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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up: How To Build Closeness In My Catholic Marriage (CARP099)

May 8, 2023 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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How To Save My Catholic Marriage When My Wife Has Given Up

How To Build Closeness In My Catholic Marriage!

In this 99th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: How to rebuild the emotional connection in your marriage!

"Mary treasured up all these sayings, and reflected on them in her heart"

Luke 2:19

  • In this 99th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE How to build emotional closeness in your marriage!
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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 99th EPISODE (The Holy Lover Series: How to save my marriage when my wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever!)

Today we uncover Gift #13

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

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Quote Of The Day

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[QUOTE]

“Love that is held together only by the flesh is as fragile as the flesh,

but love which is held together by a spiritual oneness and based on a love of a common destiny,

is truly "until death do us part."

What makes a true mutual inherence is not the sharing of the same sensations of pleasure.

Rather the "sister-soul" and "brother-soul" are formed in the daily communion with the same joys, sorrows, efforts, and sacrifices.

One can yearn for another after knowing flesh unity, but it is impossible to yearn for another after soul unity.

It is not enough just to share the same words and the same enjoyments; one must also share the same silences.

"Mary treasured up all these sayings, and reflected on them in her heart." (Luke 2:19)

Those who do not yet love one another deeply have need of words; those who deeply love, thrive on silences.” [END QUOTE]

~Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen ~ Book: Three To Get Married

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Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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How to save my marriage when my wife has given up: gift 13...

Why must a husband always be curious about his beloved?

Why does the more knowledge we have of God and our Beloved garner more love, devotion, and passion for them?

Why do men once they conquer a woman get complacent?

Why is passion, fire, and excitement for our wife so important in our marriage?

Why must we continue even after 50 years of marriage to learn all we can about our wives?

In our last series (Clues my wife wants a divorce)

I gave you 33 clues to help you understand your marriage may be or definitely is in trouble and how to avoid it.

But I know men...

We just refuse to listen when it comes to marriage and relationships.

And when we do listen, we’ve avoided the problems so long that we find ourselves in what the Church calls Marriage Crisis!

Meaning divorce, separation, no sex, arguing constantly etc.

But in the Holy Lover series...

I give husbands solutions in case they didn’t heed my warnings in the “clues my wife wants a divorce series”...

Or a husband has come to this podcast after that series

... and needs help in getting out of Marriage Crisis.

I also make a bold claim that these 33 gifts will satisfy and fulfill your Beloved wife forever if embraced.

I must also be completely transparent and honest...

A husband cannot do this on his own and expect to completely fulfill his wife.

He needs help and marriage coaching help to be exact.

Why?

Because he needs help, guidance, and the act of building many habits to achieve this greatness.

Marriage is the hardest relationship on this earth to get great!

But the battle for greatness is always 10 times worth the struggle!

The Holy Lover Series: How to save your marriage when your wife has given up – 33 Gifts that will satisfy her forever...

Will help...and they work, but as always requires a husband to be a man of action!

Again, I must ask “Are you a Holy Lover?

Which is you...

Becoming the man God created you to be...

And you Becoming the husband your wife needs?

If you are not, then my friend it is time to get to work.

No more excuses, it’s time for us as husbands to enter the battle...

To begin warrior mode.

Satan has our wife and to combat that we must...

Dawn our armor, lift our shield, and sheath our sword...

As the spiritual battle is now upon us.

I must ask, What will you do as a man?...

Return to your man cave...or enter the battle for Christ, your wife, and children?

There are 33 Gifts of a Holy Lover

33 gifts to the satisfaction and fulfillment of your Beloved.

Today we cover Holy Lover gift #13...

Which states...

A Holy Lover uses never ceases learning every inch, every thought, every mystery of his Beloved, no matter how long the marriage!

And as the man of the home the defender from evil...

Your duty and responsibility is to give your life away each and every day in defense of your home from the diabolical.

If you lack the will for battle...

I and this podcast, the Holy Spirit, and the Catholic Alpha Marriage Program have been tasked by God to assist you and motivate you in your mission as protector, defender, and server.

The only question is...

Will you cooperate?

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry

So as promised...

How to save your marriage when your wife has given up...

Holy Lover Gift #13...which states...

A Holy Lover never ceases to learn every inch, every inner thought, every mystery of his beloved, no matter how long the marriage!

Plain and simple if you have fire, passion, desire, and excitement for your wife...

She eventually succumbs and will have that same or even more, fire, passion, desire, and excitement for you!

I hear it all of the time, oh my wife is not the passionate or exciting type.

No, the sad thing is, her husband is not the passionate, or exciting type.

I have taught for 8 years now, that if a man’s marriage is boring, it is because he is boring.

Think about it, excitement is contagious.

If when you walk in the door your kids run up to you and yell...

Daddy’s home, daddy’s home, I’m so happy to see my daddy.

That is contagious, you then get excited for your kids.

You are a player on a sporting team and are about to play your first game...

Your coach or captain hypes the players up to get them excited...

because they are excited and everyone jumps in and returns the energy!

When we first meet our wives, we are excited to see them each and every day.

We just can’t wait to see them.

And when we do, we are so happy...

and we show excitement for them...

and in return they are very happy and excited to see us too.

Somehow once married, we forget this joy, happiness, and excitement that was so contagious.

Now, it’s only, hi babe...how was your day...what’s for dinner?

I mean if you were a wife, would that excite you or even stimulate you?

Boredom comes with inaction...

boredom comes with a lack of the pursuit of knowledge of a thing or a person...

Boredom comes with a lack of curiosity for the mother of our children, our beloved, the person we have chosen to spend forever with!

Boredom comes from a lack of interesting and pleasurable conversation.

Your Beloved has many mysteries, it is your job as her hero...

to search out and reveal each and every one!

And that starts with curiosity and conversation!

Can you do this?

Are you willing to do this?

Can you muster up enough drive, motivation, and fire, to once again learn the mysteries of your Beloved wife?

Because if you don’t, in the end, you will lose her.

And this will be a sad and sorrowful day.

Remember, she signed up because of the promise you made to her.

To love, honor, and cherish forever.

And the cherish part always seems to get put on the back burner after a year of marriage.

If you don’t embrace anything in this show today...

I beg you to embrace this...

Your wife signed up to be priority #1 in your life...

To be made to feel special each and every day...

To be courted, dated, and swept off of her feet...

In essence, she signed up forever, for your love.

Will you fulfill that promise...

or continue to allow the fire to burnout more and more...

over the coming decades?

Today, I offer you some ideas that will help you get back in the game for the heart of her, the soul of her, the mind of her.

She is waiting, will you disappoint her?

