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My Wife Is Depressed...

Why? Listen To This Controversial Episode!

 In this eighth episode? My wife is depressed:  Sex - Could this be the answer?

Evil never stops; Until men stop it!

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

 

  • Slight explicit warning (adult content) in this episode. Not meant for 17 or under.
  • How can unfulfilling intimacy affect the emotional, psychological, and spiritual well-being of your wife?
  • What can you do to prevent this from happening to your Beloved?
  • Also, in this episode, how can feminism destroy your marriage?
  • Is radical feminism hurting the psyche of your children?

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Episode 8 - Show Notes

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – Where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 8 - BAM!

So, Let’s-Do-This!

My Wife Is Depressed (Quote Of The Day)

Marriage founded on sex passion alone lasts only as long as the animal passion lasts.

Within two years the animal attraction for the other may die,

And when it does, law comes to its rescue

To justify the divorce with the meaningless words "incompatibility," or "mental torture."

Animals never have recourse to law courts,

Because they have no will to love;

But man, having reason…

Feels the need of justifying his irrational behavior when he does wrong.”

 

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Book: Three To Get Married

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day

The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reason Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!

  • Before I start – This will be a 21episode series (one per show)
  • Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Why was this done?
  • To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
  • If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
  • Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
  • That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
  • Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
  • We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
  • You can’t change the Church outside the Church!

2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...

The #8 Reason Men Are Responsible

So let’s get started with number 8 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.

But first let’s review the first seven…

#1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.

#2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)

#3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”

#4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ

#5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.

#6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)

#7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)

Before each number I will read a quote directly from the document containing Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano’s testimonial.

So that you can understand the gravity of this situation and move to destroy and speak out against it in your environment (Church, marriage, family, work, and society at large.)

I’ll also place a link to the full document in the show notes.

Quote Archbishop Vigano – on the abuses of Cardinal McCarrick (see quote #8 in the document)

Comment on quote!

Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.

So, what is the (#8) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church?

We Didn’t Crush Feminism!

