain and agony in the future.

But of course you won’t listen to me.

You will wait, and wait, and wait, and wait and wait, and wait!

And will never get around to fixing this potential problem…

Moreover, rationalize every excuse in the book why you don’t have time right now.

Again, this is a rookie mistake!

And I expect this from a 20 year old…

But a 40 or 50 or 60 year old…

Never should you allow this to happen.

You are better than that and have way more life experience and certain instincts about these things.

But again, we allow the demonic to distract us with hour and hours of work, video games, hobbies, and just plain laziness.

Please gentlemen, don’t allow this to be you.

I have men coming to me all of the time with the…

“later never comes syndrome”

Meaning they see the problem, sense there is a problem…

but don’t move to correct the problem because…hey…

I’ll take care of it later!

But of course… later… never… comes!…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #17 – She’s Lost Weight For No Apparent Reason! CARP055

March 7, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Pay Attention: Has Your Wife Lost Weight?

In this 55th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

The real point here is will you solve problems now or wait until they are unsolvable? This is what neglectful, lazy, boring, and inattentive husbands do.

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 55th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #17...
  • Has your wife lost weight for no apparent reason?
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • And the Catholic Alpha 10 Day Lent Challenge: The benefits of fasting.

 

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Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 55 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

After the segment pose the question…

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Do you have a troubled wife?

Call (313) 723-4225 now! or call from your browser…

Inserting the URL…CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every…

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Encourage listeners to call…

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 I need to talk to you!

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

 

Before I tell you the #17 clue let’s review the previous 16…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week
  • 16) You make love less than once per month (severe)

So, what is clue #17 that your wife wants a divorce?

Drum roll please – Has she lost weight for no apparent reason?

This may not seem that important when considered by itself

But when coupled with one or two the other clues

It suddenly becomes huge.

This goes directly back to you being distracted and not noticing the small and intimate things your wife does.

Was she unhappy and depressed, but now is more excited and perky?

That coupled with losing weight could mean she is thrilled about something.

And if you are honest with yourself and analyze your marriage over the past few years

… her losing weight could mean an emotional affair for example.

One of the concepts I push very aggressively in the Catholic Alpha Marriage program…

is the need for husbands to raise their radar daily concerning their wives.

You as a husband must be in tune with her each and every day.

Not just to see if something is wrong…

but also to search for opportunities to serve her…

and do the small things that actually show her you love her deeply!

Which is her dream!

Is your wife moving differently than normal?

Does she look wore down and tired?

Does she seem really sick or not feeling well today?

Is she limping?

Does she seem to be avoiding you and or the kids?

Is she not smiling or laughing as she usually does?

Has she not been quite herself for two or more days?

Does she seem down or that something is bothering her?

Is she unusually quiet?

Is she wearing her hair differently?

Did she buy a new purse, shoes, or blouse?

Is she more snappy or irritable at you or the kids or both?

These are just a few things that should be on your radar.

This may sound like a lot but it is nothing compared to the alternative of her considering if your love is genuine or not.

The real point here is will you solve problems now or wait until they are unsolvable?

This is what neglectful, lazy, boring, and inattentive husbands do.

And if your wife has lost weight and you noticed, did you tell her how good she looks?

Open your eyes gentlemen! The woman of your dreams is standing right before you.

All you have to do is bring out the passion and fire in her!…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: #16 Sexless Marriage! CARP054

March 6, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Deal With A Sexless Marriage!

In this 54th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

How can a couple expect their marriage to last, be fruitful, fulfilling, and magnificent if they are not making love on a regular basis?

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 54th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #16...
  • You are in a sexless marriage
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • More help with a sexless marriage in this article: Sexless Marriage the top 24 reasons for intimacy anguish in marriage

 

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Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 54 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

After the segment pose the question…

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Do you have a troubled wife?

Call (313) 723-4225 now! or call from your browser…

Inserting the URL…CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Remember get all of your marriage questions answered every…

Monday thru Friday 10am eastern

Encourage listeners to call…

Hey has your wife said she needs some space? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 I need to talk to you!

Hey, has your wife been having an affair? Call me right now at (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225 for answers on how to deal with this!