I think not...so, let’s do this!

Tongue Tied: Curiosity And Conversation - Rebuilding Emotional Closeness With Your Beloved!

Be Curious About Your Wife: Learn Her Mysteries!

We must stop treating our wives like she is a 90-year-old married maid...

that has a job she is forced to do every day without any excitement, reward, or connection with her best friend (you her husband).

She will only engage in this type of no reward work...

because of her duty as a wife or mother for a very short time...

before she begins thinking “Hey, I didn’t sign up for this!”

Women want to be courted, treated like a girlfriend, put on a pedestal, made to feel important...

like they are the number one priority in our life!

Yes! They are high maintenance...

and you must treat them as such each day!

Women want validation of your love for them daily.

And you going to work at your job and bringing home the bacon is not it!

You must do the little things for her that she knows you didn’t have to do...

and that you only did them because you care about her and love her deeply and want to make her happy!

First, compile a list of everything about your wife

Hobbies, passions, places she loves to visit, things she loves to do etc.

Don’t assume anything (learn and be curious)

Don’t be lazy, get into her, do your homework, prepare to win!

Realize she is a woman you desire.

A woman you just met and want to court.

You know nothing about her and want badly to know everything.

So, what do you do? YOU LEARN!

Where do you find these things?

Brainstorm your own mind and memory.

Facebook, Instagram, Google, Pinterest, any social media site she may have an account.

Ask her parents, her siblings, children, aunts, uncles, friends, co-workers etc.

A great conversation starter is to just ask her about these things in separate conversations in a non-interview and natural mode.

How To Speak To Your Wife To Build Closeness

How to clearly and concisely ask for what you want from her...

Remember that she is the mother of your children and the woman whom you chose to marry

Ask Without sarcasm

Ask Without attacking her personally

Ask without attacking her authority given by God as your guide and helpmate

Ask without demeaning her

Ask without confronting her in front of the children

Asking her as only a husband can

Soft – tone of voice

Lovingly – tone of voice

Sympathetically

Empathetically

Do this for me because I love you, and you love me

Then her nurturing mechanism will kick in (her need as a woman to defend you, love you, please you, and make you happy)

More important remove all Marriage Killers from your request

Bicker, criticizing her, trying to control her, complaining, correcting her, blaming her, arguing, debating, verbally attacking her, the need to defend yourself.

Ideas Of What You Should Be Learning

Her favorite perfumes

Where she likes to shop for clothes

Does she like massages

Does she like manicures

Does she like pedicures

Does she like going to day spas

Her hobbies

Things she is passionate about

Where she loves to travel to

Dream Vacations: New places she would love to travel to

Her favorite things to do when she gets off of work during the week

Things she loves to do to relax

Her favorite books

Her favorite genre of books

Her favorite authors

What movies she loves

Her favorite movie and television stars

What is her favorite kind of music

Her favorite music artists

Who are her favorite bands?

Her favorite kind of coffee or tea?

Does she drink alcohol, and if so, what are her favorite drinks (bourbon, whiskey, beer, mixed drinks, etc?)

Find out the kinds of sports she likes?

Her favorite board games she likes to play

Her favorite card games she likes to play

Does she like gambling, if so her favorite casino games

Does she like coaching sports, little league, intramural, etc.?

Find out the kind of sports teams she likes (NFL, NHL, MLB, NBA)

Who are favorite sports stars (Magic Johnson, Serena Williams etc.)

Does she like going to music concerts

Does she like going to stage plays in a theatre

Does she like going to comedy shows

Who are her favorite comedians

Find out the kinds of sweets she likes

Find out if they like dogs, cats, birds, horses, etc.?

Find out if she likes horse back riding

Find out if she likes going to the horse track

Does she like NASCAR, Formula One, Indy Car

Does she like going to sports car races (ex: NASCAR)

Do they like playing golf

Does she like going to animal shows (ex: dog or cat shows)

Does she like the rodeo

Find out if she likes going to the circus

Do they like bowling

Does she like going camping

Does she like traveling around in RV’s touring the US

Does she like taking trips on trains (ex: Amtrak)

What are her favorite sites to see (the Grand Canyon etc.)

Find out if she collect art, sports memorabilia, antiques?

Find out if she likes video games, and what kind of games she likes, or have (sports games, hunting games, role playing games, racing games, war games etc.)

Find out if she likes video games, what gaming system does she have (Xbox, Nintendo, PlayStation)

Find out if likes going on cruises

Would she consider going mountain climbing

Would she like to go sky diving

Would she like to take a tour in a helicopter

Find out if she like outdoor activities such as (the shooting range, camping, archery, hiking, mountain climbing, biking, etc.)

Find out if she would consider going to the shooting range learning how to shoot guns

Find out if she would love to change careers to a dream career

Find out if she ever considered joining the military, if so why or why not

Find out what kind of cars are her favorite cars

Find out what her dream cars to own are

Find out if she has a hobby for cars (racing, car shows, antique cars) or would like to go to a show and learn

Find out if she loves cooking or ever had dreams of being a chef

Would she love to own her own business, if so what kind (restaurant, non-profit, car dealership, fitness center)

Find out if they love gardening?

Does she have a curiosity about learning more about her faith?

Her favorite desserts

Her favorite restaurants

Her favorite candy

Her favorite color

Her favorite pie

Her favorite cakes

Her favorite donuts

Her current dreams

Her past dreams

Why did she give up on a dream

Did she ever want to have more than 10 children

Has she ever wanted to move from her hometown and if so where would she love to move to

Has she ever dreamed of being a movie star

Has she ever dreamed of being a rock star

Has she ever dreamed of being a dancer or ballet

The possibilities are endless!!!

Phrases To Deepen Your Connection With Your Wife “How can I make your day better?”

This deals in ego, pride, and selfishness. It completely takes the focus off of you and places you in the hands of your Beloved!

“Tell me more!”

BE CURIOUS! LEARN HER MYSTERIES!

This phrase keeps you curious and engaged with what your wife is saying!

I beg you stop thinking you know everything about your Beloved. I promise you don’t!

Stop assuming what she is going to do or say!

Because you don’t.

This is arrogant, selfish, and lazy!

Want to improve your listening skills? Use this phrase and engage!

This will build connection and connection brings intimacy on all forms!

“Something I’m struggling with right now is...”

This statement invokes curiosity within you about your wife.

It also creates vulnerability, because when you say something that you are concerned about concerning your inner struggles, she may show indifference, or a lack of care or consideration!

Yes, you are putting yourself on the line, but it will be worth it if it get’s her to engage.

Examples of your inner struggles could be, stress at work, you beating yourself up inside being critical of yourself, emotionally or physically exhausted. Or if something particularly difficult happened today that depressed you.

