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How To Save My Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up

What Every Husband Should Know (show notes)

In this 80th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: The many ways contraception (aka birth control) can and does destroy Christian marriages!

"Birth control will end your marriage. The reason why is, your wife will begin to feel used only for her body and flesh and not her soul, heart, and mind as God intended."

Jerry Jacobs Jr. ~ Catholic Alpha

  • In this 80th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: The many ways contraception (aka birth control) can and does destroy Christian marriages!
  • In this 80th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • Holy Lover Gift #3: Why women are severely damaged when they use birth control in marriage!
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions.
  • Caller #1 – How can I get my husband to do what I want?
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Episode 80- Show Script

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Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 80th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: How to save my marriage when my wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever!)

Today we uncover Gift #3

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

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Quote Of The Day

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Over the next four weeks I will give you quotes directly from the diary of Church mystic and saint…St. Maria Faustina. Who was shown four visions

1) A vision of before Heaven and before Hell, which we will visit today.

2) A vision of Hell.

3) A vision of Purgatory

4) A vision of Heaven.

Saint Faustina: Her tour of Hell:

[QUOTE]”Today, I was led by an Angel to the chasms of hell.

It is a place of great torture; how awesomely large and extensive it is!

The kinds of tortures I saw: the first torture that constitutes hell is the loss of God;

the second is perpetual remorse of conscience;

the third is that one’s condition will never change;

the fourth is the fire that will penetrate the soul without destroying it, a terrible suffering, since it is a purely spiritual fire, lit by God’s anger;

the fifth torture is conditional darkness and a terrible suffocating smell, and despite the darkness,

the devils and the souls of the damned see each other and all the evil, both of others and their own;

the sixth torture is the constant company of Satan,

the seventh torture is horrible despair, hatred of God, vile words, curses and blasphemies.

These are the tortures suffered by all the damned together, but that is not the end of the sufferings.

There are special tortures destined for particular souls.

These are the torments of the senses.

Each soul undergoes terrible and indescribable sufferings, related to the manner in which it has sinned.

There are caverns and pits of torture where one form of agony differs from another.

I would have died at the very sight of these tortures if the omnipotence of God had not supported me.

Let the sinner know that he will be tortured throughout all eternity, in those senses which he made use of to sin.

I am writing this at the command of God,

so that no soul may find an excuse by saying there is no hell,

or that nobody has ever been there, and so, no one can say what it is like.

I, sister Faustina, by the order of God, have visited the abysses of hell so that I might tell souls about it and testify to its existence.

I cannot speak about it now; but I have received a command from God to leave it in writing.

The devils were full of hatred for me, but they had to obey me at the command of God.

What I have written is but a pale shadow of the things I saw.

But I noticed one thing:

that most of the souls there are those who disbelieved that there is a hell.

When I came to, I could hardly recover from the fright.

How terribly souls suffer there!

Consequently, I pray even more fervently for the conversion of sinners.

I incessantly plead God’s mercy upon them.

O my Jesus, I would rather be in agony until the end of the world, amidst the greatest sufferings, then offend You by the least sin.” [END QUOTE]

~Diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska, #741

 

 

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men…

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series…

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”…

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

… and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest…

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever…

Will help and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you…

Becoming the man God created you to be…

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle…

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must…

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword…

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?…

Return to your man cave…or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #3…

Which states…

A Holy Lover rejects contraception (aka birth control) in any form.

Make no mistake…

The battle for your marriage is a spiritual battle.

And as the man of the home the defender from evil…

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle…

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is…

Will you cooperate?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

So as promised…

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up…

Holy Lover Gift #3…

A Holy Lover rejects contraception (aka birth control) in any form.

Understanding birth control and its evil in your marriage is vital to your role as a husband and the fulfillment of your wife.

Why?

Because birth control will end your marriage.

The reason why is, your wife will begin to feel used only for her body and flesh and not her soul, heart, and mind as God intended.

Her instincts will eventually kick in, and she will realize all the time she has wasted in selfishness and more important her lack of mission in having children.

This is in the natural law of all women.

No matter if they are a feminazi or a regularly ordered woman.

I will get push back on this, but don’t kill the messenger…take it up with God!

Why would God say in Genesis be fruitful and multiply?

How much more direct can He be?

See, this brings me again to the complete selfishness and brokenness of the human person.

We only want to do what we want to do, without much consideration for our fellow man.

And not understanding how birth control harms marriage, the family, and society is selfish and irresponsible at the least.

I had a friend’s wife tell me one time that God only directed (be fruitful and multiply) because at the time Adam and Eve were banished and there were no people on the earth.

And you know that does sound logical. But is it what God willed?

This is why we must understand how evil works.

It always, I mean always, sounds logical and true; at first.

But that’s Satan’s way of misdirecting your attention away from God, and focusing on him.

Also with the added degree of selfishness and the need to do what we want, instead of what God wants, makes it really easy to participate in what evil is tempting us to do.

I must ask you the question of, why would God prohibit birth control?

Is he trying to be a tyrant, mean, or unmerciful?

Or maybe he created us, and since he did, he understands what will make us truly happy?

So, here is what the men in the Catholic Church did…

They began to try and chip away at what God was asking, and developing committees to trying to subvert the teaching, to suit our selfishness our brokenness.

Such as…

The Pontifical Commission on Birth Control – 1963 started by Pope John XXIII – in which 80 percent of the commission voted to change the churches teaching on birth control.

And since the Church didn’t really speak out or fight this, it was seen as a good way to go!

And when the Church doesn’t speak out then society takes over, which led to the…

1965 Supreme Court decision (Griswold v. Connecticut) which gave married couples the right to use birth control, ruling that it was protected in the Constitution as a right to privacy.

So then, then, The Church chimed in with…

Pope Paul VI creating his encyclical on rejecting contraception in 1968 called Humanae Vitae (latin for - Of Human Life)

Which came out way too late as the court decision had already taken place.

So, now that we understand a little about the things that led to the acceptance of birth control,

Let’s examine the reasoning behind God’s rejection of it, and the results of Contraception, on the family, and society!

So, again, why would God ban birth control?

First, it goes against the directive in Genesis to be fruitful and multiply.

Why?

Because, God created us for what?

To love him and serve him and spend eternity with him.

See, this is God’s way of sharing his divine existence with us.

He didn’t have to create us. He didn’t need us.

But, he wanted us to partake in his joy.

So, this is why he bans contraception,

Because birth control aborts the souls God sends the married couple, before those souls even have a chance to be born!

Which does what…

Stops saints and souls from being created, to send back to him, to spend eternity with him in the beatific vision (Heaven)

Just as he sent Christ to come down to forgive, and die for our sins.

Why?

Because we can’t forgive our own sins, because sin is infinite, and must be forgiven, and demolished by an infinite being, which is God himself.

God is merciful, Kind, and just. He wants as many souls with him in heaven as possible!

And when we use birth control, we prevent the complete love, joy, happiness, and holiness that God wants for us.

Moreover, contraception kills those souls.

Just as abortion of that soul once implanted in the mother is murder, contraception is murder as well.

So, what are the results of contraception on our society?

First, women are looked upon as objects and eating utensils.

Women no longer nurture, educate, or create the amount of children God has in store for them.

Selfishness rules marriage, and the family, and society.

Which has spawned unimaginable divorce rates worldwide.

No fault divorce - Same-sex marriage, because if people don’t understand marriage, and what it’s meant for they make up their own definitions

Next, pornography, masturbation, rape, sex abuse of children, the gay life style, all stem from contraception.

Why, because when people don’t understand the complete reasoning behind a law or rule, they make up their own.

Many Christian sects have stopped teaching and explaining the True Word of God, so people have just stopped listening!

When a married couple practices birth control, it destroys the complete self-giving and the one-flesh concept.

This basically means, God is absent. Because the trinity runs from the evil of birth control.

Again, this kills the souls God sends to the married couple for one-flesh, for happiness, for souls they must make into saints to send back to him!

Women aren’t stupid, and even though they choose to take birth control, their nature, and their bodies, understand that she is only being used for her sex organs, and not for the divine God like act of procreation.

Without her God given right, to complete love, and self-giving love from her husband, her soul will begin to reject him, and eventually their marriage!

So, what about having sex outside of marriage plus using birth control?

This practice is doubly bad, and is why many single people having sex end up in misery, and a broken soul; full of walls, and defense mechanisms!

Look, when are we going to learn that selfishness is not the way, it only brings unhappiness, death, and chaos.

As men, husbands, and fathers, we must understand the true reason Our Lord came as man to die for us…

Can we say Death, judgement, heaven, hell?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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The Real Meaning Of Love...

What No One's Telling You!

In this 24th episode? We discover and cover Holy Lover Marriage Tactic #3. As well as these other important lessons...

Look, Authentic Men, True Men, Men Of Courage, have fortitude, perseverance, fight, and long suffering. Why? To have the fortitude to remain and engage in battle with the Evil One

Catholic Alpha

 

  • What is the True meaning of love according to Christ and His Church?
  • You're in love; But what happens to your marriage when the warm and fuzzy feeling is gone?
  • Will your children survive a divorce, will they be so-called OK?
  • Why does God strip away your emotions, as you move through the levels of faith?
  • Why can't you trust a person who relies on emotion?

Can you afford to miss this?

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Improve My Marriage Today Episode

 

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Holy Lover Alpha Marriage Tactic #3

Episode 24 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 24 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

One Thing To Improve Your Catholic Marriage Today!

Quote Of The Day

Love Love is trinity; sex is duality.
But there are many other differences between the two.
Sex rationalizes; love does not.
Sex has to justify itself with Kinsey Reports, "But Freud told us," or "No one believes that today";
love needs no reasons. Sex asks science to defend it;
love never asks "Why?" It says, "I love you."
Love is its own reason. "God is love." [End Quote]

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

The Holy Lover Marriage Tactic #3...

One Thing To Improve Your Catholic Marriage Today...

It’s time for the Catholic Alpha Marriage Tactic – A series of marriage tactics that will transform you from zero to hero!

But only if you drop the laziness, aloofness, and pride; and actually do them!

Consider; Is your marriage passionless, lackluster, mediocre, or currently in the toilet? Want to get it back on track (Make It Great?)

Then consider today’s Alpha Marriage Tactic #3! Either listen to me now, or I guarantee; you’ll be looking for me, or someone like me, later!

So, What Is Alpha Marriage Tactic #3: You Must Realize Love Is Not An Emotion!

What is the real meaning of love?

More important, what is Christ’s (The Catholic Church) meaning of love?

I’ll sit here for a second a let you think about it. 1…2…3…

Is the meaning of love a completely emotional thing?

Is it a fine feeling in your loins?

Is it some unattainable possession that is illusive and tricky to keep hold of?

We all presume, we understand love.

Love makes me feel special.

Love makes me feel good.

Love makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

Love makes me feel like loving my wife, my children, my parents.

But what happens, when so-called love, doesn’t feel warm and fuzzy anymore?

What happens when you don’t feel so-called “in love” anymore?

What-happens-then? To your marriage; your Beloved; your relationship with Christ?

I’ll tell you what happens…

They're screwed!

Why?

Because now, since I don’t feel the love anymore…

that’s my excuse to abandon my marriage; and, to find a home wrecker to shack up with.

Oh, but only until I get tired of her.

So, we leave and desert our families.

But naively rationalize, somehow, they will be ok; they will survive.

“Stop lying to yourself!” is what I say.

This reasoning is just an excuse to indulge in total selfishness.

You know it. I know it. And more important; God knows it!

Now, let’s look at this in more logical, common sensical perspective.

Question: Concerning Love, Are You Classically Catholic Or Secular?

What is love? Is it an emotion; a feeling?

Well, according to the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church)…

“Love is willing the good of another, at the sacrifice of one’s self!”

Bam!

You see? Love Is An Act Of The Will!

We as men, make a conscious decision, to love, honor, and cherish, our wives for eternity.

Not until, I don’t feel the feeling anymore!

Sure, don’t get me wrong. Having a warm, fuzzy feeling is nice.

It’s a motivator; makes us sense euphoria and it’s pleasurable…

Something we are definitely used too!

And as a benefit, the closer you grow to Christ, you may experience this emotion.

On the other hand, as you move through the levels of the faith. God will strip those emotions away.

Further, you’ll have to depend on your will, to sustain you.

Look, let’s break it down to the core.

Love is a decision, a commitment, a burning fire within the will saying, “I will do this!”

“No matter what happens; no matter the cost.”

“No matter, how-I-feel!”

“Moreover, I am a man; a Christian Soldier.”

“I will myself to love my wife, even if she no longer loves me.”

Do you get it?

Brother, feelings are fleeting!

They come and go.

If you base your love on emotion, your logic, and intellect are severely affected.

Moreover, I can’t trust anything you say.