  • I told my wife the other day that men will do almost anything for sex.
  • She laughed but it’s true.
  • Wasn’t it King David that sent his soldier to his death, because he wanted to have the soldiers wife all to himself?
  • Think of all the things you’ve said over your life to a woman,
  • Just to get her to like you and do what?
  • (In the end, have sex with you)
  • Come on be honest!
  • What about Sampson?
  • He told Delilah the secret to his almighty power why?
  • To continue to have sex with her.
  • Sex is a powerful motivator for men.
  • And you know what?
  • Women know this instinctively!
  • So, what do they do?
  • They use it to get what they want.
  • The other thing is, men will do almost anything to keep peace in their homes!
  • We can’t stand it!
  • We can’t stand to come home to crazy commotion.
  • So, if our wife starts to complain and nag us…
  • Our protective mechanism arises, and we will do almost anything to please her…
  • Why?
  • To stop the nagging or commotion!
  • So, when the feminism movement began (which by the way was nothing like you see today)
  • It was like the unions…
  • Women really wanted better treatment and civility!
  • Not to abandon their God given talents as wives, mothers, and women!
  • Just as the unions got greedy, so did women!
  • Why?
  • Because evil never stops, until men stop it!
  • So, what happened was many men back in the day, just let it happen.
  • They didn’t fight it.
  • And I can just imagine their thought process…
  • So, what if women wanted to vote
  • So, what if they wanted jobs
  • So what if they wanted a career
  • So, what if they wanted to get away from the children
  • So what if they didn’t want to learn to cook!
  • So what if they started focusing on so-called sexual freedom
  • So what if they stopped wanting to understand how to take care of their husbands
  • So what if they wanted to stop sacrificing their lives for the nurturing, raising, and education of their children.
  • So what if they wanted to start taking birth control
  • So what if they wanted divorces without any cause
  • So, what if they wanted to abort their babies (without you even knowing, I might add)
  • Why?
  • Because men know how women are…
  • They will use their power of denying him sex or some other punishment that she knows will really get to him…
  • So that she will get what she wants.
  • Women are so dam powerful and it’s a shame that they don’t realize their true strength…
  • And it’s not kicking some dudes but in the movies.
  • It’s guiding and helping her husband, get them and their family to heaven.
  • They don’t understand, that just as for a man, this life is a test!
  • The test is, will she be a true woman, and sacrifice her, career, her wants, her desires, for the molding, education, love of God, her husband, and her children?
  • Many men tried to resist and fight feminism, but it spread…
  • Because just as with everything Satan presents, at first it sounds good, logical, and true.
  • But let’s look at how great feminism truly is (especially radical crazy feminaziism!)
  • Now women age much faster. Their beauty fades much quicker…
  • Why?
  • Because of all the different sexual partners
  • Which destroys them emotionally and psychologically!
  • They have too much responsibility…
  • Which weighs heavily on them physically, emotionally, and spiritually!
  • They are completely worn down!
  • Now that they have assumed the role as the man of the house, and head of society…
  • They are completely miserable.
  • Of course, they all try and deny it, but we all know it’s true…
  • Why?
  • Because they’re always trying to get men to do something to help them.
  • But what they don’t know is men will continue to do nothing, as long as they keep trying to dominate him and society!
  • Why?
  • It’s called the curse of Eve.
  • During the fall, Eve tried to manipulate and control Adam..
  • By eating the apple, and then conning him into eating it which displeased God.
  • Basically, Adam didn’t man up and maintain his duty, and God given right, as head of the household (everything in this realm)
  • He became emasculated, and effeminate.
  • So, after the fall, God punished Adam by making it almost impossible for him to satisfy and please his wife.
  • This also made it harder for her to submit her will to God…
  • Which is embracing the natural order of (God, husband, wife, Children.)
  • This is why when women try and control men they rebel.
  • And this is why women will never be truly happy and fulfilled, until they submit to their husbands…
  • And ultimately God!
  • This is exactly what’s happened to, not just the Catholic Church, but in most, if not all, Christian religions.
  • The Church is a bag of emotional, crying, slobbery, in charge women.
  • Which does what?
  • Repel the men, and they want nothing to do with Christ.
  • Why?
  • Because men aren’t stupid, they see they really aren’t needed or welcomed.
  • And when men sense this, they become completely, lazy and aloof.
  • Why?
  • Because they feel who needs them; the women have it all under control!
  • But of course they don’t!
  • And the leaders of the Catholic Church (priests, bishops, etc…) have fallen right in line.
  • They hate commotion in the Church.
  • They hate to have to solve problems and disputes.
  • So, what do they do, when people (especially women) complain…
  • They cave!
  • So, God once again, has pulled back His grace, and made the Church, more unruly, more susceptible to evil.
  • Why?
  • Because until men man up, and assume their proper roles (which will compel women to take their proper roles)…
  • The Church will continue to suffer greatly,
  • Which in turn, will trickle down to the inner depths of society.
  • Causing more chaos, immorality, evil infiltration, destruction, and mayhem.
  • This is only the beginning!
  • And my last question is, as always…
  • What happens to the least of our society, when adults basically only consider their own selfish wants and desires?
  • Kids grow up selfish and disordered adults!
  • Which impedes holiness and virtue!
  • Millions of babies are aborted for the mere sake of convenience!
  • Families are broken up through selfish divorce (but hey of course the kids will be ok right?)
  • God (which is the ultimate truth and morality) is dismissed…
  • And evil is given free reign!
  • Brother, please man up!

What do you think?

Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com

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Question: You mention the woman having the opportunity to have multiple orgasms before the man: is it also licit to have them after the man multiple times?

It's important that you understand, orgasms for women are extremely important. Even more so than men. And if your wife is depressed, this could be, and probably is, one of the major reasons (besides Confession).

It has to do with psychological and emotional benefits. According to St. Pope John Paul II, it disrespects women as a human person, when their husband fails to provide them with at least one orgasm, during the marital embrace.