“...is really bringing me joy right now”

Remember you are the leader and your wife tends to move towards what you move to.

Even right now if she isn’t much into you or indifferent, you must realize that if you want interaction and conversation you must ignite it.

Tell your wife about something good or great that has happened. Especially something that will make her laugh.

If you want her to get in the habit of sharing, you must get in the habit of sharing.

Keep the tension away and make the conversation effortless.

Caution, always remember to ask her what she thinks etc.

“How do you want to feel...?”

How do you want to feel this weekend?

How do you want to feel on Christmas?

How do you want to feel on your birthday?

How do you want to feel on this upcoming trip?

This question is about learning how she wants to feel as well as what she wants to do, so that you can plan accordingly.

It’s hard many times to focus on our wife’s feelings and desires. But to her they are all important. To make a connection and make it consistently you must focus on making her feelings come to light. And of course making her laugh is always good!

“I am trying to understand your point of view”

When things are starting to get heated, a very good tension breaker is to let your wife know that you are honestly trying to understand your point of view.

And that you don’t want to argue but to truly work with her and understand what she needs and wants.

This is a good subordinate to the curiosity listening.

Always ask questions to clarify.

This will make her feel you are sincerely trying to listen and understand.

“How can I show up for you this week?”

This is a good add on to the statement “How can I make your day better?”

This is a time to focus on how you can make her week better, easier, and less hectic.

Try your best to forget about yourself. I know you are tired, and have a busy and eventful week yourself.

This is why it’s called sacrifice right?

Remember PUT YOURSELF LAST!

“It meant so much to me when you...”

Oh my! The show of appreciation means everything to women and your wife.

Put it at the top and forefront of your mind and implant it there for eternity.

You can never over do or give enough appreciation. This shows your wife that you are looking at her as your helpmate your guide, you partner in all things.

So, tell her when she does something, anything that shows you are feeling what she is doing. That you completely appreciate what she did.

Even go as far as to buy a small appreciation gift to show her you are no longer taking all that she does for granted!

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Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

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  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
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Marital Problems? How To Compel Her To Submit And Love It! CARP019

November 6, 2019 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Marital problems? How to get her to submit and love it! A happy couple doing the will of God. Find out more on the Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Marital Problems?

What No One's Telling You!

In this 19th episode? Are you a Catholic man with marital problems? Then consider today's marriage tactic #1?

No woman, I mean no woman, unless she's extremely disordered... sleeps with a man that she doesn’t think she wants to marry.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • Is it true, when you have sex with a woman she's bonded to you for life?
  • If you sleep with a woman and don't marry her, have you broken an unsaid promise?
  • Learn how this one marriage tactic improves your marriage immediately?
  • Learn how neglecting this one issue, can be your first step towards divorce court?
  • What's the one problem you may have, that prevents your wife from fully committing to you?

Can you afford to miss this?

Get your Radical Relationship Advice Today...

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

Marital Problems Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover -  Do-it-yourself marriage help at CatholicAlpha
  • The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
  • Article on the "Top 8 Reasons For Divorce"
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
  • Resource: Modern Catholic Dictionary - John A. Hardon, S.J.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?...Left The Home?

Not Sure Where To Begin?

Has Your Marriage Lost The Fire, The Passion, The Devotion?

Lost Her Respect? Can't Seem To Make Her Happy Anymore?

  • Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
  • Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
  • Secret #3: Is your intimacy average or non-existent? 
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Episode 19- Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 19 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Signs Of An Unhappy Marriage (Quote Of The Day)

Love in monogamous marriage includes sex;
but sex, in the contemporary use of the term, does not imply either marriage or monogamy.
Every woman instinctively realizes the difference between the two,
but man comes to understand it more slowly through reason and prayer.
Man is driven by pleasure; woman by the meaning of pleasure.
She sees pleasure more as a means to an end,
Namely the prolongation of love both in herself and in her child.”


~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #19 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 19 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 18…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn’t crush abortion

#12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage

#13 We didn’t crush no-fault divorce

#14 We didn’t crush ecumenism

#15 Men have stopped praying

#17 Men have stopped being obedient to God; which means they want to be their own God!

#18 Men have abandoned God for the theory of evolution.

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#19) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

Unchastity: Men can’t control their sexual power!


  • Let me say before I begin on this rant that I once was exactly what I’m going to describe in this segment.
  • I never even tried to control my sexual advancements to women.
  • Even though I knew instinctively it was wrong.
  • In society it just seemed what all men do.
  • And since I didn’t understand Christ and his Church I didn’t want to get left behind.
  • So, I joined the party!
  • Not understanding that this is one of the common long term relationship problems in marriage (sex before marriage).
  • But I must say, this is probably the worst form of cowardice and effeminacy in men.
  • Why, because God has given us this great power over women and how do we use it?
  • Yes, we completely abuse it.
  • I’m going to tell you something that no one is every going to tell you or really knows…
  • Once a woman gives herself to you (even one time) and she reaches coition…
  • She is bonded to you for life, and you to her.
  • For the most part she is now yours (like it or hate it) this is fact.
  • Instinctively, she now will do almost anything for you,
  • She will do almost anything to keep you, to satisfy you, and yes manipulate you if need be.
  • This is partly do to the curse of Eve. Which because of the Fall of man (original sin)…
  • She instinctively desires to control you at all cost, by any means necessary.
  • For this reason, we must understand our power as men.
  • When we have sex with a woman, we think “Hey she knew what she was getting herself into.”
  • Yes, we put all the blame on her.
  • Why?
  • Because it’s easy to deflect our own duty in this area in lieu of pleasure.
  • This is complete cowardice.
  • Then we get upset when she wants more, craves more, from us.
  • Yes, we sleep with her for years and years…
  • Taking from her the most valuable assets she possess as a women…
  • Time!
  • Women aren’t like us.
  • Their time is 10 times more valuable than ours.
  • Why?
  • Because with time women lose their youth, their beauty, their vitality, their ability to have children.
  • And when men abuse them by sleeping with them, and not marrying them…
  • They steal from her what makes her great in God’s eyes.
  • Why he created her, her main attributes for attracting the man she is supposed to live her entire life with, build a family with, become one flesh with.
  • And what do we as men do, we come in with no control, no empathy, to the situation.
  • Look women will tell you anything to have you, once bonded to you.
  • They will tell you, they don’t want marriage…
  • They will tell you they don’t want children…
  • They will tell you they don’t really care if you sleep with other women…
  • They will let you use their bodies, hearts, and minds for decades, all on the promise (whether said or not said) of marriage.
  • Why because marriage is infused into their souls (it’s part of the Natural Law of Man).
  • Look man…
  • No woman, I mean no woman, unless she is extremely disordered (which in that case, you better get as far away from her as possible) sleeps with a man that she doesn’t think she wants to marry.
  • Gentlemen this you must understand…
  • When you have sex with a woman, and then leave her…
  • She will get mad, angry, and in most cases distraught.
  • Why?
  • Because in her mind you have broken a promise.
  • The promise of; I gave myself to you…
  • Which basically means, I gave myself to you, because I thought you loved me, wanted to build a family, get married and spend eternity together.
  • Look, no matter what she says through her lips…
  • Inside the above statement is what she is feeling.
  • And with women, feelings are everything!
  • Again, like it or hate it, it doesn’t matter, this is fact!
  • And deep inside, all men know this (again, that Natural Law thing)
  • And finally, one of the greatest tests of authentic masculinity, is the ability of a man to control his sexual power in lieu of protection of the woman.
  • Not exploit her very being (even if she desires it)
  • As men God gave us the responsibility to protect, defend, and serve those around us. And that main duty extends more so to our helpmates of the opposite sex!
  • So, I pose the question to you as we end this segment…
  • What kind of man are you trying to be?

