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How To Be A Man: Strategies For Beginners (Phase II) CARP017

February 4, 2019 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Be A Man...

Cracking The Code!

In this 17th episode? We continue my series on "How To Be A Man"...

We all are a slave to something in this world...The difference between being a slave to God and a slave to our own disordered passions is...Christ leads us to the best of ourselves!

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • Is it harder being a man God's way or the way of society?
  • How does living the way of society, crumble your relationship with women?
  • How do you answer the question: What kind of man are you trying to be?
  • In this weeks "Man On Fire" (1 - Part 1) with Walt Janiec, we answer the questions...
  • How and when should you decide to get married?
  • What are some ways to help you assume the spiritual headship of your family?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

How To Be A Man (Phase II) Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
  • Listen to episode 14 here: Fr. Louis Guardiola - How To Avoid Divorce And Thrive Part 2
  • Info on the television series Knightfall
  • Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

How To Be A Man (Phase II) The Ultimate Strategy

Episode 17 Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 17 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

How To Be A Man - Phase II (Quote Of The Day)

The separation of soul and body is death.

Those who separate sex and spirit are rehearsing for death.

The enjoyment of the other's personality through one's own personality, is love.

The pleasure of animal function through another's animal function is sex separated from love.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #17 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 17 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 16…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn’t crush abortion

#12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage

#13 We didn’t crush no-fault divorce

#14 We didn’t crush ecumenism

#15 Men have stopped praying

#16 Men have stopped passing on the Catholic faith to their children

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimony.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #17 in the document)

Comment on quote! (this insinuates that the corruption, coverup, and lies are at the highest levels of the Church!)

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#17) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

Men Have Stopped Being Obedient To God! (Which means they want to be their own god.)


  • This is phase 2 in our How To Be A Man Series: Strategies For Beginners.
  • You can listen to episode 2 to get phase 1.
  • It’s very difficult being a man out here; women have no clue.
  • It’s even harder being a man God’s way. Why?
  • Because we have to die to ourselves, die to our selfishness which gets in the way of our True Manhood and holiness!
  • This is why Christ came to show us how to be Authentic Men, True Men, Christian Soldiers!
  • How does dismissing God, being disobedient affect your marriage; your relationship with other women?
  • Because when you feel you have nothing higher or greater than yourself…
  • Selfishness consumes you! And you do all that you can to fill that hole in your gut.
  • But nothing never ever fills it!
  • So eventually, your wife, and your girlfriend either do what you do, or become distant, and want nothing to do with that kind of man!
  • I know a man that is determined not to submit to anything or anyone in this life.
  • He goes about his life only concerned with how much money he can make.
  • What career he can finally choose.
  • He never speaks of or is concerned with the end of his life.
  • Too him when it’s over its over.
  • I’ve tried on occasion to ask him why he believes that once he dies, he will just disappear into oblivion…
  • Therefore, terminating his existence.
  • Even though to me (even before I was Catholic) this line of thinking never really made any logical sense.
  • This man never speaks of God the Creator…
  • At least in any sense of worship, or reverence.
  • It’s always in the context of…
  • God is there, but I don’t have to acknowledge or consider anything He says, because I am my own person.
  • I can do what I want, when I want, and how I want, without any consideration to the likes of some God.
  • This is why in this country, we try our best to continually remove God from the public and eventually from our lives.
  • This way we have no real moral responsibility.
  • And answer to no real moral authority.
  • In essence, we are our own moral authority.
  • We can do, whatever we choose.
  • And we will do it as long as we feel it doesn’t break our own personal moral code.
  • But see, the problem with that thinking is…
  • Feelings, and codes can be molded, and rationalized into anything we ultimately choose.
  • And if the Truth can change than, then there really ultimately is no Truth.
  • We can make it whatever we want it to be, with no consequences or judgement from some unseen God!
  • So, as a person, if we can dismiss God.
  • If we can dismiss his moral law.
  • This then gives us the freedom, to like I said, make up our own moral law.
  • Which is forever changing according to what we think and feel.
  • Thereby becoming our own god.
  • You see, the problem with that thinking is, we all are obedient to something, and a slave to something in this world.
  • Our jobs, our careers, money, drugs, the government…
  • Our disorders such as pornography, television, movies, sex, material things, our own inner selfishness!
  • The difference between being a slave to God and a slave to our own disordered human selves is…
  • God leads us to the best of ourselves, which is complete goodness, holiness, and virtue!
  • Where being a slave to anything else is complete evil.
  • What did Satan decide (the most beautiful angel?)
  • He decided that he would rather rein in Hell, than serve in Heaven.
  • So, in essence, when we decide as a person that we will not be obedient to the will of God, we are choosing to rein in Hell.
  • And what is Satan, what is Hell, and what are we, if we choose this path?
  • Yes, we are evil!
  • And this is what’s happened to the men in the Catholic Church over the last 60 years.
  • They’ve decided ultimately that they would rather rein in Hell, than be a slave to Christ!
  • And on the surface, this may sound like a great idea…
  • But this is very short sightedness.
  • If you as a man feel like this, this means you’ve basically lost all hope.
  • You basically (whether you know it or not) are in despair.
  • Feel you’re unworthy to be happy.
  • Basically, hopelessness.
  • And my friend, if you feel this way, it means that the Evil One has infiltrated your mind, and soul.
  • And worse, convinced you that you aren’t worthy of God.
  • You see, the devil loves company.
  • I leave you with two questions…
  • What kind of man are you trying to be?
  • And if there is no God, then why try and be good, or have any kind of moral code, if when you die, it’s the end of your existence?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Man On Fire (1-part 1)...