Hey has your wife asked you to move out? I need to speak to you right now…call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Clue #16

Before I tell you the #16 clue let’s review the previous 15…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?
  • 15) You make love less than once per week

 

CLUE #16

So, what is clue #16 that your wife wants a divorce?

Drum roll please – You engage in the marital embrace less than once per month SEVERE!

This means plain and simple that you are in a sexless marriage

When a married couple gets to this stage both have become just too comfortable.

They are not seeking God or moving towards God in their marriage.

As God gave us the gift of procreation to help create souls and send those children back to Him as saints.

There are many reasons for a sexless marriage and I cover them extensively in my article…

Sexless Marriage the top 24 reasons for intimacy anguish in marriage.

Which is on my website CatholicAlpha.com or you can just Google that article and it will come up.

The technical criteria for a sexless marriage is the couple makes love less than 10 times per year.

Like I said there are many reasons for a sexless marriage…

Depression, infidelity, actual physical pain, lack of trust, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, selfishness, mental illness, pornography, masturbation to name a few.

But the big one that hits home is a Godless marriage

Many husbands don’t realize that they must enter the spiritual battle daily to keep evil out of their marriage and home.

It’s hard enough with Christ and the sacraments…

Without Christ and the sacraments it is impossible to keep evil out of your marriage and home.

And that in a nutshell is what a sexless marriage is.

Satan has walked right past the distracted husband and went upstairs and got in bed with his wife and children.

Which means that the wife has become demonically influenced.

How can a couple expect their marriage to last, be fruitful, fulfilling, and magnificent if they are not making love on a regular basis?

You can’t. Sure there are Josephite marriages. Where the couple decides together to be as the Holy Family was.

But these are rare and many that do them really should not being doing them because this is not the purpose God has set for them.

For most couples, especially Catholic couples their purpose is to make love, be fruitful and prosper.

To actually show the world God’s view of what a beautiful and holy marriage looks like…

so society will be drawn to that blissfulness!

Also there is this crazy trend going around that menopausal wives have decided to stop having sex with their husbands.

This is pure evil and obviously these old biddies don’t understand the meaning of marriage and it purpose.

The meaning and purpose of marriage in this order is to pro create

For the formation and education of children

And the unity of the spouses which is far down the line from the other two

So if a wife is refusing to make love to her husband because in her mind well I can’t have kids anymore…

She is breaking God’s will because of the third purpose for marriage which is the unity of the spouses.

Our job as Christian couples is to present what a great and holy marriage is in public and to our kids, friends, society etc.

So, if we are not being loving, intimate, and holy in our marriage…

how are we to portray what a loving and great marriage is to a society full of evil and contempt for Our Lord?

Really think about that!

Lastly, if a couple is in a sexless marriage which again means…

They make love less than 10 times per year…

The emotional connection is gone. And they are in a boring, lackluster, mediocre marriage

And if this is your marriage then what fire, desire, love, and craving, and passion do you show for Our Lord And Savior Jesus Christ?

I’ll tell you, if this is your marriage (which means this is your vocation in life)…

Your fire for Christ is boring, lackluster, mediocre, and lukewarm as well.

…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #15 Now! CARP053

March 3, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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When Intimacy Inside The Bedroom Needs Help

In this 53rd episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute! The theme? Clues your wife wants to leave you!

Understand if a marriage is boring or passionless, it’s because the husband is boring or passionless!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
    Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
    In this 53rd episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss clue #15...
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Episode 53 - Show Notes

"Show Transcript"

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and considering or planning to leave your marriage?

A more important question is why?

Do you know…do you even care?

Those of you listening who think your wife will never leave you are in a dream world.

And if right now the answer to the question of, “Are you and your wife as emotionally close as you could be?” is no or I’m not sure…

You have entered the Wife’s Exit Strategy Zone where your wife is considering or has considered what to do about the lack of emotional connection in your marriage.

Why? Because for her this is the most important thing (above God, the children, her duty as a wife or mother etc.)

Once the closeness is gone, she will start telling herself, “This is not what I signed up for!”

Then comes the question, Can I be happier with him or without him?

If the answer, is I can be happier. Sadly, she will start planning her exit strategy. And you her husband will not even suspect it.

For this reason, the clues in this series are so valuable as they give you an idea of what is about to happen, if you are willing to see and act upon them!