Why?

Because emotions are completely unpredictable.

And a person that relies on them can seem completely crazy one minute…

And the next minute seem quite sane.

Again, which are you?

What Should Your View Be Concerning Love?

I’m warning you…This Might Hurt!

So, what stance on love in the end, will make us happy?

After all, God understands, relying on feelings will eventually let us down.

They will lead us astray; Abandon us!

Not to mention, when it comes to the critical areas of our life (faith and marriage).

But the intellect, “the will”, is something on a higher level. It never leaves.

Our “will”forces us to use logic; common sense.

Even when our emotions, guide us in the wrong direction. To say, “Abandon God, or our Beloved.”

This is why the Catholic Faith is the Bomb!!!

God realizes, we come to Him as an act of our wills.

Not because we suppose today, we love Him…

Or, tomorrow we despise Him…because we didn’t get our way.

Look, Authentic Men, True Men, Men Of Courage, have fortitude, perseverance, fight, and long suffering.

Why?

To have the fortitude to remain and engage in battle with the Evil One…

In order to, To protect his Beloved; To defend his Beloved; To serve his Beloved.

And to tell themselves, we will never leave. We will never stop battling. Even until the death.

Why?

Because my friend…This is just what True Man does!

So, what's the solution?

So, what’s the solution?

Here are some things that will help…

Three items to help you slash emotion and embrace your will…

  • Strive to become your wife’s best friend…
  • It’s vital that you put this into place asap.
  • Also remember that it takes three to make love…
  • God, your Beloved, and yourself!
  • Realize that our current society relies on emotion
  • You as a man are bound by logic not emotion.
  • Understand, if you rely on feelings, they will eventually let you down and make a fool out of you.
  • You can never sustain your love for your Beloved, and if that happens divorce court is in your future.
  • Authentic masculinity is of Christ, of God, and of True Man
  • Prayer
  • I know, I always place this in the marriage tactics…
  • I have too, because St. Thomas Aquinas says that without prayer you cannot be saved!
  • So, you must contemplate how this statement pertains to your marriage, which is the most important thing in your life!
  • Sign Up For The Marriage Master at SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com!
  • This will get you started and give you some ideas and guidance on what you can do to begin fixing your marriage, or better preventing chaos!
  • Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and click the button to enter the Marriage Masterclass!

Next, here are Three Benefits to working on Tactic #3 (Realizing Love Is Willing The Good Of Another)

  • First, If you ignite your will, your marriage will stand the test of time.
  • Second, as long as you possess love, commitment, perseverance, your marriage will rival the greatest in the history of mankind.
  • Third, Freedom: understanding that you’ve ignited your will and told yourself that I will love my wife no matter what…
  • This gives you a certain freedom that demands that your mind focuses on success, rather than abandonment of your pearl (your marriage!)

What are the consequences of failing to follow the Alpha Marriage Tactic #3 (Realizing Love Is Not An Emotion!)

  • Your marriage will eventually become chaotic. It will happen slow, but it will come!
  • Instead of focusing on getting out, or getting away, you will focus on ways to succeed, and make sure that she feels loved, protected and secure!
  • Your marriage will fill with love, respect, and devotion, because your wife believes that no matter what, you are all in, you are here for the long haul…
  • Even if she is paralyzed and you must wipe her butt!

So, what do you think?

Send your questions to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

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Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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 In this third episode, we tackle dating and courting. The differences, and harm for women, when men decide to misuse their power!

Also, my radical rant on the current scandal in the Catholic Church! And my top reasons how men have caused this tragedy!

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Episdode 3 - Show Notes...

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! (episode 3) – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage - BAM!

Now Let’s-Do-This!

Quote of the Day –

[QUOTE] “To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy." [END QUOTE]

Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Catholic Marriage Therapist and Author of Holy Sex: A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing Infallible Loving

Why I Do This?

My Story – Going to do this in four parts

Why Do I Do this? Because, I was sick and tired of being sick and tired!

I had to do something!

Part 1: Was my first child story

Part 2: Focused on My first marriage story

Part 3: My Second Marriage Story

  • I tell this so you can see where I have been and the pain that led me to this point to stand up and do something!
  • With the death of my first wife, it made me realize I couldn’t raise my boys without a mother.
  • Started out good
  • Started foster care
  • Made our family hectic especially as newly weds
  • Trying to bring my wife and her daughter together with my boys.
  • Strain on our marriage and family began
  • lost job
  • got evicted
  • lost car
  • severe money problems
  • sever problems with parents, grandparents, siblings!
  • My wife never got upset, never complained.
  • But I was failing miserably as a man and a husband!
  • Looking back had no real idea of what it meant to be a man.
  • At the time I had no idea that these three major events in my life was God trying to tell me to straighten up and get it together.

Adversity and trials is how God brings you to holiness

Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reason Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

Before I start – This will be a 21episode series (one per show)

Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism was planned in order to destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.

Why was this done?

To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism!

If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.

Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. You don’t leave Christ for Judas!

Why? Because Judas leads you to hell!

We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!

You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

So let’s get started with number three of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

Let’s review the first two…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

So now with #3 of the top 21 reasons men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church (Christ’s Church)

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Cardinal Carlo Maria Vigano.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, society, work)

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick

These are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.

(#3) WE DIDN’T FIGHT FOR CHRIST DURING VATICAN II!

  • It’s said that Vatican II was catalyst of change in the Church
  • After Vatican II there was so-called spirit of Vatican II that called for complete change in the Church
  • It was unsaid in Church circles or it wasn’t really written down but this new philosophy and disregard for the teachings of Christs would spread to the ends of the laity.
  • They changed the Mass – Which led to all sorts of sacrilege.
  • They started pulling all of the Sacred statues out of the Churches and throwing them in the dumpster.
  • The pulled down the communion rails which was a reverent means for kneeling before receiving the Holy Eucharist on the tongue.
  • They started saying all Masses in English and in the language of the culture instead of the sacred language of the Church which is Latin.
  • Nuns started pulling of their habits and showing their hair.
  • Priests started leaving the Parish without their cassock’s and collars on.
  • As a result orders of nuns and priests dried up
  • Going from thousands and thousands of men and women seeking to give their lives to Christ and His Church, to merely a handful.
  • Nuns stopped running the schools and hospitals
  • Abortion rained, and enrollment in Catholic Schools dwindled and they began taking Government money to survive.
  • These are just a few catastrophic changes that occurred.
  • And what did the men do, we sat around and allowed this knowing better.
  • Why?
  • Because we were afraid to speak out because of the what we feared would happen to our career and status among our friends, families, and ourselves.
  • We were afraid to stand for the Truth. Which in essence means we were weak.
  • Christ needed us and we let him down! Where is the honor in selfishness?

What do you think?

Send your questions to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Holy Lover Segment

14 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage

  • How to meet women the right way!
  • Dating is for sex – Why?
  • One – we are not focused on the person but what we can get out of them
  • Not really considered what is best for her but what you want
  • Two – We are just trying to get in her pants.
  • If we were for real we’d know that this doesn’t lead anywhere but to disaster.
  • She will get psychological problems
  • She will bond to you
  • Why do you think women kill their babies, and flatten your tires
  • She may say she doesn’t want to get married but that’s a lie.
  • No women gives her self to you unless she believes you will ask her to marry you in the future, unless she is disordered in some way.
  • Three – We are just seeking to get pleasure
  • Sex makes us feel good but it’s only temporary and that’s what you are seeking erotic lustful, temporary pleasure that only has one means to an end – to fulfill a need that only benefits your ego.
  • Four – we have no real goal to get married
  • We may try and make her believe that but in reality we just want a temporary thing.
  • Marriage means I have to give up my freedom
  • Marriage means I have to commit to one woman, No way I can do that!
  • And children, responsibility Oh hell no!
  • Again pure selfishness!
  • Five – we only want to have so-called fun
  • But is it really fun?
  • What happens when she gets pregnant, and she will get pregnant you know why?
  • Because sex works, it’s doing what it’s supposed to do, participate in creation, which is a gift from God!
  • Does she know you only want to have fun?
  • Sure she doesn’t because no way are you going to really tell her that…
  • and if you did it’s only a mind game you use, so you can say in the future (when she gets pregnant) I told you I only want to have fun! Abort it!
  • Six – she is just a means to an end – an object, of fork, a knife, a thing to use.
  • When we do this we are using up her youth, her beauty, her vitality, the things that God gave her to attract her husband. Not some selfish bum!
  • Seven – in the end dating is for wusses and is complete cowardice!
  • Courting is for marriage – Why?
  • Eight - Because when we really understand how the world really works, our goal is God, marriage, children, family, duty, responsibility.
  • This builds something for eternity, something we can really take with us.
  • Nine – We are seeking something greater than ourselves.
  • Courting is unattached to the ego or selfishness, it is considering the bigger picture and understands time is a factor!
  • What is the something bigger?
  • Journey and eventual peace with God. For the benefit of my wife and children, and their children, and their children!
  • Ten – Marriage makes real men out of us – because of the sacrifice and responsibility of giving our life away for another!
  • We will never be True Man until we have something we’re willing to sacrifice, die, and give our life for!
  • We’ll never be truly happy or at peace as men.
  • Remember Christ? This is exactly what He did and calls us to do as men!
  • Eleven – We are looking for that perfect woman (helpmate) that can and will joy in helping me get to heaven!
  • This is what real life is about a test of sacrificing for that true love, with both of us on the same page (a journey towards holiness)
  • What is love? (according to the Catholic Church) Love is an act of the will, which is what daters don’t understand. It’s all about the emotion with them, and what they can get out of it!
  • Twelve – We are looking for that one woman that can help me get our children to heaven.
  • See helpmate. Our wife’s job is to assist and guide us.
  • This is what Ephesians 5 v. 21-33 speak of
  • Thirteen – And because of the last two – assist in helping me get to heaven as well as my children – we seek that perfect Beloved to become one flesh with!
  • One flesh understanding it takes three…
  • One flesh with my Beloved wife and both of us one flesh in God!
  • Fourteen – In the end courting is for warriors and is heroic!
  • It undertakes the role given to Adam by God for everyman throughout eternity – To protect, defend, and serve!

I ask you, whom do you aspire to be Wuss or Warrior!

Radical Marriage Problems Tips For Men!

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Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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How To Save A Failing Marriage?

9 Tips To Become A Man Of Sacrifice

How to save a failing marriage: Your suffering has meaning!

 

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.

To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,

That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish..”

~Ephesians 5 (verses 25-27)

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

How To Save A Failing Marriage

Holy Lover: The Art Of Manliness - Gift Fourteen

How to save a failing marriage: Become a Holy Lover (Jesus being crucified with a horse and a lion on each side)
Your Mission? To Become A Holy Lover

What is a Holy Lover?

  1. You becoming the husband your Wife needs.
  2. You becoming the man God created you to be.

Holy Lover: Gift Fourteen

A Holy Lover must suffer, sacrifice, and give his life away a little each day, for his Beloved.

In society, what is a major cause for the failure of marriage and family?

If you didn’t suppose the cowardice of men. You got it wrong! In every facet of society, men have become the Wusses Of The West (As I like to say.)

Furthermore, with our technology, we reason we’re so advanced. But sadly, we’ve regressed. We’ve abandoned God, our women, and our children, for so called greener grass.

Moreover, we sacrifice for nothing of real importance. Sure, we pursue a career, and that’s sacrifice. But that should be a low priority sacrifice. Not our main goal.

Why? Because materialism, great education, great schools, nice cars, and homes; beautiful clothes, tons of money, and careers; are fleeting.

Nonetheless, what good is all that, if when you die, and return to dirt, your soul is lost to the Evil One?

Not to mention, you allowed the diabolical to infiltrate your family. And now that you’re gone, your Beloved and your family, are left unprotected. Because you neglected their souls, in lieu of modernism and materialism.

If You Don't Sacrifice For Her, Who Else Will?

As I’ve said in the past, if your marriage is terrible, mediocre, lackluster, boring, or bad. It’s because of your lack of sacrifice. Your unwillingness to man up, and fight the diabolical fight, against the evil surrounding you.

Do you indeed believe there’s no Devil? Do you actually believe, there’s no battle between good and evil over your soul. As well as, the souls of your wife and children?

Well guess what, Satan has done his job. And you’re now his pawn, and a slave to your passions (money, technology, games, pleasures).

Whether you realize it or not, you are ultimately responsible for the success or failure of your marriage. Besides, to deny this, or refuse this responsibility, is pure cowardice.

You Must Turn It Around!

So, how do we turn your marriage around? How do we get your union, on the track towards holiness? How do we encourage your wife to be the wife you need?

Well, we do as Christ did for His Bride (the Church). We enter the spiritual battle. We man up. We begin suffering as He did. We take responsibility for everything in our environment, and in our marriage, and in our family.

