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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #2 Now! CARP036

July 5, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #2: Does She Spend More Time With Single Women

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #2: Does She Spend More Time With Single Women

In this 36th episode? The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. The theme? Clues your wife may want a divorce...Unless you want divorce court in your future?

Let me be clear...there's no way in hell your wife should be hanging out with single or divorced women!

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!: Hell On Earth - The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife!"
  • Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
  • In this second episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #2

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

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Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 36 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

 

Present The Marriage Minute

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…

Or are in a going nowhere marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

 They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

In today’s episode, we cover clue #2…

Is she spending more time with single friends?

Let me be clear…

There is no way in hell… your wife…

 Should be hanging out on a regular basis with these two types of women…

Single women or divorced women.

First off…single women are not bad per se…

But their goals, duties, and outlook on marriage and life are completely different…

Than what a married woman’s should be.

Moreover, many times single women are selfish, don’t want to have children, have one or multiple sleeping partners.

In a nut shell, single women have drunk the feminist Kool-Aid.

Now, believe it or not… divorced women are worse…

They are most times soured on marriage.

They are many times miserable, and consequently want you to miserable like them.

See, the old adage is true that misery loves company!

Divorced women are many times damaged, hurt, and have much unresolved pain…

Caused by who…yep you guessed it (other selfish men).

So what do they do…

they press those feelings upon your wife.

And guess what, if you are not perfect, and on your job as a husband…

She will listen to the single and the divorced.

Which means what?

She will then bring that evil home to your bedroom and to your children, and to you!

The single and the divorced woman, will tell your wife (with great vigor and passion) I might add…

That girl… I wouldn’t take that from him if I were you.

Girl, if that were me, no way would I have all those kids.

Girl you better be careful, he is probably thinking on leaving you high and dry with all the bills, and all those kids.

This of course is from the very depths of Hell!

Want to stay out of divorce court?

Keep divorced, and single women away from your Beloved! BAM!

At The End Of Each Episode SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce: Get Clue #1 Now! CARP035

July 3, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

Clue #1: Does She Seem Distant?

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Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce...

What No One's Telling You!

In this 35th episode? The first Save My Catholic Marriage Minute. lessons...

How does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage? Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

 

  • In this first Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we begin the series "Clues My Wife Wants A Divorce!"
  • Do you know the clues your wife displays when she is considering leaving you and your marriage?
  • In the first episode of the Save My Catholic Marriage Minute we discuss clue #1

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

Listen Now!

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

The First Save My Catholic Marriage Minute!

Episode 35 - Show Notes

Hello, I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr. and welcome to Save My Catholic Marriage Minute:

Where my main mission is to keep you…out of divorce court!

The Save My Catholic Marriage Minute is for you if…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced but didn’t want it.

Or, you are determined not to have your marriage end up like any of the above situations!

Now, if you fit in one of these categories and want to know how to fix it, follow these three steps…

Listen to this marriage minute.

After listening visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

 

Present The Marriage Minute Content

So, what are the behaviors of a troubled wife?

Moreover, what are the clues your wife displays when she is unhappy and planning to leave?

Another question is, why did she leave, or divorce you?

Do you know…do you even care?

Well, you should, because if you don’t know…

then how will you convince your beloved that you are no longer the same man she abandoned?

The key here is… once you know the clues…

you must be willing to see them, and act upon them once they present themselves.

Or you will be in divorce court!

I SPEAK TO MEN DAILY,…

who come to me because their wife has left the home…are in a going no where marriage…

or worse; DIVORCED!

 They all say, "They had no clue this was coming!"

And I believe them.

Why? Because we men only deal with a problem when it’s eminent.

And if it’s not, we tell ourselves “I’ll take care of that later!”

The problem is, later never comes!

Ok, so how does a husband know when his wife is planning to leave their marriage?

Or better yet when it happens, how to fix it?

Well, we never know for certain, but we can pick up on the behaviors that they exhibit.

