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Marriage Trouble | The Ugly Truth – Are You The Problem?- CARP004

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What Can You Do About Marriage Trouble...

Right Now?

 In this fourth episode, I pose the question: Bad Wife? Did You Create This Monster?

Many times we forget to ask this all telling question. Especially, during marriage trouble, and issues with our girlfriends. Let's tackle this "question and answer" together; shall we?

Also, my radical rant on the current scandal in the Catholic Church! And my top reasons how men have caused this tragedy!

Can you afford to miss this?

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Marriage Trouble Episode

Marriage Trouble - Did You Create This Monster?

Episdode 4 - Show Notes...

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! (episode 4) – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage - BAM!

Now Let’s-Do-This!

Quote of the Day –

[QUOTE] “Christian Soldier: The spiritual battle is upon you. No longer can you remain aloof. You are made for combat; made to fight the inner spiritual battle against evil daily.

The time has come to be a man of courage! To dawn your armor; pick up your shield, unsheathe your sword; in preparation of the upcoming physical battle.

And, for whom do you battle? The battle for Christ; the battle for your marriage; the battle for your family. And if you have anything left; the battle for your very soul![END QUOTE]

~Catholic Alpha

Why I Do This? Part 4

My Story – Going to do this in four parts

Why Do I Do this? Because, I knew somebody had to start standing up for Christ.

Once I really started practicing the Catholic faith, it seemed as though everybody else was in a daze, especially men.

And I knew somebody (even if it had to be me) had to try and wake them up!

Part 1: Was my first child story

Part 2: Focused on My first marriage story

Part 3: My Second Marriage Story

Part 4: Out Of Darkness (My conversion to the Catholic Faith)

  • I tell you this so you can see where I have been and the pain that led me to this point to stand up and do something!
  • God gave my trials a temporary reprieve
  • I guess He sensed I was wearing down.
  • Wife is 5th generation Catholic
  • But sense married to me she didn’t really practice
  • We went occasionally and I joined the choir
  • I grew up in all different kind of denominations…
  • Jehovah’s Witness
  • Baptist
  • Presbyterian
  • One day talking to friend asked me to go on retreat
  • Cursillo changed everything
  • Vincent’s talk
  • Asked if I could speak to him later
  • Talked in chapel
  • I didn’t ask Jesus to die for me
  • I couldn’t love someone I didn’t know
  • Love is not a feeling or emotion, but an act of the will.
  • After Cursillo I started listening to Catholic Answers Live to further understand the faith
  • I then took responsibility as the head of my family
  • Slowly began to understand my purpose as a man, husband, and father, because of the gift of Wisdom placed upon me by the Holy Spirit!

Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reason Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)

Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism was planned in order to destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.

Why was this done?

To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism!

If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.

Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. You don’t leave Christ for Judas!

Why? Because Judas leads you to hell!

We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!

You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

So let’s get started with number four of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

Let’s review the first two…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

So now with #4 of the top 21 reasons men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church)

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Cardinal Carlo Maria Vigano.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, society, work)

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick

These are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.

(#4) AN UNWILLINGNESS TO SACRIFICE FOR CHRIST

  • In this country we have forgotten what sacrifice really means, and worse yet who and what it’s meant for.
  • Sacrifice means giving your life away for something greater than yourself daily
  • As men our duty given by God, is to give our life away for Christ through obedience. Which helps us die to self (basically selfishness) in order that Holiness can step forth!
  • To sacrifice for our marriage, wife, family, and children.
  • How do we do this?
  • Prayer
  • Fasting
  • Rosary
  • When we stop suffering for Our Lord and our Wife, we become soft, weak and susceptible to evil and outside influences.
  • More important we basically become selfish, we turn in upon ourselves.
  • These men in the faith have forgotten that
  • They have forgotten their purpose and vow to God as priests!
  • Again, as men we will never be at peace until we sacrifice our one and only life for something other than ourselves
  • Habitually seeking pleasure, only makes us effeminate and emasculated.
  • Our will becomes weak (ex: cell phones)
  • You better believe that there were many laity men, and clergy in the Catholic Church that knew these things were going on.
  • But did any of them move to really stop it? I mean stop it at the sacrifice of themselves, their status, job, family, siblings, mother, father, friends, etc…
  • Well the proof is about us, obviously not!
  • My moto is, if as men, we aren’t taking scratches, bullets, darts, insults, etc… for Christ on a regular basis, we are failing in our mission as men, and more severe, failing Our Lord.
  • Doesn’t he deserve more?
  • He showed us what to do by His sacrifice, now is the time that we actually mimic Him

What do you think?

Send your questions to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Bad Wife? Did You Create This Monster Segment

Could You Be The Problem?

This is a Catholic Alpha Unleashed video a did a while ago.

It asks many questions of men in marriage and men in relationships period.

It challenges us a men to really evaluate our situation (marriage, relationship with our wife, children, and God, as well as ourselves)

I’m inserting this because sometimes we men need to hear the tough stuff.

And this how is about fixing ourselves first, then and only then can we expect our wives and children to follow God and our lead (crushing marriage trouble and relationship problems!)

So enjoy, Bad Wife? Did You Create This Monster?

Radical Marriage Trouble Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage Part 1

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Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage

Kevin Hart: Wuss Or Warrior Part 1

Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage...

How is your marriage holding up? How about your family? Could it be better?

Consider the 20-Minute Marriage Makeover Challenge!

5 (less than) 20-minute (do it yourself) videos, to help you discover ...