We mortify ourselves. In addition, give our life away for the benefit of our marriage; our Beloved. So that our marriage becomes great, and an example for others to follow.

In essence, we die for our Bride, just as Christ died for His. Now, how do we do this?

Well, read on my fellow Christian Soldier. Below, are the top nine ways to suffer and sacrifice for the benefit of your Beloved.

In fact, to help her in her purity; her holiness.

To repeat, embrace this responsibility. The longevity of your marriage, depends on your willingness to sacrifice!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

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How To Save A Failing Marriage

The Top 9 Ways To Suffer And Sacrifice For Your Beloved

Sacrifice One: Prayer

How to save a failing marriage: The regret

 

When it is all over you will not regret having suffered; rather you will regret having suffered so little, and suffered that little so badly.'

~St. Sebastian Valfre

Brother, prayer is where it begins and ends.

Many don’t understand prayer is sacrifice. Moreover, prayer is hard, difficult, and a real task, to make a habit.

For this reason, the definition of love in the Catholic Church is, “Willing the good of another.”

That is not how you feel about someone, but how strong your will is for their betterment, their holiness.

Although, God rewards prayer with grace. Humility, obedience, commitment, loyalty, suffering; these are what true love consists of. Further, what the Father has deemed necessary for holiness, and why He sent Christ to die for us.

As a man, you’re inserted as Christ in your family. You are called to mortify yourself. Above all, sacrifice everything, and yes suffer if need be, for the well-being of your wife.

Realize, this idea is very powerful. And if you understand it, and put it into action, your marriage will prosper. In fact, mediocrity will be an enemy of the past.

All the saints understood this. Life isn’t about pleasure. Life is about suffering. Then uniting that suffering with the will of Christ.

Understand, prayer is first and foremost. And to add to that the other seven sacrifices stem from prayer as well.

Realize, just as pride is the root for all sin. Prayer is the root for holiness!

Sacrifice Two: Confession

How to save a failing marriage: The love for suffering.

 

In suffering love and in loving, suffer!

~Blessed Maria Lopez of Jesus

Confession hurts! I too shunned it. But we must ask the question, “How can you lead and instruct your family, with sin, pain, shame, and guilt, on your mind and heart?”

Satan realizes, the quickest entry into the home, hearts, and minds of a family, is to get rid of the man. Once the protector is subdued; everyone else is putty.

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Further, how can you tell your children not to have sex, not to ingest drugs; Not to kill, rape, or maim, when you have done similar?

The answer is; You can’t!

This way of thinking has infected society. In fact, millions of parents refuse to correct their children on anything of significance.

Why? Because in their past, they’ve taken cocaine, shacked up for sex, or worst, aborted a baby in the womb (for example).  

So, what do they do when their children step out of bounds? They rationalize, “Well I did it! How can I come down hard on them when I did the same thing when I was young?”

In fact, I’ve heard this statement flow from my own mothers lips.

Then what happens next, the parents refuse to admonish them. Or they correct them and try to persuade otherwise. But the correcting parent senses, his pleas have no weight, because of past guilt.

It’s uncanny, the father is right. He’s accurate because, he’s forgotten or refused his faith.

You see, parents in this predicament refuse to seek the only forgiveness that really matters. The lone forgiveness that relieves the weight; the pain, from their shoulders.

For this reason, God has given us the sacrament of Confession.

Understand, guilt is powerful. Shame is powerful. Fear is powerful. Moreover, the Evil One feeds off these principles.

He encourages you to reject Confession. To allow the immorality and lack of virtue, to cloud your heart and intellect. We then become numb to sin, and to the effects of the diabolical.

Moreover, evil infiltrates our marriage and family. The doorway? Husbands!

In a more practical sense, when we neglect Confession, we become weak. We become unable to fight the battle for our families.

 

Satan realizes, the quickest entry into the home, hearts, and minds of a family, is to get rid of the man. Once the protector is subdued; everyone else is putty.

In short, morality shouldn’t only be considered in times of comfort. To the contrary, virtue and morality, tests a man; when times are tough. It’s called character.

Men are just that; human. We’re imperfect (although called to seek perfection by Christ) this takes time.

As a result, we will make mistakes, commit sin, wrong others. But the remarkable thing? God understands this. He knows we will commit immorality. And once done, we’ll need an avenue to remove the guilt and shame, from our souls.

And yet, Confession gives us a new start. It consoles, “My son, you are forgiven.”

“Now go out and try again.”

“Instruct your children, without the shame of your past deeds.”

“Gain strength through Me, to lead your marriage, wife, and family to holiness.”

“Be a man, not just for yourself, but for Me!”

Understand, nothing you do (prayer, good works, sacrifice, suffering) merits any good in the eyes of God, if your soul is in mortal sin.

Do not listen to the world! Do not listen to the Judas Iscariot’s in the Church (Who try to deny and comfort you, to the untruth of this teaching.) They are being influenced by the diabolical.

To be clear, they are cowards, who place their comfort and feelings above you (their brother, and God).

Again, Confession will hurt! It’s why it’s called sacrifice and suffering. You must embrace this, for the benefit of your marriage.

During times such as these, you cannot consider your feelings. As your feelings, will encourage you to forgo this great grace.

Above all else, you must fight this inner battle! And you must win!

Sure, in this realm, Satan has the advantage. But you have Christ; lean on Him!

You must defend and protect your family. And the only way you can accomplish this feat, is to sacrifice your pride and ego.

Next, find the nearest priest; remove the shame, guilt, and offense of the Father, from your heart.

Then and only then, can you do an adequate job of defense, protection, and service!

Sacrifice Three: The Rosary

How to save a failing marriage: Learn to suffer.

 

If you really want to love Jesus, first learn to suffer, because suffering teaches you to love."

~St. Gemma Galgani

Allow me to state this, as plain as I can. The Rosary changed my life. It changed my marriage. And, it changed my inner spiritual self.

For this reason, I suggest you allow the Blessed Mother, to inflict her power upon you through her Son.

This devotion, is your number one battle weapon as a husband. Remember, the Blessed Mother will crush the head of the serpent!

Each day, dawn the Rosary to protect your home. To protect your marriage. To protect your children. To protect yourself.

Christ cannot, and will not refuse His mother. So, when you ask her, Christ will grant what you need through her.

Understand, the Blessed Mother always leads back to Christ. Refuse to allow the diabolical, to seize your marriage.

Look, I can only suggest to you the truth. But, it’s up to you to do what’s necessary.

Many husbands and fathers are ignorant to spiritual warfare. For this reason, I’m informing you of the enemies presence in your environment.

Now that you know, you have no excuse to neglect this fight.

The Rosary is powerful. Use it!

Pray the Rosary, as if an assault rifle were in your hands. And enemy combatants, surround your home.

This imagery is how important the Rosary is, for the safeguarding of your marriage and family.

Spiritual warfare is no joke. Moreover, your marriage is the number one target. Open your eyes. The threat is eminent and immediate!

Again, the Rosary is powerful; Use it!

Start out small. Use baby steps:

  1. Find instructions on the internet on how to pray the Rosary.
  2. Buy a Rosary.
  3. Have your Rosary blessed by a Priest.
  4. Start with one decade of the Rosary for 30 days.
  5. After 30 days; begin two decades, then three and so forth.
  6. Before you realize, you’ll be praying it daily!

By the way, this is how I began. And I now embrace this weapon multiple times daily! You can do this!

Sacrifice Four: Fasting

How to save a failing marriage: You were made for greatness!

 

If God gives you an abundant harvest of trials, it is a sign of great holiness which He desires you to attain. Do you want to become a great saint? Ask God to send you many sufferings.

~Saint Ignatius of Loyola

As men, we cannot allow ourselves to become soft, effeminate and emasculated. While allowing our only goal in life, to be the pursuit of pleasure.

Why? Simply, because we aren’t made for the pursuit of pleasure. We are built for suffering; for sacrifice; for greatness! For this reason, the Catholic faith is very difficult to live.

God created us to lead our wives, children, and the world, back to Him.

Seldom do we accomplish this, through anything other than sacrifice. Sacrifice of your time, your will, your body, and your life!

Now, what is one of the best ways to deny pleasure and weakness? Fasting!

Not to only fast, but too fast for the intentions, benefit, and purity of someone other than yourself.

The two-main causes requiring your sacrifice of fasting, are one; God. Two; Your Beloved!

If you aren’t doing this at least monthly, you’re not doing your job as a man.

It’s vital that you realize your holiness protects and defends your family against the constant onslaught of bad luck, and evil, thrust upon your marriage.

To repeat, if your marriage is in the toilet, I guarantee your failure to offer yourself up for sacrifice, is the primary reason why!

Accordingly, it’s your responsibility, to give yourself away for your bride; for God. And in return, the Father will bestow as a reward many graces. These graces will encompass your home. More important, your marriage.

Remember your #1 mission, is to get your wife to heaven. And this magnificent feat, can only occur, by your willingness to sacrifice for her.

Again, if your marriage is boring, lackluster, passionless, terrible, or mediocre. You only have yourself to blame!

Christs Church blossomed into greatness, because He (God) offered Himself over for slaughter.

Christian Soldier, He is your example. Follow His lead, for the marriage you need!

I plead with you, develop a fasting habit. Not for yourself, not because it feels good. But for the soul of your wife. So you can become hard, tough, a warrior for Christ, when called upon!

I shout, to love God, and display complete love for your Beloved; You must die to self!

Sacrifice Five: Adoration

How to save a failing marriage: The reward.

 

You will be consoled according to the greatness of your sorrow and affliction; the greater the suffering, the greater will be the reward. 


~St. Mary Magdalen de'Pazzi

You want to become holy? Spend time in front of the Blessed Sacrament daily!

As men, we have many pressures. We take on many responsibilities. We need quiet!

But, not just any quiet. We need the quiet and peace that comes from spending time with Our Lord, in Adoration.

This again, is sacrifice. Especially, if you suffer from anxiety, frustration, anger, and emptiness in your soul. This time before Our Lord, will heal these.

Furthermore, you’ll experience peace, clear mind, and a sense of direction. Your marriage, and family, will benefit from your sacrifice.

As Fr. Larry Richards proclaims, “Even if you only drop by for 60 seconds, to say hello to God. Or say an “Our Father.”

“This is important.”

Build a relationship with Christ, and He will be more likely, to hear your prayers, when you need Him most. Remember, God resists the proud.

So, when in Adoration, offer this sacrifice up for your wife, or your children, or both, as I do.

You want a great recipe for a magnificent marriage? Spend time with Our Lord. Make it a habit. Attend Adoration.

First, start with fifteen minutes per week. Then, increase as your faith grows.

But your ultimate goal, should consist of one hour per day; seven days per week (or more).

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Sacrifice Six: Daily Mass

How to save a failing marriage: Love the one who tries your patience.

 

Always remember to love your neighbor; always prefer the one who tries your patience, who tests your virtue, because with her you can always merit: suffering is Love; the Law is Love.


~Blessed Mary of Jesus Crucified "The Little Arab"

I know, I know, this is a tough one. The time and commitment are rough. For this reason, it’s called suffering.

If sacrifice were easy, everyone would do it. Everyone, would enter heaven. But my brother, the truth is; Many don’t!

Again, you are responsible for your wife’s soul. For this purpose, God made you man; placed you as the head. Because, He realizes, yes; This is hard!

Understand, the Mass is the greatest prayer. And when you celebrate Our Lord in the Holy Mass, for the intentions of another (and for you that is your wife; your marriage; your children) the graces you receive are boundless.

Look, remember, every sacrifice you perform has meaning. If you view it as, offering yourself for something greater. Then, it makes the suffering worthwhile.

Of course, no one wants to suffer. And yes, suffering is difficult. But, so is everything else worthwhile in life.

Daily Mass, is tedious for one reason. It requires the sacrifice of your time. You must rearrange your schedule. You must make time (usually an hour total) every day.

Which means, you’ll most likely, have to sacrifice your lunch break, or some other task that you need throughout the day.

So, view the journey like this. If God is truly first in your life, put your actions where your mouth is. If you want a great marriage, man up. Your wife won’t believe the change.

Moreover, show Our Lord, you’re willing to sacrifice whatever it takes to accomplish this (As He did!)

Now, how do you start?

  • Pick one day out the week. This day is your daily Mass day.
  • Please, don’t try to do all seven days starting out. Otherwise, you will fail.
  • Pick one day. Get in a habit of doing that day. Once that day is a habit, choose another day. Then another.

Before you realize, you’ll go daily, and getting purity from partaking in the Eucharist every day!

Sacrifice Seven: The Marital Embrace

How to save a failing marriage: Pure love

 

Suffering is a great grace; through suffering the soul becomes like the Savior; in suffering love becomes crystallized; the greater the suffering, the purer the love.