With Walt Janiec

Man On Fire - is our segment on married men who are fighting the spiritual battle in the Catholic Church every day to protect their marriage and family by sacrificing their lives, bodies, hearts, and souls, for our ultimate warrior Christ!

And our Man On Fire this week is Walt Janiec

Of Our Lady Of The Most Holy Rosary Catholic church In Indianapolis, IN

Walt has been married for 12yrs

To his beloved wife Veda

He has two children Christine and Joseph

Please join me in welcoming our Man On Fire Walt Janiec


  • So, tell me Walt, how did you grow up with Christ, were you a cradle Catholic or are you a convert?
  • Growing up, was God in your family?
  • When did you really fall head over heels for Christ and His Church?
  • Was your father into God when you were growing up more, or was your mother the one trying to lead everyone to God? If it was your mother, did that change before you graduated from high school?
  • What made you to decide to get married in general?
  • How did you meet your beloved wife Veda?
  • What attracted you to your wife, and why did you marry her?
  • How and why did you propose to your wife Veda?
  • When did you start to realize that you had to become the leader and spiritual guide of your family?
  • Did Veda resist? If so, did feminism have a role to play in it?
  • If not, why do you think she didn’t resist, and allowed you to lead your family?

Conclusion

I hope you enjoyed part one of my Man On Fire interview with my friend Walt Janiec?

Stay ready for the second part of his interview coming in episode 18!

 

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

How To Be A Man (Phase II) Tips For Men!

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The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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FR. Louis Guardiola: How To Avoid Divorce And Thrive! Part 2 – CARP014

December 24, 2018 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Avoid Divorce ...Shhh, It's Top Secret!

FR. Louis Guardiola

In this 14th episode? How to avoid divorce; With FR. Louis Guardiola (part 2).

We are now engaged in the foggy faith, the watered-down, vague version…The Christian faith no-body understands or can concretely agree upon.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • What is Ecumenism? And why should you as a husband/boyfriend care?
  • Should the Catholic Church come off it's so-called high horse as the one true Christian faith?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola answers: Is it a grave mistake for married couples to exclude God from their bedroom?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola answers: What to do if you hate being around your wife?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola answers: Should a man marry his best friend?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

How To Avoid Divorce Part 2 Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man) - More on the deliberate infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church.
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • FR. Louis Guardiola (How To Avoid Divorce) Part 2 interview here!
  • Catholic Answers Article on: Is Ecumenism A Heresy?
  • Fathers Of Mercy Website: Retreats, conferences, parish missions etc. Fathers Of Mercy Website Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
  • For Serious Marriage Problems: Retrouvaille Marriage Help!
  • For Help Improving And Maintaining A Good Marriage: Worldwide Marriage Encounter
  • Vatican II Council Declaration On Ecumenism: Unitatis Redintegratio
  • Pope Pius XI Encyclical (On Religious Unity): Mortalium Animos

How To Avoid Divorce: A Timeless Strategy...