  • What your wife and children need from you as their spiritual leader in the home.
  • What God is truly asking of you as a man, husband and father. Which gives you true purpose.
  • The true meaning of intimacy in marriage. What your wife needs from you, and how this knowledge can enhance lovemaking and closeness with God.
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Your Next Step Starts Here...

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Choose My Top Marriage Weakness!

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The Video Transcript...

Tips on how to save a failing marriage? 9 ways to become a man of sacrifice. Read the full blog post (or watch the full video) here!

 

  • Watch Kevin Hart: Wuss Or Warrior Part 2 Here (coming soon)
  • Watch Kevin Hart: Wuss Or Warrior Part 3 Here (coming soon)
  • Mentions: St. Mother Teresa Of Calcutta, Kevin Hart, Allison Cacich, Eniko Parrish.

The title of the first Catholic view on Hollywood Hookups. The title of the article is "Kevin Hart Willing To Tear Up Prenup To Save His Marriage" by Allison Cacich.

So this is what the first paragraph says of the article. Comedian Kevin Hart, is desperately trying to get out of the doghouse after an extortion plot involving a video allegedly showing the 38 year old cheating on his wife was revealed to the public.

 

Although the Ride Along star apologized to his pregnant spouse, (Oh, she's pregnant, okay) Eniko Parrish, for the bad error in judgment, he's willing to try anything to avoid a split.

Kevin: Caught On Tape! Ouch!

So, he got caught on video, cheating on his wife.

Now see, this is the first thing. If you're going to cheat, be smart about it.

I mean, you don't even have enough common sense, to not get caught on video.

That's because what is it, you don't have any respect. He doesn't have any respect. He has no respect for himself, his wife, or the one that he's with, his mistress, so called mistress.

And that's the first problem. Women aren't called to control themselves. Men we are the protectors. We're called to control ourselves.

And so that's what happens when a man has intercourse with the woman, and then he doesn't want her anymore.

He expects her just to be all happy about it. And of course, most of the time, they ain't happy about it.

Why?

Because now you've bonded with your wife, now you've bonded with some lady that you know, that you think is gonna be a short term deal.

 

Learn more here on how to save a failing marriage on my Infidelity Prevention page!

The Solution: The Catholic Way!

So, what's the solution? 

Honestly, that's the problem right now. He has forgot to sacrifice. When is the last time he sacrificed for her?

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

First, we're not even sure if this story's even true. But, I'm just using it as an example and model.

Honestly, I feel a lot of empathy for Kevin and dudes in this situation. Because they just have no idea what their purpose and mission is.

He has no graces in his marriage from God. It's about Christ. Christ is our example to teach us how to serve. How to sacrifice.

It makes me think about a Mother Teresa quote. Quote,  "Love to be real, it must cost. It must hurt. It must empty us of self." Saint Teresa, Mother Teresa, of Calcutta.

And I think that's what men today have forgotten. Kevin Hart, and men like him, should just be into your wife. Get into her, learn her mysteries.

Honestly, that's the problem right now. He has forgot to sacrifice.

When is the last time he sacrificed for her?

That's a great question.

So, let me ask you one final question. What is your top marriage weakness?

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Do-It-Yourself: Marriage Help For Men!

Do you experience disharmony in your marriage or home?

Do you lack a complete understanding, or your purpose as a man in marriage, family, and society?

Do you endure lackluster, mediocre, or non-existent intimacy?

So, let's get serious here. If you're suffering from any one of these top marriage killers, do this immediately.

Step one. Go to CatholicAlpha.com.

Step two, click on the Take The Assessment button, which will show you your top marriage weakness, which should be worked on immediately.

Step three, click the start button to begin the 20 minute marriage makeover challenge.

And lastly, step four, Earn the marriage you deserve, by viewing the five short 20 minute marriage makeover challenge videos.

I'm Jerry Jacobs Jr. of CatholicAlpha.com. Where I help men identify their number one marriage weakness by giving them a short assessment.

What I found is this drastically improves their marriage, and what I've also found is every man has one.

What's yours?

Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage...

How is your marriage holding up? How about your family? Could it be better?

Consider the 20-Minute Marriage Makeover Challenge!

5 (less than) 20-minute (do it yourself) videos, to help you discover ...

  • What your wife and children need from you as their spiritual leader in the home.
  • What God is truly asking of you as a man, husband and father. Which gives you true purpose.
  • The true meaning of intimacy in marriage. What your wife needs from you, and how this knowledge can enhance lovemaking and closeness with God.
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Your Next Step Starts Here...

Yes, I Want To Take The Assessment!
Yes, I Want To Watch The Video!
Choose My Top Marriage Weakness!

Do You Have A Cheating Wife? | First Mission: Fix Yourself!

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Do You Have A Cheating Wife?

First Mission: Fix Yourself!

In divorce cases, this is called mental torture or domination.

Really, it is egocentricity, in which one ego loves itself in the other ego. The I is projected into the Thou and is loved in the Thou. The Thou is not really loved as a person; it is only used as a means to the pleasure of the I.

As soon as the other ceases to exhilarate, the so-called love ceases.”

~ Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen, Three to Get Married

 

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Cheating Wife: The Gift Of Ten

When is the last time you gave your wife “The Gift Of Ten?” You may be wondering; what is “The Gift Of Ten?” Well, “The Gift Of Ten” means 10 orgasms (a partner of “The Forever Orgasm”).

 

You’re right, this question is raw. Especially, for Christian husbands.  Because many of us are taught that sex is naughty, dirty; should be kept in the dark; stored away in the storage room. To only be dusted off and mentioned, when the so-called; urge hits us.