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Marital Problems?

Alpha Marriage Tactic #1...Do It!

You must ask God to give you power to fight against the sin of pride which is your greatest enemy - the root of all that is evil, and the failure of all that is good. For God resists the proud"


~Saint Vincent De Paul

It’s time for the Catholic Alpha Marriage Tactic – A series of marriage tactics that will transform you from zero to hero!

But only if you drop the laziness, aloofness, and pride; and actually do them!

Consider; Is your marriage passionless, lackluster, mediocre, or currently in the toilet? Want to get it back on track (Make It Great?)

Then consider today’s Alpha Marriage Tactic #1! Either listen to me now, or I guarantee; you’ll be looking for me, or someone like me, later!


Alpha Marriage Tactic #1: You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know


  • Today I want you to consider the description of the man below…
  • His name is “Prideful Paul”
  • Prideful Paul is a man who won't listen; knows everything. As well as, denies the truth, even when it's presented factually and faithfully.
  • He's full of selfishness, and refuses to sacrifice. His ideas, and what he believes, looms above everything, and everyone else. Including the Father!
  • He believes he's actually greater than he truly is.
  • Again, does this describe you in your marriage?
  • You sure? Not even a little bit?
  • Understand, this can be one of the top signs a marriage is ending.
  • The definition of pride according the Modern Catholic Dictionary (by Fr. John Hardon)
  • An inordinate esteem of oneself. It is inordinate because it is contrary to the truth. It is essentially an act or disposition of the will desiring to be considered better than a person really is.
  • Pride may be expressed in different ways: by taking personal credit for gifts or possessions, as if they had not been received from God;
  • By glorying in achievements, as if they were not primarily the result of divine goodness and grace;
  • By minimizing one's defects or claiming qualities that are not actually possessed;
  • By holding oneself superior to others or disdaining them because they lack what the proud person has;
  • By magnifying the defects of others or dwelling on them.
  • When pride is carried to the extent that a person is unwilling to acknowledge dependence on God and refuses to submit his or her will to God or lawful authority, it is a grave sin.
  • The gravity arises from the fact that a person shows contempt for God or of those who take his place. Otherwise, pride is said to be imperfect and venially wrong.
  • While not all sins are pride, it can lead to all sorts of sins, notably presumption, ambition, vainglory, boasting, hypocrisy, strife, and disobedience.
  • Pride strives for perverse excellence. It despises others and, depending on its perversity, even looks down upon God.
  • The remedies for pride are a sincere knowledge of oneself, the acceptance of daily humiliations, avoidance of even the least self-complacency, humble acknowledgment of one's faults, and prayerful communion with God.
  • Wow!
  • A problem with men that has continued to grow over the centuries, is when we think we know something, there is nothing that anyone can do to change our minds!
  • Especially, when it comes to something like our marriage, or religion.
  • Our usual attitude is - Hey I got this. I know my wife. I know how she thinks, and what she is going to do next!
  • Our parents, or our friends, or even our wives themselves try and point things out.
  • But what do we do, because we are lazy and aloof, and think we have all the time in the world, we disregard any input from anyone else.
  • Even if it’s sound advice.
  • Our wife will give us clues about her unhappiness, or concerns with the marriage. But we ignore this.
  • Our pride just won’t let us deal with it. Mainly because we just don’t want to face it.
  • Hell, we’ve got so many other problems (work, bills, the kids etc) how can we possibly worry about some whiny woman right?
  • Well I’m her to tell you. This is the first step to divorce court.
  • The problem here is you don’t know what you don’t know!
  • I hear people say this a lot when it comes to the Catholic faith…
  • Oh, I’ve never heard that teaching before, I’ve never read that before, or I don’t remember learning that in Catholic school.
  • See, that is just us not wanting to accept the truth and deal with it.
  • Our pride just won’t let us see how things really are.
  • Look, just because we have not heard or read or been taught something, doesn’t mean it’s not valid, or true, or doesn’t deserve some consideration.
  • This is what marriage tactic #1 is all about…
  • We must begin opening our eyes, paying attention, and considering things especially about God and his sacrament of marriage.
  • Many times, our marriage has been on the rocks for years until we decide to step, man up, and take action.
  • Then we want Jesus to come in and perform a miracle and save the day.
  • Our wife is ready to walk out the door and take the children with her.
  • She is tired of being placed on the back burner (we’ll discuss this more in another alpha marriage tactic), behind your friends, hobbies, job etc..
  • What I want you to understand now is, that your marriage is probably in the lackluster/ boring stage right now.
  • Why? Because you are neglecting it, as you do with projects needing done around the house!
  • I don’t care who you are. As men we all want to think our marriage is good. But in reality, it’s just barely surviving.
  • Like living paycheck to paycheck. One missed check and we’re bankrupt.
  • This is how most of our marriages are right now (barely hanging on and surviving!)
  • In my experience, usually, if a man thinks his marriage is good, it’s probably not.
  • Why? Because in today’s society, we are all delusional.
  • We continually rationalize that things are great, when in reality they aren’t (our marriage, our relationship with God, our relationship with our children)
  • Just like many of us continually disregard the end of our lives.
  • Why? Because it’s a buzz killer to consider what is going to happen when we die, and if we are, or ever will be prepared to stand in front of God!
  • Sure, there are great marriages out there (maybe even some legendary marriages) but most today are bad, lackluster, or plain passionless.
  • And this stems mostly from one, the pride of us men..
  • Two – God is basically absent from our marriage…
  • And three – we don’t give our marriage much attention, and expect it to be on autopilot.
  • These are all grave mistakes. And it’s only a matter of time before your wife tires and begins displaying symptoms of the curse of Eve! (we’ll discuss this more in a future tactic)
  • But for now, she will begin trying to control you, nag you, become unhappy, feel unsecure in your love, clingy.
  • Or worse, begin seeking another man’s company to replace you!
  • Or even worse yet – she may already be displaying some of these symptoms.
  • And if she is – Brother, you are in serious trouble, and don’t even know it!
  • So, what’s the solution? The solution is,
  • You must be willing to listen to solid advice when the Holy Spirit sends it, through your wife, your mom or dad, or maybe even a friend.
  • And by all means, stop - thinking you know everything or have everything under control.
  • Because I guarantee you, if you come home one day and your beloved is gone, you will lose control, instead of thinking you are in control!
  • So, here are some things that will help…
  • Three steps to help abolish pride in your marriage:

  • Confession because it’s a sacrament, and all graces from God stem from you being in grace with God.
  • Also, if men are not in grace with God, there prayers and sacrifices are of no benefit in the eyes of God
  • Pray the litany of humility
  • Accept the trials of pride when the Holy Spirit sends them your way.
  • The only way to beat the evil of pride is through humility. And the only way to help you with pride is for God to send you tests of humiliation to help you get used to defeating pride in your marriage and common life.

Next, here are Three Benefits to working on Tactic #1

  • You will be more able to battle the demonic when it attacks your marriage. Why? Because the only way to defeat the devil is through humility. Because Satan refused to serve!
  • Humility will allow you to acknowledge and consider that maybe your wife is not responsible for all problems plaguing your marriage.
  • And that you the husband must work on fixing your defects first, if you expect your wife and children to fix themselves as you the husband and father are the leader of the home (authority given by God Himself)
  • Sorry - Your wife and children follow your lead and do what you do!
  • Eliminating pride will allow you to grow in virtue (which leads to holiness and authentic masculinity, driving you to model the ultimate man Jesus Christ.
  • Your virtue and holiness will drive your wife crazy with respect, submissiveness, and devotion. Compelling her to begin fixing her flaws in the marriage and allowing you to lead her and the family towards Christ and His Church!

What are the consequences of failing to follow the Alpha Marriage Tactic #1?

  • Your marriage will never become great, holy, or legendary. And will forever loom in mediocrity.
  • Your wife will never fully commit to you, or follow your lead because your pride will always come between you her and God.
  • An uncomfortable tension will always exist between you as you are always blaming her for your problems, and she reciprocates blaming you!
  • You see how this viscous cycle will never stop if you don’t take the lead and work on your flaws first?

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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In this 16th episode? Man Crisis, Marriage Crisis! Let's solve it together?

No one wants to give money to the Church anymore…Because they realize many of the leaders are really just politicians with religious garb and pointy hats.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • What's the consequences of men not passing on the faith to their children?
  • As a man, how do you protect your children when you aren't around?
  • What can you as a man do to stay out of divorce court?
  • What's the most important factor you should consider when dating/courting a woman?
  • What is a Holy Lover and why is it vital men become one?

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Marriage Crisis Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
  • Listen to episode 15 here: Marriage Struggles: Here's What Helped Me!
  • Article On The Crusades: Crusading For The Truth
  • How men abandoned Christ during Vatican II: Contained in this episode - How To Meet Women: 14 Reasons Dating Is For Sex And Courting Is For Marriage!
  • Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

Man Crisis, Marriage Crisis: Masculinity Under Attack!

Episode 16- Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 16 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Marriage Crisis (Quote Of The Day)

If love does not climb, it falls.

If, like the flame, it does not burn upward to the sun…

it burns downward to destroy.

If sex does not mount to heaven, it descends into hell.

There is no such thing as giving the body, without giving the soul.

Those who think they can be faithful in soul to one another, but unfaithful in body…

forget that the two are inseparable.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #16 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 16 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 15…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn’t crush abortion

#12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage

#13 We didn’t crush no-fault divorce

#14 We didn’t crush ecumenism

#15 Men have stopped praying

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimony.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #16 in the document)

Comment on quote! (this insinuates that the corruption, coverup, and lies are at the highest levels of the Church!)

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#16) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

Men Have Stopped Passing On The Faith To Their Children!


  • So, as we discussed in (episode 15 Marriage Struggles) men have stopped praying.
  • What’s the natural next consequence?
  • Yep, men as the spiritual head of the family begin to cease passing on the Catholic faith to their children.
  • I’ll tell you I feel completely robbed that the faith was basically ignored in my childhood!
  • This is man malpractice!
  • We men are so blind sometimes.
  • We continue to rely on the natural world, for protection!
  • We forget that there are two realms, and the other is the supernatural world.
  • I ask what happens to your wife, your children, your girlfriend, when you are not around, and unable to physically protect them?
  • Can you be with them 24 hours a day?
  • Moreover, can the police get to your home, or to the school, or to your wife’s job, before the horrible happens?
  • This is why you as the man must invoke the power of the Holy Spirit in your family, to help you defend and protect your family when you are absent.
  • This is one of your top duties given to you by God!
  • What do I mean?
  • Just think of the hundreds of decisions your children make per day?
  • Also, the many evil influences that surround them.
  • How do insure they make the proper decision…
  • Not to smoke that joint, not to sleep with that girl, not to allow a boy to get her pregnant, not to skip class, not to lie to you about another bad thing they’ve done?
  • See, this is what happens when we believe we are god, and that we are completely in control.
  • Something catastrophic happens, then we see we are not in control.
  • Then what do we do, we holler for Christ to run in like superman and save us.
  • But as I said in the last episode, do we really know God?
  • Why should he come in and save us, when we’ve ignored him, and proven to him that we don’t want anything to do with him?
  • As God gave the responsibility to Adam for the natural world, you (the man) must grab hold of this duty and take it seriously.
  • You must study, and seek the true answers to how this world really works.
  • Even if your faith is weak right now, don’t you have a duty to find out why.
  • You are the man, the husband, the boyfriend, how much longer will you stand by and rely on haphazardness to rule your life?
  • You must pass on the faith to your family.
  • This gives them the means to deal with whatever happens in their life.
  • This helps ward off disease, mental illness, bad decision making.
  • What happened when you and your wife die?
  • Who is there to protect your children, and their children while you are six feet under?
  • Basically, you’ve left them in a world full of wolves to devour them.
  • Have you really done your job of protection?
  • Just like the current leaders in the Catholic faith…
  • They don’t realize that their failure to pray, to truly believe in God, to truly live up to their commitment of spreading the True word of Christ at all cost, has damaged the natural world.
  • And the main cost has been the family, the center of the universe.
  • Isn’t it funny how…
  • No one listens to them anymore?
  • No one passes down the Catholic faith to their families anymore!
  • No one wants confession to ward off mental illness, and disease anymore!
  • No one wants to give money to the Church anymore…
  • Because they realize that many of the leaders are really just politicians with religious garb on and pointy hats.
  • No one wants to hear how Christ can save them, how he can protect their wives, girlfriends, and children from evil.
  • They have stunted the growth of the church through a lack of courage, a weak stance on abortion…
  • And a never-ending focus on money, power, and ambition!
  • As we look out over the country, abortion is on the rise, divorce is on the rise, suicide is on the rise, mental illness is on the rise, despair is on the rise…
  • And the men in the Catholic Church continue to sit on their hands and do nothing but beg for money, blame everyone else for their woes, and eat bon bons!
  • I will say as I always say, the men in the Catholic Church have much to answer for before Our Lord!