A wife can only have multiple orgasms (meaning 2 to 30 or more - in one love making session) if her husband has her complete interest at heart, and completely ignores his wants and desires. This requires complete loss of his ego and own selfishness.

I'm sorry to say, but your husband having the ability to give you the gift of multiple orgasms after his first, is very rare and unlikely. Unless he is 18 to say 25 years old. Then his vitality is really high. After that age, especially if over 40, he must hold back his complete satisfaction in lieu of yours above all else.

This means, he must not ejaculate before you have reached complete and total satisfaction. Which depending on your inhibitions, the pain in your life, how many sex partners you’ve had, and the walls you’ve built up over the years, could be as much as 20 or 30 or more.

When a man orgasms, it basically consumes 50 times more energy than when a woman orgasms. In short, a woman's orgasm costs her in energy 1/50th that of a man.

This is what I mean when I say it is almost impossible for a man to give you multiple orgasms, especially if he is over 40, unless he resists the urge to ejaculate.

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

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Ephesians 5 | Wives And Husbands; Misinterpreted; Misunderstood

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Ephesians 5: Wives And Husbands

Misinterpreted; Misunderstood

It takes three to make love, not two, you, your spouse and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished."

~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

Ephesians 5:

The Marriage You Want; The Marriage You Need

These verses are so often misinterpreted. This stems from ignorance of God “The Father”. As well as, the lack of unselfishness and humility on the part of each spouse.
Many times we feel that just because we don't agree with or like a teaching, or the Word of the Father, we can dismiss it. Furthermore, rationalize in our limited minds a reason for why we don't have to.
Then our lives, more specific our marriage becomes crap.
[pullquote]Why? Because we (through ignorance and disobedience) more important plain stupidity, decide we know better than Christ. In effect, believing we're our own god.[/pullquote]
 
Commencing, doing things our way. Meanwhile, neglecting to realize that for 2000 years the Church, not to mention our Creator, put into place a road map for our happiness.
 
So, what do we do. Screw things up. Then run to God shouting, "Help me, help me, oh, please help me!" Just dumb!
 
The proof of this statement? Look at the divorces, selfishness, the millions of children without a father to look up to.
The hordes of single and lonely people in society, duped into believing marriage is just a piece of paper (Yeah, that's real smart.)
The many wives who have left their marriages for greener pastures. As a result, conclude the grass wasn't as advertised; regretting their selfishness for breaking up their home.
 
What about your marriage? Did you do things your way? How has "your way" worked out for you? I suspect, not as grand as you've hoped.
 
Maybe Ephesians 5 (21-33) can offer a place of solitude.

God’s Commandments:

A Set Of Rules; Or An Abundance Of Love?

We should perceive “The Almighty’s” direction as we would our human father. When Christians say they fear God, it means the fear of losing His grace, and the fear of  disappointing Him in some manner.
 
For example, most fathers put rules and plans into place for the good of the family. They aren’t trying to control or manipulate or punish us. In contrast, our human fathers want us to flourish, and become the best we can be.
 
For instance, when we are toddlers, rules are put into place telling us, don’t touch the hot stove. Why? Because fire is harmful to our body.
 
However, a toddler doesn’t understand the rule. His mind isn’t able to comprehend why the stove is hot. But, his father does understand. In addition, experience, understanding and intellect is his gift to us.
 
When the toddler grows into a man, he realizes why the stove was hot, and why a rule was in place. Further, he needed to embrace obedience, trust and defer to his human father, until he was able to comprehend his surroundings.

Should You Trust And Embrace His Guidance?

In the physical world, we are experiencing the plight of the toddler. God is outside of time. As a result, He’s able to view the past, the present and future all simultaneously.
 
In effect, he doesn’t experience time. So, he can see all, and is in a position to share with us all that is good. While helping us avoid all that is evil.
 
In essence, protecting and guiding us as would our human father. Every plan, commandment and story God has revealed to us, is put into place for one reason. To purify us enough to be able to unite with Him in the Divine.
 