 

Well, this train of thought is foolishness. Holy Sex; the marital embrace; the Holy Caress; [pullquote]Sacred Intimacy is not what we do. In fact; when ordered toward God; sex is who we are.[/pullquote]

 

The Father is good. Therefore; He can only create good. God created sex. Therefore; sex is good. That’s why the marital embrace is referred to as; the marital embrace. Because, it’s meant to only be done between the married couple.

 

But, when done outside of marriage; which means, done outside and ordered away from God (in essence, evil.) The act of the Holy Caress, is engulfed in eroticism, filth and causes great evils.

 

I’m speaking crazy you say? Well, the proof is around you. How many sexual relationships outside of marriage, end up in the toilet (unwanted children, abortions, fatherless homes, broken, hurt, used, and abandoned women, rapes, pedophilia, incest, infidelity?)

 

Each of these evils, have a root cause, stemming from sexual relations outside the marital embrace. Please; please try and rationalize that I’m wrong. But of course, I’m not.

To Stop A Cheating Wife?

Understand The Purpose Of Your Manhood

You must remember; God gives us what we ask for. Whether it’s Heaven or Hell.

 

You indulge in filth; He allows you to feel and be treated as dirt. You embrace purity, sanctity, and Holiness, the way He has designed it? Your marriage is rewarded with peace, passion, fruitfulness, unbelievable intimacy, fidelity, and an amorousness unlike any other.

 

Again, the question. When is the last time you sacrificed your ultimate pleasure in service of your wife, by giving her “The Gift Of Ten?” My bet, is not of late, or in many marriages; not ever!

 

God has given you the gift of masculinity. You in turn, must view your ability to satisfy and fulfill your Beloved as a gift from the Father. On loan, given to you by Him. Your masculinity is a gift in service and dignity of your wife; and the Father’s will. Not merely, to satisfy your urges and ego.

 

As St. Pope John Paul II proclaims in his writings, Love And Responsibility; the husband is required to make sure that his wife is given the gift of climax. As not to be used as a mere object, but to uphold her dignity as a human person. (More on female orgasm and a man's duty here)

 

I will add to that by saying, this is the minimum standard. Many wives need much more than one, for a deep and fulfilling sexual experience. And, I believe it’s safe to say, your wife is in this category (enter “The Gift Of Ten”).

Cheating Wife? Give Her The Gift Of Ten!

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Do You Have A Cheating Wife?

Fix Yourself First!

You boast, you love her. You say, she’s the most important person in your life. You claim, you would do anything for her happiness. In the end, aren’t these mere words? Until you put into action these phrases, they have no meaning whatsoever.

 

Until you insert the Father at once, into the center of your marriage, you and your wife will continue to be attacked by the Evil One.

 

If you have a cheating wife?  Do me a favor, and consider; just consider, your roll in this travesty. Until you learn to sacrifice, suffer, and place yourself last. Moreover, to understand what this truly means in your marriage and family. You; your Beloved; your children; nothing but unhappiness, misery, and attacks from the Father Of Lies.

 

Listen or don’t listen. The ultimate choice is yours. But see, I have a joyous wife. Do you? Have you ever even considered this question?

 

Probably, over the span of your marriage. You’ve refused to absorb the clues, your wife has given you, concerning her unhappiness and emptiness. In wait for you, her Beloved husband to return to her. To once again love her, engulf her in pure passion and intimacy. To insure her; she’s first in all things in your life. Only you can answer these claims as true or untrue, in your marriage.

 

This cluelessness is a gargantuan problem in husbands, and men in general. You know the type. They know everything. You can’t tell them anything. And if you do, you must use kid gloves. Because they will get offended, upset, or muster a complete breakdown. Total emasculation and effeminacy.

 

So, when their wife approaches, and makes known, she’s leaving. Or instead of leaving him, she has an affair on his lazy, aloof butt!

 

He’s in total shock and bewilderment, as to her cause or reasons. He’s too stupid, to realize what his Beloved needs to feel close to him. Mainly, because he’s too concerned with his own selfishness.

 

He refuses to zero in on his wife, to make her sense appreciation and fulfillment. In essence, he’s slowly over the years, started to take his Beloved for granted. And, she can no longer stand being treated as an object. Do you blame her?

 

Now, I understand the wife deserves blame as well. But, we aren’t talking about your wife. We’re talking about you. The leader. The man of the household. The individual, charged to protect, defend, and serve. The Christian soldier Christ left in charge.

 

If you keep company with the millions of men who suffer from a cheating wife. I must proclaim, look at yourself first. Place yourself in front of the mirror and examine your roll. Fix you! Get yourself right with God. Before you rush out and scream, blame, and attack, your wife for her problems and indiscretions.

 

In fact, I’m asking you to become the husband she needs. In order that your Beloved is compelled, to follow and embrace your leadership.

Refuse Effeminacy

Deny Yourself Pleasure In Lieu Of Greatness!

Remember; Christ left you in charge of this realm. Not your wife; you! She is your helpmate, your battle partner. But you must fight, to become the man God created you to be, so you can lead, and become worthy of your wife’s loyalty, love, and trust.

 

In essence, become the best moral example of yourself. Then and only then, will she submit to you, and allow you to be her hero, her champion. To once again, become worthy of her; the man of her dreams.

 

Your first instinct will be to resist what I’m telling you. Don’t! That’s evil, and your brainwashing from society kicking in.