If you make the rookie mistake and think, she is being emotional or I’ll take care of this later…

You’ll find that later never comes and your wife and family have exited stage left!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, in my effort to help you, I present to you the clues that if noticed or better yet removed from your marriage, will help you rekindle it and save you and your family much pain and agony!

In today’s episode, we cover clue #11…that your wife wants a divorce

We’ll go into this more after the break.

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Clue #15

Before I tell you the #15 clue let’s review the previous 14…

  • 1) Does she seem distant?
  • 2) Is she spending more time with single friends?
  • 3) Does she seem uninterested in the marital embrace?
  • 4) Is she still as supportive as she used to be?
  • 5) Is she still as loving as she used to be?
  • 6) Does she go out to clubs and events without you?
  • 7) Does she take longer to answer your texts or phone messages?
  • 8) Has her conversation with you become very short and to the point?
  • 9) Has the bickering increased?
  • 10) Has the arguing increased?
  • 11) Has she started putting the kids, above you?
  • 12) Has she started putting her friends, siblings above you?
  • 13) Have you going to mass and entering the spiritual battle daily
  • 14) Does she seem unusually depressed or unhappy?

 

CLUE #15

So, what is clue #15 that your wife wants a divorce?

Drum roll please – You engage in the marital embrace less than once per week?

Ok this is huge! Why?

Because sex is the second most important thing in your marriage behind prayer.

Why?

Because the marital embrace bonds the couple, it creates emotional closeness on a regular basis.

And combined with date night and the nightly bonding conversation. It’s priceless

On this mornings show we discussed this and one of the listeners told me that there are 168 hours in a week.

So, you are telling me that out of 168 hours you and your wife can’t find the time or the will to make love for…

one hour, 60 minutes, 3600 seconds?

If this is the case your marriage is very close to being a sexless marriage…

which by definition means that you make love less than once a month.

Or less than 10 times per year.

Look, if a couple can’t find time to be intimate one hour a week there are serious underlined marriage issues.

First off if the husband wants to make love but his wife is denying him, he must ask himself why?

And if your wife has no desire for you, this means that the emotional connection in your marriage is gone, almost gone, or on its way to being gone.

And once she feels the emotional closeness is gone then she will go right out the door with it…

Whether physically gone, or she emotionally checks out…

It really doesn’t matter…

As a husband you must fix this.

If your marriage is to this point it already means that you as a husband have kept your head in the sand too long and allowed this to fester.

As a man you must realize that emotional closeness for women is #1.

And when it’s gone or close to being gone, she will not want you to touch her, kiss her, or make love to her.

No walks, no spending time together cuddling. None of that.

No intimacy inside or outside the bedroom!

As her husband it is your job to figure this out and fix it.

Have you been neglecting her?

Meaning putting your job, friends, parents, kids, hobbies before your time and attention to her?

Marriage is tough enough when we do things right, and 10x tough when we don’t.

I need you right now tonight to get back in the game and get on your job as a husband.

How do you do this?

You must at all cost prepare her for your love and start making love to her outside the bedroom…

Fun conversations, deep conversations, going for walks together, serving her and doing the small things that prove you are doing it just because you love her.

Making her laugh, just plain getting into her.

Again, wives must be prepared for your love.

They are not robots, they need you to make love to them outside the bedroom, which for her will transform to love inside the bedroom.

Put her back as the top priority in your life!

Make her feel special again by actually dating and courting her daily!

Stop treating her like a stranger on the street or partner in a business.

She is your Beloved moreover she didn’t sign up for that.

Become her best friend again. And if you were not before get on that job right now.

Learn your Beloved’s mysteries. Get into her just as you were before you were married.

Stop allowing Satan to interject himself into the middle of your marriage…

because you are distracted as a man and refuse to do your job because of laziness or indifference!

Understand if a marriage is boring or passionless, it’s because the husband is boring or passionless!

Women want to be won everyday.

They know the gift they possess.

Look the deal is, you are the pursuer, and she is the pursued

Get over it and get in the game!

Serve her well and serve her often and she will return your service 10 fold!

This is the reason why I beg you to change and fix yourself first, because then and only then will your Beloved follow!

And what is the payoff?

The payoff is all of the intimacy you can stand,

and a marriage that spans the test of time, and generations to boot!…BAM!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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