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

The Holy Lover Segment...

Man Crisis, Marriage Crisis: Have We Failed As Men?

  • The Goal of this segment is to give you a mission and purpose:
  • And that mission is for you to Become A Holy Lover!
  • What is a Holy Lover? Two things…
  • One: You becoming the man your wife needs
  • You becoming the man God created you to be
  • What will this accomplish?
  • Keep you out of divorce court
  • Keep you outside of the Annulment Tribunal
  • Keep your family together and prosperous.
  • Keep peace in your home.
  • Keep your wife happy, fulfilled, and secure!
  • Give you a guide and purpose as to what life is really about. And that ain’t money and career!
  • Help you save your soul and the souls of your wife and children.
  • Because let’s be real, ultimately, you are responsible for the success or failure of your marriage.
  • If single to understand your duties and responsibilities in courting, marriage, family, and society.
  • And how to court to find the woman God is trying to show you (basically, to find the mate that will help get you and your children to heaven)
  • And lastly, how to learn how to fix yourself first before blaming God, your wife, your children, your girlfriend, society, the government, your friends, you parents, your siblings!
  • Understand Holy Lover Status is a journey! A journey you must complete for the reward of a whole and complete marriage and family grounded in holiness!

  • [QUOTE] The Battle:
  • “Christian Soldier: The spiritual battle is upon you.
  • No longer can you remain aloof. You are made for combat; made to fight the inner spiritual battle against evil daily.
  • The time has come to be a man of courage!
  • To dawn your armor; pick up your shield, unsheathe your sword; in preparation of the upcoming physical battle.
  • And, for whom do you battle?
  • The battle for Christ;
  • The battle for your marriage;
  • The battle for your family.
  • And if you have anything left; the battle for your very soul!” [END QUOTE]
  • ~Catholic Alpha

  • In order to become a Holy Lover, you must understand what True Masculinity is.
  • And that simply is using Christ as your model.
  • Man Crisis; Marriage Crisis: The Battle For Masculinity!
  • According to the New Emangelization Project’s article documenting the serious Catholic “man-crisis” in the United States. The article states:
  • One in three baptized Catholic men have left the faith.
  • And of those who remain, 50-60% of them are “Casual Catholics” men who don’t understand, and don’t practice the faith.
  • Note: and before you get all uppity, this doesn’t just apply to Catholic men. This man crisis pertains to all Christian faiths!
  • My question is where are the real men?
  • What are we doing?
  • We bitch and complain about our wives or the women in our lives.
  • We complain about presidents, and politicians.
  • We complain about our job, and how we get no respect.
  • We complain about how we’re treated in society, and about how men are emasculated.
  • Hell, most of us don’t even realize that our masculinity has been stripped down to our undershorts.
  • This is how completely unaware we are.
  • Listen, honesty is the only course here. We CAN’T FIGHT THEM WITHOUT CHRIST! It’s not going to happen.
  • No one will respect us! No one will listen to our pleas!
  • Why? Because, they don’t care anymore. In fact, to the secular world, we are irrelevant; useless.
  • Our fathers, and our father’s father abandoned Christ. I mean, what did we expect would happen?
  • Brother, we’re trying to fight evil with evil. This strategy doesn’t work. It’s impossible for it to work.
  • Furthermore, Christ needs warriors.
  • He needs more than a robot; a go along, to get along, emasculated weakling!
  • He needs us to stand up for something greater than ourselves.
  • He needs us to prepare ourselves to sacrifice (as He did) at any time!
  • He needs you to be remarkable; to be a freakin’ REBEL!
  • Gentlemen we must begin to understand the art of manliness, if we are to regain the place God meant for us to have.
  • Only then can peace and holiness fill our lives!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

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Marriage Struggles? Here’s What Helped Me! – CARP015

January 5, 2019 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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Marriage Struggles?

Listen To This Controversial But Proven Tactic!

In this 15th episode? Marriage struggles; Prevent it; stop it; and flourish!

If we don’t pray, how can we know God? Then as our death arrives, we will want mercy, and He will say, I don’t know you!

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • As a man and head of your home, can your prayers protect your home from evil?
  • If we neglect prayer daily, is this an act of mortal sin?
  • Are the good things you do in this life, a substitute for prayer?
  • If we reject prayer on a regular basis, will God reject us upon our death?
  • What are the consequences to the people of God, when clergy refuse to preach on hell?
  • Is it true that sin makes us stupid?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

Marriage Struggles Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man) - More on the deliberate infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church.
  • Scripture Verses: Matthew 7:21-23 - Why you must know God through prayer
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
  • Book - Life Is Worth Living - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

Marriage Struggles: The How, The Why, The Solution!

Episode 15 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 15 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

Marriage Struggles (Quote Of The Day)

The human spirit has a thirst for the infinite which the quadruped has not.

This infinite is really God. But man can pervert that thirst…

which the animal cannot because it has no concept of the infinite.

Infidelity in married life is basically the substitution for an infinite of a succession of finite carnal experiences.

The false infinity of succession takes the place of the Infinity of Destiny, which is God.

The beast is promiscuous for an entirely different reason than man.

The false pleasure given by new conquests in the realm of sex is the ersatz for the conquest of the Spirit in the Sacrament!

The sense of emptiness, melancholy, and frustration…

is a consequence of the failure to find infinite satisfaction in what is carnal and limited.

Despair is disappointed hedonism.

The most depressed spirits are those who seek God in a false god!”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #15 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 15 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 14…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn't crush abortion

#12 We didn't crush so-called same-sex marriage

#13 We didn't crush no-fault divorce

#14 We didn't crush ecumism

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimony.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #15 in the document)

Comment on quote! (this insinuates that the corruption, coverup, and lies are at the highest levels of the Church!)