 

Refuse to hear that foolishness, and to further be manipulated. Use what the Father has given you. Invoke the Holy Spirit. They will help you realize what needs to be done?

 

My proof? Consider your life up to this point. You’ve done everything and all things on your terms. My question to you?

 

HOW-HAS-THAT-WORKED-OUT-FOR-YOU!

 

Understand more on how to deal with infidelity, by exploring my page dedicated specifically to infidelity and its prevention here)

Summary

Many husbands reading this article, will complain and whine, concerning how I've painted a picture of them having to do all of the work.

The problem, most of our lives we've been conditioned to focus on the other person's faults and misdeeds. While in complete denial of our own foolishness and selfishness.

Well, I don't roll like that. You can't keep your Beloved, not to mention a cheating wife happy, by continuing to only focus on her craziness.  

You must zoom in on what you can control. And, the only person you can completely control is you. Change you; dig deep into what you can do to improve yourself. And I promise, you will look tantalizing to your Beloved.

Insert God. Realize the meaning of sacrifice and suffering, for the benefit of another. Kill your ego. Dismiss selfishness. In essence, become marketable, a great catch, a stud, a blue chipper again.

Stop being lazy! Stand up for the truth, and what's right and virtuous in this chaotic society.

Be "A Man Of Courage".

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You learned what "The Gift Of Ten" is. And where to learn more on this wonderful concept. (Subscribe to my two week email course to learn more; much more.) 
  • You also learned, how important it is to adopt the proper mindset concerning the marital embrace. Moreover, how God views the art of making love.
  • You now understand that in order to understand a cheating wife. You must first understand, what the Father expects from you concerning the gift of masculinity He's entrusted to you.
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium: 
 
Do you agree with the principles I've set forth in this article?
 
Do you know of other husbands that are taking their wives for granted? And getting a wife who is fed up; depressed; with feelings of emptiness?
 
Shoot me some comments!
 
 

 

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • Your ever growing roll as the protector and defender of your home.
  • Also, we'll cover what wives really need in a husband; not necessarily what they want. And how it's important that you realize the difference.

Catch you next article. It will be powerful!

 

Fasting And Prayer | A Husband’s Secret Weapon

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Fasting And Prayer

A Husband's Secret Weapon

 

When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her.

The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her.

The history of civilization could actually be written in terms of the level of its women.”
~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen~ Life Is Worth Living

Fasting And Prayer:

Get Rid Of Your Boring Marriage Once And For All

I was a heathen. Didn’t know, didn’t care; hated any conversations concerning God (let alone fasting and prayer). I didn’t care if the discussions were positive or negative. I didn’t want to face my morality.
 
In effect, this happens when we observe nuns in their habits, priests in their collars; God in His Glory. We sense we must at once, straighten up and fly right. In essence, we must face our morality, examine our lives; look in the mirror.
 
And in today’s society that is the exact opposite of what evil wants.
 
Have you noticed? when is the last time you encountered a nun in her habit? In fact, can you point to a nun that carries her holiness outward? Are they trying to hide? Don’t they understand, habits are their uniforms. Just as military men, police officers, firemen.
 
Moreover, don’t they realize little girls turn to them for guidance? Why do young boys gravitate towards being a policeman or fireman? Because, they encounter them on occasion. They are tangible. Something they can touch and observe. Further, someone to look up to.
 
So, where are our nuns; priests? Can’t find them. Don’t see them. To children, they are as ghosts, that can’t be seen touched or obtained. Sad, isn’t it?
 
This reason is primary for the shortage of priests and nuns. Out of sight; out of mind!
 
As a matter of fact, I view numerous priests these days that can’t wait to strip those collars off. Thus, able to move around in society incognito.
 
I just want to shout to them, “Father, we love you, we adore you, we miss you.”
“Lead us, guide us; show us the way!”

A Power; Underestimated

I coach youth football. For years an intense passion of mine. Moreover, when my two youngest sons are born, I have an inkling to get back in the game.
 
Of late, I noticed one of my player’s father wasn’t attending practice and games as usual.
 
The mother confided in me, he abandoned them for another woman. On this day, this wife and mother, showed me an outstanding example of what a faithful Christian woman and mother can do in a Godless society. If she put her mind to it.
 
Now, she is upset, but not bitter. Commencing with, she informed me that keeping her family together was foremost in her mind. Meanwhile, willing to keep working and fighting; not giving up. Although, tough.
 
Few women in our society today agree. I can hear the comments now:
 
“Girl, you need to let that fool go!”
 
“You need to move on and get yourself another man.”
 
“You don’t need him!”

Yep, Exactly What All The Miserable Say

Misery loves company. Right? The ignorant always spew this crap. Heck, I used to be one of them.
 
Earlier in my life, I would have spouted pretty much the exact same statements!
But, what I didn’t recognize, and what they don’t realize; her point is precise.
In fact, she not only leaned on the faith, but she used her common sense (Faith and logic; you can never lose.)
 
She understands her boys need their father and their mother, married; together; in the same house and attending Church.
 
Next, she realizes, even though Our Lord, doesn’t recognize divorce. He does allow for separation and demands forgiveness. But, we must always strive to bring our family back together.
 
Separation; contrary to popular view, and ignorance, is not a license to wander the earth in search of personal satisfaction.
 
In this case, satisfaction in the name of sex with other people. We must remember, children are involved. And, we are bound to set the utmost example to them (even if we fall).
 
Last of all, she understands that we’re human. And recognizes that sometimes, we just lose our dang minds.
 
Now, I’m not saying be a doormat. But, we must lean on the Father for strength in chaotic times and persevere (didn’t say change would be easy).
 
