How To Become A Holy Lover...
In Your Catholic Marriage!
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Marriage Maintenance In Your Catholic Marriage...
What No One's Telling You!
In this 20th episode? We discover and cover Holy Lover Marriage Tactic #2. As well as these other important lessons... Looking back, I probably didn’t see the issues in our marriage, because I didn’t want too face them...But see, that’s a clear road to divorce court!
- My true suspicions concerning Covid-19 and its relationship to Communism.
- The "Abandonment Of Marriage" Why it's easier to have sex with a woman than it is to marry her?
- No matter his age, when does a man truly become a man?
- What is "Catholic Marriage Maintenance", and why must you implement this asap in your Catholic Marriage?
- What are the benefits for mastering the Holy Lover Marriage Tactic #2?
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Links And Resources Mentioned In This...
Catholic Marriage Episode
- Original Archbishop Vigano' Testimony Document (find it here)
- Send questions and comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
- 20-Minute Marriage Makeover - Take the assessment at https://catholicalpha.com
- The infiltration by Communism and Radical Feminism in the Catholic Church: Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast Ep. 2 (How To Be A Man)
- Article on how to man up Christ's way: Christ - The Original Catholic Alpha
- What the Catholic Alpha podcast is about and the benefits for you: Episode 1 - Marriage problems, girlfriend problems, intimacy problems? Start Here!
- Book - Three To Get Married - Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen (consider before Catholic Marriage counseling)
Your Catholic Marriage...Is It Mediocre, Lukewarm, or Failing?
Want to understand why?
Consider the 20-Minute Marriage Makeover Challenge!
5 (less than) 20-minute (do it yourself) videos, to help you discover ...
- Chaos in your marriage and home? Watch video 2
- Could your lack of leadership or Authentic Masculinity be the culprit? Watch Video 3
- Is your intimacy average or non-existent? This is most likely the reason – Watch video 4

Your Next Step Starts Here...Stop The Feeling Of Helplessness…
Holy Lover Tactic #2 - Marriage Maintenance
Episode 20 - Show Notes
Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical! – A Catholic Relationships podcast. Giving men winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems.
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While helping men understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!
Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage – THIS IS EPISODE 20 - BAM!
So, Let’s-Do-This!
Catholic Marriage (Quote Of The Day)
If love does not climb, it falls.
If, like the flame, it does not burn upward to the sun…
it burns downward to destroy.
If sex does not mount to heaven, it descends into hell.
There is no such thing as giving the body, without giving the soul.
Those who think they can be faithful in soul to one another, but unfaithful in body…
forget that the two are inseparable.”
~Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married
Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day
The Cowardice Of Men – The Top 21 Reasons Men Have Caused The 2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church – And Why We’re Not Going To Take It Anymore!
- Before I start – This will be a 21-episode series (one per show)
- Also understand that the infiltration by the Catholic Church with homosexuality and radical feminism, plus the watering down of the faith and the stripping away of the Latin Mass was planned in order to, destroy the morality of those within the Church (priests and laity) and is not the teaching of the Catholic Church.
- Why was this done?
- To destroy the American family, to destroy our morality, and to destroy our patriotism! In order that we become susceptible to Communism and its ideas!
- If you want more on this please refer back to episode #2.
- Many people want to bash or worst leave the Catholic faith because of the current scandal…That’s pure ignorance!
- That’s exactly what the Evil One wants them to do!
- Also we must understand that there are many Judases among us. Are you going to abandon Christ too?
- We must fight within the Church – This is how Christ demands it because this is the Church He created!
- You can’t change the Church outside the Church!
2018 Scandal In The Catholic Church...
The #20 Reason Men Are Responsible
- So, let’s get started with number 20 of the top 21 reasons that men are responsible for the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church.
- Realize, these top 21 reasons are in no certain order as they all feed upon one another.
- But first let’s review the first 19…
- #1 was Refusal to accept our roll as men.
- #2 was Allowed the men in the Catholic Church (Popes, cardinals, bishops, priests, deacons, to water down (dilute the teachings of the Catholic Faith)
- #3 was “They didn’t fight for Christ during Vatican II”
- #4 an unwillingness to sacrifice for Christ
- #5 they have nothing they are willing to die for.