~St. Faustina

Although this sacrifice, is in the seventh position. Its importance, ranks among the top two. If I’d put this further up, you may not have read the other seven!

It’s vital you understand, as the Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen understood; It takes three to make love (you, your Beloved; and God).

Little by little, your sex life will suffer (especially over time) if God isn’t the focal point.

When we engage in the marital embrace with our wife, God is pleased. He created sex as an extension of His divine love for us.

Sure, sex can be tainted. Sex can be corrupted. And most times in society these days; It Is!

But with the married couple, the holy caress is beautiful, pure, holy, and sanctioned by the Father.

Sex only becomes unholy when lust (the devil) gets hold of it.

As a husband, remember, you are the server. Your Beloved is the receiver. Each time you embrace, you are renewing your vows before God.

Let’s be real, many men become selfish during the marital act. She isn’t doing this, or she isn’t doing that for me.

Look, if at any time during making love, the words (I or me) enter your mind. You have already failed as a world-class lover, a Holy Lover, a man.

Why? Because you’ve now allowed your ego, to enter your bedroom. The ego is from the diabolical.

The ego is selfish, self-serving. The ego only considers itself, above all.

As a man, a husband, a lover, you can never allow your wishes to dominate the sex conversation, during lovemaking.

Your wife, will not experience fulfillment. She will shy away from you. You will start (although unintentionally) viewing her as an object. Above all, this can never, ever happen!

Many married couple’s sex lives, decline over time. A huge reason why? Men stop remembering, they are responsible for everything in a marriage.

Why? Because God made it so. Again, God charged Adam with everything. I understand this may not be fair. But, it is what it is!

Moreover, you’ll fair better, once you accept your role as head.

For this reason, God didn’t blame Eve for the apple. He blamed Adam. Why? Because no matter how society has devalued men. We’re still held responsible for all things on earth; In the eyes of God (Someone has to be; why not you?)

And our marriage, our wife, her fulfillment, is at the top of the list!

In short, sex is not about you. Sex is about God. Sex is about your Beloved wife.

As the leader; the head, you are charged to protect, to defend, and to serve.

Sorry, in the realm of making love, service is your primary job. Again, my friend; SACRIFICE!

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Sacrifice Eight: Offer All Of Your Pains And Sufferings Up To Christ For The Intention of Your Wife

How to save a failing marriage: Mortification!

 

Love to be real, it must cost—it must hurt—it must empty us of self."

~St. Mother Teresa Of Calcutta

Why? Again, I refer to Ephesians 5 (25-27)

“(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.

(26) To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,

(27) That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish..”

Isn’t this powerful? Do you understand how miraculous this point is?

God has given you the power, and grace, to affect the purity of your Beloved! Oh, Praise God!

 He’s telling you, your suffering has meaning. Moreover, your suffering isn’t empty. It’s filled with the abundance of love, as Christ showed us with His sacrifice for His bride; The Church.

Further, every time you suffer. Every time you sacrifice. Every time you give yourself over to God, for the intentions of your wife, her soul is made a little holier; a little purer. Virtue becomes her forte.  

As a result, your wife will change. Which in turn, changes you; your marriage; and the dynamics of your family.

For this reason, I always demand men embrace their masculinity. Because without it, None-Of-This-Works!

Sacrifice Nine: Christ Teach Me To Serve Her?

How to save a failing marriage: Offer it up!

 

One must not think that a person who is suffering is not praying.

He is offering up his sufferings to God, and many a time he is praying much more truly than one who goes away by himself,

and meditates his head off, and, if he has squeezed out a few tears, thinks that is prayer.


~St. Teresa of Avila

Ok, this one is gigantic! Why? Because it demands tons of courage from you!

All in all, you must put your ego on the line, in order to foster the most important idea in your marriage; The Truth.

Many men are afraid, or shy away from any conversations that reveal the inner workings of their wife’s soul. Why? Because, the truth hurts!

Besides, the truth forces us to look in the mirror at ourselves. And no one; I mean no one, wants to view themselves in the mirror. Let alone, offer to suffer willingly.

Many men consider, we should only suffer if something in our lives occurs in an instant. Such as a death, or the loss of a job.

But, this is unlike Christ. He volunteered to suffer. Why? Because it was His duty; His mission; His complete love (remember, not a feeling, but an act of His will) for us.

But more important; This is just what men do (courage)!

So, how does this transfer to us mortal men?

Well, to begin with, we must man up, and seek the truth above all else. And the truth starts with God.

Next, our wives. These two entities, understand us better than anyone else.

Most of all, serve; then serve more; and last, serve even more!

So, to serve, we must realize, what our Beloved needs. This means, we must be willing to ask ourselves, and seek the answer to many questions throughout the day.

Thereupon, we don’t become complacent as husbands. As well as, become selfish, and forget why we’re placed on this earth.

Below are questions I consider daily. If the answer I receive back (whether from my own examination, or from my wife) I move to squash the problem; immediately! I Do Not Procrastinate!

  • How do I sacrifice for her?
  • Am I lofting anything above our relationship?
  • Am I seeing to her needs?
  • Am I putting her needs above everyone else’s including my own?
  • Am I making her feel she is the most important person in my life.
  • Why am I her servant, how and why do I serve her?

Understand, these are just a few. But they seem to keep me on my toes. I hope they offer some help to you.

Summary

To answer the question, how to save a failing marriage?

Men must start doing things because of duty; not because of how it feels to us.

Suffering for the benefit of another, is courageous; heroic. Moreover, what men are called to do by God.

Of course, society (The Evil One) will steer you towards selfishness, and pleasure, above all other things.

Why does Satan do this? Because, if he can get you to remain effeminate, emasculated, weak and soft, it’s a lot easier to claim your soul. But more drastic, the souls of your wife and children!

Again, men must begin to train their intellects, and wills to endure as Christ did. Otherwise, we are just plain men; nothing special; nothing worthwhile; just another chicken in the coop.

Further, awaiting our next form of manipulation from our electronic device, or television program, or government directive.

Is this really how you want to live your life?

Going along to get along? Void of courage, because you are unwilling to make others uncomfortable, or sacrifice for the truth of God?

Again, in this article I ask; if you aren’t willing to suffer; sacrifice; or give your life away for your Beloved; who on this earth will?

Who will take responsibility, and care for her soul, in this abyss of chaos?

To repeat, as with Adam, God has charged you as the keeper of this realm.

The question is, how will you respond?

With courage or cowardice?

Are You A Holy Lover? Your Test Of True Manliness! Part 3

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Are You A Holy Lover?

Your True Test Of Manliness!

Part Three

The philosophy of a Holy Lover:

To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is, and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy." 

Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Catholic Marriage Therapist and Author

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Quick Holy Lover Recap

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Holiness, perfection, sainthood, must be our goal. Or our life; this test; defies meaning. Where, to what end, are you leading your Beloved; your children?

Pursuing Holy Lover status ( Becoming the husband your wife needs; As well as, the man God created you to be) will place you on the road to the above. But distraction, selfishness, and the absence of Our Lord, must be removed (Yes?)

In part two, we listed the second category of Holy Lover Gifts (The Art Of Manliness-12 Gifts). Click here if you haven't read it.

 

Now, let's get busy ripping into category three, "Making Love Mastery". Ok, time to focus. The total fulfillment of your Beloved is at stake!

Category Three

Making Love Mastery

Lovemaking is an art; a gift from the Father of His Divine Love for the married couple. For this reason, abusing it, or treating it as merely, another daily action, you do to relieve yourself of stresses; will not work in the long run.

This gift the Father has given you, is your greatest power. In fact, your superpower. Although, with this power, comes great responsibility. As with Superman or Spiderman, you must understand your superpower. So you may use your special gift, in proper fashion. As well as, in the best interest of others.

Now, what are those interests? First, to further the creation of man. Next, be an example other men can follow (by building a legendary marriage). Last, to love your Beloved so deep as to become one flesh, in service of your family!

These interests benefit something greater than yourself, which is the mission of every husband. In essence, to give his life away a little each day.

Right now, your arrogance is itching at you. What can he tell me about sex with my wife? This my friend is evil knocking at your door. Its mission; your failure. Why? Because you are learning goodness, holiness; the gift of sacrifice.

The Evil One knows marriage is the heart of the universe. Without marriage, Gods mission of reuniting all of His children with Him in Heaven, requires much more suffering.

Again, I must get you to realize, every action, every decision you make in this life means something in time. This includes, the Father’s plan for His Church.

Those last two statements, can be hard to accept because we are broken. You aren’t a banker, a janitor, a business man, a doctor, an entrepreneur, a professor, a teacher, a criminal. You are a Christian Soldier, a man of God.

YOU ARE IMPORTANT. FURTHERMORE, YOUR ACTIONS, DECISIONS, INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT. AS WELL AS, GODS PLAN FOR THE UNIVERSE AND HIS CHURCH!

Accept it, embrace it, live up to the honor, you’ve been given. This realization, has to muster up at least a little emotion? You now have purpose; a mission. So, let’s get it on!

Lovemaking Mastery; the gifts!

Making Love Mastery

Gift Twenty-One

A Holy Lover understands, he must at all times sacrifice his wants and desires for that of his Beloved, during the Holy Caress!

You are the giver. She is the receiver. Givers give with joyous giving. Your Beloved has a grand gift, she’s offering you. Indeed, you must realize the importance of this offering.

In essence, she is offering you a doorway into her soul; her union with you and the Father. She’s offering you her complete and total self. She is laying it all on the line for you; her Beloved husband. She is yours; you are hers; now and forever.

More important, each time you and your Beloved, engage in the Holy Caress. You are renewing your sacred and holy vows, as on your wedding day.

Try to keep this thought, in the forefront of your mind. This memory will serve you well.

How do you sacrifice your wants and desires in service of your Beloved? First, you end your pleasure seeking attitude at once. Which means, complete focus on her at all times. Number one rule; you never under any circumstances, Lose Your Cool (ejaculate) before your Beloved has climaxed at least once.

This standard is the minimum. Your Beloved needs many more than one. In fact, 10 or more isn’t unusual. Resulting in her complete satisfaction. Which I call the Gift Of Ten. And guess who’s the only one, who can show her love as I’m describing? Yep, you!

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Gift Twenty-Two

A Holy Lover understands his Beloved’s monthly cycle. As well as, how her body works, and responds to the marital embrace, during different times of the month.

This knowledge is vital. You ought to have an accurate idea, when your wife’s menstrual cycle is approaching.

Why is this information important? Because, your wife’s genitalia is more receptive or more tender, to the marital embrace. Depending on what stage her monthly cycle is in.

This may seem unnecessary. But it’s not. She will approach you different. She will allow different penetration depths. These are few of many details, you as a Holy Lover should understand.

This intimate conversation is important to have. The insight is powerful, and a must. Or you will blame her for things, such as rejection, or not being in the mood. And this isn’t the case.

Things need to proceed a little different. And if you don’t understand this, you can make a mistake. Thereby, blaming her for something that’s out of her control.

Gift Twenty-Three

A Holy Lover does not whine or pout, when his Beloved is unable to make love.

Why? Because in many cases, the problem originates from something you did or didn’t do.

Is she sick? Is she on her monthly cycle? Does she hurt physically? Have you been making love to her outside the bedroom? Have you been engaging in meaningful communication? Does she feel close to you?

During such an occasion, is prime time to realize your duty, when it comes to chastity in marriage. The solution? Change your mindset, to romance and building closeness.

These are grand times to do more holding, touching, kissing, and caressing. Doing more favors for each other. Engage in deeper conversation. Why?

Because the Holy Caress doesn’t start in the bedroom. Making one flesh love, starts outside the bedroom.

So, when you’re unable to have sex, is an opportunity for you to focus more on serving. So, when you can make love again, the anticipation is so great and passionate, you almost can’t control the thought.

This my brother, is love, this is sacrifice, this is friendship set on fire!

Gift Twenty-Four

A Holy Lover understands it takes three to make love. You, your Beloved, and God (The Divine Lover).

The principles I’ve pointed out to you in this article, can’t be done, without the grace given to you by God. These tasks are tough. Completing them won’t be easy. Not to mention, being able to finish and grasp, all of them. While incorporating each, into your Holy Union.

See, many husbands fail here. The Father gives us special graces, just for being married. Understand, marriage is a sacrament. And including Him in all areas of your life (especially your marriage and sex life) is a recipe for success.

Remember, you can’t even breathe without the Father’s help. So why not trust Him with everything? I do!

Gift Twenty-Five

A Holy Lover must recognize; he is duty bound to give his Beloved the gift of at least one orgasm, during the Holy Caress.