Why? Because he demands this of us. During hard and unimaginable times, he wants us to understand, we can’t and don’t have to endure suffering alone (evil is always about seeking the ruin of souls.)
 
This fact is why we need fasting and prayer.

Ah, Fasting And Prayer; This Is Grace

As our conversation ended, I’m disturbed. I’m familiar with her husband. But I sense, he’s a genuine man under attack. In truth, he’s confused and lost.
 
Although, in the future he’ll again regain his sanity. Rebounding from a debacle such as this, cannot and will not be simple.
 
Now, this conversation happened in March. In the meantime, I place the family on my prayer list. Each day I prayed, I asked God to bless and guide them. Short and simple.
 
Over the months, I observed her a few times, but we didn’t speak at length. The discussion was a polite one and short.
 
July is now here. I’m at the practice field. As I walk on to the field, I hear, “Hey coach!” I haven’t turned around, so I don’t realize who’s calling me.
 
As I turn around, I’m surprised. In fact, I’m so excited and happy, I bear hug him. It’s the husband, the boy’s father. He’s at practice.
 
You must realize, he’s been missing in action for over a year. In effect, he missed the entire previous season. Whereas the season before , he attends each game and practice.
 
Coincidence? My friend, time you learn. Nothing in this world is a coincidence. Everything is deliberate; has a plan, a purpose. If you doubt; my advice; shoo away the Father Of Lies.

You Must Enable Fasting And Prayer In Your Marriage

Even hard core Christians, announce prayer in a casual manner. As if praying is an afterthought. In like manner, they use this petition as a precursor to their idea of how to solve a particular problem.
 
I say you’re at a severe disadvantage, if you dismiss fasting and prayer in your marriage!
In the Catechism Of The Catholic Church, the paragraph states, “Issues, trials and problems in your marriage are caused by the state of sin.”
 
Not by your sin necessarily, but due to the fall. Owing to, Adams ignorant decision to defy The Father.
 
So, this natural consequence of the first sin, coupled with your unforgiven sin, may explain why your marriage is in its current state.

The Bubble

It’s vital you use fasting and prayer as a weapon to ward off evil. Ok, view  my point this way. Imagine you, your wife and family encased in a huge vulnerable bubble.
 
Also, imagine your bubble is floating 30,000 feet in the air. Furthermore, every day numerous helicopters fly around the bubble. In those helicopters are professional bowman shooting arrows at your bubble. In effect, weakening the outer layer with every shot. They are Olympic medalists (They don’t miss.)
 
Now, these arrows are sin. So, each time an arrow connects, the bubble weakens, and descends (in rapid fashion).
 
The good news is, the bubble is forever repairable. Above all, the single most effective way to repair the bubble; prayer.
 
Prayer by you for your wife. Prayer by you and your wife together. Prayer by you for your marriage. Prayer by you and your wife for your marriage. Fasting for your wife by you. Fasting for your marriage by you.
 
Again, remember the most important relationship in this world (other than The Father) you and your wife’s relationship. This must be foremost. Even before, your children.
 
Why? Because without you and your wife; no marriage; no family. In essence; no peace. You have failed in your mission (just another knucklehead out here; goalless; aimless!)
 
Fasting and prayer, provides you Grace. I visualize Grace, as a jolt of energy or power. This power pumps up your marriage.
 
While, defending your bubble against evil (which assaults you each sunrise). Grace is God’s way of protecting the Sacrament he’s blessed you with. Your bubble needs the Grace of God, each day, each week, each month, each year to survive.
 
[pullquote]Prayer in effect, asks Our Lord each day to bless and guide your marriage. In essence, to protect it, to purify it, to make it Holy![/pullquote]

Fasting?

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What in the heck is fasting? Why is fasting important to my marriage?
 
An organization of men called e5 men (e5 short for Ephesians 5) fast for their wives once a month. In addition, this group has members throughout the world.
 
THAT’S HOW VITAL FASTING IS!
 
Remember, in the previous lesson, how I spoke of sacrifice unchained? Well brother, time to step up.
 
Fasting is when you forego food for the sake, purification and sacrifice of another.
Radical idea, huh? Well, it’s not. In fact, this giving of self has been a mainstay for Christians (over 2000 years). Of note, in the Catholic Church.

The Suffering Of Christ

Numerous people haven’t a clue to what suffering really means. Even Christians fail in their understanding of Christs suffering (alone celebrating the so called risen Christ).
 
This is ludicrous! Do we for all practical purposes maintain, God lowered himself to the equivalent of a gnat (became incarnate/human).
 
Endured growing up a human child. Moreover, experiencing pain, peeing and pooping. Suffering the horrible and inhuman, indignity of crucifixion. While baring himself to the entire world.
 
Further, exposing himself to his mother? All this so you (in essence a mound of dirt) would never have to suffer one runny nose, one pain, one inconvenience? Are you insane! Do you really subscribe to this foolishness?
 
Shame on you. Shame on who ever taught you this crap.
 
Christ (Our Lord, The Father, The Almighty God, The Creator of the entire universe) didn’t suffer so you wouldn’t have to.
 
He suffered in spite of you! He came to repair an unrepairable debt that alone he could repair. What is the debt? The debt of the fall, the debt of original sin. Man, the fall screwed up everything.
 
Look, Christ came to show you his mercy. To reveal, he’s here for you. To add, he came to help us recognize that in spite of the evil in the world, we have him to lean on.
 
I mean, how can we grow, become purified, become Holy, realize Sainthood, if we don’t suffer?
 