In all there are 30…

So, I’m going to go over them one by one in a series of 30 episodes…

Which I call (Hell On Earth: The Behaviors Of A Troubled Wife)

In this series I will give you the benefit of my over 35 years of experience in marriage.

I’ve been married twice, my first wife died of Leukemia, and we were on the verge of divorce at the time.

And in my current marriage, I began to see the same issues that caused the chaos in my first marriage.

So, I had to do something.

No longer could I sit by and wait for the bomb to happen again.

So, I put together a step-by-step system to help men stay…out…of…divorce court!

Because I know from experience that no one teaches us how to build a great, loving, passionate, and exciting marriage over decades!

So, I present to you the top 30 clues of a troubled and unhappy wife.

In today’s episode, we begin with #1…

Does she seem distant?

Yes, this is the catch all general clue.

If your wife has started being distant

Not paying attention to you, her job, the kids etc.

Or if she is not quite all there and attentive.

Being secretive, not communicating as much.

You may consider asking yourself why.

This probably means she doesn’t feel close to you, or she is depressed, or feeling unloved, or appreciated.

All of these are huge, huge, huge for wives.

The main things her is you must see that this is going on and ask her if everything is ok.

Of course she will say nothing is wrong.

But you must as her protector sit her down and really explain to her that you really care…

And that you really want to know and try and help if you can.

Usually once she knows this, the percentages are she will open up and tell you.

The key here is to not procrastinate and think things will get better…

Or the problem will disappear.

You must as her beloved husband…

Man up and take care of this now…NOT LATER!

That is…if you want to stay out of divorce court!

At The End Of Each Episode Push SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Again, follow these three steps fix your marriage…Now…Not Later!

Step 1: Determine if you are in one of the following situations…

Your wife has asked for a divorce or separation.

Your wife has left the home, or you are separated.

Your wife is in the home, but you are in separate bedrooms.

Your marriage is just plain boring and or, has no passion.

You engage in the marital embrace less than weekly or severe (less than once a month!)

You are divorced, but didn’t want it.

Step 2: If so, then visit www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

Step 3: Sign up to watch the Marriage Masterclass to learn how to repair your marriage!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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Bulldog Lawyer: How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn’t Want To! CARP032

April 14, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

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How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To...

Understanding Divorce!

In this 32nd episode? Bulldog Lawyer Big John Molloy on understanding divorce and how to save your marriage when she doesn't want to! As well as these other important lessons...

I've only seen a divorce stopped in its tracks when the husband self reflects and becomes Christ centered!

John Molloy~Asst. Prosecutor Indianapolis

  • How does divorce really work in the court system?
  • How long does it actually take for a divorce to become final in many states?
  • If you don't want a divorce can you stop it or only slow it down?
  • What is the actual step by step process inside of the mediation room?
  • How do you find an attorney who is willing to employ the "save my marriage" strategy?
  • As a last resort is there a way to persuade the judge to force marriage counseling?

Can you afford to miss this?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To....Episode

 

  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • She's Asked For A Divorce Now What? Start Here: SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com
  • The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
  • Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen (consider before Catholic Marriage counseling)
  • Divorce and Christ - The Catechism of the Catholic Church: Why Divorce Is Immoral?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Episode 32 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you… winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 32nd EPISODE (Bulldog Lawyer…Big John Molloy…How To Save Your Marriage When She Doesn’t Want Too!) - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

In history, the only causes that die are those for which men refuse to die.

The more love grows, the more its eyes open to the needs of others, to the miseries of men, and to compassion.

The remedy for all the sufferings of the modern brain… lies in the enlargement of the heart…

through love, which forgets itself as the subject, and begins to love

the neighbor as the object.

But he who lives for himself… will eventually find that nature, fellowman, and God are all against him.

The so-called "persecution complex" is the result of egotism.