Notice, I didn’t say if you want to. I said, duty bound! Why? Because your Beloved is a human person. She’s your helpmate, your battle partner. She isn’t a robot or inanimate object. She feels pain, has emotions, and intellect. You must guard against treating her as an object, only for your pleasure.

Secondly, according to the Catholic Church. Saint Pope John Paul II, backs up my statement. As a husband, you must make sure, your Beloved experiences at least a single climax. Nuff Said!

Gift Twenty-Six

A Holy Lover understands his wife’s phases, leading up to complete sexual fulfillment.

I will admit, this one is complicated. I would need an entire article or two, to cover even half. But the short version is during lovemaking, your Beloved experiences phases. Each phase builds upon itself for her total sexual fulfillment (ex: intimacy outside the bedroom, foreplay, her initial rise etc.)

You must remain in control, throughout each phase until completion. Which means, you mustn’t Lose Your Cool.

This gift is also complicated, in that total sexual fulfillment isn’t something you can accomplish in one session. Her complete fulfillment will take at least one year; most likely two. Why?

Because of what’s called her inhibitions. Her transference from her old self to her new self. Like I said, complicated!

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Gift Twenty-Seven

A Holy Lover is not a premature ejaculator.

What is a premature ejaculator? Let’s define this term.

A premature ejaculator is a husband that Loses His Cool (ejaculates) before his Beloved is in complete satisfaction. Again, I didn’t say one orgasm. I said, satisfied.

Why? Because, your wife needs many more orgasms than one for fulfillment. And, if you get in the habit of denying her this gift, she will begin to suspect; you don’t care; you don’t love her; that you aren’t close. Which spells trouble, for your marriage, trust, and vulnerability.

Now for her, this isn’t conscious. It’s unconscious. Which means, she’s not aware of what’s happening. But her actions, her emotions, provide the clues.

Gift Twenty-Eight

A Holy Lover isn’t impotent.

Impotency (erectile dysfunction) means a husband can’t conjure up or maintain, an erection.

No matter what women imagine. They need their husbands. Hence, sexual problems are an important indication of why. Without our ability to maintain an erection, the marital embrace becomes difficult. This in turn means, no closeness, no one flesh.

Sometimes this issue is mental. But more often, the problem is physical. Which can be conquered. In my course (INFLAMED! Sex Power; Food, Sex, And You!) I cover the beginning steps, showing how to make sure this doesn’t happen to you. As well as, how to start ridding your bedroom of this enemy.

Gift Twenty-Nine

A Holy Lover recognizes the difference between eroticism and intimacy.

Quite simple, eroticism is lust. Eroticism gives you all the pleasure of intimacy, but with one difference. The pleasure doesn’t last! It’s like drinking a cup of coffee. Your heart rate rises for an hour or so, then the high fizzles out.

Same with eroticism. It has no basis in love. In fact, society pushes eroticism hard. Why? Because our culture is based on selfishness. We aren’t going to take the time to build real intimacy. That’s a foreign concept.

Eroticism and lust, are a favorite pastime of the Evil One. If he can manipulate you into engaging in contraception, sex outside of marriage, masturbation, pornography, homosexuality. HE HAS YOUR SOUL!

And guess what? It will be hard for you to get it back!

Eroticism isn’t real love. I refer to eroticism as pseudo love (false, fake, unreal). And if lust is your norm; your marriage will fail. More often; sooner than later.

In contrast, intimacy is different. It builds and builds, and lasts for as long as you cultivate it. Intimacy is of absolute and total goodness. Which means, you include the Father, and let Him guide you.

Why? Because he created you, and only wants the best for you. He has your best interest at heart. He’s even given you a plan, to help you through the maze.

More often than not, we don’t listen. Well, you know, we’re broken!

Gift Thirty

A Holy Lover understands, intimacy outside the bedroom, is just as important as, intimacy inside the bedroom.

I mentioned this earlier. You must cultivate closeness. Wives crave closeness. No closeness; no intimacy; no sex. Sorry; the way of the world.

You can try to dip and dodge, your way around building closeness. As a result, you will damage your credibility. And one flesh, will become almost, impossible.

Gift Thirty-One

A Holy Lover, never Loses His Cool, until his Beloved has experienced all the orgasms she needs for unmitigated sexual satisfaction (usually 10).

Notice, I didn’t say wants. I said needs. Why? Because this was my big mistake in my marriage. I deemed, climaxes for my wife was something she wanted (which is sort of true).

In sharp contrast, I discovered orgasms aren’t necessarily what she wants. But something she needs, to sense security, happiness, and absolute love from you, her Beloved husband.

Gift Thirty-Two

A Holy Lover must become a master of lovemaking, in service of his Beloved and the Father.

I covered this in the introduction to this category. So, I won’t go much further. But what I will say is, take this very serious. It’s not a game, or something I just made up. Above all, I don’t advocate this for your ego. But to help you realize, you have much more power and influence, in your marriage than you think.

Many husbands get little feedback, concerning their love making. Usually, because they’re intimidated, and don’t want to ask their Beloved’s insight. Or worse yet, receive unfavorable results.

This is a huge mistake! And, a bit cowardice. It’s so funny. We can talk to our buddies regarding sex, and all kinds of stuff.

But we can’t even say the word, in a serious discussion, to the person who can help us the most; Our Beloved wife. How unfortunate.

Gift Thirty-Three

A Holy Lover must understand the female orgasm, in service of his Beloved.

The female orgasm, is somewhat complicated. Therefore, if you don’t verse yourself in the intricacies of your Beloved. You will disappoint her. Not on one occasion, but her disappointment can become a regular occurrence. Trust me, you don’t want this headache.

Some questions you should present to yourself, is as follows.

How long does it take her to climax the first time during lovemaking?

Is one enough for her needs. Or does she need 5, 10, 20, or more for total satisfaction?

What are the many ways she can reach climax?

How can I tell if she has climaxed?

How can I tell when she is close to climax?

Have I indeed, placed her needs first?

I’ve given you a few. However, many more need consideration. Put your mind to work. Again, learn her mysteries. We’re talking about your wife; the mother of your children. Does she deserve any less?

As I’ve said earlier. You must become laser focused, with reckless abandonment on your Beloved.

Summary

Many husbands don’t have the staying power, the perseverance, the courage to become a Holy Lover. However, I believe most do. We just need direction and awareness that we do have a problem or potential problem.

My goal for you, is to place your marriage on a maintenance plan. To cheerfully bestow upon your Beloved, the gifts of a Holy Lover.

Over time, add new gifts as you become comfortable with the previous. I will not lie. This work is difficult and complicated. But if you love your wife, are devoted, and desire to be True Man. You can become the ultimate; Holy Lover.

The categories; Prayer Warfare; The Art Of Manliness; and Lovemaking Mastery; can’t be neglected for one over the other. As you’ve seen in this article, each works off of and compliments, the other. Neglect one, and you might as well neglect them all.

Are you willing to put in the work? Are you the man for the mission? Can you become the husband, the Father is calling you to be?

Can you become a Holy Lover? Become something greater than your current self?

She’s waiting on you. Your Beloved, the mother of your children. Your helpmate, your battle partner! She’s waiting on you, to rescue her; from you. Once you chisel the rough edges from yourself; this will encourage her to become the wife you need her to be.

Finally, again, I ask you to instill passion; instill splendor; inspire holiness. Refuse to fail; become a Holy Lover.

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You have been challenged with a great task; to become A Holy Lover.
  • You learned what is needed to get you on the path to becoming the man God is calling you to be. 
  • As well as, how to become the husband your wife needs.
  • You've also learned how men have been robbed of their masculinity, and how we need it to help us be True Man.
  • Finally, Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, Making Love Mastery, are integral parts of the whole. Each of them, requires the other to survive.

Will your marriage survive the next six months; year; 10 years; 50 years? Only you my friend, can answer. DO YOU HAVE A PLAN?

And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium: 
Could your marriage be better?
What are your plans to take your marriage to the next level?
How many of the Holy Lover gifts are you lacking?
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What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • Selfishness in marriage and how you can avoid letting it degrade your own holy union.
  • This is one of the main tests of a Holy Lover. Without this concept none of the others will fall in line.
  • Learn how to conquer this in your marriage, and get on the right path to getting and keeping your marriage ever moving toward the Father.
  • And last, learn the one thing that if done will propel your marriage further than you ever imagined.

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Your True Test Of Manliness!

Part Two

Understanding A Holy Lover: Authentic Masculinity

 

A Man Of Courage: Embraces Suffering, Serves Thy Beloved, Sacrifices Self. While Being The Rock For Masculinity, And The Full Truth Of Christianity."

~Catholic Alpha

Part Two The Art Of Manliness Video


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Quick Holy Lover Recap

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Again, the definition of a Holy Lover is becoming the husband your wife needs; As well as, becoming the man God created you to be. Yes, this isn't easy, but it creates dam good marriages!

In part one, we discussed the first eight gifts of a Holy Lover (Category one, Prayer Warfare). Click here if you haven't read it.

 

Now, let's get busy digging into category two, "The Art Of Manliness". Ok, man up fellas. Time to recover your masculinity!

Category Two

The Art Of Manliness

Let’s face it, today’s men have lost their way. Indeed, we are weak, soft, effeminate, and emasculated. We hide behind our momma’s, our wives, as they do the things we as men should be doing.

We stand up, and fight for nothing of consequence (But, we will kill someone if they speak ill of our favorite sports team.)

Most of us haven’t a clue of what it takes to be a man, a husband, or a father. We’re only concerned with our own well-being, and our own wants. We wallow in our weakness, as our feelings are hurt, and hide in our emotional corners.

We raise boys, who possess no fight whatsoever. As a matter of fact, we allow our children to run our households. We allow our boys, to emulate girls, wear skinny jeans, and the soft, emasculated, color pink. We retain, no fight or pride. As we allow the mothers of our children, to raise our sons as basically; girls in waiting.

As men in this country, we command no respect. Our women view us, and pity us inside. Why? Because they know deep down; we are useless. We bitch, whine, and complain, about everything (we have ceased doing the tough stuff; effeminacy).

We abandon our families, screw around on our wives, make babies with homewreckers; and our useless friends; say nothing!

Above all, we’ve failed God, our wives, our families, our country, and ourselves. We’ve allowed the feminazi’s, emasculated, and evil ones, to infiltrate and hijack this country.

But, I will offer this. The feminist are doing what we refuse to do. They feel they’re protecting themselves against us. They’re doing what women do, when they deem leadership, masculinity, and the security of their children, are in jeopardy.

They challenge, fight, and scratch, to find it!

In essence, we haven’t a clue what our mission is on this earth. We’ve no clue, of our true power and potential, as men. WE ARE LOST!

This section will focus on, who we are as men; as husbands. As well as realizing, how to emulate, and use as our example Jesus Christ, the ultimate model of a man. Last, this section is about you understanding your masculinity, your manhood, your manliness.

Furthermore, how to be the man God is calling you to be. How to in fact, become great!

Take back your manhood. Listen; Learn; and Do!

The Art Of Manliness

Gift Nine

A Holy Lover is his wife’s best friend, and she is his.

If you and your Beloved, aren’t best friends, your marriage will eventually fail. And I don’t mean just divorce. I mean a dull, lackluster, passionless marriage.

I mean, why did you get married? To spend time with other men; allowing them to steal precious moments away from your soulmate?

Your job is to become one flesh with your Beloved. How can you do this, if you and your wife share your dreams, wants, and desires with another human being?

Answer; you can’t!

Gift Ten

A Holy Lover shows his wife never ending appreciation.

If you have an unhappy wife, one of the best things you can do at once, is show her genuine appreciation. Women thrive on this. More important, from their husbands. They are ordered toward a nurturing nature. They need this from you for validation and assurance of love.

Gift Eleven

A Holy Lover never takes his Beloved for granted.

This foolishness is the big one. For this reason, husbands arrive home from work, and find their wife gone with the children.

Men, our problem is we’re hard-headed. We suppose we know it all. And worse yet, we act like it. You must never allow this to infiltrate your marriage. Your wife is first; now and forever. Neglect this; your masculinity card should be revoked!

Gift Twelve

A Holy Lover uses Christ as his ultimate example of manliness.

I know, Jesus Christ today isn’t presented in the most masculine light. The soft images of Him don’t inspire masculinity. But don’t get it twisted. Christ was powerful, strong, tough, aggressive, direct.

Christ was perfect, and He demands we’re perfect. And that means modeling our lives after His.

Only through Christ, will we ever get back the respect, the love, the loyalty, the courage that Our Lord meant for us. Not this emasculated mound of Jello, we’ve amounted to in the last 60 years.

Gift Thirteen

A Holy Lover never ceases learning every inch, every inner thought, every mystery of his Beloved. No matter how long the marriage!

Why is your marriage boring? Because you make it boring. You’ve stopped being intrigued by your wife. You’ve stopped exploring her. You’ve given your marriage over to the marriage gremlins.