Deacon Harold Sivers of (deaconharold.com a Deacon in the Catholic Church)has an humbling quote. He states:
 
 
Why would he proclaim this fact? The reason being, there are only Saints in Heaven (Ask around, it’s quite the unspoken truth.) The Father asks a lot more from us than being just a good person. Hey again, Don’t fall for the lies! Seek the truth.
 
How many times have you encountered an ignorant person doing dumb stuff. You in your mercy try to help him, and tell him the truth of how to ease his misery.
 
But, he doesn’t listen. In fact, he is hostile, even to you his friend. So, inside what do you say? “Well, I guess he’s a hard head and has to learn the hard way.”
 
Which means what? He has to suffer a tiny bit or maybe a lot, in order to what? Learn his lesson!
 
Understand? This concept is why The Father lowered himself to a mound of dirt. Not so you can avoid suffering. On the contrary, so you learn to sacrifice self for a greater good other than yourself.
 
This is how we sanctify (purify) ourselves and become worthy to enter the Kingdom of Heaven! Bam! Brother you have to perceive this revelation.
 
Question: Right now are you worthy to stand before The Almighty? Are you pure enough? How dirty are you?
 
[pullquote]THIS IS WHY YOU NEED YOUR WIFE; TO GIVE YOU SOMEONE TO SACRIFICE YOUR LIFE FOR[/pullquote].
Hence, fasting and prayer!
 
To make you clean, Holy, a Saint. Deep huh?
 
Contemplate the idea a little more. We’ll address it again (more in depth) later.
 

Your Wife

When you sacrifice part of yourself and deny yourself the pleasure and denial of food (fasting and prayer). You are suffering. Moreover, the remarkable point; your suffering has purpose; it has meaning (Remember, fasting is a high form of prayer.)
 
You are in fact, laying your life down for your Beloved. Why? So that God can use your suffering to help sanctify (purify) your wife. In order that she can join him in the Kingdom Of Heaven. How sweet is that?
 
Every decision, every act, every sacrifice you incur benefits your wife. Which in turn, benefits your marriage. Which in turn, benefits your family. Which in turn, spreads throughout the world for generations and generations, benefiting the entire world on your behalf. Because of your suffering for your wife. In essence, giving your life meaning and purpose.
 
BROTHER, NEVER LET YOUR BUBBLE BURST!

What can I Do?

To Save Your Marriage; To Enhance Your Marriage: Sacrifice!

Fasting And Prayer

Do Not Delay; Start Today!

  1. Pray to The Father for your wife every single day!
  2. As a husband fasting and prayer in your marriage is vital. This sacrifice (purple silk cloth with Christ's thorns on top) daily will divorce off of your tail.
    Fasting And Prayer In Marriage: This Is Sacrifice!

    Pray to The Father every day for your marriage.

  3. Without prayer, evil will penetrate your marriage and household.
    You will be attacked.
  4. This battle is real, and it’s no joke. Remain in denial if you want. Just don’t say you weren’t warned.
  5. Fast for your wife a minimum of once a month.
  6. Once you can handle this move to twice a month.
    Then at least once a week.
  7. I fast one meal daily for my wife.
  8. I can’t tell you the benefits this sacrifice has endeared upon my marriage.
  9. Fast for your marriage at least one meal a month.
  10. Begin praying with your wife for your marriage.

If you don’t have a prayer there is one below:

The Spouses Prayer:

Father, all-powerful and ever-living God, we thank you and bless your holy Name. For you created man and woman to be a help and support for each other.

Fasting and prayer is the way to enhance your marriage spiritually through the fire (rose on passionate fire) and passion of Christ
Fasting And Prayer: To Pray With Your Beloved
 
Remember us today. Protect us and enable our love to be the mutual gift of self in the image of Christ and the Church.
 
Enlighten and strengthen us for the mission of teaching our children to be authentic Christians and energetic builders of the earthly city.
 
Enable us to grow old together in joy and peace so we can always praise and thank you in our hearts through your Son in the Holy Spirit. Amen.
 
~Regnum Christi Prayer Book, Circle Press, A Division Of Circle Media

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Marriage Maintenance:

How I Save My Marriage Every Day

Fasting And Prayer

Understanding How To Sacrifice: The Basics

Below I’ve listed a few of the actions I do every day to maintain my marriage.In essence, to keep it on the right track. (See my previous article unhappy marriage? here.)
 
Just as you would do your car. You must do actions to maintain your Holy Union in the proper working condition. Otherwise, your marriage will let you down when you most need it.
 
Understand, marriage is not one thing right. It’s a ton of things right. In today’s society, we’re always searching for the quick fix. Well, your marriage isn’t a car or machine, in that context.
 
Your Sacred Union must be worked on with reckless abandonment. Never ending, never ceasing for a lifetime.
 
Never forget, marriage needs the natural as well as the supernatural to endure, to survive, to persevere. Don’t fall for the lie. Remember again, there’s no such thing as coincidence. God is not an absentee God. You ask, and He will reveal.
 
More important, He will not force you to obey, to adapt, to conform. This must be your decision. I’ve done my job. I put it out there. Now the time has come for you  to view and analyze your individual situation.

Below, I have written a partial list of actions I consider daily if not weekly.