The world seems against him who wants everything for himself.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Man On Fire: Big John Molloy

My segment on married men in the Catholic faith doing it right, trying to hold it down for God, his marriage, his Beloved and his family.
• Name: John Molloy
• Has been married 10 years to his Beloved wife Amy
• He has 2 children (Sophia 5) and (Evelyn 2)
• He is an assistant DA in in Indianapolis IN
• And we bought John here for a special purpose today to help us dissect the divorce culture and how it works inside the justice system, and how it intertwines with to the Catholic Church

Part One: Background Questions
1. How did you and Amy meet?
2. How did you propose to your wife?
3. What attracted you to your wife, and why did you marry her?
4. What made you decide to get married in general?
5. When did you really start loving Christ and His Church?
6. Was Christ in your family growing up?
7. How did you meet your Beloved wife?
8. When you first met her, did you think I’m going to marry this woman, or did you think probably not?
9. What was the one thing in your life that snapped you out of the twilight zone, and made you think I need to start trying to get married and be a better man?
10. When you were first married, was Christ strong in your home, or was he absent, if he wasn’t, what events happened to make you start to lean on him? If He was, why was He so strong there?
11. Were you always a good father and husband, if not, what happened to make you start taking it seriously. If so, where did you get the foundation from?
12. Was your father into God when you were growing up more, or was your mother the one trying to lead everyone to God? If it was your mother, did that change before you graduated from high school?
13. Are you a convert to the Catholic faith? If so, what made you come to the Catholic faith?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

How To Save My Marriage When She Doesn't Want To!

Man On Fire: Big John Molloy On Understanding Divorce

  1. Can you explain generally how divorce works and how it is different now from how it used to be in the country?
  2. Do you think it’s too easy to file and get a divorce?
  3. How long are you seeing does it take for a divorce to be final?
  4. If a man wants to fight for his wife but she wants the divorce how would you suggest he goes about delaying the process?
  5. Divorce and Annulment why do you think the Church requires a divorce first before applying for an annulment?
  6. If a man wants to save his marriage, how would you suggest he act, and what should he say, and what demeanor should he use in the mediation or the court room?
  7. What is the actual process inside the mediation room, what about the court hearing itself?
  8. Is there anyway that a man can persuade a judge to force marriage counseling to force the wife to work on the marriage for say a year or 6 months, especially if she refuses to talk to or negotiate in good faith.
  9. Wonder if he uses a strategy of negation in the mediation or court hearing that he just wants 6 months to a year to prove he has changed, and that if he gets that and she still wants a divorce, he will not fight and he will give her the uncontested divorce if she still wants it?
  10. How do you find and attorney that is willing to employ this strategy? And what questions should be asked?
  11. Is there a way to fight and delay the divorce at all costs to give the husband time to change, and show her he has changed. Do you suggest this strategy? If not what do you suggest a husband do that does not want his family or marriage split up?

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Are You?...Your Next Step Starts Here..."Has she asked for a divorce, left the home, Are you separated; divorced? If So, TAKE ACTION NOW to fix this..."

Enter The Marriage Masterclass Now!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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She’s Asked For A Divorce; Now What? Rebuild The Closeness

March 9, 2021 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

She's Asked For A Divorce Now What? Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast The Podcast That Fixes Catholic Marriages

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What Do You Do When Your Beloved Asks For A Divorce?

What No One's Telling You!

In this 30th episode? I speak on how to build and rebuild closeness in marriage...

You must understand that the closer your wife feels to you the more she will desire you.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.~Catholic Alpha

 

  • Why and how to rekindle closeness and passion in your marriage?
  • Why your wife rejects your advances for intimacy?
  • Why is the feeling of closeness so important for your Beloved that she would end your marriage over it?
  • Why does taking your wife for granted kill intimacy in marriage?
  • How does watching how your wife moves give you clues to her state of mind towards you and your marriage?

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My Wife Has Asked For A Divorce Now What?....Episode

 

  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • She's Asked For A Divorce Now What? Start Here: SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com
  • Watch this video: Restoration Of Marriage Comes From Above
  • Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen (consider before Catholic Marriage counseling)

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  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
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  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Your Wife Has Asked For A Divorce; Now What?