Over the years, your wife has grown. She’s learned new things, new interests. You must continue to invest time, and focus on her.

If you want passion, fire, and splendor in your marriage. You must inspire it within your Beloved. To accomplish this? Continue to discover her mysteries?

Gift Fourteen

A Holy Lover must suffer, sacrifice, and give his life away a little each day, for his Beloved.

Your ultimate goal as a husband, is to present your wife before the Father blemish free and pure. You can only do this by placing yourself last. By praying, by doing what’s best for her according to God. Moreover, denying yourself pleasure in lieu of hers. And many more.

And as you endure these sufferings, you unite this suffering with that of Christ, for the benefit of your Beloved.

Gift Fifteen

A Holy Lover must stand for and seek the truth of the Catholic faith.

Wow! This statement is a controversy starter I know. But remember, we are seeking greatness, not mediocrity. So, as a Holy Lover, we must discover the complete truth. And view everything we do, through the eyes of He; who is the Truth; Christ. Most agree that the Catholic Church was the first Church.

But, whether we presume this or not. It’s the Church that Christ started, by giving St. Peter the keys to the Kingdom (Matthew 16:18). So if there’s a problem, take it up with the Father (Don’t kill the messenger.)

To this I would say, many protestant and other religions, are important starting points. We come into the faith by our own environments, and what we’re taught. But it’s our responsibility as men, to seek the absolute truth of what Christ is asking us to do. Not stay where we are, and refuse to grow.

I’ve been in protestant religions. Have seen most of them from the inside (Baptist, non-denominational, Presbyterian, Jehovah Witnesses etc.)

As I advise, they are a great starting point. But we as men, in order to become a Holy Lover, a husband made for greatness. We seek the complete fullness of Christianity. And the first Church, the Catholic faith, the faith Christ started. The faith whose bishops originate from the Apostles. I promise will give you a complete mission as a man, a husband, and a father. While assisting you towards your complete union with the Father.

We must remember that the Catholic faith is not a faith of feelings. It’s a faith of the intellect (doesn’t rely on emotions for motivation to be obedient). Many protestant religions, don’t quite understand this. As they rely on their emotions, to motivate them towards obedience to the Father.

Besides, they forget that Christ requires us to suffer and sacrifice, in order for us to imitate Him. Thus, to muster the courage, you need a sense of duty, responsibility, and self-sacrifice, for something greater than yourself (not emotions).

On this account, the Catholic faith is designed to place you on this journey, by using Christ as the example. The outcome; so that you become closer to the Father.

Religion is hard. Prayer is hard, discipline is hard, perseverance is hard. Men are made for this difficulty. As a result, feelings have no place in the equation. Why? Because feelings will abandon you. Or, give you a false sense; that’s just not there!


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Gift Sixteen

A Holy Lover embraces fidelity.

If you are serious about understanding your masculinity; your manliness. The first virtue you must endure is chastity. A man of God, realizes that he must learn to control his urges. Battle his inner demons, and protect his Beloved from himself.

How can you proclaim, you’re “A Man Of Courage” “True Man”, a “Holy Lover” if you indulge in your own selfishness?

Man, you are not made for this. You are made for more than this. If you can’t make the woman you have happy. What makes you presume, you can make another happy without fixing yourself. Furthermore, conquering the battle within yourself?

Gift Seventeen

A Holy Lover wins the heart of his Beloved daily.

Yes, I said every day. Why? Because you are a man. And, here’s what you will do over time. You will become aloof, concerning your wife and your marriage. The end result, you will put your wife in the trunk of the car.

Rationalizing, she will be ok. While you give your time, energy, and passion, to some other unimportant task. Designed for your pleasures.

I ask, do these outings mean anything in the big scope of your life; your marriage; your journey towards God? Of course not! Get your priorities correct now, so you’re not begging for forgiveness later.

Gift Eighteen

A Holy Lover protects his sexual health at all times.

Ok, going to attack your manhood a bit here. If you suffer from sexual performance issues, such as (premature ejaculation or impotency) you must fix this at once. Next, put a plan into place to protect your sexual health daily.

For example, premature ejaculation. If during the marital embrace, you Lose Your Cool before your wife has experienced one orgasm. You are disrespecting her as a human person. You’re only considering yourself; your pleasure.

I argue, is this what Christ did? Did He place His wants before that of His bride the Church? Of course not!

And so, I ask; and He asks, no less from you! Isn’t this what men do? You must get your sexual health in order. If you need help in this area (and most of us do) I have a course created that addresses this problem directly here.

Are you now starting to understand, how all of these points work in conjunction? You can’t ignore one aspect, otherwise, it affects the others. STAY THE COURSE CHRISTIAN SOLDIER!

Gift Nineteen

A Holy Lover rejects selfishness in all areas of his life, more important his marriage.

Here you have it. The number one cause of divorce; selfishness! Again, if you consider yourself first or second or third. Your marriage will fail!

You aren’t entitled to anything. What you earn is what you deserve.

So in order to gain a legendary marriage, you must work for it, sacrifice for it, suffer for it! Focus on your marriage, with reckless abandonment!

Do you intend to be great? Do you seek to be a man of respect? To build a legendary marriage? To inspire passion, splendor, and holiness, in your marriage and Beloved? Then don’t compromise your morals and virtues.

This my friend is “True Man”. This is a Holy Lover. This is Christ’s desire for you; Greatness!

Gift Twenty

A Holy Lover understands his masculinity is a gift from the Father; on loan in service of Him, and his Beloved!

Your masculinity is a gift. The aim of that gift, is to serve the Father and your wife. This gift is on loan, and has purpose. Understanding the intent of marriage, is important to your understanding of this gift. You must use your masculinity, as an example for all else to follow. Emasculation and effeminacy, are not an option.

You will fall at times. Maybe even fail. But for this reason; you are man! Rise up; dust yourself off; and get back in the game!

Summary

Many husbands don’t have the staying power, the perseverance, the courage to become a Holy Lover. However, I believe most do. We just need direction and awareness that we do have a problem or potential problem.

My goal for you, is to place your marriage on a maintenance plan. To cheerfully bestow upon your Beloved, the gifts of a Holy Lover.

Over time, add new gifts as you become comfortable with the previous. I will not lie. This work is difficult and complicated. But if you love your wife, are devoted, and desire to be True Man. You can become the ultimate; Holy Lover.

The categories; Prayer Warfare; The Art Of Manliness; and Lovemaking Mastery; can’t be neglected for one over the other. As you’ve seen in this article, each works off of and compliments, the other. Neglect one, and you might as well neglect them all.

Are you willing to put in the work? Are you the man for the mission? Can you become the husband, the Father is calling you to be?

Can you become a Holy Lover? Become something greater than your current self?

She’s waiting on you. Your Beloved, the mother of your children. Your helpmate, your battle partner! She’s waiting on you, to rescue her; from you. Once you chisel the rough edges from yourself; this will encourage her to become the wife you need her to be.

Finally, again, I ask you to instill passion; instill splendor; inspire holiness. Refuse to fail; become a Holy Lover.

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • You have been challenged with a great task; to become A Holy Lover.
  • You learned much about Authentic Masculinity. 
  • Moreover, what God is asking of you as a Christian Soldier.
  • You've also learned how men have been robbed of their masculinity, and how we need it to help us be True Man.
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium: 
Could your marriage be better?
What are your plans to take your marriage to the next level?
How many of the Holy Lover gifts are you lacking?
Again, take the Holy Lover Challenge, to access where you truly stand in your marriage!
 
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What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • The marital embrace, and some critical changes you must make to ensure your Beloved feels complete and total love from you.
  • Many husbands take this for granted. And have found themselves in divorce court. Don't you be that man!

Why So Many | Marriage Problems Men | Suck At Being Men!

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Why So Many Marriage Problems? Men Suck;

At Being Men!

The marriage problems men experience can be adverted by heeding the following scripture:

God gave us His spirit, and the spirit doesn’t make us weak and fearful, instead, the spirit gives us power and love. He helps us control ourselves.”

~2 Timothy 1:7

Marriage Problems: Men Of No Respect

Your Quest To Become A Holy Lover!

The marriage problems men find themselves in today stem by and large, from two causes. One, absence of prayer. Two, a misunderstanding of masculinity.

I myself, in the past 10 months, haven’t in my life, dealt with such masculine weakness and emasculation. It’s sickening, and drives me to nausea.

Nearly every so-called man, I’ve come in contact with, has emasculation or effeminacy pouring from his pores.

Let’s face it, today’s men have lost their way. We hide behind our momma’s, our wives, as they do the things we as men should be doing.

We rise and battle nothing of importance. Our conversations are empty, meaningless, and lead us in one direction; Toward the many depths of hell.

Most of us don’t have a clue of what it takes to be a man,  husband, or father. We’re only concerned with our own well-being, and selfish desires. We con ourselves into believing we’re self-giving and protectors of the weak.

But in the dark; as we fall asleep, and wake in the morning, we find depression, misery, and an emptiness we can’t shake.

We use distractions, such as an overindulgence of pleasure seeking urges (sex, food, sports, television, cell phones, careers, etc…) To distract us from our life’s inevitable end, and the all-important questions; why am I here? Why was I created? Where will my soul venture when I die?

We wallow in our weakness, as our feelings are hurt, and hide in our emotional corners.

We raise boys, who possess no fight. As they are so weak (mentally) they commit suicide in droves; experiment with homosexuality; stumble through transgenderism.

More detrimental, we allow our children to run our households. We encourage our boys, to emulate girls, wear skinny jeans, and the sweet, feminine, emasculated, color pink.

Our manliness is absent. We are negligent in our manhood. As we allow the mothers of our children, to raise our sons as basically; girls in waiting.

As men in this country, we lack true honor, true respect; true devotion. Our women view us, and pity us in private. Why? Because they understand; we are selfish. We whine, and complain, about everything. We blame everyone and everything for our problems, except the true cause; ourselves.

We abandon our families, screw around on our wives, make babies with homewreckers; and our useless friends; say nothing!

We’re unable to last longer than five minutes during the marital embrace; but walk around town as though we are (The Man). But can’t satisfy our Beloved wife with any sort of sexual fulfillment. As she dies a little each day, waiting for her hero to return.

Above all, we’ve failed God, our wives, our families, our country, and ourselves.

Marriage Problems: Men Of America;

Wallowing In Weakness!

We’ve allowed feminism, Marxism, Socialism, Communism, and whatever other “ism” you can think of. To in fact, infiltrate and hijack our society, and ruin the Father’s plan for the family.

In essence, we don’t have a clue what our mission is on this earth. We’ve no clue, of our true power and potential, as men. We’ve no clue, as to the real meaning of masculinity, and its importance. WE ARE LOST!

Moreover, we have the gall, to suppose the marriage problems men encounter are an accident or bad luck. Although, what it boils down to is our laziness, our loss of masculinity; our lack of sacrifice.

 

In my article Are You A Holy Lover: Your Manhood On Trial! I state how important it is for you to become a Holy Lover. To in fact, bestow the 33 gifts of a Holy Lover upon your Beloved. 

 

A Holy Lover, strives for perfection in his service to his Beloved. Prayer Warfare; The Art Of Manliness; Making Love Mastery are vital to unleashing the Holy Lover within yourself.

Masculinity (gift 20) is the subject of this article. And should be worked on constantly; with Christ as your model.

 

Understand, your masculinity is a gift. The aim of that gift, is to serve the Father and your wife. This gift is on loan; has purpose. Understanding the intent of marriage, is important to your understanding of this gift. You must use your masculinity as an example for other men to follow. Emasculation and effeminacy, are not an option.

[pullquote]You will fall at times; even fail. But remember; you are man! Rise to the occasion; dust yourself off; get back in and change the game![/pullquote]

Moreover, realize you must use Christ as your ultimate example of a man. As well as, focus on becoming the man God created you to be. How to in fact; influence your environment; and plant seeds for God!

Marriage Problems: Men Your Wife Hates A Wuss!

The Art Of Manliness

Ok who wants to be the man?

Come on, put those hands up. Each of us wants to be “The Man.” Right? Sure we do.

Deep down, each man wants people to see Christ raining from him. It’s in our nature.

Well, without God; study of the faith; your marriage and family life in order; and prayer; you can’t be the man.

These things are your foundation; Essential.

Let’s be real for a second. There are millions of men today, who suppose they are the man right?

Riding around in their Caddy’s, Lincolns, BMW’s, Mercedes. Making millions of dollars.

A lot of nice homes, throwing touchdown passes. Sinking three-point shots. Catching 20-pound bass. Sinking holes in one. Got tons of nice clothes, shooting a deer from 100 yards away; benching 500lbs; in essence, a lot of people admiring them?

But is this how we in truth become “The Man?”