1. Fast for my wife
2. Fast for my marriage
3. We pray together

To keep your marriage (a huge dark red cracked heart dripping in blood) out of trouble. Perform marriage maintenance (fasting and prayer) daily.
Fasting And Prayer: Keeping Your Marriage Out Of Divorce Court!
4. I attend Mass (Church) for my marriage
5. How do I sacrifice for her?
6. Am I lofting anything above our relationship?
7. Am I seeing to her needs?
8. Am I putting her needs above everyone else’s including my own?
9. Am I making her feel she is the most important person in my life.
10. Why am I her servant, how and why do I serve her?
 
These are a few things I do pertaining to prayer and sacrifice. I hope these ideas can help you in your marriage.

Summary

The ignorant and prideful husband (the one who thinks he has it all together.) Will do his damnedest to dismiss the above saviors of his marriage.

More and more, a husband with a good marriage (so he believes) will tell himself, he doesn't need to consider the above points. Well, because he thinks things are going well.

Forgive my candor, but that's total ignorance and foolishness. Are you the type of husband, who reasons his marriage is great? Yep, right up until the point your Beloved approaches you pledging, she's leaving, and taking the kids; wanting a divorce?

Can you say; plane crash!

When your Holy Union is going well is the time you should be fasting and praying. Not waiting until you have to approach the Father (shameful) because you refused to seek guidance in the bountiful times.

Please, don't be this type of husband. One that takes his good fortune for granted. I have one of the most out of this world marriages I've ever encountered. But, I never, ever take that for granted. I work hard, every single day to make my union better through fasting and prayer.

Shouldn't you? Refuse laziness!

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You learned why fasting and prayer can enhance and lead you to a bountiful and divorce free marriage.
  • You also learned that fasting is one of the most important prayers out there (including its awe inspiring power).
  • Also, prayer action steps you can begin implementing today. 
  • Finally, as usual, sacrifice. And, how using fasting and prayer as a foundation will get and keep your marriage on track.

And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium:

Do you know of a super marriage that incorporates some or all of the fasting and praying concepts I've mentioned above?
 
If so, have you ever collaborated with them? Have you ever considered asking them to adopt your marriage, and be a couple mentor for your wife and yourself?
 
Do you know of a married couple that could use these faith concepts in their marriage? Would you consider approaching them to offer your help?
 
Leave your thoughts below and let's get this conversation started!

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article In This Three Article Series, We'll Focus On:

  • The second most important category in your marriage (intimacy outside the bedroom). And how it can generate toe-curling intimacy inside the bedroom.
  • Also, we'll cover my test on the state of emotional intimacy in your marriage.
  • Next, if your marriage foundation is broken, action steps to help you reestablish it.
  • Finally, if you deem your marriage is good, how to take it to the next level. Never forget, the goal is greatness (perfection!)

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Causes With Devastating Effects

 

To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is and must always be holy.  It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to him who is holy." 
 
~Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Catholic Marriage Therapist and Author
 

Yes, causes (plural). Several possible reasons exist for sexual issues in marriages. Is your marriage fortunate to have one possibility? Or, is your Holy Union one of the unlucky, meaning two or more to wrestle with?

For this reason, I must bring you along slow. Because, I realize how big of a job you have in front of you.

Just as they proclaim about being overweight. Getting fat didn’t take a couple of weeks. So, what makes you think you’ll lose 100lbs in two weeks?

Remove the quick fix mentality from your brain right now.

If you appraise this journey is a two week or even 30 day task, you are mistaken. Now, I’m not concluding you won’t have small successes along the way.

I need you to understand, this crossroads has taken you years or in some cases decades to reach. A complicated issue, such as a sexless marriage, can't be solved as quick as tomorrow.

Most of all, I need you to dig in; get ready for a battle; persevere.

Do what I’ve addressed earlier in my previous articles; send forth your will. Tell yourself, you will smash this, as you smash a clove of garlic.

You will fight. You will endure, and sacrifice whatever is needed to succeed. Indeed, save and keep what you’ve built, what rightfully is yours by the Grace of God.

Most Common Causes Three Categories:

Emotional, Physical And Spiritual

Some of these issues are close in nature. But, for now we will separate them. In order that you can see the intricacies of how each may be a cause of intimacy problems or a sexless marriage.
 
In my experience, none of these problems can exist in a marriage. If they do, you must dig your feet in hard and fast, and solve them now! Without a doubt, you can’t procrastinate, be lazy or make excuses.
 

Again, your full focus is required to conquer this invader. An invader that’s entered, your home, your family, your marriage, and last; your bed.

Jerry Jacobs Jr. ~ Catholic Alpha
 
You must above all, decide which of these is the culprit (my bet is you have more than one). In my followup course, Marriage Unchained: INFLAMED! I cover a major secret that can help with some of these causes.
 
Moreover, devising a plan for action.

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Emotional

  1. Feelings Of Depression:
  • Each of us experiences mild depression which is normal, but severe depression is another story.
  • Depression will affect every aspect of your marriage, including the sacred union.
  1. Feelings Of Emptiness:
    Coping with the emotional fiery rampage of a sexless marriage
    Battling The Anguish In Your Marriage
  • This can cause severe promiscuity; always searching to fill that hole in your gut.
  • Drugs, pornography, money, any vice you can dream of. Problem; it’s never enough!
  1. Genital Pain (Mental):
  • There’s some mental anguish or pain that you’ve caused. She unknowingly transfers this to making sacred love, believing the sacred marital act causes her physical pain.
  1. Infidelity:
  • Chronic infidelity breaks the bond (physically and emotionally).
  • The total giving of self is impossible. Without this, you have no marriage (well, maybe on paper).
  1. Lack Of Trust:
  • Stops self-giving; self-sacrificing love in its tracks.
  • No trust, no marital intimacy. No marital intimacy; no marriage.
  1. Lack Of Vulnerability:
  • Each partner must feel vulnerable to the other. There must be something given up; something on the line.
  • Only then can you sense as though you’re giving up something for the greater good of the other.
  1. Mental Illness (severe):
  • This is self-explanatory, but is often overlooked.
  1. Premature Ejaculation:
  • 75% of men suffer this.
  • Meaning, you ejaculate before your wife has a chance to experience her first climax.
  1. Premarital Sex With Multiple Partners:
  • Each failed sexual relationship creates defensive barriers, making it difficult to create a lifelong marriage.
  1. Premarital Sex With Your Wife:
  • Cohabitation increases the chance of divorce at a high rate.
  1. Selfishness:
  • Focusing on self.
  • Unwilling to sacrifice your life for your wife.