Sin, evil and temptation are forever present. Calling us to rebel against the good. Therefore, separating us from Christ. In fact, manipulating us and hiding the truth.
 
As we move forward, remember, God didn’t create evil. Evil goes against His divine nature. Sin and evil are allowed into the world because of The Fall of Adam (man).
 
So, as you view Ephesians 5, understand that sin and your refusal to be obedient to “The Father” (in some way) is allowing evil to enter and corrupt your marriage.
 
He asks us to follow Him, and accept Him into every facet of our lives to protect us from evil. Protecting us because we’re unable to see the dangers ahead. Just as our human fathers would do.
 
Will you continue to deny God’s fatherly protection? Did you refuse the guidance of your father on earth as you grew, matured and became knowledgeable? The odds are; you didn’t. Because you realized that wouldn’t be smart.
 
In fact, if married couples in their entirety followed, and put into action these verses; life would be much less complicated.

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I present to you Ephesians 5 (21-33) offering some clarity

(21) Wives and husbands be subordinated to one another out of reverence for Christ.

  • Isn’t if funny. In society you never hear this verse quoted. But out of the 13 verses this verse is the most telling of what Christ is asking.
  • If both spouses are subordinate or submit to each other out of love, respect, obedience and reverence for Christ, how can either encounter total domination?

(22) Wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord.

Without Ephesians 5 wives and husbands can have a gothic marriage minus rose on vines and silver wedding rings
Ephesians 5 (21-33) Forming A More Perfect Union

  • You must understand that St. Paul starts with the complete responsibility of both spouses acting as one in verse 21.
  • In being married remember that you and your spouse are no longer individuals, with separate bodies and minds. But, are one flesh acting only together as one.
  • So, now in verse 22, St. Paul instructs each spouse in a more direct manner what they are expected to do individually in order to accomplish total and complete oneness with each other.
  •  In each family the husband is the head, but the wife is the heart. These two cannot and must not be in conflict.

(23) For the husband is head of his wife just as Christ is head of the Church, He Himself the savior of the body.

  • Remember, that Christ is not only the head of the Church, but also he came from Heaven incarnate to save the Church as well.
  • Understand that Christ is the groom and the Church is his bride.
  • And in this context what did Our Lord do? He gave himself, sacrificed himself for the Church; the communion of the body.
  • Here husbands are commanded to love, govern, protect and give up his entire life for his wife. As she is his bride as the Church is Christs bride. You see?

(24) As the Church is subordinate to Christ, wives should be subordinate to their husbands in everything.

  • Ok, submit, subordinate, subject to; all mean the same. But what is the exact meaning of these three ideas?
  • Here wives are asked to submit to their husbands, but only as long as they are on the mission of Christ and his Church.
  • Remember verse 21 and 22, submit to each other “In reverence to Christ”, “As to the Lord”.
  • If the husband is always following Christ and His Church, the wife is obligated to follow and lead the family in this direction as well.
  • Why? Because you love The Father and if you love him you must keep and do as he asks.

(25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her.

(26) To sanctify her, cleansing her by the bath of water with the word,

(27) That he might present to himself the Church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.

  • What is your number one responsibility as a husband? To make sure your wife becomes Holy, a saint and to make sure her soul is accepted into Heaven. Big responsibility huh?
  • This is why you must above all things, sacrifice your life little by little, day by day. Only then will you have accomplished your mission.
  • Sacrifice your one and only life so that your precious wife, shall be purified, cleansed and spotless before God. Because you gave yourself for her.
  • Then and only then will she become the woman that you need. The woman that God created her to be.
  • For this The Father will forever reward you.