Look, everybody can’t be Bill Gates, Michael Jordon, Peyton Manning, Donald Trump, or President Obama. Whether you like them or not, is not the point.

God has given these men certain gifts. Just as He has given us certain gifts, to carry out His mission. But we must seek it, embrace it, submit; listen!

Gentlemen, here is a secret. A well-kept secret. No one, no government, no institution, not Satan himself, can prevent each of us from becoming a great, awesome, and awe inspiring Catholic.

Each man can plant seeds, and get a soul before God.

Sure, the things above are important. But they’re not the ultimate are they? ARE THEY?

Of course not!

Sometimes we forget that death is how the Father makes us equal.

We all are born; we all live a life; and; we all die.

For this reason, I ask you to embrace your mission as a Christian Soldier; A Man Of Courage! Become great; change the world!

So let’s get started understanding our roles as men. Why? Because without a clear understanding of masculinity, and our roles in marriage, and our family, the way the Father intends, our mission will forever remain unclear.

 

More marriage advice for men on masculinity here.

Marriage Problems: Men

The Wussification Of Your Education!

Marriage Problems: Men Of America; Wusses Of The West!

Understanding Your Masculinity

According to Fr. Chad Ripperger, FSSP, who is a trained exorcist and psychologist in the Church.

True Man, A Man Of Courage, A Man Of Christ, is a man of virtue and self-sacrifice.

Why? Because God made it that way. He designed men to engage in things that are hard, difficult, and require responsibility.

Why? (paraphrasing St. Thomas Aquinas here) So you deny how you feel, in order to achieve love, submit to, and become like Christ. In essence, God’s will for you (obedience)

With virtue comes interior self-discipline and self-control.

This is the hallmark of masculinity.

The man who can stand in the face of evil and pleasure while maintaining his interior control, is the True Man.

Why? Because he can engage in tasks that are hard, arduous, then remain steadfast.

The guy who sees the tough task ahead, and wilts is effeminate and invites emasculation.

A Man Of Courage; A Man Of Christ; controls his inner sexual urges; his inner pleasure seeking urges. (pornography, sex outside of marriage, an over-abundance of television, cell phones, video games, sports etc…)

Why? Becomes when he does, he encourages fortitude, perseverance, holiness, perfection, sainthood (becomes like Christ)

With the tons of marriage problems men in America have amassed. They have officially earned the name (Wusses Of The West!)

Marriage Problems Men;

How Not To Be A Wuss In America

A True Man submits to the truth, no matter how hard it is. He doesn’t try to alter it, or adjust it, to his way of thinking. Moreover, to his feelings.

He mans up, and accepts it. As Christ did in the “Agony Of The Garden In Gethsemane”

He knew His time had come. He understood His task would be hard, difficult. But what did He do?

He died to Himself, He gave Himself, He was obedient, and did the Fathers will.

This pain is what men, husbands, fathers, are called to experience. SACRIFICE OURSELVES EVERY DAY, FOR THE GOOD OF ANOTHER; FOR HIS BELOVED; FOR CHRIST!

And until men embrace this plea, we will never feel complete; we will never feel whole!

Summary

In this article, I’ve tried to help you understand a major part of marriage problems men experience, because of their lack of understanding of masculinity.

Not societies definition. But God the Fathers definition. Which is using Christ as our example, to maintain and flourish in a Godless culture.

Manning up and embracing your manliness is what God demands. You will get disrespected; you will be challenged. But what better way to go down than with Christ at your side?

Martyr yourself daily, for Christ; for your Beloved. Tough at first? Of Course! Well worth the pain? You Bet!

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • In this article, we’ve learned how important masculinity is.
  • As well as, what true masculinity consists of.
  • Next, how this defines our mission as men.
  • Also, we quoted from 2 Timothy 1:7, which can be a good verse to refer to when the marriage problems men encounter become overwhelming.
  • Finally, how the marriage problems men experience can be avoided.
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium: 
  • What are ways you can better become like Christ using Him as your example of manliness?
  • What things did you learn that can help you accomplish this?

What's Coming Next?

In My Upcoming Article We'll Focus On:

  • One of the most important ways to build closeness in your marriage, which fuels the marital embrace.
  • Also, understand how to build the vital foundation, of placing your marriage and Beloved first behind the Father.
  • Last, a highly neglected question that must be answered, but is hardly ever asked, until it’s too late.

So, see you next time.

What Can A Husband Do To Save His Marriage? Die During Sex!

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What Can A Husband Do To Save His Marriage?

Die During Sex!

What Can A Husband Do To Save His Marriage?

Answer: Unleash The Holy Lover Within: Gift Twenty-One

In sex the male adores the female. In love the man and woman together adore God.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen~Three To Get Married

 

A Holy Lover must at all times sacrifice his wants, desires, and needs for that of his Beloved; during the holy caress.

 

MANLINESS ALERT: SEX IS NOT ABOUT YOU! IT’S ABOUT YOUR BELOVED! IT’S ABOUT GOD!

In my first marriage, and well into my second marriage, I felt, for the most part, I had it together, when it came to sex. I wasn’t Catholic, and had no clue regarding the Church’s (Christ’s) teaching on sex.

At that time, I had no idea sexuality must include the Father. Further, each occasion is a supernatural gift from Him.

Hell, I more often than not, was concerned with myself. Sure, I wanted my wife to have a good time. But my ultimate goal, was my own satisfaction. And anything in between, was a means to that end.

I mean, I wanted my wife to climax. I tried really, really,  hard (well the best I knew how, at the time) to please her. In essence, to last as long as I could.

The truth? Sometimes I did; many times I didn’t. I felt guilty, and often inadequate. But little did I realize, the burden, the sheer unhappiness, the effect my ineptness, was having on my Beloved.

Enter Holy Lover gift twenty-one (for the complete article and all 33 Holy Lover Gifts Click Here).

To Be A World-Class Lover

You Must Rise To Holy Lover!

The question of, what can a husband do to save his marriage, still sounds funny as I consider it. As I understand, how most men are. We neglect. We put uncomfortable problems off. We forever rationalize our situation is better than it is. Especially, when the problem concerns our marriage.

We in essence, take our Beloved for granted. We procrastinate, until the last second. Next, in an instant, we want to rush in like superman, and beg our wife for forgiveness. Even though, she’s given us several, if not hundreds, of clues of her dissatisfaction; her unfulfillment.

Why is Holy Lover (gift twenty-one) so vital? Because, your wife is the second most important relationship in your life, behind the Father. She is your priority. Her fulfillment, her happiness, vulnerability, feelings of security, should mean everything to you. Even above your own.

Remember, God first, wife second, children third, and your grimy butt; last! There can be no other way.

As I’ve addressed in the past, these are Christ's demands not mine. St. Pope John Paul II’s Theology Of The Body, has revolutionized the marital embrace.

It’s shown us, sex isn’t just sex. It’s divine; it’s holy; and forever connects us with the Divine Lover.

Later on in this article, I’ll give you at least 10 points to remember. Items that will help you understand, not alone what a husband can do to save his marriage. But, logical reasons to place the desires of your Beloved, foremost in your mind, as you engage in the marital embrace.

Moreover, if you apply the suggestions in this article, and allow them to lead you to the next level and beyond. I promise, you will not regret the work involved. They will help your marriage, and curb thoughts of divorce.

A further point to consider, society has warped our sense of what sexual intercourse is. How to do it the right way. What intimacy is, and how it can enhance our marriage; as well as, forge us ahead to becoming one flesh.

Not to mention, the misconceptions people have, of how God the Father approaches lovemaking.

So, continue reading, to get tips on answering the question many men are asking these days (What can a husband do to save his marriage?)

Unleash The Holy Lover Within

Look, don’t believe the hype. Sex is the most important thing in your marriage besides prayer. The Evil One has been busy over millennia, convincing us how unimportant sex is. How it’s only for a good time. Moreover, a recreational activity, designed for our own pleasure seeking egos.

However, what many don’t understand (Of course, Satan does understand.) that the marital embrace is of nothing but God. He is the Divine Lover. He created sex. Furthermore,  sexual intimacy is how He connects with the married couple. By giving them a piece of His divine love.

As the couple bonds with each other building ultimate closeness, the Father is present. His grace; the gift of the sacrament of marriage; is forever looming.

For this reason, your mindset concerning intimacy, must change, to include God. Then and only then, can your marriage prosper as the Father would have. Only then, can you reach the potential of One Flesh!

I want you to reach world-class status, in benefit of your Beloved wife. I want you, to be able to start the beginning stages of answering the question, “What can a husband do to save his marriage?” I want the answer firm in your mind.

So, let’s get started. Below are 10 points of interest, you should start today. In addition, making them part of your philosophy, regarding sexual intimacy with your Beloved.

 

Marriage in trouble? Advice is one page away. More articles on intimacy issues here.

What Can A Husband Do To Save His Marriage?

10 Tips!

One: Die To Self!

You must change your attitude. Lose your selfishness. When you sacrifice for something greater than yourself (your wife; your marriage; God) humility and holiness replace the old you.

Two: You Are The Server

You’re commanded by the Father (as a husband); to protect, to defend; to serve. These are your duty. And this means sacrificing yourself each day for your Beloved. And this starts in the bedroom. Serve her early and often. Die to self, be a joyful giver, as no other husband can be. Give your life away for her. What nobler cause could there be?

Three: Seek only the desires, wants, and needs;

Of Your Beloved

I mean total reckless abandonment. Focus all your sexual power on her; holding nothing back. Figure out what she needs, and at all costs give it to her. Odds are over the years, you’ve forgotten this insight; this gift. She chose you; you chose her. There was a reason for your marriage. Remember what that was. And keep this memory first in your mind, during lovemaking!

Four: Kill Your Ego

You are a man. Of course you have pride. And right now, you’re reading this, and dismissing all of, or most of, what’s being said. This mistake will cost you your marriage. I promise. Place a cloak over your ego and listen. Your marriage is sinking away. Don’t resemble most ignorant husbands, and presume you don’t need what I’m giving. Because you do! You don’t know it all. You don’t have it together. And your wife knows it. Stop perpetrating! Or would you rather pay that divorce lawyer?

Five: Lovemaking Is An Art

The problem? No one teaches us men how to make love. Be attentive; give everything we have to our Beloved; how to sacrifice every bit of ourselves. And many times, we just fumble through sexual intimacy. Big mistake. We tell ourselves; we understand, but we don’t. We tell ourselves we are doing it right, but we aren’t. LEARN YOUR ART! How?

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Six: Each Time You Make Love;

You're Renewing Your Wedding Vows

You must change your attitude. Lose your selfishness. When you sacrifice for something greater than yourself (your wife; your marriage; God) humility and holiness replace the old you.

Seven: Your Wife Is Giving You A Gift;

The Doorway To Her Very Soul

Over the decades, men have forgotten this fact. We forget, how precious our wives are. We forget, what’s between their legs is more than a vagina; more than an instrument of pleasure for us. Her decision is a gift, each time. She’s giving her soul, her complete self; the love she offers; sacred; special. Remember?

Eight: Never Lose Your Cool (ejaculate)

Before your wife has experienced her first climax

Another lost art. Today we are selfish. We know it, and our wives know it. Sure, we pretend like we aren’t; but we are.

Many of us have no idea, how to last longer in bed. How to reach even 20 minutes; an hour; two hours; before we experience meltdown.

Over the years, this inadequacy can get worse. The older we get, other problems arise. Stamina for one. Remember what I said earlier. SEX IS IMPORTANT TO YOUR WIFE! Even more important; than to you.

This leads us to my next point.

Nine: Begin The Practice Of; The Gift Of Ten

What is The Gift Of Ten? The Gift Of Ten is a philosophy I created. The practice encourages you, to insure you give your wife the gift of 10 orgasms, before you Lose Your Cool (ejaculate).

The practice is advanced, and in many cases difficult. But only because, the technique requires the mindset of complete and total sacrifice by you.

In many of my writings, I speak very candid on selfishness and sacrifice. As well as, how husbands must give their life away, a little each day. And, The Gift Of Ten, is one of the main reasons why I push those principles so hard. To in fact, help answer the question, “What can a husband do to save his marriage?”

Well my friend, sacrificing everything for your Beloved, is where I suggest you start! BECOME HER HERO!

Ten: Ask your Beloved,

“Am I Fulfilling You Sexually?”

A significant problem for men today? Many of us are effeminate. We refuse toughness in any form. We want comfort, pleasure, forever an easy chair. Anything that makes us uncomfortable; we won’t do.

Well, you wanted the answer to the question “What can a husband do to save his marriage?” Sorry but this question is an important place to start. If you are here, your wife feels, insecure, unhappy, unfulfilled, and void of exhaustive love from you.