Sexless Marriage:

Overcoming The Physical

1. Genital Pain (physical):

  • This is actual pain experienced upon penetration.
  • The pain is real and not imagined.

2. Lack Of Sexual Stamina:

You’re only able to perform in short periods, if at all.

3. Loss Of Hormones:

  • Your hormones are valuable.
  • You must learn how to hold on to them.

4. Low Sex Drive:

  • Your desire should be on demand and frequent.
  • Your wife should never be denied or have to wait for you to be in the mood for sacred intimacy.

5. No Sex Drive:

  • No matter if you are 18 or 108 your drive should always be present and available. 

6. Unable To Achieve Or Maintain An Erection:

  • Again, this cause is self-explanatory.

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  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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I mean the one and only Holy Trinity (Father; Son; Holy Spirit)

Spiritual

  1. Contraception:
  • Stops trust, stops vulnerability, stops the giving of total self, stops (emotional, physical and psychological) bonding in your marriage. (DOOMED TO FAILURE!)
  • More important, it stops children. It’s proven, the more children the less chance of divorce and marital problems.

 

  1. Didn’t Get Married In The Church:

    A sexless marriage has a facet absent of God. In essence, inviting evil to reign as a heart wrapped in a chain engulfed in fire.
    A Sexless Marriage Absent Of God
  • If you don’t understand what grace is, you better find out quick.
  • In the Catholic Faith marriage is a sacrament. This means your marriage receives special graces from God. (in short, it enhances the effects of your marriage).

 

  1. Godless Marriage:
  • God created marriage. It takes three, your odds of success are low without the Almighty.

 

  1. Prayer:
  • Prayer will save your marriage if you persevere and endure.
  • Without prayer you have no protection from the effects of “The Fall” (sin, the bad, evil).
  1. Sin
  • Bad, evil or immoral behavior crushes your marriage like a tin cup. Marriage is hard enough when you do things right.
  • It’s like swimming in the ocean against a huge wave. Problems come fast and hard. Too fast for you to fix them all.
  1. Pornography
  • Pure selfishness; causes you to turn in upon yourself
  • Only a matter of time before your marriage is over.
  • Can cause erectile dysfunction (can you say sexless marriage?)

7. Forgoing Confession

  • This is where our marriage counseling should be.
  • Confession relieves an unbelievable amount  of weight from your soul.
  • We must understand what God loves about the marital embrace. Confession is where we learn this!

My Marriage

Hey, I was there. Furthermore, I’ve had more than a few of these possibilities during my marriages.
 
Yep, my marriage was screwed up. Yet, I didn’t realize it. I was so blinded by my selfishness, it almost cost me my soulmate (experience my story here).
 
Don’t let this be you. Continue reading and begin the battle!

Summary

Many will analyze what I've stated above, and dismiss it outright.

One, because they've never considered how much their selfish past, has infected their once rapturous marriage.

But even less noticeable, once they realize most of what is said above either applies to them, or partially applies. They will get angry, or hurt feelings, and retreat back into the twilight zone of denial.

Why? Because the truth hurts. In fact, anger is usually the first response to truth. It's hard to face up to our own sins and misdeeds.

These conclusions are of course a mistake, and moreover, naive. In order to fix our selfish lives, and to claim peace. We must seek courage; embrace truth. 

Hey, no husband starts out wanting to endure the effects of intimacy problems, or more drastic, a sexless marriage (but it happens.) Why? Because men get complacent. We get lazy; the big head. In essence PRIDE!

We think we know everything. But in fact, we don't know crap. And worse yet? We refuse to look in the mirror, and admit it! Just Dumb!

 

Finally, a sexless marriage will kill your marriage (guaranteed). Sex is a gift from the Father, for the married couple. It's the only way that they can become seamless, inseparable, unbreakable; one flesh. 

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You learned the many possible reasons for the cause of intimacy problems in a marriage.
  • You also learned, an absence of God in your marriage will invite evil to reign.
  • Also, how your past immoral deeds (however you choose to look at it) is now contaminating every aspect of your union with your Beloved.
  • Finally, how in order to solve these issues, perseverance is a must.
Do you have experience, or know of a marriage that has any of the problems listed above?
 
How is that marriage surviving? Are they happy? Are they thriving?
 
Do you think a sexless marriage can endure for a lifetime?

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  • One of the most controversial verses in the bible concerning marriage.
  • And how that verse should really apply to marriage.
  • Is the Christian faith just a list of rules, or a guaranteed path to happiness, fulfillment and peace?
  • What does submit, subordinate or subject to really mean; concerning wives and marriage?
  • Understanding what the Father is asking of you, as a Christian husband.
  • And why Christ's example of masculinity, must be your course!

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