Episode 14- Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 14- BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

How To Avoid Divorce (Quote Of The Day)

Certain Victorians in their education practically denied sex as a function of personality;

Certain sexophiles of modern times deny personality and make a god of sex.

The male animal is attracted to the female animal,

but a human personality is attracted to another human personality.

The attraction of beast to beast is physiological;

the attraction of human to human is physiological, psychological, and spiritual.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #14 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 14 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 13…


#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn’t crush abortion

#12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage

#13 We didn't crush no-fault divorce


Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimony.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #14 in the document)

Comment on quote! (this insinuates that the corruption, coverup, and lies are at the highest levels of the Church!)

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#14) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

We didn’t crush Ecumenism!


  • What is Ecumenism?
  • Basically, a hope for a one world religion, while the Catholic faith bargains or compromises the Truth of Christ.
  • In order to persuade the protestants to return to God’s one true Church (Catholicism)
  • On Catholic Answers, there is an article written by Fr. Brian Harrison speaking and comparing two documents on Ecumenism.
  • Vatican’s II’s fallible decree on Ecumenism (Unitatis Redintegratio)
  • Represents a significant departure from traditional doctrine.
  • It severely, contradicts Pope Pius XI’s 1928 encyclical on fostering true religious unity…
  • Mortalium Animos (meaning On Religious Unity)
  • This document was created to recite the Catholic Church’s position in response to the fledgling movement for religious unity…
  • Which had been gathering steam in the liberal protestant circles since the late 19th and early 20th
  • In this article Fr. Harrison basically ends up stating that the document in Vatican II isn’t as bad as it seems.
  • And that it doesn’t really contradict Pope Pius’s Encyclical that much.
  • But I say, what I always say about Vatican II…
  • It says a lot of Truth, but hides in the murky waters underlined themes that have caused the last 60 years of tragedy in the Catholic Church!
  • In his document Pope Pius XI flatly forbade any Catholic participation in interchurch or inter-religious meetings and activities motivated by the desire for restoring Church unity.
  • Vatican II authorizes and positively encourages catholic participation in such activities, within certain limits!
  • We have to realize and wonder, who is evangelizing who here?
  • Christ’s word is not a debate; a compromise…
  • The Truth is the Truth!
  • And who has authority in interpreting that Truth?
  • Methodists? Baptists? Jehovah Witnesses? Muslims?
  • Who did Christ leave in charge and give authority to carry on His Church as He returned to His Father?
  • Yep, Peter the first Pope of the Catholic Church!
  • And as usual people who don’t understand Christ and His faith, and only deal in emotion, are delusional!
  • You know the President Obama “hope for change” or Bishop Barron’s “there is a reasonable hope that all men are saved” ideology.
  • Basically meaning no one really goes to hell…
  • Hell, according to many of them, even Judas is not in hell!
  • Look either Christ is God or he isn’t!
  • Either what he said in the Gospels is complete Truth or it isn’t?
  • Either God is incapable of lying or he is!
  • If Christ is the God Man, and can’t lie, and has revealed His Truth in the Gospels, and we love him, and want to please him (which means plain and simple; obedience)…
  • Then compromising on His word in any form is Heretical.
  • And if Christ left Simon Peter in charge (who is the first pope)
  • Which also means every Bishop in Peter’s line (the Magisterium of the Catholic Church) has complete authority to interpret and administer God’s dogma, doctrine, and discipline.
  • Basically, the Catholic Church should be presenting the protestants with God’s word (the truth) and they should be learning what God truly revealed in the Catholic faith not fighting it.
  • Basically listening, instead of talking!
  • Protestants say the Catholic Church is arrogant, and many ignorant Catholics say the same…
  • Because we claim we are the True Church and that Christ left us in Charge.
  • I’m going to mention two scriptures that give us complete authority, and the right to claim this fact.
  • One: (Matthew 16:18) I also say to you that you are Peter, and upon this rock I will build My church; and the gates of Hades will not overpower it.
  • Two: (Matthew 18:18) Amen I say to you, whatsoever you shall bind upon earth, shall be bound also in heaven; and whatsoever you shall loose upon earth, shall be loosed also in heaven.
  • Catholics should be proud and thankful Christ charged us with holding His Church together.
  • But many of us are ashamed, of our duty and role in this matter!
  • The Truth is the Truth; there can only be one.
  • Our job as Catholics is to present the protestants with the truth.
  • They then have the free will to deny God’s Word or accept it!
  • There can be no compromise!
  • And we’ve seen what compromise has done to not only the Catholic Church, but Christians worldwide.
  • We are now engaged in the foggy faith, the watered-down, vague version…
  • The faith no-body understands or can concretely agree upon.
  • Is this what Christ wanted, 40,000 so-called denominations…
  • All fighting with each other, and compromising on what he’s revealed?
  • Compromise when it comes to the Christian faith causes utter confusion?
  • This is how you destroy the family…
  • this is how you get women to murder millions of babies…
  • this is how you get priests to abuse boys…
  • this is how you control the masses…
  • make everything foggy and debatable!
  • And again, what did the men in the Catholic faith do?
  • Sit back, remain distracted, become wusses, and ate bon bons!
  • How is that for Truth?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Warrior Stories...