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#15) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

Men Have Stopped Praying!


  • Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen told a story one time about a priest who wanted to quit the priesthood.
  • We completely underestimate the power of prayer.
  • I know, it’s a cliché, but have you ever thought that it’s a cliché because the devil wanted to encourage us not to pray and to take it for granted?
  • Exactly what is prayer?
  • The Catholic Church say’s it’s a lifting of the heart and mind to God.
  • And what are the benefits of prayer?
  • First of all, prayer is reciprocated by God with Graces.
  • When I grew up, I had no idea what grace meant and why it is necessary.
  • The problem is the faith really wasn’t passed down to me, so I always shunned it like everyone else.
  • It also made me very uncomfortable when people started talking about Christ and God and the such.
  • I now know the reason for that uncomfortableness…
  • It was my rejection of the Holy Spirit.
  • It was the Holy Spirit’s way of trying to persuade me to come home.
  • To come to God.
  • We must realize that as a human person, we’re unable to accomplish anything without grace.
  • It’s a gift that God gives us to encourage us to return to Him.
  • To seek Him.
  • And we can either choose to reject that Grace or embrace it.
  • And this is what’s happening in the Catholic Church right now.
  • Too many men (religious, and laity) have stopped praying and started thinking that all their works are a great substitute for prayer.
  • This is a complete farce. And orders us towards selfishness.
  • How many Christians do you know that they are always doing something in the Church (committees, ministries, seeing the sick, visiting the poor etc.)
  • Which is a good thing.
  • But they don’t attend Church regularly, or they never talk about God outside of Church, or they lack a prayer life.
  • Or worse they don’t really understand the True Catholic faith, because they don’t study it or seek the full truth of it.
  • This is what happens when we don’t pray.
  • We become distant from God.
  • He becomes like a foreign country.
  • And the further we drift away, the more opportunity for Satan to enter our world.
  • Remember Matthew 7:21-23: Not everyone that saith to me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven…
  • But he that doth the will of my Father who is in heaven, he shall enter into the kingdom of heaven.
  • Many will say to me in that day: Lord, Lord, have not we prophesied in thy name, and cast out devils in thy name, and done many miracles in thy name?
  • And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, you that work iniquity.
  • See you can only know God through prayer.
  • If we don’t pray how can we know God? Then when our death comes, we will want mercy, and he will say I don’t know you!
  • This is why when pastors don’t preach on hell, everyone thinks they are going to heaven, no matter what they do!
  • The justice of God is taken completely out of the picture!
  • Many times, we don’t even realize that our faith is gone or leaving us.
  • The major way to keep Satan from our lives, minds, and hearts, is to fill it continuously with thoughts, tasks, and prayers of Christ, God, the Blessed Mother, St. Joseph, The Holy Spirit, the saints, spiritual reading!
  • In essence, prayer, prayer, prayer.
  • Prayer keeps evil out of your home, out of your soul, out of your family, and focused on God and holiness.
  • Demons hate thoughts of God, and they flee.
  • This is why in my childhood and most of my adult years, when people spoke of God, or going to Church I fled.
  • Because I was rejecting God with my will. And this gave evil a chance to enter into my environment.
  • So, when your thoughts and heart are focused on God, where do the demons flee?
  • To other souls that reject the will of Christ!
  • When we sin (mortally) the infusion of the Holy Spirit leaves immediately.
  • Which does what, opens the door for evil to infiltrate your soul and your surrounding environment.
  • And this is what has happened in the Catholic Church, the leaders have stopped praying.
  • They don’t even realize that their faith is weak, and that they no longer believe in Christ and His Church.
  • Sure, they go through the motions, and perpetrate a good fight.
  • So, how do I know this?
  • I know this because of the fruits of what we now see.
  • This current scandal, the abortions, the ignorance of the people in the Catholic church concerning the faith.
  • The people in the body of Christ are lost.
  • And when the sheep are lost, whose job is it to bring them back?
  • To get them back on track?
  • Yes, the Shepard’s!!!
  • And I must ask the question no one is asking or is willing to ask,
  • Where have the shepherds lead their flock?
  • I’ll let you be the judge of that…
  • The answer is clear, if you really look at the results!

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Marriage Struggles Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
Listen Now!

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Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

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FR. Louis Guardiola: How To Avoid Divorce And Thrive! Part 2 – CARP014

December 24, 2018 By Jerry Jacobs Jr.

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FR. Louis Guardiola

In this 14th episode? How to avoid divorce; With FR. Louis Guardiola (part 2).

We are now engaged in the foggy faith, the watered-down, vague version…The Christian faith no-body understands or can concretely agree upon.

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • What is Ecumenism? And why should you as a husband/boyfriend care?
  • Should the Catholic Church come off it's so-called high horse as the one true Christian faith?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola answers: Is it a grave mistake for married couples to exclude God from their bedroom?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola answers: What to do if you hate being around your wife?
  • FR. Louis Guardiola answers: Should a man marry his best friend?

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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...

How To Avoid Divorce Part 2 Episode

  • Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
  • Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
  • 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
  • Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man) - More on the deliberate infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church.
  • What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
  • FR. Louis Guardiola (How To Avoid Divorce) Part 2 interview here!
  • Catholic Answers Article on: Is Ecumenism A Heresy?
  • Fathers Of Mercy Website: Retreats, conferences, parish missions etc. Fathers Of Mercy Website Here!
  • Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen
  • For Serious Marriage Problems: Retrouvaille Marriage Help!
  • For Help Improving And Maintaining A Good Marriage: Worldwide Marriage Encounter
  • Vatican II Council Declaration On Ecumenism: Unitatis Redintegratio
  • Pope Pius XI Encyclical (On Religious Unity): Mortalium Animos

How To Avoid Divorce: A Timeless Strategy...

Episode 14- Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 14- BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

How To Avoid Divorce (Quote Of The Day)

Certain Victorians in their education practically denied sex as a function of personality;

Certain sexophiles of modern times deny personality and make a god of sex.

The male animal is attracted to the female animal,

but a human personality is attracted to another human personality.

The attraction of beast to beast is physiological;

the attraction of human to human is physiological, psychological, and spiritual.”

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #14 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 14 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first 13…


#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

#8 We didn’t crush feminism

#9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt

#10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)

#11 We didn’t crush abortion

#12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage

#13 We didn't crush no-fault divorce


Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimony.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #14 in the document)

Comment on quote! (this insinuates that the corruption, coverup, and lies are at the highest levels of the Church!)

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.


 

So, what is the (#14) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

We didn’t crush Ecumenism!