I’m willing to declare that your words no longer work with her. She is in most cases, tired of talk. She now wants action. Furthermore, you must ask this question.

You may get the truth, or you may not; doesn’t matter. You’ll be able to read her body language. Observing this, will give you all the answers you need.

However, when you get the answer, I suspect you’ll want to fix it. Next, what I want you to do is click on this link and learn how to fix the problem! BUT FIRST, YOU MUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO ASK THE QUESTION!

 

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Summary

In this article, I’ve tried to give you one facet of the answer to the question, “What can a husband do to save his marriage?”

Believe me, what I’ve proposed, is an essential part of the answer. The task now? Take action! To man up, and get this done. To in essence, solve this problem as only you can. Study, grow, kill your ego. Become the man the Father is calling you to be. Don’t be among the many failures out in society. The growing number of men, unable to keep their marriages intact.

You are better than the inept. Smarter than this; a man of action. Don’t let your children down. Don’t let your Beloved down. Refuse to fail. God is waiting. She is waiting. Doesn’t she deserve better?

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  • In this article, we’ve learned how important the marital embrace is to your wife. Moreover, the success of your marriage.
  • Also, the sexuality of your Beloved, and how you must ask her the question concerning her sexual fulfillment.
  • As well as, gift twenty-one of how to become a Holy Lover: Placing your desires, wants, and needs, on the back burner, for the benefit of your Beloved wife.
  • Lastly, we discussed 10 points that if placed into practice, will help you get and keep your marriage on track. In addition, assist you in answering the question, “What can a husband do to save his marriage?”
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  • Are you already doing some of these points in your marriage?
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Are You A Holy Lover? Your Test Of True Manliness! Part 1

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Are You A Holy Lover?

Your True Test Of Manliness!

Part One

Understanding the philosophy of a Holy Lover:

This is the very perfection of a man, to find out his own imperfections.

~St. Augustine

 

Part One Prayer Warfare Video

Holy Lover

Does She Deserve Any Less?

Are you a Holy Lover? Is your mission to become the man God created you to be? Do you understand your role, your duty, as a husband in marriage? Is your marriage thriving, prosperous, peaceful, full of the Father? Or is it lackluster, passionless, void of intimacy?

Are you and your Beloved, one flesh? Do you avoid each other like the plague? Do you go along to get along? Do you want more, crave more, hunger for more? But, don’t understand how to get what your marriage needs? Does your marriage lack greatness?

Well, I can help you reach this feat. I can help you understand your purpose. I can help you, in your pursuit of greatness.

In fact, I experienced many of the above questions. I didn’t understand, what I was supposed to accomplish on this earth. I had a family; a wife. But didn’t realize my purpose, where I was supposed to go. More important, where I was headed. Not to mention, how to lead them there.

So, I did what everyone else did. I chased the almighty dollar. I pursued careers. I tried with much passion, to fill my empty gut with things, stuff, sex, and distractions. None of it worked!

I required something more. There had to be more. THERE-MUST-BE-SOMETHING-MORE!

Mission: To Become A Holy Lover

By the grace of God, more did present itself. I stopped allowing myself to become distracted, with the lure of society. I decided to rise up, and search for the truth of my life. Moreover, what that meant for me, and my family. 

There had to be more to this life, than a mere one hundred years; then death. This logic made no sense. And it shouldn’t make any sense to you.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

My mission of this article, is to get you to elevate yourself. To rise up from your nothingness, meaningless existence. Furthermore, to realize every decision, every thought, every action you take, means something in the universe.

Your marriage, your Beloved, your children. They are depending on you, to lead them to greatness. More important, to help them reach their full potential as members of the Kingdom Of God.

Can you do this? Are you the man for the mission? You have to be because my friend there’s no one else.

If you read this article, and follow the attributes. Then decide, you want more for your marriage. As well as, for your children; for yourself; than just a meager, selfish, one hundred years of existence.

Then I ask you, sacrifice yourself, your wants; your every desire. In benefit of the Father and your Beloved.

Become a Man Of Courage; embrace suffering, in service of your Beloved and Christ. In fact, give your life away for something far greater than yourself. For Christ, for your Beloved, for your marriage.

Once again, become her hero, once again become the husband she needs, once again become the man of her dreams. I plead with you, become the man God created you to be; in essence; become a Holy Lover!

What is a Holy Lover?

Let me be clear. Even though, I created the concept of the Holy Lover, along with the help of the Holy Spirit. I myself, have not reached the full potential of Holy Lover status.

I must admit, becoming a Holy Lover is a journey. It’s not something you can accomplish in a year. Something of this magnitude, takes time, perseverance, patience, discipline, humility, and prayer. But above all, to reach Holy Lover status requires the help of the Father, and His merciful grace.

As you embark on this path towards the Father; towards greatness. I implore you, to lean on prayer, and the Holy Spirit to help guide you. You cannot become great; holy; a saint without the Father. It’s impossible!

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I’ve divided the gifts of a Holy Lover into three categories (Prayer Warfare, The Art Of Manliness, Love Making Mastery).

Each category is as important as the other. Further, each category should be strived for and completed, for total success. You cannot neglect one category, in favor of another, and expect to reach ultimate and True Man. You must embrace each category, to become a Holy Lover.

So, let’s get started. I will list each gift in each category. Followed by a brief explanation of each.

The Gifts Of A Holy Lover

A Holy Lover is A Man Of Courage; True Man. He understands in order to serve, he must deliver the gifts of his manliness, given to him by the Father.

A Holy Lover understands every action, every thought, every word, is a gift given in service of the Father.

Your mission? To unleash as many gifts upon your Beloved, as she can stand. The reward? A magnificent, fantastic, passionate, holy and legendary marriage!

Category One

Prayer Warfare

No one wants to believe in evil, really, above all, not in an evil being, an evil spirit. Everyone wants to abolish the idea.

To admit the existence of evil means a responsibility, and no one wants that responsibility. That is the opening through which the evil spirit crawls, stilling all suspicions, making everything seem normal and natural.

This is the “thought,” the unwariness of the ordinary human being which amounts to a disinclination to believe in evil. And if you do not believe in evil, how can you believe in or ever know what good is?”

~Father Malachi Martin

This category is first. Why?  Because it’s foolish not to consult the Father, before you make a decision of consequence. If you don’t, plain and simple, you will fail.

Look, many husbands today believe they’re independent. They don’t need anyone, but themselves. Somehow they have it all together.

No matter who you are; evil, time, life, eventually, will force you to submit to its will. Depend on yourself, lean on yourself, continue to act as if you are your own god.

And, you’ll invite meaningless suffering, upon your marriage, your Beloved, your children, and yourself.

Ask yourself, “Do I want greatness or mediocrity?”

This abyss, is what society offers you.

As a husband, either you want your life to mean something or not (something bigger and better than yourself). Remember, Christianity is hard. It’s supposed to be. So I implore you, be tough; Lean on the Father!

More important, unleash upon your Beloved, every gift your masculinity has to offer. Refuse to be stingy, selfish, and lazy. As a husband, realize the power you possess. Again, unleash it; every bit of it; upon your Beloved!

Prayer Warfare

Gift One

A Holy Lover enforces, God first, marriage second, family third, and self; last!

As a husband, your mission is to protect, defend, and to serve. If you place your wants and desires above God’s, your Beloved, and your children. Are you in fact; serving? Or, are you wallowing in your own selfishness?

Gift Two

A Holy Lover engages in the spiritual battle daily.

 

Spiritual Warfare (prayer) is your number one duty as a husband! You are a fool, if you neglect this battle. The Evil One loves it, when you place his will above that of the Father’s. Indeed, my friend. I beg, choose a side; any side. This the Father demands!

Again, you are charged to protect, defend, and to serve. Prayer is the battle you engage in daily, to combat assaults on your family and marriage.

Examples; when your daughter leaves the Catholic faith. When your son gets a girl pregnant. When your son becomes an alcoholic. If your wife seeks another man’s comfort.

Can you withstand these trials on your own?

Will you continue to allow your family to journey through this life unprotected by you their husband; you their father? You have great power; use it!

Gift Three

A Holy Lover rejects contraception (birth control) in any form.

Why? Because birth control, will kill your marriage sooner or later.

Love is destined, to be shared. Remember, God loved the Son, and their love created the Holy Spirit!

If you and your wife, only love each other. That love will start to turn in upon itself, and murder your marriage. If its fruit isn’t the gift of children. Realize, love must create, it must multiply, it must never become selfish.

LOVE-MUST-HAVE-CONSEQUENCES! Love, must have something on the line. Otherwise, the marital embrace means nothing.

Contraception ruins this. It’s compared to masturbation. Complete and total selfishness. And sooner or later, your wife will feel used!

Gift Four

A Holy Lover understands marriage and its meaning.

Marriage and the Holy Caress, are created by the Father for procreation. As well as, the forming, and education of His children. More and more, for the couple to become one flesh, by striving to be holy, and as an example of His Divine Love, for the entire world to mimic!

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Gift Five

A Holy Lover understands the value of children (at least four) to the success of his marriage.

As said before, love is meant to be shared. And the gift and creation of children, solidifies your marriage will survive a lifetime.

In his book “The 7 Big Myths About Marriage” Christopher Kaczor, proclaims that marriages with at least four children, have a low percentage of divorce.

On a more practical plain, do you want to be old, alone, and placed in a nursing home? In addition, with no one to love and care for you.

Your wife will die. Your children, will love and care for you when you can’t care for yourself. This is called love, honor and respect. Don’t believe this can happen? Check the nursing homes filled with, old and alone people. Who likewise, drunk the Kool-Aid, and considered children as a hindrance and a curse. Yes, selfishness is hard to overcome.

Gift Six

A Holy Lover never ceases in his pursuit of holiness, sainthood, and perfection!

Your wife and children, will follow your lead. They will do what you do, act how you act, be what you be.

If you are the best moral example of yourself (which by the way, is the duty of every man on the planet) your Beloved will follow suit. Your children will follow suit.

If you don’t seek perfection and holiness, you will become aloof. Your marriage will suffer. And you will become just another average man, meant for greatness. But somehow, got distracted, and became less than his potential.

Do you want to be responsible, for the downfall of your marriage?

Gift Seven

A Holy Lover reads, understands, and applies Ephesians 5 (21-33) in service of his Beloved and the Father.

These verses, are your roadmap to greatness. This comes direct from the Word. View my article on (Ephesians 5) to get a greater understanding.

But in short, St. Paul is asking us to submit to Christ, and as long as we do this, our wives must submit to us. As husbands we must do as Christ did for his bride the Church; die a little each day, in service of our Beloved, and the Father.

Gift Eight

A Holy Lover understands sexual purity and chastity.

Sexual purity (masturbation, sex outside marriage, homosexuality, infidelity, pornography) each of these acts of selfishness, emasculates you, fosters effeminacy, and steals your masculinity away.

Controlling your sexual urges, fosters maturity, holiness, and manliness. This suffering, and being able to battle it, strengthens you, and purifies your inner-self. In like manner, suffering draws you closer to the Father as you mimic Christ, and his sacrifices.

You want to be great? Or you want to stay soft, weak, and effeminate? Become magnificent. Understand chastity!

Summary

Many husbands don’t have the staying power, the perseverance, the courage to become a Holy Lover. However, I believe most do. We just need direction and awareness that we do have a problem or potential problem.

My goal for you, is to place your marriage on a maintenance plan. To cheerfully bestow upon your Beloved, the gifts of a Holy Lover.

Over time, add new gifts as you become comfortable with the previous. I will not lie. This work is difficult and complicated. But if you love your wife, are devoted, and desire to be True Man. You can become the ultimate; Holy Lover.

The categories; Prayer Warfare; The Art Of Manliness; and Lovemaking Mastery; can’t be neglected for one over the other. As you’ve seen in this article, each works off of and compliments, the other. Neglect one, and you might as well neglect them all.

Are you willing to put in the work? Are you the man for the mission? Can you become the husband, the Father is calling you to be?

Can you become a Holy Lover? Become something greater than your current self?

She’s waiting on you. Your Beloved, the mother of your children. Your helpmate, your battle partner! She’s waiting on you, to rescue her; from you. Once you chisel the rough edges from yourself; this will encourage her to become the wife you need her to be.

Finally, again, I ask you to instill passion; instill splendor; inspire holiness. Refuse to fail; become a Holy Lover.

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  • You have been challenged with a great task; to become A Holy Lover.
  • You learned what is needed to get you on the path to becoming the man God is calling you to be. 
  • As well as, how to become the husband your wife needs.
  • You've also learned how men have been robbed of their masculinity, and how we need it to help us be True Man.
 
And Last, Questions To Crack Your Cranium: 
 
Could your marriage be better?
 
What are your plans to take your marriage to the next level?
 
How many of the Holy Lover gifts are you lacking?
 
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