FR. Louis Guardiola: How To Avoid Divorce; It's Not Too Late!

Warrior Stories - is our segment on Ordained men who are fighting the spiritual battle in the Catholic Church every day through sacrificing their lives, bodies, hearts, and souls, for our ultimate warrior Christ!

  • And today’s warrior is Father Louis Guardiola of The Fathers Of Mercy Generalate in South Union, Kentucky.
  • Ordained – May 31st, 2001
  • Current outreach – Is the Fathers Of Mercy where he preaches retreats, parish missions, conferences, and 40 hours devotions.
  • Father Guardiola studied under Fr. John Hardon as a Lay Catechist for 7 years.
  • FR. Guardiola also hosts his on radio show on Alpha International Radio every Wednesday from 3-4 eastern!
  • Please welcome Father Louis Guardiola!

How To Avoid Divorce Court...

Interview With FR. Louis Guardiola (Part 2)

Relationship Questions


  1. Today, married couples are encouraged to exclude God from their bedrooms. Why is this a grave mistake? And what are three ways married couples can involve God more in their sex lives. And what are the benefits to doing this?
  2. Name the worst marriage situation you’ve encountered in your counseling sessions, and how did you handle it?
  3. Name the worst singles relationship situation you’ve encountered in your counseling sessions, and how did you handle it?
  4. If a husband hates being around his wife, what are some things he can do to remedy this.
  5. Should a man marry his best friend (why or why not)
  6. If a wife finds that her husband hates spending time with her, what can she do to remedy this?
  7. If a man is courting/dating and starts to realize that his girlfriend is not the one for him. How should he handle it?
  8. If a husband is having thoughts of infidelity. What can he do spiritually to fight this urge?
  9. What is the funniest, worst or best, experience, you’ve ever had when trying to evangelize someone?
  10. Please tell us more about the Fathers Of Mercy and Their Mission. (don’t ask this it’s part of the above: Do you have any special projects, or causes going on right now?)

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

I hope you enjoyed part 2 of my interview with my distinguished guest, FR. Louis Guardiola of The Fathers Of Mercy?

 

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

How To Avoid Divorce Tips For Men!