Episode 30 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 30 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

 

Today we’re going to talk about building closeness in marriage

Why?

Because without a feeling closeness your wife begins to feel unloved, unwanted, taken for granted, and uncherished!

But more important if she doesn’t feel close to you she will stop wanting to make love to you!

You will have to bribe her to make love

She will get bored with the marital embrace

And she will begin rejecting your advances for intimacy

So in order to prevent this from happening today for a few minutes we’re going to talk about how to rekindle closeness.

No need to worry about writing or taking notes I’ve created a great checklist for you to follow.

You can get it at www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

So TIP 1: You must understand that the closer your wife feels to you the more she will desire you.

 NO CLOSENESS-NO INTIMACY-NO DESIRE FOR YOU-NO SEX-PERIOD!

This is why you must do the things to make her always feel she is connected and bonded to you emotionally.

And this begins with emotional intimacy, which is what I like to call making love outside the bedroom

TIP 2: Taking your Beloved for granted kills closeness

Marriages begin to fade when selfishness creeps in and when the couple begins to take each other for granted.

But for women it’s even more devasting because showing her appreciation is what fuels her love for you her Beloved husband.

So when you begin to take her for granted, marriages begin to fade, the intimacy fades and becomes lackluster.

She begins thinking of separation, taking the kids and leaving the home or worse seeking divorce.

As a husband you must vow to win your Beloved’s heart daily.

And this is what the Rekindling Closeness Checklist does for you.

A step by step cheat sheet to give a complete list in three areas to cultivate closeness with your Beloved daily.

The first category is Rekindling Closeness (The Heart)

This is such things as cuddling, kissing her deeply, showing her enormous amounts of appreciation…

watching and admiring how she moves and tons more on the list.

Category two is Rekindling Closeness (The Physical)

This includes such things as whisking her away on a Three Day Weekend…

Occasionally attend a religious marriage retreat…

be spontaneous and spend a night in a five star hotel one night during the week and order room service…

get a warm bowl or container of water and wash your Beloved’s feet after a long hard day…

and many many more things are on this list.

Category three: Rekindling Closeness (Conversation Perfect)

This is probably the most important category

You must develop a habit of conversation…

You must talk, you must ask her how she feels, what she thinks…

her current dreams, wants and desires for her marriage, for herself and for you and the children, as well as her faith.

I know for men this is truly hard especially doing it on a regular basis, but you must.

This is one of the greatest ways to build closeness, and a sense of true friendship with her.

Just sit there and listen…

I mean really listen to her and ask inquiring questions to show you are really into her!

THIS IS HUGE

Here are some example question that you can ask her to stimulate a meaningful and deep conversation… about her and the most important relationship in your life, your marriage!

Ask her if you make her feel appreciated?

Ask her if you make her feel loved

Ask her if you make her feel protected and secure?

Asking how she really rates your marriage, (bad, good, great, or thriving?)

Ask her about her current relationship with Christ

Ask her if your lovemaking is what she needs?

No matter how she answers in all of these questions, you must not judge her or get upset…

but ask her to please tell you why she feels this way

and what can you do to make it better. Even if the answer is positive or negative!

I promise you will not regret this bold and courageous move you are making.

Remember you are a Christian Soldier!

Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

He who breaks the Divine Law and finds himself
outside of Christ's Mystical Body in a second marriage, will often
justify himself by saying: "I could not accept the Doctrine of
Transubstantiation."

What he means is that he can no longer
accept the Sixth Commandment. Milton wrote an abstract and
apparently a philosophical treatise on "Doctrine and Discipline of
Divorce," in which he justified the divorce on the grounds of
incompatibility.

But the real reason was not what he set down in
the book; it was to be found in the fact that he wished to marry
someone else while his wife was living.

What is important is not
what people say, but why they say it. Too many assume that the
reason people do not come to God is because they are ignorant; it
is more generally true that the reason people do not come to God
is because of their behavior.”

 

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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