Today's Radical Rant

In today’s Godless society, men are not only emasculated, but we are weak.
We have no thirst for battle.

No hunger to engage in the hard, the difficult, the arduous.
WE ARE EFFEMINATE!

We lack the strength to make the Jesus Christ (art of manliness) decisions it takes to lead our families.
And women and their craving for so-called freedom, are easily led into feminism which is from the depths of hell.
So, when emasculation, and feminism meet, what you have is an absence of God…
and men who lack the strength, to be the man God is calling him to be, as Christ was.

And from the ashes rises the sin of divorce, and separation from our spouses, for no God given right to do so.
We must remember in the Church (Christ’s Church) for the most part, the only reason for separation in marriage is, physical abuse, or Adultery.

There is nothing in Canon Law or in Christ’s Church that allows for the fake and made up so-called emotional abuse.
What you do as a woman is, you woman up and deal with it.
Divorce for emotional abuse is out of the question.

First of all what the heck is emotional abuse?
I’ve seen women say all kinds of weak and fake arguments for this.
Like, he yelled at me (which in my experience is very subjective) and can mean anything.
Or like, he doesn’t listen to me, or he doesn’t appreciate me and argues with me all the time.
Or he threatened me.

Man, this stuff can mean anything…
and it is just another reason for women to break up, and leave their husband…
and go out and try to find greener grass, which of course is hardly ever there.

So, gentlemen, what happens when you don’t lead your family correctly, and screw up your marriage?
What happens when you play video games all the time…
go to the golf course all the time, place your mother, and buddies above your marriage and wife?

What happens when you neglect her, and don’t appreciate her?
What happens when you come home and she sits you down and says, I want a separation, or worse yet, I want a divorce?
And on top of that…she looks at you and says, I want you to leave!

Oh man, all of the emotions, and thoughts running through your mind right now!
What do I do, how can I change her mind, oh my God, I didn’t see this coming!
Well, if you didn’t see this coming, this is completely because you were an absent husband…
you didn’t see the clues she gave you for months, or years, or even worse decades.
Because you refused to take care of your mission as a man, and involve God, and service in your marriage.
And your wife, started her exit strategy on your butt.

But, I’m not going to go into this right now.
But if you want more in depth and specific information on the clues your wife will give off… when she has decided to leave on you…
Then go to www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass,
and get the top 30 clues your wife displays when she has had enough…
and is about to exit stage right on you!

But for now, let’s talk about when your wife does ask for a separation…
or she says she just needs more time.
What in the heck do you do?

Do you stay, do you leave, do you call a lawyer, do you cry, do you yell, do you beg?
Look Brother, I’m going to tell you the first thing you do is…
you do not under any circumstances evacuate the premises (as the po po) like to say.

Why, because first off, you lose all negation power.
Next, where are you going to go to a hotel, or some other place where you have to pay to stay.
So, this means you will be paying two housing bills, your mortgage, and rent or hotel room bill.
Question, can you really afford that?
In my experience, many men can’t.

Next the kids… flat out you won’t see your kids.
But the most important things is…
if you want to save your marriage and you leave, you will never see her…
So you can convince her that you are changing and want be the husband she needs.
Look, out of sight, out of mind.

They will tell you… they just need time…
Or they want a little space, or they don’t have another man, and aren’t looking for one.
What you must realize is, once your wife reaches this point, she is only thinking about herself.
She is selfish and wanting out. And if you leave, she will begin to convince herself to move on.
She will say that she won’t use the kids against you…
but that will soon become apparent that this is a lie… when you try to stay in the home, and not leave.

She will then get mad, and say you are a stalker, or your arguing is damaging the kids.
This is a ploy that has been in the works for months or in many cases years!
To get your ass out of the house, so she can move on, and get rid of you.
Oh of course she will deny it until the cows come home…
but dude if you fall for this one, you will regret it.

Any divorce lawyer worth his salt will tell you do not leave.

I would also tell you… if she decides to leave don’t let her take your kids.
If you won’t leave and she decides to leave, you tell her yes, go ahead but your kids stay here.
Why, because this is their home, their comfort. They go to school from here.
This is where mommy and daddy lived and we lived with them.
Why uproot your children just because a crazy woman feels she needs space?

How can I tell you this?
Man my first wife did the same crap,
She wanted me to go and I did!

Look Brother, if there is no actual physical abuse, you need to stay your scrawny butt right there.
You two can live in the house in separate bedrooms.
Because when you leave…and she gets a lawyer… and you go in front of the judge… and you have moved out… he for the most part is not going to let you back in that house!

Why? To basically cover his own butt.
If he lets you back in there… and your wife kills you, it will be chaos in that judges office.

See here is what most ignorant husbands think when she wants out or wants them to leave…
Woo Hoo! No more nagging, no more kids all in the way!
I can eat what I want, go when I want, see my buddies when I want…
go out and go to the strip club.
I can go out and commandeer a little punannie… and my wife won’t know it.
See that is how losers think.

Instead of focusing on why his wife is unhappy, unfulfilled, and insecure…
he is thinking of going out, and getting more sex somewhere else…
or all of the stuff he can do without his wife nagging him.
But let me tell you, that is a rookie mistake.

Because when you get out there you will see it’s not 1970 anymore and the dating seen is tough.
Moreover, what will your kids think?

Also, you had some involvement in why this marriage is going to hell!
The bottom line is, if you leave your home, there are no advantages to this.
No advantages for you, your kids, your marriage, and your wife.

The saying is you never give your wife what she wants, you give her what will make her happy.
And in your case, if you are trying to save you marriage and family…
and are humble, and sincerely admitting your part in an inadequate marriage…
What will make your wife happy in the end… and in favor with God…
is you forcing her to work on your marriage, now that you know what a jerk you’ve been for the last 2 years, 10 years, or 30 years!

But, in order to do this, you must accept that you were not the husband you needed to be, for her to feel like a true woman.
See many say Jerry, why are you always on the woman’s side?
Honestly, I’m not!

I’m not on the husband’s side, or the wife’s side, I’m on marriages side…
because I know the devastation it causes to the Church, to the family, the kids, and society.
And only a mentally blind, ignorant man, refuses to see that.

As a man, you must in the end realize that you are ultimately the one responsible for your marriage and family… and what goes on inside your home.
If you are emasculated and weak, not able to do the tough stuff, and make the proper decision, you will regret it…
and the consequences are, you are now in the doghouse with God…
the loss of your Beloved, and the disrespect of your children.

Because in the end my Brother, the true measure of a man is his relationship with God, what his wife thinks of him, and how his children view him.
This all you should be concerned about. And if you are not…
Then maybe, just maybe…
YOU…DESERVE…WHAT…YOU…GET!