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Winning tactics for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Why Marriage Counselling Sucks
And The 6 Concepts Men Need To Survive If You Must Go! Part 1 (CARP149)
In this 150th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant: Learn the things you must do and say in marriage counseling if you are to survive it and win!
- In this 150th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
- Marriage counseling and how you must prepare to help your marriage stay away from divorce!
- Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions
- Caller #1: What to do when the counselor gangs up on my wife?
- Caller #2:The counselor is looking at my wife’s faults so she doesn’t want to go?
- Reference for this episode:
- Book: Connecting Through Yes: How To Agree When You Don’t Agree To Get Cooperation And Closeness In Your Marriage by Dr. Jack Ito
- Here is the link
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- Secret #1: Chaos in your marriage and home?
- Secret #2: Could a lack of Authentic Masculinity be the culprit?
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Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...
This Episodes Show Script
"Show Transcript"
Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…
While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!
Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!
And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!
While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!
Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –
IN THIS 150th EPISODE (Why marriage counseling sucks for men Part 2)
Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…
Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1
Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!
TRANSITION MUSIC!
Quote Of The Day
So, let’s-do-this!
Continually look for calls in the queue! –
[QUOTE]
When it is all over you will not regret having suffered; rather you will regret having suffered so little, and suffered that little so badly.”[END QUOTE]
~ Saint Sebastian Valfre
(TRANSITION MUSIC)
Radical Rant Of The Day
Question Of Day Disrespect In Marriage
- Comment on today’s quote!
- So, let’s get started with Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of the Day...
- Why do men do so badly in marriage counseling?❖ Odds are stacked against him
❖ He doesn’t have the patience to sit there
❖ He feels he is being blamed
❖ The counselor and the wife gang up on him
❖ Trying to defend himself
❖ And he talks too much - What is marriage counseling designed for?❖ To focus on the psyche of the couple not action steps
❖ To talk about marriage problems which hardly ever works❖ If the couple can’t get along or keep fighting or can’t come together the counselor will eventually suggest separation or divorce. - Why must you never go to marriage counseling if you are a Catholic or Protestant Christian?❖ God prohibits divorce and separation❖ Most marriage counseling even if they are Catholic or Christian dismiss the moral concept of the spirit and well-being of the soul.
❖ If the counselor isn’t a Christian they will eventually steer the couple towards divorce or separation.
- What is the difference between marriage counseling and marriage coaching?❖ Marriage counseling is designed to focus on the psyche of the couple.❖ Marriage couching focuses on action steps and doing things through tactics and strategies to bring the couple back together.
❖ Marriage couching is best done with an individual to get him to be a better man and to focus on fixing himself first so that he can better communicate, love, and remove selfishness for the benefit of serving and caring for his wife and children!
After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!
What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment
Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.
TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT
Call To Action #1
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help...]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com...For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again...SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s...SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question...why don’t you help women. And I always answer them...I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit
SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
TRANSITION MUSIC!
Radical Rant Of The Day
How To Survive In Marriage Counseling
•If you are a Catholic husband you can’t go to marriage counseling because it will kill your marriage not save it!
What Is Marriage Counseling
Basically, Designed To Help You Break Up Your Marriage On Good Terms
- Marriage counseling places your mental state above your moral state.
- Couples therapy is designed to help you reconcile as long as both spouses want to save the marriage.
- This fails miserably when one spouse wants to save the marriage and the other does not.
- Because most times the one that doesn’t want to save the marriage will be unresponsive or sabotage the counseling because they don’t care, are indifferent, or feel they have done all they can do to save the marriage.
- So, what does the therapist do?
- When they see the couple can’t or won’t fix the marriage, they change tactics to getting the couple to separate and end the marriage amicably.
- The problem is when we are Catholic or Christian we are morally obligated to stay in the marriage as long as there is no infidelity or physical abuse.
- Temporary separation is allowed by the Church but not permanent separation or divorce.
- Abandoning a spouse who is correcting their behavior and is trying to make corrections that are working is a grave sin.
- As this destroys the generations of the family and causes scandal in society.
- Marriage coaching is different in that the spouse that wants to save the marriage is given strategies, tactics, and action steps that move him slowly but surely towards attracting and reconnection with their husband or wife.
- Coaching does not care about the mental state of the spouse and works more towards the moral state which logically and effectively teaches the faithful spouse how to survive and thrive while working towards reconnection.
(START PART 2) How To Act In The Marriage Counseling Session
- Your main job above all else is to listen and focus on your wife.
- Allow her to talk, cry, yell, and scream, as much as possible, while you listen intently.
- When she is done, you apologize for anything that you agree you were responsible for.
- And you ignore all that you believe is not true or you don’t agree with.
- If you are asked a question by your therapist or wife, you answer in one or two sentences at the most and throw the conversation back into your wife’s hands.
- Do not talk, or defend yourself or do any Marriage Killers in counseling (arguing, debating, complaining, verbally attacking etc).
- This will turn the counselor and your wife against you. They will start to blame you for everything and move towards getting you to separate either temporarily or permanently.
- Bite your tongue and do the stress techniques.
Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls
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Target specific callers...
Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225
Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225
If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225
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Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!
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TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT
Call To Action #2
[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help...]
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com...For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again...SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s...SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question...why don’t you help women. And I always answer them...I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit
SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
TRANSITION MUSIC!
Conclusion
Remember I’m here each and every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern to answer your marriage in crisis questions!
In conclusion, as we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI
Quote “Society offers you comfort... But you weren’t made for comfort...
You were made for greatness!
So go forth Christian Soldier...
The Spiritual fight is upon you...
Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!
Conclusion
As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI
Quote “Society offers you comfort…
But you weren’t made for comfort…
You were made for greatness!
So go forth Christian Soldier…
The Spiritual fight is upon you…
Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!
Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!
More About Catholic Alpha Radical!
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Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.
Why?
I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...
- Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
- The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
- Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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