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FR. Louis Guardiola: How To Avoid Divorce And Thrive! – CARP013

December 17, 2018 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Avoid Divorce The Old School Way...

FR. Louis Guardiola

In this 13th episode? How to avoid divorce; With FR. Louis Guardiola (part 1).

Gentlemen, we should be completely ashamed of ourselves, and disgusted with what we are not! A hero to which our boys can aspire too!

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • Has no-fault divorce really protected wives from abuse, and was no-fault divorce necessary to accomplish this?
  • Has no-fault divorce helped women and their cause for fulfillment?
  • Has no-fault divorce really helped children be more happy?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola, why did he become a priest?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola; What is his biggest challenge as a priest in today's modernistic Church?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

How To Avoid Divorce Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man) - More on the deliberate infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church.
  • Catechism Of The Catholic Church (on no-fault divorce)
  • Scripture Verses (on no-fault divorce)
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • FR. Louis Guardiola (How To Avoid Divorce) Part 2 interview here!
  • MaryAdvocates.org article on no-fault divorce: US Catholic Bishops vs No-fault Divorce
  • Fathers Of Mercy Website: Retreats, conferences, parish missions etc. Fathers Of Mercy Website Here!

How To Avoid Divorce In A Divorce Culture?

Episode 13- Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 13 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

How To Avoid Divorce (Quote Of The Day)

There are two extremes to be avoided in discussing married love:

one is the refusal to recognize sexual love,

the other is the giving of primacy to sexual attraction.

The first error was Victorian;

the second is Freudian.

To the Christian, sex is inseparable from the person,

and to reduce the person to sex,

is as silly as to reduce personality to lungs or a thorax.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #13 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 13 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 10…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn’t crush abortion

#12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimony.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #13 in the document)

Comment on quote! (this insinuates that the corruption, coverup, and lies are at the highest levels of the Church!)

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#13) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

We didn’t crush no-fault divorce!