- #6 Have begun raising soft and selfish boys (aka – wusses)
- #7 Don’t understand our mission and purpose as men – to protect-defend-and serve (God, marriage, wife, children, society at large)
- #8 We didn’t crush feminism
- #9 We didn’t crush the protestant revolt
- #10 We didn’t crush contraception (aka – birth control)
- #11 We didn’t crush abortion
- #12 We didn’t crush so-called same-sex marriage
- #13 We didn’t crush no-fault divorce
- #14 We didn’t crush ecumenism
- #15 Men have stopped praying
- #16 Men have stopped passing on the Catholic faith to their children.
- #17 Men have stopped being obedient to God; which means they want to be their own God!
- #18 Men have abandoned God for the theory of evolution.
- #19 Unchastity, Men can’t control their sexual power.
So, what is the (#20) reason men have caused the 2018 scandal in the Catholic Church (which has now spread into 2019 and 2020)?
The Abandonment Of Catholic Marriage!
- It’s easier to have sex with a woman than marry her.
- It’s easier to live with a woman than marry her.
- It’s easier to drive a woman’s car than marry her.
- It’s easier to spend a woman’s money than marry her.
- It’s easy to say, I love you and keep her on a puppet string, than it is to marry her.
- It’s easier to remain a coward and waste years of her time (using up her body, youth, and vitality – damaging her soul) than it is to marry her.
- See this way when we are done with her, and have taken advantage of every single pleasure and benefit she has to offer…
- We can dump her, move out, take our belongings, leave her with the children, and rent, and move on to the next sucker!
- As we do this, we are lying to ourselves and rationalizing that it’s her fault.
- This keeps the shame away, and helps us sleep at night.
- I must ask, what has happened?
- Why do we men do this over and over again?
- Why do we do we continually not man up?
- Why is one, 10, 20 or more women not enough?
- The reason is, the clergy in the Catholic church have ceased preaching the true word of God!
- As I always say, the Catholic Church is the only true moral authority left in the world.
- And if the clergy refuse to teach the true teachings of Christ, then other protestant churches, and the laity in the Catholic Church find and rationalize their own morality.
- Look marriage is the core of the universe.
- God created it because we need families, and children need parents living together under one roof.
- As a matter of fact, they have that right.
- So, with no true teaching or guidance, men flounder, moving from woman to woman, trying to fill the emptiness.
- But, it never seems to work!
- Young adults only think about today for the most part.
- They want it now.
- So, if a woman wants to give herself, her car, her money, her body, and her most valuable asset (time) to a man…
- He will take it!
- Why? Because he is selfish!
- Not really on purpose, but this is how he was raised, with no mission, no purpose, and no meaning in his life.
- So, he’s drawn to doing what his instincts tell him.
- And what’s that?
- The seeking of complete and total pleasure in all things!
- Which makes him soft, effeminate, and emasculated.
- A man is not a true man until he’s married, with kids, and willing to suffer and die to himself, never considering his wants and desires!
- Then and only then, will Almighty God give him the grace to start his search towards heaven!
What do you think?
Send your questions or comments to RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com
Considering A Catholic Marriage Annulment...Is it Lukewarm?
Want to understand why?
Consider the 20-Minute Marriage Makeover Challenge!
5 (less than) 20-minute (do it yourself) videos, to help you discover ...
- Chaos in your marriage and home? Watch video 2
- Could your lack of leadership or Authentic Masculinity be the culprit? Watch Video 3
- Is your intimacy average or non-existent? This is most likely the reason – Watch video 4

Your Next Step Starts Here...Stop The Feeling Of Helplessness…
The Holy Lover Marriage Tactic...
In An Unhappy Marriage But Can't Leave?
It’s time for the Catholic Alpha Marriage Tactic – A series of marriage tactics that will transform you from zero to hero!
But only if you drop the laziness, aloofness, and pride; and actually do them!
Consider; Is your marriage passionless, lackluster, mediocre, or currently in the toilet? Want to get it back on track (Make It Great?)
Then consider today’s Alpha Marriage Tactic #2! Either listen to me now, or I guarantee; you’ll be looking for me, or someone like me, later!
So, What Is Alpha Marriage Tactic #2: Implement Marriage Maintenance Now!
[Quote]“There is the feeling of being hungry after having eaten, or of being disgusted with food, because it has nourished not the body,
in the case of an individual, or another body, in the case of marriage.
In the woman, this sadness is due to the humiliation of realizing that
where marriage is only sex, her role could be fulfilled by any other
woman;
there is nothing personal, incommunicable, and therefore
nothing dignified.
Summoned by her God-implanted nature to be
ushered into the mysteries of life which have their source in God,
she is condemned to remain on the threshold as a tool or an
instrument of pleasure alone, and not as a companion of love.