28) So also, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

(29) For no one hates his own flesh, but rather nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ does the church,

  • Again, St. Paul aggressively defines the role of the husband, to be clear that a husband cannot abuse his privilege (his wife, his partner, made from him, without whom he would be incomplete).
  • Again, we must refer back to the first verse 21, the foundation of this whole passage. Husbands and wives must submit to each other. Wives are our partners not doormats. As the opposite holds true for wives. The husband is not to be manipulated or abused in any way. Decisions must be made as partners.
  • How beautiful is this? But when we disobey God and go our own way, turn our backs on him, evil (sin) is allowed to enter the marriage. From this; chaos, abuse and selfishness ensues.

(30) because we are members of his body.

(31) For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

(32) This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the Church.

  • No relationship on earth is more important than your marriage. All other relationships (mother, father, children, friends) should pale in comparison.
  • Again, marriage takes three: Husband, wife, The Father.
  • Without your wife, your marriage, do you in actuality have a family? I would argue you don’t.
  • As stated, this is a mystery. We must trust in The Father, and let him lead us. While giving our obedience free and without doubt. Ah, faith, that beautiful, magnificent gift.

(33) In any case, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and the wife should respect her husband.

  • To repeat, St Paul has led us starting with verse 21. Instructing us in the ultimate purpose of this passage. Husbands and wives should in the end serve, submit, care for and sacrifice for each other. Just as Christ showed us.
  • He told the wife what she must do. He instructed the husband in what he must do.
  • And, in the end, he directs both on the ultimate purpose and actions to be completed.

Confirmation From St. Pope John Paul II

In his Apostolic Exhortation: Familiaris Consortio he writes:
  • Authentic conjugal love presupposes and requires that a man have a profound respect for the equal dignity of his wife:
  • “You are not her master,” writes St. Ambrose, “but her husband; she was not given to you to be your slave, but your wife… Reciprocate her attentiveness to you and be grateful to her for her love.”
  • With his wife, a man should live a very special form of personal friendship.
  • As for the Christian, he is called upon to develop a new attitude of love, manifesting toward his wife a charity that is both gentle and strong like that which Christ has for his Church.
There you have it. God, a saint and a pope (who has become a saint) telling you with as much love and care they can muster, to follow the plan. What else do you need?

A Final Word On Ephesians 5 (21-33)

I ask, when has God ever been wrong? It’s a tragedy how married couples get themselves into trouble. They act as if they don’t know any better. In fact, screwing up their marriage and family, by turning their backs on the Almighty and allowing in evil.
 
Then, expect Christ to run in and save the day. This is utter ridiculousness. How about this suggestion. Let’s follow the plan laid out in Ephesians 5 (21-33).
 
However, we are human, and will fail at times. But, isn’t this better than neglecting his help from the beginning? Isn’t this better than having a total collapse of our lives? Sure it is.
 
My humble advice? Turn to Him now to prevent greater challenges in the future. It seems to work for me.

Summary

In This Article: How We've Rocked It!

  • Ephesians 5 (21-33) one of the most controversial passages in the bible concerning marriage, explained and demythed.
  • And, how the verses really apply to marriage.
  • Also, how the Christian faith is tons more than a list of rules, and how if embraced is designed to lead you on a path to happiness, fulfillment and peace?
  • We learned what submit, subordinate or subject to actually means. Instead of what the interpretation of the ignorant believes it means, concerning wives and marriage?
  • We learned what the Father is in reality asking of us, as Christian husbands.
  • And, why Christ's example of masculinity, must be your course!
And your marriage? Your children's marriages? Are they following this timeless advice?
 
 
Or do they mirror the millions of disasters that have plagued our society, and families for decades?
 
What are your thoughts?

What's Coming Next?

In My Next Article We'll Focus On:

  • Exploring your inner happiness and how to rise from the plague of selfishness.
  • Understanding why you must sacrifice for your marriage in order to gain the dreams you've always wanted.
  • In a previous article (here) I spoke on the many causes of intimacy problems in a marriage. Now I'll start focusing on solutions to some of those issues.
  • Selfishness in marriage and how it will infect your marriage and cause it to fade away slowly and surely.
  • Realize the one priority you must always do for your wife so she feels you care.
  • And Much More!

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