  • The first laws for allowing no-fault divorce sprang up in California in 1970.
  • Signed into law by no other than Ronald Reagan, who was a divorcee himself.
  • Sounds like a definite conflict of interest to me.
  • Anyway, no-fault divorce has been a catastrophe for the family, and for the stability of our country.
  • No-fault divorce is utter selfishness.
  • It claims to protect the wife from cruelty and abuse.
  • And to protect the well-being of the children,
  • But this is complete crap. And everyone inherently knows it.
  • Let’s look at the so-called fruits of no-fault divorce.
  • It’s made a lot of money for the lawyers and courts,
  • which has no urgency to change the laws, even though the family is completely devastated.
  • Women file for no-fault divorce a lot more than men.
  • Which means they feel unloved, uncherished, and unfulfilled!
  • The big claim is children are happier with no-fault divorce.
  • That is complete non-sense as we all know, children could care less about the happiness of their parents.
  • What they want is their mom and dad married, together in the same home.
  • More unhappiness for women. Women are miserable as they are tasked with tons and tons of work and responsibility.
  • Wow! This really sounds like freedom and happiness to me!
  • If you talk to most men and women who’ve had a divorce…
  • they will tell you that they wish they would have stuck in there.
  • Why?
  • Because the grass is usually never greener.
  • And going through tough times makes the marriage much stronger…
  • which makes the family stronger, and this shows the children how to stick it out and make it work, even when things are crappy.
  • This is why God, doesn’t allow divorce…
  • Because he knows this.
  • I read an article recently by the Mary’s Advocates.org website speaking on this subject.
  • They do a very good job of separating out the differences between the secular world’s idea of divorce and the Catholic idea of divorce.
  • Here is how they compare the two:
  • No-fault-divorce (civil-so-called-marriage)
  • The relationship starts when two people marry each other and a state-approved witness signs a wedding license.
  • Thereafter, parties can jointly own property and jointly have parental rights over children they bear.
  • Obligations to which they agree to adhere are:
  • One: Upon request by either party, the marriage shall be terminated…
  • with no distinction made between the party that wants to end the marriage and the party that does not want to end it.
  • Two: By default, marital property will be split 50/50.
  • Three: By default, one parent will lose everyday access to his children most of the time…
  • and the other parent will lose everyday access to the children some of the time.
  • Four: Children will be court-ordered to go back and forth between mother and father.
  • Five: One parent (usually the one that loses the children most of the time, or the one that earns the most money) will be ordered to pay the other parent money for years.
  • Some number of parties in the U.S.A. want to enter this kind of marriage, wherein they never intend to promise permanence…
  • and always want the possibility to opt out for any reason.
  • Catholics would consider those marriages invalid, because the party is rejecting an essential property/element of marriage.
  • Now let’s look at a True Catholic Marriage…
  • The relationship starts when two people say they want to be married for life, open to children, sexually faithful, and agree they will be oriented toward each other’s good.
  • The marriage starts when they exchange promises that are witnessed by a priest.
  • Obligations to which they agree to adhere are:
  • One: They will maintain an intact home with their family under one roof.
  • Two: One spouse will have a basis for separation only if the other does something terrible violating the marriage promises (such as adultery, dangerous abuse, serious cruelty).
  • Three: Thereafter, both shall uphold obligations that are in accord with divine law and natural law, as judged in accordance with the Catholic Code of Canon law.
  • We must remember that the current bishops and priests over the age of 60 or so grew up in this mess!
  • And with the watering down of the faith in the sixties more exact after Vatican 2, these men had no moral center to rely on.
  • So, what did they do?
  • They made up their own laws drowned in selfishness and pleasure.
  • They were not taught the True Christian faith, so they basically reject it now that they are in power.
  • And they systematically make vanish anyone that opposes them.
  • They rationalize their behavior because they have power and great access to money.
  • And because the laity men in the Catholic faith don’t hold them accountable in anyway.
  • Why?
  • Because we are fat, happy, and comfortable just the way things are.
  • The women do everything, while we sit around engaging in enormous, and short-lived pleasure-seeking activities.
  • We deny any responsibility or duty to our God, church, marriage, children, and society, and how it turns out.
  • It’s said in the Catholic faith that God sends us the leaders we deserve!
  • And wow, how we’ve earned the ones we have in spades.
  • We should be completely ashamed of ourselves.
  • And disgusted with what we are not!
  • A hero to which our boys can aspire too!

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Warrior Stories...

FR. Louis Guardiola: How To Avoid Divorce Like A Pro!

Warrior Stories - is our segment on Ordained men who are fighting the spiritual battle in the Catholic Church every day through sacrificing their lives, bodies, hearts, and souls, for our ultimate warrior Christ!

  • And today’s warrior is Father Louis Guardiola of The Fathers Of Mercy Generalate in South Union, Kentucky.
  • Ordained – May 31st, 2001
  • Current outreach – Is the Fathers Of Mercy where he preaches retreats, parish missions, conferences, and 40 hours devotions.
  • Father Guardiola studied under Fr. John Hardon as a Lay Catechist for 7 years.
  • Please welcome Father Louis Guardiola!

How To Avoid Divorce?

Interview With FR. Louis Guardiola (Part 1)

Background Questions


  1. How did you grow up with Christ, were you a cradle Catholic or are you a convert?
  2. Growing up, was God in your family?
  3. What happened to prompt you to consider becoming a priest?
  4. What orders or seminaries did you visit, who did you talk to, to help you decide?
  5. In the end what was the determining factor that put your decision over the top, to give your life to God forever?
  6. What gives you the courage to speak the truth of Christ from the pulpit and not consider the consequences to yourself?
  7. How has the current 2018 crisis in the Catholic Church affected you?
  8. When you first heard his testimonial, what was your first instinct, to dismiss it or believe Archbishop Vigano?
  9. How do you think the Church has gotten to this point, and what has to be done to cleanse it?
  10. What is your #1 challenge as a priest?

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

I hope you enjoyed part 1 of my interview with my distinguished guest, FR. Louis Guardiola of The Fathers Of Mercy?

 

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

How To Avoid Divorce Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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