Two glasses that are empty cannot fill up one another.
There must be a fountain of water outside the glasses, in order that they may have communion with one another.
It takes three to make love."[End Quote]
Venerable Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen – Three To Get Married
Why do we only change when the pain is so unbearable that it almost forces us to our knees?
I remember in my first marriage, my wife would leave me and get on an airplane and go home to her mom’s house.
I’m out working, thinking she is at home with the kids fixing dinner and getting ready for bed.
I come home and everybody’s gone.
See, I didn’t take the clues she was giving me.
I didn’t see the pain, because one, I was trying to make a living…
And two, I wasn’t really in tune with her.
Looking back, I probably didn’t see the issues because I didn’t want to face them.
But see, that’s a clear road to divorce court!
So, what is Marriage Maintenance?
I define Marriage Maintenance as…not waiting until things in your marriage are dire, desperate, and in the toilet before trying to fix them.
Not waiting too long before taking action when problems arise.
Manning up and Battling the issues before they start and if a problem does come up tackle it now!
Is this how you roll in your marriage?
The odds are you don’t.
Why? Because the pain isn’t kicking your butt yet.
You still feel you can put it off.
Your wife isn’t crying, or like me, taking the kids and going out of state.
Oh, then we try to get on it, and solve it, in crisis mode.
But of course it’s too late.
She ain’t listening, and she don’t care!
If this is you currently, you have huge problems that you don’t even perceive.
You have to remember that women are always 20 steps ahead of us.
So, if you have what you think are small issues, medium issues, or worse large chaotic issues…
Your wife has already been planning how she is going to deal with them… and you!
While you are out on the golf course, at work, or out with the fellas…
she’s planning what she’s going to do, if you don’t get it together!
Please listen to what I’m saying fellas!
She will act like things are great and ok…
that’s because women are always trying to keep things together, until you…get it together!
So, what’s the solution?
The solution is, you must be in tune with your Beloved at all times.
You must notice the little things. Why? Because she does!
You must put a plan into action that kills potential problems before they even start. This Is Marriage Maintenance!!!
I know you’re saying Jerry this sounds good, but how do I do it?
So, here are some things that will help…
Four steps to help you implement Marriage Maintenance…
Prayer – Pray for the guidance and grace to get to Confession and help you see problems before they arise.
If you don’t have a regular prayer life, or don’t pray at all, this is your main problem. You aren’t taking advantage of the supernatural world.
I guarantee you, there are serious problems in your marriage right now if you aren’t praying and battling for your marriage with God’s help.
Start Praying The Rosary Immediately!
This will begin molding you into a Holy Lover: The man your wife needs, and the man God is calling you to be (ultimate husband, ultimate man!)
Begin ASAP Anticipating Potential Problem Areas!
You can only do this if you observe her, get in tune with her, and become her best friend!
This is why you must pray and ask for God’s and the Blessed Mother’s help.
God will send the Holy Spirit to guide you, and the Blessed Mother will ask her Son (Christ) to give you the strength of true man!
Once you anticipate a problem, fix it now, so it never even happens.
If you have current issues, communicate with your wife immediately, and ask her how you two can work together to solve them.
But you must remember, you are held responsible for the success (with God’s help) or failure (you’ve turned your marriage over to the Evil One) of your marriage.
Lastly, don’t wait; Ever! Tackle and solve issues now,
because if you don’t, they will only build and get worse, causing more chaotic problems!
Sign Up For The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover Now!
This will get you started and give you some ideas and guidance on what you can do to begin fixing your marriage, or better preventing chaos!
Visit CatholicAlpha.com and click the button to sign up.
Next, here are Three Benefits to working on Tactic #2
First, you will save your marriage
Second, you will keep your family together under one roof
Three, your wife will support you, aid you, and become the wife you need!
What are the consequences of failing to follow the Alpha Marriage Tactic #2 (Implement Marriage Maintenance Now?
Your marriage will eventually become chaotic. It will happen slow, but it will come!
You and your wife will (if not already) blame each other for problems in your marriage.
This disrespect, untrustworthiness, and passing the blame, will lead to divorce court…
or at minimum, a lackluster, passionless, selfish marriage; I PROMISE!
Conclusion
As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI
Quote “Society offers you comfort…
But you weren’t made for comfort…
You were made for greatness!
So go forth Christian Soldier…
The Spiritual fight is upon you…
Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!
Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!
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- Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
- The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
- Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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