  • What is Ecumenism?
  • Basically, a hope for a one world religion, while the Catholic faith bargains or compromises the Truth of Christ.
  • In order to persuade the protestants to return to God’s one true Church (Catholicism)
  • On Catholic Answers, there is an article written by Fr. Brian Harrison speaking and comparing two documents on Ecumenism.
  • Vatican’s II’s fallible decree on Ecumenism (Unitatis Redintegratio)
  • Represents a significant departure from traditional doctrine.
  • It severely, contradicts Pope Pius XI’s 1928 encyclical on fostering true religious unity…
  • Mortalium Animos (meaning On Religious Unity)
  • This document was created to recite the Catholic Church’s position in response to the fledgling movement for religious unity…
  • Which had been gathering steam in the liberal protestant circles since the late 19th and early 20th
  • In this article Fr. Harrison basically ends up stating that the document in Vatican II isn’t as bad as it seems.
  • And that it doesn’t really contradict Pope Pius’s Encyclical that much.
  • But I say, what I always say about Vatican II…
  • It says a lot of Truth, but hides in the murky waters underlined themes that have caused the last 60 years of tragedy in the Catholic Church!
  • In his document Pope Pius XI flatly forbade any Catholic participation in interchurch or inter-religious meetings and activities motivated by the desire for restoring Church unity.
  • Vatican II authorizes and positively encourages catholic participation in such activities, within certain limits!
  • We have to realize and wonder, who is evangelizing who here?
  • Christ’s word is not a debate; a compromise…
  • The Truth is the Truth!
  • And who has authority in interpreting that Truth?
  • Methodists? Baptists? Jehovah Witnesses? Muslims?
  • Who did Christ leave in charge and give authority to carry on His Church as He returned to His Father?
  • Yep, Peter the first Pope of the Catholic Church!
  • And as usual people who don’t understand Christ and His faith, and only deal in emotion, are delusional!
  • You know the President Obama “hope for change” or Bishop Barron’s “there is a reasonable hope that all men are saved” ideology.
  • Basically meaning no one really goes to hell…
  • Hell, according to many of them, even Judas is not in hell!
  • Look either Christ is God or he isn’t!
  • Either what he said in the Gospels is complete Truth or it isn’t?
  • Either God is incapable of lying or he is!
  • If Christ is the God Man, and can’t lie, and has revealed His Truth in the Gospels, and we love him, and want to please him (which means plain and simple; obedience)…
  • Then compromising on His word in any form is Heretical.
  • And if Christ left Simon Peter in charge (who is the first pope)
  • Which also means every Bishop in Peter’s line (the Magisterium of the Catholic Church) has complete authority to interpret and administer God’s dogma, doctrine, and discipline.
  • Basically, the Catholic Church should be presenting the protestants with God’s word (the truth) and they should be learning what God truly revealed in the Catholic faith not fighting it.
  • Basically listening, instead of talking!
  • Protestants say the Catholic Church is arrogant, and many ignorant Catholics say the same…
  • Because we claim we are the True Church and that Christ left us in Charge.
  • I’m going to mention two scriptures that give us complete authority, and the right to claim this fact.
  • One: (Matthew 16:18) I also say to you that you are Peter, and upon this rock I will build My church; and the gates of Hades will not overpower it.
  • Two: (Matthew 18:18) Amen I say to you, whatsoever you shall bind upon earth, shall be bound also in heaven; and whatsoever you shall loose upon earth, shall be loosed also in heaven.
  • Catholics should be proud and thankful Christ charged us with holding His Church together.
  • But many of us are ashamed, of our duty and role in this matter!
  • The Truth is the Truth; there can only be one.
  • Our job as Catholics is to present the protestants with the truth.
  • They then have the free will to deny God’s Word or accept it!
  • There can be no compromise!
  • And we’ve seen what compromise has done to not only the Catholic Church, but Christians worldwide.
  • We are now engaged in the foggy faith, the watered-down, vague version…
  • The faith no-body understands or can concretely agree upon.
  • Is this what Christ wanted, 40,000 so-called denominations…
  • All fighting with each other, and compromising on what he’s revealed?
  • Compromise when it comes to the Christian faith causes utter confusion?
  • This is how you destroy the family…
  • this is how you get women to murder millions of babies…
  • this is how you get priests to abuse boys…
  • this is how you control the masses…
  • make everything foggy and debatable!
  • And again, what did the men in the Catholic faith do?
  • Sit back, remain distracted, become wusses, and ate bon bons!
  • How is that for Truth?

What do you think?

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Warrior Stories...

FR. Louis Guardiola: How To Avoid Divorce; It's Not Too Late!

Warrior Stories - is our segment on Ordained men who are fighting the spiritual battle in the Catholic Church every day through sacrificing their lives, bodies, hearts, and souls, for our ultimate warrior Christ!

  • And today’s warrior is Father Louis Guardiola of The Fathers Of Mercy Generalate in South Union, Kentucky.
  • Ordained – May 31st, 2001
  • Current outreach – Is the Fathers Of Mercy where he preaches retreats, parish missions, conferences, and 40 hours devotions.
  • Father Guardiola studied under Fr. John Hardon as a Lay Catechist for 7 years.
  • FR. Guardiola also hosts his on radio show on Alpha International Radio every Wednesday from 3-4 eastern!
  • Please welcome Father Louis Guardiola!

How To Avoid Divorce Court...

Interview With FR. Louis Guardiola (Part 2)

Relationship Questions


  1. Today, married couples are encouraged to exclude God from their bedrooms. Why is this a grave mistake? And what are three ways married couples can involve God more in their sex lives. And what are the benefits to doing this?
  2. Name the worst marriage situation you’ve encountered in your counseling sessions, and how did you handle it?
  3. Name the worst singles relationship situation you’ve encountered in your counseling sessions, and how did you handle it?
  4. If a husband hates being around his wife, what are some things he can do to remedy this.
  5. Should a man marry his best friend (why or why not)
  6. If a wife finds that her husband hates spending time with her, what can she do to remedy this?
  7. If a man is courting/dating and starts to realize that his girlfriend is not the one for him. How should he handle it?
  8. If a husband is having thoughts of infidelity. What can he do spiritually to fight this urge?
  9. What is the funniest, worst or best, experience, you’ve ever had when trying to evangelize someone?
  10. Please tell us more about the Fathers Of Mercy and Their Mission. (don’t ask this it’s part of the above: Do you have any special projects, or causes going on right now?)

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

I hope you enjoyed part 2 of my interview with my distinguished guest, FR. Louis Guardiola of The Fathers Of Mercy?

 

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

How To Avoid Divorce Tips For Men!

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